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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. " Painted it on a road sign, that big enough | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough " Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place " I'll have to remember that, on my next coffee social "Yes can I order a sticky bun, cup of tea and if you wouldn't mind bringing me a piece of A4 paper" Thank you. | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place " Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!" | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!"" Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!" Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . " Oh just say no lol | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!" Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . " I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap.. | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!" Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap.." One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP! | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!" Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap.. One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP!" Should have slapped his face, quid pro quo if that's the right saying | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!" Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap.. One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP! Should have slapped his face, quid pro quo if that's the right saying" I can’t believe I didn’t! Think it was my first social meet. I came home and deleted fab. | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!" Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap.. One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP! Should have slapped his face, quid pro quo if that's the right saying I can’t believe I didn’t! Think it was my first social meet. I came home and deleted fab. " Well glad your back, horrible experience | |||
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"No I’m absolutely useless. Unless they hold a big sign saying I’d like to see you again. Painted it on a road sign, that big enough Yeah or perhaps a banner on a small aeroplane flying over the coffee place Or just pin you up against the wall and whisper in your ear" next time!" Hahaha. But what if I don’t like them . Then I’d just be scared . I think in that case if you don't like them.. try giving them a sign before they try to pin you up against the wall.. otherwise they are getting a Slap.. One man I met in the early days who I really didn’t like slapped my arse as I left and walked back to my car! I actually can’t believe I didn’t react but I just wanted to get out of there ASAP! Should have slapped his face, quid pro quo if that's the right saying I can’t believe I didn’t! Think it was my first social meet. I came home and deleted fab. Well glad your back, horrible experience" Aw thanks. Been back about 50 times since then x | |||
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"Nope, I've given up trying to read the signs. Largely because some are so subtle and obscure it can be confusing as all hell. Either be up front and tell me, or I/we will just miss out and let it pass by. Completely done with little mind games and having to chase for a solid and clear clarification. " I don’t think it’s mind games. Some people may not have the confidence to be so up front. | |||
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"I'm the same! It's my ASD traits. Socially it needs to be as subtle as an anvil being dropped. " *Calls up acme for urgent delivery of anvils* | |||
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"I am terrible at this. I think its because I don't think I'm sexy. I have been to group socials and been messaged after saying that they were into me but I had not done anything. I take people on face value and imagine, somewhat foolishly, that people talk for talking sake. Especially here where open declaration of attraction is common. If I think a lady is attractive, I tell her. She can do whatever she wants with that information. " ] On behalf of those of us who assume someone isn't interested, thank you. This is enough for us to respond. Why can't life be like when you're kids and you decide someone is going to be your friend for that week? | |||
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"I truly suck at picking up on signs. You’re better off hitting me with sledgehammer and saying “Oi, You’re hot”" Oi! Your turn to put the kettle on. | |||
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"I’m useless at reading signs I rather someone say it to my face or it would be a very long game " Would defo say it to your face | |||
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"I’m useless at reading signs I rather someone say it to my face or it would be a very long game Would defo say it to your face " thank you x | |||
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"My mind works a bit like this... DON'T find them attractive: they're definitely hitting on me and I'm uncomfortable DO find them attractive: they can't possibly be hitting on me, I mean what would they see in me? " I’m a bit like this | |||
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"No. I assume they are just being friendly. " Same. | |||
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"Nope I’m terrible! I’m also neurodiverse which likely plays into it! " Me too. I’m dreadful at picking up on social signals, second only on how dreadful I am at sending them out. | |||
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"In real life, I'm dreadful. Never think anyone is interested amd then it's always a huge surprise when I find out " I’m intrigued. How interested would someone need to be, in your opinion, to travel nearly 2 hours to wait say 3+hours later than arranged for someone at a designated meeting point that’s right on said persons doorstep? | |||
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"No. I assume they are just being friendly. " Yes! This! I'm amazed I've ever had sex in all honesty. I still think it here on occasion which is daft. | |||
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"No. I assume they are just being friendly. Yes! This! I'm amazed I've ever had sex in all honesty. I still think it here on occasion which is daft. " . As do I. It has to be blatantly obvious to elicit a response from me. Even then, I'm not sure I'd catch it. | |||
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"Absolutely terrible But it comes from years of doubting myself " Belle, I'd love to fuck you, for reals, 100%, ride 'em cowgirl LvM | |||
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"Absolutely terrible But it comes from years of doubting myself Belle, I'd love to fuck you, for reals, 100%, ride 'em cowgirl LvM" Are ya sure | |||
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"Awful. If they were flashing a giant neon sign that said "Lorenzo I want you to fuck my brains out right now, no questions asked." I'd still probably not be 100% sure LvM" | |||
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"I’m so bad at signs or hints. A girl could tell me to my face and I’d still think someone is setting me up lol" id be the very same | |||
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol" Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game | |||
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game " Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means | |||
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means " Translation: Would you prefer that we [women] ejaculate a thick and creamy substance upon your face [as a means of shooting our shot]? The eyes are fair game | |||
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means " come on you surely know what that means | |||
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means Translation: Would you prefer that we [women] ejaculate a thick and creamy substance upon your face [as a means of shooting our shot]? The eyes are fair game " Ohhh. Yes please | |||
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"How do girls even give a sign or shoot interest. Most I’ve heard is they stare at you for a bit and think that’s how to shoot their shot lol Would you prefer that we shot our love batter all over your boat-race instead? Eyes fair game Huh? Ahaha I have no idea what that means come on you surely know what that means " The boat-race confused me ahah | |||
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