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By *otwifeKaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

What are people's thoughts? Been talking to a guy and arranging a meeting. I have a cuck and the guy says if he's there at the meet we should share the cost by 3, if he isn't just 2. I've already said I won't be staying the night so he is welcome to.

Any thoughts as to the division of cost please.

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By *igbird1964Couple
over a year ago

stanley

I think the bill should be just split down the middle , that’s what we do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it simple.

50/50 split whether I’m staying or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether it's a 1 night Hotel booking, no matter how long you use it for I'd go 3 ways in that scenario.

It's your choice for not staying the night, but if you're using it you should still contribute and splitting it equally is only fair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal choice. I always get my own hotel room and foot the bill whether I'm staying over or not, don't ask or expect anyone I meet to split the cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say if there is another separate man there then split equally…

It’s different if he’s your husband/partner then just split between you as a couple and the other person involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a hotel is need I perfer to pay for that room my self

Even if not staying the night

Safety reasons hotel will have a record off you being there

This important if something gose wrong

Second it means it’s my room for me to get them in to it

I have to go down and outside and bring them in

There’s cameras everywhere in hotel in the lobby lifts and stuff

They going to pick me up bring them in

So the cops know exactly who to look for who I was last with

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Split the cost 50/50 in my opinion

MJ x

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We always pay for 2 nights in a hotel once a month, we pay as we use it as our home for the weekend, the people who join us are our guests as we don't meet from home, wouldn't dream of asking someone to split the costs with us.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Shouldn’t the cuck pay for you & him? Or is that not part of his dynamic with you?

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By *otwifeKaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

What i thought actually


"I think the bill should be just split down the middle , that’s what we do x"

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By *otwifeKaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford


"I keep it simple.

50/50 split whether I’m staying or not. "

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By *otwifeKaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

Hes my partner, not just a random


"I’d say if there is another separate man there then split equally…

It’s different if he’s your husband/partner then just split between you as a couple and the other person involved "

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By *otwifeKaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

No not part of it, we are a couple, with no form of humiliation whatsoever.


"Shouldn’t the cuck pay for you & him? Or is that not part of his dynamic with you? "

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Are we quibbling over £25 here, or £100?

Fairness would say that each person pays their share though.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

If he's messaged you on a couples profile I'd think split it 50/50

But if he's messaged you on this profile & I can't see any mention of a cuck being present at meets on your profile & he's just been brought up mid conversation I understand why he's saying split it 3 ways

After all your cuck will presumably be getting some pleasure even if his involvement is just sitting in the corner

If you made it clear from your first message you only meet with your cuck then I'm back to the 50/50 split

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Then you are a couple it’s 50/50 still. Would the single guy except a regular couple to split 3 ways? That doesn’t seem fair to me.


"No not part of it, we are a couple, with no form of humiliation whatsoever.

Shouldn’t the cuck pay for you & him? Or is that not part of his dynamic with you? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hes my partner, not just a random

I’d say if there is another separate man there then split equally…

It’s different if he’s your husband/partner then just split between you as a couple and the other person involved "

As there's no mention on your profile of your husband/cuck/partner then I'd be siding with the guy and wanting to split it 3 ways. If you were a couples profile then I'd expect he'd be more obliging to split it 50/50.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet you he won't show if he's haggling over a couple of quid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me as the single guy I’d pay it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was me as the single guy I’d pay it all"

That's not a bad try

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was me as the single guy I’d pay it all"

That's not a bad try

Good luck

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"What are people's thoughts? Been talking to a guy and arranging a meeting. I have a cuck and the guy says if he's there at the meet we should share the cost by 3, if he isn't just 2. I've already said I won't be staying the night so he is welcome to.

Any thoughts as to the division of cost please."

He’s invited you, he should pay, not you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hes my partner, not just a random

I’d say if there is another separate man there then split equally…

It’s different if he’s your husband/partner then just split between you as a couple and the other person involved "

Oh well I’d just split it 50/50 then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a voucher, 3 smarties and a button. Take it or leave it.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I always offer to pay my half but it's always refused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always offer to pay my half but it's always refused."

Yep

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

No matter if it's 1 to 1 or meeting a couple I would say fair is 50/50, however the old school mentality I have I like to pay or offer if meeting a female 1-1. Financing the meet should really be least of importance, there are costs involved in any pastime/experience.

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By *ustyshowoffCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

As a couple, if we meet another couple we go 50/50. If we agree to meet a single guy they pay

Mark

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

You cant beat a thrifty bull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 50/50 but to be honest squibling over this would kill the mood and I'd probably end up not bothering

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'd say 50/50 but to be honest squibling over this would kill the mood and I'd probably end up not bothering "

I was thinking this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are people's thoughts? Been talking to a guy and arranging a meeting. I have a cuck and the guy says if he's there at the meet we should share the cost by 3, if he isn't just 2. I've already said I won't be staying the night so he is welcome to.

Any thoughts as to the division of cost please."

He's right. It should be split 3 ways if the cuck is there too.

It's against site rules to use a woman profile to get round blocks on couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say 3 way as there is no mention of cuck/ hubby on your single profile.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

We have yet to have the other person meeting us at hotel offer to pay towards hotel room

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

50/50 between you as the couple and him.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always share the cost unless it's really special and unique whole night then they can pay for the food and beverage only fair

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By *otwifeKaz OP   Woman
over a year ago

Stafford

A womans profile to enable me to message couples you mean?


"What are people's thoughts? Been talking to a guy and arranging a meeting. I have a cuck and the guy says if he's there at the meet we should share the cost by 3, if he isn't just 2. I've already said I won't be staying the night so he is welcome to.

Any thoughts as to the division of cost please.

He's right. It should be split 3 ways if the cuck is there too.

It's against site rules to use a woman profile to get round blocks on couples. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd go 50/50. If you're very interested and don't want to lose the meet, 55/45.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are people's thoughts? Been talking to a guy and arranging a meeting. I have a cuck and the guy says if he's there at the meet we should share the cost by 3, if he isn't just 2. I've already said I won't be staying the night so he is welcome to.

Any thoughts as to the division of cost please."

I agree with the guy. Split it 3 ways

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By *reason69Couple
over a year ago

Blackburn

We Always pay for r own room , xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50/50 is fair

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It is my choice not to have anyone at my home so I will always pay for the hotel room x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get my own personal room , if the person you’re meeting isn’t as they describe themselves or you don’t get on , then you’re not feeling pressured, my room my rules easy

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

It isn’t a good sign when people haggle over the room costs. 50/50 is perfectly fair and I’m gobsmacked he’s even raising the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see both points.

Who picks the hotel? Is it a very expensive hotel?

If it's 3 seperate people meeting I would say split it 3 ways, if its your husband/partner who is the cuck then I would probably say half it.

But it doesn't seem like a good sign, does it.

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By *kcplprestonMan
over a year ago

preston

I always pay for room, am not looking to share costs etc. In the OP situation if they are happy to have to pay toward the room for someone joining them then I would expect no more than 50:50. If they are haggling then sack them off and meet someone a little less tight.

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