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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales

Do you add kisses to all, most or none of your messages? Do you think they give the wrong impression to some people or is it just something you have always done and think nothing more of it? Please I would like to get your thoughts on giving and receiving kisses on messages.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I always finish a message with xx

It’s a habit, christ I messaged my driving instructor the other day and true to form popped two kisses at the end, it’s just what I do.

I don’t mind messages that have a x - I don’t think about it really

Xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I allways do this even on official ones automatically! X

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By *jt11Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

Usually only sending a kiss or two at the end of a message once I know someone and am very friendly with.

They don’t just go to everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One kiss means they want to kiss you, two kisses means a fuck, 3 means they're in love.

Just to clarify, I'm joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A subconsciously automatic addition.

I put ‘em on the end of messages without even thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I add an x as a end of the message x

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

I use kisses instead of full stops a lot. I also have a habit of saying Hun, sweety etc a lot. For me it's just a natural thing to do. I'm trying to stop myself doing it as I'm aware people can interpret it as a come on.

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I use kisses instead of full stops a lot. I also have a habit of saying Hun, sweety etc a lot. For me it's just a natural thing to do. I'm trying to stop myself doing it as I'm aware people can interpret it as a come on. "

Yes with you on this, its a habit for me as well, though its how other people interpret it I suppose.

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I use kisses instead of full stops a lot. I also have a habit of saying Hun, sweety etc a lot. For me it's just a natural thing to do. I'm trying to stop myself doing it as I'm aware people can interpret it as a come on.

Yes with you on this, its a habit for me as well, though its how other people interpret it I suppose. "

Your pink lingerie with the red heart socks is very cute Hun X

??? that's the style I say things in usually x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t send them often but when I accidentally send them to a mate it gets a great laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to use a "." rather than an x at teh end of my messages.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I can't abide when people use x as punctuation in texts. No. Just no.

Hi x how are you?? x fancy a fuck X

Noooooope

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I always ! Doesn't mean I love them or anything lol x

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Guilty xx its just habit xxxxxxxxx

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I finish all text and WhatsApp message with a X or xx but I don't do it on here.

Maybe it's a confidence thing or I don't want to come across as being too familiar. X

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I can't abide when people use x as punctuation in texts. No. Just no.

Hi x how are you?? x fancy a fuck X

I ways out the X after the punctuation mark at the end of the message.

Noooooope"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One kiss means they want to kiss you, two kisses means a fuck, 3 means they're in love.

Just to clarify, I'm joking "

Arrrgh, used the wrong emoji, didn't mean rolling eyes, meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be cautious to who I send xx too, all my friends get millions ! Guys I’m just talking too I tend not to

My friends get messages like this

“ morning xx you fancy breakfast/coffee after school drop off xx let me know xx I’ll get us a table xxx ”

Hahaha

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"One kiss means they want to kiss you, two kisses means a fuck, 3 means they're in love.

Just to clarify, I'm joking

Arrrgh, used the wrong emoji, didn't mean rolling eyes, meant "

Too late lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never used to but since speaking to women who do it, I've started doing back and now need to make sure I don't don't do it in any of my Teams chats!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It's not something that occurs to me. If someone puts them on the end of messages to me then I will tend to reflect that on my replies, but I've never really seen the point of them.

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By *he love cats OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Wales


"I use kisses instead of full stops a lot. I also have a habit of saying Hun, sweety etc a lot. For me it's just a natural thing to do. I'm trying to stop myself doing it as I'm aware people can interpret it as a come on.

Yes with you on this, its a habit for me as well, though its how other people interpret it I suppose.

Your pink lingerie with the red heart socks is very cute Hun X

??? that's the style I say things in usually x"

Thanks.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Kisses on the bottom

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby


"One kiss means they want to kiss you, two kisses means a fuck, 3 means they're in love.

Just to clarify, I'm joking "

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who I'm talking to and how long we've been talking to. You will notice though that I have a habit of putting a x at the end of every comment x

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I’ve always added kisses

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Kisses should ONLY be used on messages for lovers, family or really close friends.

I am not happy with how they crept into workplace messages. Sometimes it makes me laugh, sometimes it's just downright creepy.

e.g. There is an extraordinary meeting after work this evening. ALL must attend. Reasons should be given before leaving work if you cannot attend a decision will be made by management as to whether your reason is acceptable. Anyone without a reason that is felt to be acceptable will be interviewed by H.R. during the following days work hours. xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I use kisses instead of full stops a lot. I also have a habit of saying Hun, sweety etc a lot. For me it's just a natural thing to do. I'm trying to stop myself doing it as I'm aware people can interpret it as a come on. "

What~s your reasoning around re+inventing punctuation%

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

When we first started texting each other officially at work - some would slip up and then follow up with .... Sorry for the x it's a habit.

There were lots of chats over breaks etc with people groaning..... I've just xx the boss - I feel ashamed - I feel stupid what should I do ?

It's not okay. It's unprofessional in work .... you can't use the Oh I didn't think argument or it's just a habit. Who would say Night cuddle bunny to the boss and not think themselves weird ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how long I have known anyone..I don't do it to everyone that messages tho ..some seem to think that's a sign they can ask for a fuck .. although sometimes I do it out off habit

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Kisses should ONLY be used on messages for lovers, family or really close friends.

I am not happy with how they crept into workplace messages. Sometimes it makes me laugh, sometimes it's just downright creepy.

e.g. There is an extraordinary meeting after work this evening. ALL must attend. Reasons should be given before leaving work if you cannot attend a decision will be made by management as to whether your reason is acceptable. Anyone without a reason that is felt to be acceptable will be interviewed by H.R. during the following days work hours. xx "

I'm with Granny. I don't even put kisses in messages to Mr KC on WhatsApp. I put emojis with kiss faces or something. Kisses as "x" I only really ever include in written communication, most often birthday cards or letters to close family members (not that anyone is now alive who I'd write to anymore..... )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't abide when people use x as punctuation in texts. No. Just no.

Hi x how are you?? x fancy a fuck X

Noooooope"

I have only just realised that's what people are doing! I feel really daft now.

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Always add kisses to my messages, it's my way of being friendly ,

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we first started texting each other officially at work - some would slip up and then follow up with .... Sorry for the x it's a habit.

There were lots of chats over breaks etc with people groaning..... I've just xx the boss - I feel ashamed - I feel stupid what should I do ?

It's not okay. It's unprofessional in work .... you can't use the Oh I didn't think argument or it's just a habit. Who would say Night cuddle bunny to the boss and not think themselves weird ?"

I wish I had a boss now. It's so tempting to say night cuddle bunny.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"I add an x as a end of the message x"
Same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I can understand the x as a way of being nice. But I get messages like "hello huge tits x" - the x doesn't make up for him being a rude twat.

Just saying.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I have to really think when I send a Teams chat especially on a 1-to-1 basis as they are quite similar to a text or WhatsApp message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess I can understand the x as a way of being nice. But I get messages like "hello huge tits x" - the x doesn't make up for him being a rude twat.

Just saying."

Absolutely agree

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Never. Not even to family or friends, even if they do it.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"I always finish a message with xx

It’s a habit, christ I messaged my driving instructor the other day and true to form popped two kisses at the end, it’s just what I do.

I don’t mind messages that have a x - I don’t think about it really

Xx"

Does that mean Dancer will be on tour soon ?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I have to really think when I send a Teams chat especially on a 1-to-1 basis as they are quite similar to a text or WhatsApp message. "

But on a professional level, surely? I don't even sexy Teams Mr KC at work and we're colleagues! I WhatsApp other colleagues outside work, but we don't share anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use kisses in messages as a way of making the message look a bit softer if you get what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bee uses a x at the end of her message, I(bear) don't.

When we are talking on here it makes it easy for the other person/ couple to identify who's talking as we share the account and profile pic.

Would be easier if you could have separate profile pics for a couples account when messaging.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

I use x’s to gauge someone’s general mood. I follow patterns to gauge conversation.

They are useful to me, but I don’t use them myself.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't think I ever add any on here, unless it's someone I know.

I usually save them for actual friends and family.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I have to really think when I send a Teams chat especially on a 1-to-1 basis as they are quite similar to a text or WhatsApp message.

But on a professional level, surely? I don't even sexy Teams Mr KC at work and we're colleagues! I WhatsApp other colleagues outside work, but we don't share anything "

Yes always professional, but the chat facility seem very similar to text etc. I haven't out an X at the end of any messages in Teams.

I get lots of them every day from colleagues and students and I am terrified that I do it at some time. At least there is a delete function if I do.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I guess I can understand the x as a way of being nice. But I get messages like "hello huge tits x" - the x doesn't make up for him being a rude twat.

Just saying."

Precisely you old moo xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I have to really think when I send a Teams chat especially on a 1-to-1 basis as they are quite similar to a text or WhatsApp message. "

Me too I CAN NEVER work out if I am messaging my dying mother or the Managing Director.

Tricky .....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"bee uses a x at the end of her message, I(bear) don't.

When we are talking on here it makes it easy for the other person/ couple to identify who's talking as we share the account and profile pic.

Would be easier if you could have separate profile pics for a couples account when messaging."

How would anyone that x means a woman is messaging ?

Isn't it easier to put your name ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you add kisses to all, most or none of your messages? Do you think they give the wrong impression to some people or is it just something you have always done and think nothing more of it? Please I would like to get your thoughts on giving and receiving kisses on messages."

I always add kisses to the end of my messages

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I wouldn't X anyone I wouldn't kiss in real life......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only with long time fab friends, not in random messaging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't X anyone I wouldn't kiss in real life......"

Xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I x don't x mind x the x occasional x Kiss x.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's all depends might be a x might be X might be a xX how the conversation is going the last too me is smothered in kisses starting of slow then sloppy

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By *he_Wite_NiteMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around


"I always finish a message with xx

It’s a habit, christ I messaged my driving instructor the other day and true to form popped two kisses at the end, it’s just what I do.

I don’t mind messages that have a x - I don’t think about it really

Xx"

And there was me thinking the two kisses were personal and intended just for me in your messages!

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby


"I wouldn't X anyone I wouldn't kiss in real life......"

Absolutely

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

Habit x x x

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London

I get very insulted if I receive a message with no x. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them mostly when someone else does or out of habit. No meaning behind it, just a nice way to finish a sentence I guess.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I wouldn't X anyone I wouldn't kiss in real life......

Xx"

Sauce Pot

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I have to really think when I send a Teams chat especially on a 1-to-1 basis as they are quite similar to a text or WhatsApp message.

Me too I CAN NEVER work out if I am messaging my dying mother or the Managing Director.

Tricky ..... "

Especially if you add a salutation with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it surreal that men message me to ask for sex and add xx

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"I find it surreal that men message me to ask for sex and add xx

"

I hope you tell them you fek off and you don't give a xxxx about their feelings when they go in the huff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A x is better way of ending a sentence than a.

. Is far to blunt xxx

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay

Absolute subconscious habit, with amount wildly varying lol

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Don’t ever look too far into it, but as others have said it’s a polite way to end the sentence x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it surreal that men message me to ask for sex and add xx

I hope you tell them you fek off and you don't give a xxxx about their feelings when they go in the huff. "

I gave two men an earful this morning yep. Before I blocked them.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Yes I've always put x or 2 xxs after every text ,I just do it automatically lol R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is something its hard to read a message because depending on how you feel you can take it which ever way you like, so just a x or a on the end your trying to show them you mean good. I just do it because it's habit now lol x ttfn hun

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