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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Made contact with a couple here.

Likes - same

Dislikes - same

Age range - compatible

Sexual orientation - compatible

Availability to meet for social - compatible.

Spoke on telephone to confirm genuine.

Face pics swapped.

Date, time venue agreed for a nice social meet. Nice cafe for a coffee and cake.

I turned up at the arranged time and place.

Waited, waited, waited for an hour. Had 2 cups of coffee.

Tried messaging them. No reply

Tried ringing them. No reply and answerphone inbox was full.

Got a message on here the next day saying sorry but couldn't find a parking place so went shopping instead!!!!!

I tried to message back but surprise surprise I was blocked.

If a meet is arranged and then one side of the meet gets cold feet, why do as they did to me? Grow a pair and just be honest and say no longer interested.Yes it would be a bit of a let down but at least there wouldn't be someone messed about. Yes I know it happens and is disappointing but hey ho, that's life I suppose. Move on eh, there's plenty of possibilities in the world of Fabswingers.

Right, off back to peruse the many lovely profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry this happened op it’s shocking report they profile to admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made contact with a couple here.

Likes - same

Dislikes - same

Age range - compatible

Sexual orientation - compatible

Availability to meet for social - compatible.

Spoke on telephone to confirm genuine.

Face pics swapped.

Date, time venue agreed for a nice social meet. Nice cafe for a coffee and cake.

I turned up at the arranged time and place.

Waited, waited, waited for an hour. Had 2 cups of coffee.

Tried messaging them. No reply

Tried ringing them. No reply and answerphone inbox was full.

Got a message on here the next day saying sorry but couldn't find a parking place so went shopping instead!!!!!

I tried to message back but surprise surprise I was blocked.

If a meet is arranged and then one side of the meet gets cold feet, why do as they did to me? Grow a pair and just be honest and say no longer interested.Yes it would be a bit of a let down but at least there wouldn't be someone messed about. Yes I know it happens and is disappointing but hey ho, that's life I suppose. Move on eh, there's plenty of possibilities in the world of Fabswingers.

Right, off back to peruse the many lovely profiles."

Unlucky dude, you sound like a nice bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to know you came second to shopping!

Block, delete, move on, they sound like c*nts!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sorry to hear hope it doesn't knock your confidence and the quickest way is moving forward and hopefully you get a chance for a lovely social that makes up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice to know you came second to shopping!

Block, delete, move on, they sound like c*nts! "

They're UNLOS. What a surprise eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said you were meeting for coffee and cake yet you had 2 coffees and no cake!!!! Maybe they saw no cake and went shopping for cake?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry this happened op it’s shocking report they profile to admin "

They're UNLOS now. What a surprise eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You said you were meeting for coffee and cake yet you had 2 coffees and no cake!!!! Maybe they saw no cake and went shopping for cake?"

Perhaps, mind you I did have a doughnut instead of cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it was just a man wanking.

Maybe they had done the same to other people and were booted off the site.

Hope the coffee was good.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Shit happens OP. Had it done to me twice, by different users. Didn't wait an hour though. Never has been and never going to be a third time. Now it's purely club meets.....no exceptions xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's really rotten to do that to someone. I can totally understand chickening out or just changing your mind, but to not even message is low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a low trick of them to do. Why people just can't be honest is beyond me.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

It happens...block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really bad form. Sorry this happened x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

True timewasters.

Next time make sure you order some cake too x

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Some people don’t appreciate the effort that goes into a social meet. It’s not easy for many people to meet strangers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"True timewasters.

Next time make sure you order some cake too x "

I had doughnuts instead

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