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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x"

we are what we are, embrace it and enjoy life to the full, it’s too short not to! You can’t change what you can’t change.

With my it’s my horrific halitosis, but to be honest, it’s not so much of a problem for me personally so I just get on with it?

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Perfect imperfections!

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Nothing sexier than a body confident person... no one ever notices the bits we don't like

Nilly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs your awesome your wonderful your stunning and beautiful xxxx

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x"

Indeed. The best way to start dealing with some things is to acknowledge it. Acceptance can come later, if at all.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Nobody is perfect so I just let it all hang out now. No point trying to be something you are not.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hugs your awesome your wonderful your stunning and beautiful xxxx"

Thanks Natalie but I'm really not. I'm just me trying to muddle through life x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x

we are what we are, embrace it and enjoy life to the full, it’s too short not to! You can’t change what you can’t change.

With my it’s my horrific halitosis, but to be honest, it’s not so much of a problem for me personally so I just get on with it? "

That was my point. For so long I've not done x..y..z because of certain things x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Easier said though

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Perfect imperfections!"

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Easier said though

I know...its taken me a while but I had to x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nothing sexier than a body confident person... no one ever notices the bits we don't like

Nilly

This is very true x

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

I don't need to know my imperfections. Everyone else will point them out for me.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Nobody is perfect so I just let it all hang out now. No point trying to be something you are not."

I've hid away for far to long. I like your attitude x

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By *haneportsMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Hugs your awesome your wonderful your stunning and beautiful xxxx"

I agree, Sparkle, you are a gorgeous looking lady.

Go get that halo filthy. XXXXX.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hugs your awesome your wonderful your stunning and beautiful xxxx

I agree, Sparkle, you are a gorgeous looking lady.

Go get that halo filthy. XXXXX.

Thank you x

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By *jt11Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

Ones perfection are found in others imperfections

Live life, love life and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am beautifully imperfect

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am beautifully imperfect

I like it x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Ones perfection are found in others imperfections

Live life, love life and have fun."

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I am very happy you have found this mindset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yer bum's oot the windae?

Only because I think your Pure dead brilliant.

I do hope I got the right

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am very happy you have found this mindset

Me too. I might have the occasional wobbly though (mainly belly and thighs) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs your awesome your wonderful your stunning and beautiful xxxx

Thanks Natalie but I'm really not. I'm just me trying to muddle through life x"

Your welcome and you are

Little something for you

Yeah, I’ve discussed it with myself

And I’m disgusted with the way

We’re told to have a certain face

A certain weight, be flawless

We aren’t pixels on a screen

No we’re human, we breathe

Every single thing we see curated

It’s overrated

These expectations, they keep weighin' me down

My heart is beggin' me to get the hell out, of my head

I’m gonna live inside the upside down

For a minute and pretend

Honey, I’m a perfect ten

Woahhh

Honey, I’m a perfect ten

Woahhhh

And if I say it enough

It gets ingrained in my head

And I start to think…

Honey, I’m a perfect ten

Unknown Brain - Perfect 10 (feat. Heather Sommer

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AEVaK0e1kTE

Chin up xxx

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hugs your awesome your wonderful your stunning and beautiful xxxx

Thanks Natalie but I'm really not. I'm just me trying to muddle through life x

Your welcome and you are

Little something for you

Yeah, I’ve discussed it with myself

And I’m disgusted with the way

We’re told to have a certain face

A certain weight, be flawless

We aren’t pixels on a screen

No we’re human, we breathe

Every single thing we see curated

It’s overrated

These expectations, they keep weighin' me down

My heart is beggin' me to get the hell out, of my head

I’m gonna live inside the upside down

For a minute and pretend

Honey, I’m a perfect ten

Woahhh

Honey, I’m a perfect ten

Woahhhh

And if I say it enough

It gets ingrained in my head

And I start to think…

Honey, I’m a perfect ten

Unknown Brain - Perfect 10 (feat. Heather Sommer

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AEVaK0e1kTE

Chin up xxx

Thats lovely x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"I am very happy you have found this mindset

Me too. I might have the occasional wobbly though (mainly belly and thighs) x"

That helps with the self love though, own it rather than ignore it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x"

That’s exactly how I feel……you go girl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I let you see the parts of me, that weren't all that pretty

And with every touch you fixed them.

Pink, some people can relate and as I did say your (Pure dead brilliant) I think that's amazing up Scotland???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugs your awesome your wonderful your stunning and beautiful xxxx

Thanks Natalie but I'm really not. I'm just me trying to muddle through life x

Your welcome and you are

Little something for you

Yeah, I’ve discussed it with myself

And I’m disgusted with the way

We’re told to have a certain face

A certain weight, be flawless

We aren’t pixels on a screen

No we’re human, we breathe

Every single thing we see curated

It’s overrated

These expectations, they keep weighin' me down

My heart is beggin' me to get the hell out, of my head

I’m gonna live inside the upside down

For a minute and pretend

Honey, I’m a perfect ten

Woahhh

Honey, I’m a perfect ten

Woahhhh

And if I say it enough

It gets ingrained in my head

And I start to think…

Honey, I’m a perfect ten

Unknown Brain - Perfect 10 (feat. Heather Sommer

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=AEVaK0e1kTE

Chin up xxx

Thats lovely x"

Your welcome anytime x

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I think learning to be comfortable with how you look is a life game changer for people. The confidence it brings you is significant and as I think someone said earlier a woman who is totally confident naked is incredibly sexy and attractive.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

We all av imperfections no matter how people see u as perfect .its how we see ourselves and we are our own worst enemy x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x"

I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's liberating when you embrace yourself as you are. I was really depressed and overweight then decided I wasn't going to be the fat dad at the pool and lost near 5 stone. Now I have a body that when I look in the mirror looks like anyone else's that I would see at the pool - job done. I'm no longer worried and it really helps my confidence. You don't have to be a stunner, just acceptable to yourself, everything else follows. I'll never be buff, but I love my imperfection now! And, I only noticed when taking pics for dating sites that I have a weird snarl to the left when I smile - another thing I've now embraced!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel inclined to relax and enjoy my problems..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had years not liking myself even the sex didn’t like and now accept who I am imperfections too, no one is perfect and admire so many it’s how we embrace who we are smile be proud OP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other people have accepted (what I see as) my imperfections way before I started to. My mindset was “well if he/she likes them why can’t I? “

It took some time but that outlook really helped me.

There comes a time where it’s important to just be yourself and be happy in that place.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x"

Your photos ooozzze confidence but inner confidence is a great feeling. Well done you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's something I'm becoming more accepting of as the years pass by. It's truly miserable to be so unkind to yourself just because you don't fit into the beauty standard society expects. It's a miserable life when that is all you can focus on.

It's not an easy road but I'm so much happier for accepting those parts of me I don't particularly like.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Life is way too short. If you want to change it and you can, then do, but don’t waste your life worrying about it.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"It's liberating when you embrace yourself as you are. I was really depressed and overweight then decided I wasn't going to be the fat dad at the pool and lost near 5 stone. Now I have a body that when I look in the mirror looks like anyone else's that I would see at the pool - job done. I'm no longer worried and it really helps my confidence. You don't have to be a stunner, just acceptable to yourself, everything else follows. I'll never be buff, but I love my imperfection now! And, I only noticed when taking pics for dating sites that I have a weird snarl to the left when I smile - another thing I've now embraced!"

My eye does that in pics, how I do a left eye squint is beyond me, even when I'm trying not to do it

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By *hilli75Man
over a year ago

MALTA

"Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x"

i can see none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say my autobiography would be titled perfectly imperfect.

I have a multitude of things I dont like about myself physically, but I feel I look better now than ever.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Without imperfections there is no beauty. And we would all be the same.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I always say my autobiography would be titled perfectly imperfect.

I have a multitude of things I dont like about myself physically, but I feel I look better now than ever.

Your a stunning lady Bella and I think you know that . It’s normal to have insecurities at times xx

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Imperfections are a unique gift that have the power to inspire others, if we all looked the same or strived for society’s definition of beauty it be pretty boring - own those quirky features, that scar that tells a story, the lumps and bumps that make us all different after all no one and nothing is perfect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that we are all out own worst enemies. I feel like social media and other platforms have made people want to live up to in realistic standard. Plastic surgery used to be a niche thing but all you see how is women going to get fillers and whatever else. It's like you can't be beautiful if you're not looking like a Barbie doll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ones perfection are found in others imperfections

Live life, love life and have fun."

Omg your smile in your profile pic is brilliant!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without imperfections there is no beauty. And we would all be the same.

Women always look 1000% hotter when they stand next to me.

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By *jt11Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

"Ones perfection are found in others imperfections

Live life, love life and have fun.

Omg your smile in your profile pic is brilliant!!

Thank you, Just a normal day at work haha.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Shouldn't look at it as an imperfection just a perfect you without losing being true to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just got mine surgically removed

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I just got mine surgically removed

You make me laugh, Rachel

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

"I just got mine surgically removed

I divorced mine.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I just got mine surgically removed

I divorced mine."

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Imperfections is what make people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling to do the same. I have a few things holding me back from just meeting as much as I can, and confidence is one of them

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Without imperfections there is no beauty. And we would all be the same.

Women always look 1000% hotter when they stand next to me. "

I highly doubt that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x

we are what we are, embrace it and enjoy life to the full, it’s too short not to! You can’t change what you can’t change.

With my it’s my horrific halitosis, but to be honest, it’s not so much of a problem for me personally so I just get on with it? "

Do you know causes your halitosis? It’s not always teeth, it could be a stomach issue. Find the cause, treat and halitosis be gone

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Any woman with Jaffa Cake nipples is pretty much perfect in my eyes.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

More perfections in this thread than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plastic surgery is so cheap nowadays so no excuses ladies...put the effort in and get a better experience on fab.....says the fat ugly git in the corner lol xxx

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I can’t stand my stomach area. It makes me sad. Even if I am at a healthy weight, it is always there. I’ve never had a flat abdomen- not even as a child.

My latest photo shows it. I thought I might as well show myself just the way I look right now so there are no surprises later, lol!

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"I can’t stand my stomach area. It makes me sad. Even if I am at a healthy weight, it is always there. I’ve never had a flat abdomen- not even as a child.

My latest photo shows it. I thought I might as well show myself just the way I look right now so there are no surprises later, lol! "

Latest photo = phwoarrrrrr

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By *jt11Man
over a year ago

Bewdley

"I can’t stand my stomach area. It makes me sad. Even if I am at a healthy weight, it is always there. I’ve never had a flat abdomen- not even as a child.

My latest photo shows it. I thought I might as well show myself just the way I look right now so there are no surprises later, lol! "

and what a look! got it, flaunt it!

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

Robin Williams does a really good monologue on imperfections in Good Will Hunting.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Imperfections

I'm sure we all have them and some find them difficult to deal with. I was one of them but have decided 'what the hell...at the end of the day, I'm me.

Time to stop hiding away and get myself out there x"

None of us are perfect, those who look 'perfect' don't tend to be that inside... You look fine to us !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate parts of me with a passion and don't think I'll ever grow to love them. I'm always so self conscious of them, especially when going on a first meet with people.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

It’s taken me 52 years to get these imperfections their not going anywhere and I’m ok with that

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"It’s taken me 52 years to get these imperfections their not going anywhere and I’m ok with that

I have studied your photos very carefully and I can’t find them !

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"It’s taken me 52 years to get these imperfections their not going anywhere and I’m ok with that

I have studied your photos very carefully and I can’t find them !

So have I

Nilly

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

I’ve got my fine-tooth comb out and still nothing…

Seriously ladies, nobody else notices the things you’re hung up about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just got mine surgically removed

You make me laugh, Rachel

the nurses in the private hospital I was in see people like me come and go every week but several said they’d not laughed so much as when I was in there. Things didn’t go that well but I never stopped being a tw@

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all do it, stare at the mirror long enough to start picking at things. Nobody's perfect but there's only one you, take care of yourself and remember you are enough

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