FabSwingers.com forum: Voices

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No, not the ones in your head

Other peoples.

So, you're exchanging messages for a bit, getting to know eachother. And when you finally meet, their voice or accent puts you off?

Example... I was very excited to meet a guy, very attractive etc then when it finally happened his voice was so camp, it was a total put off

Ball gag sprang to mind

Anyone else had this?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"No, not the ones in your head

Other peoples.

So, you're exchanging messages for a bit, getting to know eachother. And when you finally meet, their voice or accent puts you off?

Example... I was very excited to meet a guy, very attractive etc then when it finally happened his voice was so camp, it was a total put off

Ball gag sprang to mind

Anyone else had this? "

Deffo! I'm allways relieved to hear the voice and it's ok! I said to a new meet last week I can b put of by voices! Hes was fine x

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By *ackFromTheDead2Man
over a year ago

London/Surrey

Yeah it's annoying but I always try to ask for a voice note just so I can hear their voice but it's nice when they have a nicer voice than you expected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's unfortunate. I wonder if I would have the same effect on another.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Someone on here actually got me into voice notes.

I use them for around 50% of all my comms now , with everyone, work, friends, family, fabbers so by the time I meet someone on here I know their voice very well !

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Never really thought about it. We know some people have been expecting Geordie accents and have been disappointed not to get one from us.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I can’t say a voice has put me off. However I dread that first phone/video call as it’s the only time I’m conscious of my weird lispy deaf voice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That's unfortunate. I wonder if I would have the same effect on another.

I'm sure my accent has probably put some off! A few have noticed that I dont have a local accent.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Erm... I've had it before where their voice/accent has been a bit of a disappointment because it doesn't match what I think it will be in my head.

I do get what you mean though OP. My voice and accent are very marmite - it either makes someone's teeth itch or they think it's a delight. So mine has probably had that effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accent is one of my biggest turn ons, so if it didn't do it for me it probably would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, it can turn me off entirely. I've even been creeped out entirely.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No, I tend to meet Scottish men or Essex men.

My knickers burst in flames and my minge burns with desire

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Luckily I've never had this yet... yes it would be a thing I'd try to avoid, overly feminine or high note voices would not arouse me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Luckily I've never had this yet... yes it would be a thing I'd try to avoid, overly feminine or high note voices would not arouse me

Joe pasquale??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always puts men off when they hear my deep voice.. I'm not a man honest

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Honestly, voices for the most part don't put me off, so long as I'm not constantly having to ask what was said, or it's not a load of absolute shite being verbally projected at me.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes I can do easily be put off by someone’s voice. One of the reasons I prefer a phone call prior to meeting as we get to hear what we sound like and also breaks the ice a little.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Had it the other way round...not in a sexual setting though.

Bought a car abroad 25 years ago. I only had phone contact with the dealer.

This guy had THE sexiest voice I have EVER heard to this day. I was expecting a hunk of a man handing over my new car...boy, was I DISAPPOINTED - with the dealer, not the car

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone on here actually got me into voice notes.

I use them for around 50% of all my comms now , with everyone, work, friends, family, fabbers so by the time I meet someone on here I know their voice very well ! "

I like this. More personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, someone's voice is an important part of the attraction.

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