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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Dont know why but allways feel so guilty phoning in sick at work! I've been in this job 18 months and till today have never had a sick day! But could not poss go in today! So just rung in as start at 4! I've rung 2 dept as worry the message wont get passed on either! But just feel guilty! Ridiculous really x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel better soon xx

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Feel better soon xx"

Ty x

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By *itnakedladMan
over a year ago

London Bridge

That’s because you care. But no reason to feel guilty

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"That’s because you care. But no reason to feel guilty "

It's like not going to school back in day like u bunking of lol but ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know why but allways feel so guilty phoning in sick at work! I've been in this job 18 months and till today have never had a sick day! But could not poss go in today! So just rung in as start at 4! I've rung 2 dept as worry the message wont get passed on either! But just feel guilty! Ridiculous really x"

Hope you feel better soon. I am exactly the same! I had to phone in sick this week and went back yesterday probably before I should have because of the guilt!

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Dont know why but allways feel so guilty phoning in sick at work! I've been in this job 18 months and till today have never had a sick day! But could not poss go in today! So just rung in as start at 4! I've rung 2 dept as worry the message wont get passed on either! But just feel guilty! Ridiculous really x

Hope you feel better soon. I am exactly the same! I had to phone in sick this week and went back yesterday probably before I should have because of the guilt! "

Its madness isn't it? Think some of it is the welcome back meets they do maybe I've not had one yet but told of them from others and ty once I've got the antibiotics I b fine! That's gonna b a hurdle getting through to docs past the que then past the recptionist! They do let me have them as it's an ongoing thing with diabetes so that's good dont have to go in just pick it up from pharmacy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem in phoning in sick when I'm ill, my work place treats us like s**t all the time.

I hope you feel better soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont know why but allways feel so guilty phoning in sick at work! I've been in this job 18 months and till today have never had a sick day! But could not poss go in today! So just rung in as start at 4! I've rung 2 dept as worry the message wont get passed on either! But just feel guilty! Ridiculous really x

Hope you feel better soon. I am exactly the same! I had to phone in sick this week and went back yesterday probably before I should have because of the guilt!

Its madness isn't it? Think some of it is the welcome back meets they do maybe I've not had one yet but told of them from others and ty once I've got the antibiotics I b fine! That's gonna b a hurdle getting through to docs past the que then past the recptionist! They do let me have them as it's an ongoing thing with diabetes so that's good dont have to go in just pick it up from pharmacy x"

Aww hun really hope you're feeling better soon and you really don't have anything to feel guilty about, just concentrate on feeling better x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Dont know why but allways feel so guilty phoning in sick at work! I've been in this job 18 months and till today have never had a sick day! But could not poss go in today! So just rung in as start at 4! I've rung 2 dept as worry the message wont get passed on either! But just feel guilty! Ridiculous really x

Hope you feel better soon. I am exactly the same! I had to phone in sick this week and went back yesterday probably before I should have because of the guilt!

Its madness isn't it? Think some of it is the welcome back meets they do maybe I've not had one yet but told of them from others and ty once I've got the antibiotics I b fine! That's gonna b a hurdle getting through to docs past the que then past the recptionist! They do let me have them as it's an ongoing thing with diabetes so that's good dont have to go in just pick it up from pharmacy x

Aww hun really hope you're feeling better soon and you really don't have anything to feel guilty about, just concentrate on feeling better x"

Thank u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it's ok

Unless it becomes a habit

Does your workload get passed over or do you need to catch up on your return

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I hate taking time off poorly. Not because it hurts the company, but because I know my colleagues will have to pick up my workload or things just won’t get done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a job I hated for 10 years and the last 3 years I took 2 months off sick each year.

They owed us all money due to increments that were due so this was my way of getting it. I got full pat while out sick.

Also only incidents of sickness were counted so taking a month off in say February and another month in August was only two incidents and would keep HR off your back but if you called in sick 4/5 individual days in the year then they would be onto you.

Glad I did it

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Guess it's ok

Unless it becomes a habit

Does your workload get passed over or do you need to catch up on your return "

The others do it but happy to get the overtime and yes would never make it a habit! Last time I was of sick would have been 9 years ago? Different job back then x

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By *ightymouse123456Man
over a year ago

holywell

It’s natural feeling like letting someone down but it’s life hunny get well soon xxxx

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I know the feeling I've been on this job 20 years and I've phoned in sick only on 4 occasions in all that time!

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"It’s natural feeling like letting someone down but it’s life hunny get well soon xxxx"

Ty x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Don’t worry about the Return to work interview Candy, I do them in work and it’s just to make sure you’re well enough to return or if you need any support if you’re struggling with something health wise.

A lot of people have health issues and instead of giving us the nod they battle on until they can’t cope anymore, we just want to help before it gets to that point.

You’ll be fine

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Must keep my eye on time get first in that doc que when they open the line at 8 x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Don’t worry about the Return to work interview Candy, I do them in work and it’s just to make sure you’re well enough to return or if you need any support if you’re struggling with something health wise.

A lot of people have health issues and instead of giving us the nod they battle on until they can’t cope anymore, we just want to help before it gets to that point.

You’ll be fine "

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always feel guilty if I call in sick, but if you’re ill, you’re ill. If you went in, you’ll either pass it on, or not do your job to the best of your ability.

Be gentle with yourself.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I always feel guilty if I call in sick, but if you’re ill, you’re ill. If you went in, you’ll either pass it on, or not do your job to the best of your ability.

Be gentle with yourself. "

It's the running to loo for me! I have diabetes and get bladder infections occasionally my sis said get a tenna lady! just gona phone the doc wishes me luck lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always feel guilty if I call in sick, but if you’re ill, you’re ill. If you went in, you’ll either pass it on, or not do your job to the best of your ability.

Be gentle with yourself.

It's the running to loo for me! I have diabetes and get bladder infections occasionally my sis said get a tenna lady! just gona phone the doc wishes me luck lol x"

Oh no . You definitely couldn’t work with that, it’s miserable.

You have no need for guilt.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Don't worry about it ! If you drop dead they will have a replacement the following week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't worry about it ! If you drop dead they will have a replacement the following week "

Sad but true.

Don't feel bad on their behalf OP. Get well soon.

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne


"Dont know why but allways feel so guilty phoning in sick at work! I've been in this job 18 months and till today have never had a sick day! But could not poss go in today! So just rung in as start at 4! I've rung 2 dept as worry the message wont get passed on either! But just feel guilty! Ridiculous really x"

You shouldn't feel guilty. Like you I use to but then it got to the point where worrying about it doesn't change this situation. Focus on getting better and then go back in and just you need to do.

If an employer makes you feel guilty then personally that's not the sort of company I'd want to work for.

Get well soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel better soon.

It's easy to feel guilty but employees are all replaceable. Whenever I take time off sick I look at it that way. If something happened to me they aren't going to bat an eyelid and just carry on as normal. So taking time off sick - although may cause work to back up for you, it's not going to do anyone harm.

I had 4 weeks off last year, I really should have stayed off for another 2 weeks minimum but I felt guilty too and returned. My reasoning was that I was only WFH on my laptop anyway. I was still on a heap of painkillers post op and I definitely didn't do my job as good as I would have done if I was 100%.

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Dont know why but allways feel so guilty phoning in sick at work! I've been in this job 18 months and till today have never had a sick day! But could not poss go in today! So just rung in as start at 4! I've rung 2 dept as worry the message wont get passed on either! But just feel guilty! Ridiculous really x

You shouldn't feel guilty. Like you I use to but then it got to the point where worrying about it doesn't change this situation. Focus on getting better and then go back in and just you need to do.

If an employer makes you feel guilty then personally that's not the sort of company I'd want to work for.

Get well soon "

Ty! Dont know they will make me feel guilty as only been there 18 months my first sick day x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Don't worry about it ! If you drop dead they will have a replacement the following week

Sad but true.

Don't feel bad on their behalf OP. Get well soon. "

Ty! And yes no one is ever indispensable x

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock


"Don't worry about it ! If you drop dead they will have a replacement the following week

Sad but true.

Don't feel bad on their behalf OP. Get well soon.

Ty! And yes no one is ever indispensable x"
wasn't being rude or anything, But so true x

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By *jt11Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

If you’re genuine ill then don’t feel guilty, feel better soon

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Don't worry about it ! If you drop dead they will have a replacement the following week

Sad but true.

Don't feel bad on their behalf OP. Get well soon.

Ty! And yes no one is ever indispensable x wasn't being rude or anything, But so true x"

Ohh for sure x

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By *andyfloss2000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"If you’re genuine ill then don’t feel guilty, feel better soon "

Ty will b fine once I get them antibiotics waiting for ring back might ask for 2 doses as usually takes 2 save all that waiting on phone! X

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By *jt11Man
over a year ago

Bewdley


"If you’re genuine ill then don’t feel guilty, feel better soon

Ty will b fine once I get them antibiotics waiting for ring back might ask for 2 doses as usually takes 2 save all that waiting on phone! X"

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