FabSwingers.com forum: Thoughts on turning 40?!

By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

So as I’ve midnight tonight I can no longer claim to be in my late 30s

Which tbh I don’t know how I feel about it! it’s just a number I know but

How did that even happen it’s flown by in a blink of an eye its crazy

How did you feel when you turned 40?!!

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

"So as I’ve midnight tonight I can no longer claim to be in my late 30s

Which tbh I don’t know how I feel about it! it’s just a number I know but

How did that even happen it’s flown by in a blink of an eye its crazy

Make the most of it. It's downhill all the way from here.

How did you feel when you turned 40?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant remember

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By *isbehavingWoman
over a year ago

Huntly

My 40s have been a blast. I was devastated when I turned 30, but 40 was a breeze. Living my best life

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Old

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

I ignored it

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By *uck-RogersMan
over a year ago

Oakhill

The same when I turned 50 then 60 Eeeek

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It was just another day x

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"So as I’ve midnight tonight I can no longer claim to be in my late 30s

Which tbh I don’t know how I feel about it! it’s just a number I know but

How did that even happen it’s flown by in a blink of an eye its crazy

How did you feel when you turned 40?!!

I feel younger when not engulfed with chronic pain so it affected me none.

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By *elinefineWoman
over a year ago

kempston

Happy birthday fellow Aquarian! It was my birthday on Monday

40 wasn’t so bad. It is a little odd as 40 used to be ancient but now it feels ok. Most of the people i work with are young enough to be my offspring but no one believes that I am as old as I am so as long as I can keep up with the kids then all is good

Have a great birthday x

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I didn’t see it as a number, it’s a milestone birthday and that was it. I have always remained active and enjoying things I have always done, and I was the same at 50… in my head I’m still a lot younger

Growing old is inevitable, growing up is optional

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

It was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 just another number. Enjoy fabbing and not worry about numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indifferent.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"So as I’ve midnight tonight I can no longer claim to be in my late 30s

Which tbh I don’t know how I feel about it! it’s just a number I know but

How did that even happen it’s flown by in a blink of an eye its crazy

How did you feel when you turned 40?!!

It's better than turning 50 that's for sure. Things start to ache... Hangovers take longer to clear... But you have more wisdom. Enjoy your birthday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only a year in and it has taken some adjustment in terms of how I think about myself tbh. Like many people, I still keep wondering when I’ll feel like a proper grown up… maybe it’ll be in the 40s…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m only a year in and it has taken some adjustment in terms of how I think about myself tbh. Like many people, I still keep wondering when I’ll feel like a proper grown up… maybe it’ll be in the 40s…"

Sorry and(!) many happy returns!

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"So as I’ve midnight tonight I can no longer claim to be in my late 30s

Which tbh I don’t know how I feel about it! it’s just a number I know but

How did that even happen it’s flown by in a blink of an eye its crazy

How did you feel when you turned 40?!!

Mine happened in the first lockdown so I’m technically still 39 until this year

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I looked forward to turning 40. I imagined I'd wake up as a proper sensible, sophisticated real adult. 40 is properly grown up, isn't it?

Didn't work out that way.

Maybe 50 will be the turning point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a number felt younger

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It didn't bother me at all. The only birthday I've been upset about so far is when I turned 20...I thought I'd have to be sensible and boring all the time when I wasn't a teenager any more (that still hasn't happened over 20 years later

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I like "special" birthdays, it means people make an even bigger fuss of me than on normal birthdays...but I admit I'm a bit of a princess when it comes to birthdays

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I felt d*unk

But really it made no difference to me. I was only a day older than the day before.

Your age really shouldn't hold any importance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my 40th I treated myself to a day off work and arranged a birthday treat for myself... a sexy man from Fab to give me 40 bumps

My 40's has to date been my most favourite decade.

OP I wish you a very happy 40th birthday and hope that you enjoy your 40's as much as I do

NBVN x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I enjoyed turning 40, it felt kind of grown up

My next big birthday will be 70. I'm not entirely sure how I'll feel about that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Happy birthday for tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday when it comes

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Turning 40 didn't bother me I made big changes in my life since I turned 40 and all for the better really .Embrace your 40s they can be a great time and happy birthday for tomorrow OP .

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Turning 40 was a breeze. Thirty now that was a different story, but now I'm nearly twice that age I think back and wonder why I was so uptight about it.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"So as I’ve midnight tonight I can no longer claim to be in my late 30s

Which tbh I don’t know how I feel about it! it’s just a number I know but

How did that even happen it’s flown by in a blink of an eye its crazy

How did you feel when you turned 40?!!

I just identify as somebody much younger.

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Happy birthday fellow Aquarian! It was my birthday on Monday

Have a great birthday x"

Thanks. Happy belated birthday to you

same with me so many doctors/nurses younger than me and no one believes my age when I tell them so I guess that’s something here’s to ageing gracefully

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By *elinefineWoman
over a year ago

kempston

"Happy birthday fellow Aquarian! It was my birthday on Monday

Have a great birthday x

Thanks. Happy belated birthday to you

same with me so many doctors/nurses younger than me and no one believes my age when I tell them so I guess that’s something here’s to ageing gracefully

Gracefully or in utter disgrace???

My 40’s have definitely been a lot of fun and I have probably realised over the last three years it isn’t actually what I look like but the confidence I have in myself that makes me more attractive

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"On my 40th I treated myself to a day off work and arranged a birthday treat for myself... a sexy man from Fab to give me 40 bumps

My 40's has to date been my most favourite decade.

OP I wish you a very happy 40th birthday and hope that you enjoy your 40's as much as I do

NBVN x"

Oh my NBVN! this touch me the most you made me laugh then brought tears to my eyes at same time how you do that?!! haha

I’m actually in between days of getting a thigh tattoo done so due back in Manchester tomoz probably my way of hiding away from the day in general lol maybe I should have considered the 40 bumps instead

I really hope so too with a new house (literally) secured hopefully I’ll have less family drama and more freedom to explore i truely hope my 40s are as good as yours thank you DH

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The last milestone birthday I celebrated was my 21st. I don't remember much about turning 40 but it shouldn't be a scary event.

As others have said use it as a stepping stone to new adventures.

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

Loving it so far, I just think of it as the new 25! Happy birthday for tomorrow x

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my 40th I treated myself to a day off work and arranged a birthday treat for myself... a sexy man from Fab to give me 40 bumps

My 40's has to date been my most favourite decade.

OP I wish you a very happy 40th birthday and hope that you enjoy your 40's as much as I do

NBVN x

Oh my NBVN! this touch me the most you made me laugh then brought tears to my eyes at same time how you do that?!! haha

I really hope so too with a new house (literally) secured hopefully I’ll have less family drama and more freedom to explore i truely hope my 40s are as good as yours thank you DH

Oh ink is an excellent celebration for tomorrow, I hope it goes well for you.

Huge hugs my lovely

NBVN x

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

By J.L.0460. Woman

just this minute!

Bognor Regis

I'm not doing too well with this aging malarkey & I'm not far off 49. However, I've made lots of changes during this decade that I wouldn't have had the guts to do when I was younger- I got out of a 22 year marriage, full of gaslighting & unhappiness, finally finished my weightloss journey, have had 5 skin removal surgeries (alone in Poland) & have had the BEST nsa sex I could ever have believed possible, mostly with delightful 30 somethings!!!

My advice would be just LIVE IT!! Life is a terminal illness, let's grow old disgracefully & go out kicking & screaming in pleasure!!!

Happy cake day xxx

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

Im 6 months into being 40 and its been an amazing...

Otherwise i say you're only as old as the person you feel so go find a young fabber to corrupt

Sweet xx

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"By J.L.0460. Woman

just this minute!

Bognor Regis

My advice would be just LIVE IT!! Life is a terminal illness, let's grow old disgracefully & go out kicking & screaming in pleasure!!!

Happy cake day xxx

Sounds like you had quite the journey and I applaud you for that can’t have been easy but pleased to have you here sharing your story

Thank you for the wishes will try to inbrace the new 40

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By *hunderace...Man
over a year ago

Dudley

If its a drama do what I've done, stay in your 30's but just keep on counting past 9.

I'll be 30 twenty three this year...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I advise against it.

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Im 6 months into being 40 and its been an amazing...

Otherwise i say you're only as old as the person you feel so go find a young fabber to corrupt

Sweet xx"

Haha well there is one I have my eye on

lol x

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm 40 in October and mixed feelings but it's inevitable x I'm still trying to think of awesome things to do this year to mark it x

I'm hoping to be spoilt rotten tho! My 30th I was nursing a 2month old so this time I'm gonna enjoy it! (and I don't really drink lol) x

Happy birthday sweetheart, age is but a number that no one really needs to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 40 next year and actually quite looking forward to it. 20s I went from party girl to mum, 30s was all about everyone else and career stuff, I feel like 40s is when I'll get a bit of me back. Here's hoping anyway!

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Apart from the milestone nature of the number, turning 40 wasn't a big deal and was more of an excuse for a party than anything else.

As I have progressed through my 40s my outlook is changing noticeably, mostly in good ways although I am definitely becoming grouchier in my interactions with the general public!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really happy that I had made it that far (all considered)and Really sad at the thought of "could I have done more" before hitting the big 40 and I'll probably be thinking the same before the big 60 and so life goes on as we will always try and do that little bit more untill one day we say to ourselves HOLY SHIT DID I REALLY DO ALL THAT

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

My 40s have been the best years of my life. I didn't really feel anything when it happened, but great things have happened in my life since. Luke

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"So as I’ve midnight tonight I can no longer claim to be in my late 30s

Which tbh I don’t know how I feel about it! it’s just a number I know but

How did that even happen it’s flown by in a blink of an eye its crazy

How did you feel when you turned 40?!!

Wasn't too bad. Hated turning 30. By 40 I wasn't really bothered anymore. Still wish I was 21 though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give a shit about my age. More important things to worry about

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By *ereforgigglesMan
over a year ago

Scotland

Well I'll be 50 this year but I honestly don't feel it so no matter how old you are.. live life and have the best time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace it. Turning 40 is better than the other option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well so far my forties have been the best decade of my life! Best sex I’ve ever had, I’ve learnt a lot about life and myself, I’m enjoying it.

That said, age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I turned 40 I just broke down. Couldn't help it, the tears just came from nowhere. I felt everything but nothing, if that makes any sense. I'm dreading turning 50 next year x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just a number. When I turned 30 I lost my husband four months later. He was 32. He should’ve been 40 the year before last. This year I’ll turn 40 and I’ll be embracing it.

I don’t feel my age anyway, just grab life by the balls and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday

40s is great. I’ve 50 to look forward to this year!

*gulp*

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Im 41 you'll be grand

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Life apparently begins at 50 now anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So as I’ve midnight tonight I can no longer claim to be in my late 30s

Which tbh I don’t know how I feel about it! it’s just a number I know but

How did that even happen it’s flown by in a blink of an eye its crazy

How did you feel when you turned 40?!!

Happy 40th birthday

enjoy ur day x x

I turn 40 in a month and I'm not liking it so I decided 2 throw myself a party, if it has 2 happen then I do it in style. Hubby keeps reminding me it's better 2 turn 40 than not (which I know is true but still 40 OMG)

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm 40 on Saturday, I hate the idea of it as I've always been a "young lad" even through my 30's and lived accordingly, I never really factored in being old!

I'm just taking comfort in the fact I barely look any different to how I did 12 years ago, I've always had a baby face and I'm in great shape, and even got all my hair still which makes me look far younger than all the baldilocks I went to school with that I see on Facebook

I don't like it though, I wish time could have frozen in my mid 20's, I miss being that age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved to the North....but body parts went south

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

Time moves faster the older we get. I didn't have time to get used to my forties. Before I knew it, my fifties came and slapped me around the face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hit 40 last summer and to be honest don't feel no different I wasn't bothered about it to start with though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last 18 months of my 30s were some of the hardest times I've encountered, so I was excited to turn 40. It felt like a new chapter, and I was looking forward to it starting.

My actual birthday was so very disappointing,but I had an amazing day the week after.

My 40s so far haven't been quite as I had envisaged in a lot of ways,but there is still 7 years left of them so I'm sure that will change.

Happy birthday OP, may it be your best decade yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just a number. When I turned 30 I lost my husband four months later. He was 32. He should’ve been 40 the year before last. This year I’ll turn 40 and I’ll be embracing it.

I don’t feel my age anyway, just grab life by the balls and enjoy it

What are we doing for your 40th?! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 is the new 39

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It made sod all difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turning 40 isn't sore, it's just a bugger as it starts with a 4 in stead of a 3. Every additional year is a nightmare as I still feel 18, so when I look in the mirror I get a huge scare!! The beautiful South said it best - time takes its toll, but not on the eyes. They still expect to see us as youngsters. Being 40 only really annoys me as I can't chat up people in their 20s anymore; and they seem like the come from an entirely different millennium

I wish I was 20 years younger- sex has moved on in leaps and bounds in that time!!

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I'm 40 next year and actually quite looking forward to it. 20s I went from party girl to mum, 30s was all about everyone else and career stuff, I feel like 40s is when I'll get a bit of me back. Here's hoping anyway! "

Yeah I can relate to the 30s been nothing but family drama for me and my change in career. I hope that is so for my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just a number. When I turned 30 I lost my husband four months later. He was 32. He should’ve been 40 the year before last. This year I’ll turn 40 and I’ll be embracing it.

I don’t feel my age anyway, just grab life by the balls and enjoy it

What are we doing for your 40th?! X"

Going out on the piss!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just a number. When I turned 30 I lost my husband four months later. He was 32. He should’ve been 40 the year before last. This year I’ll turn 40 and I’ll be embracing it.

I don’t feel my age anyway, just grab life by the balls and enjoy it

What are we doing for your 40th?! X

Going out on the piss!!

And then what….

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Me turning 40 was so long ago I have no recollection on how I felt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved my 40s..finally felt i became me.... I became more confident, self focused and aware.. Oh i also had my first orgasm after discovering the magical rabbit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many happy returns! I’m 40 in August. Perhaps in many ways this imminent landmark birthday coupled with my new found singleness it’s what’s prompted me to join this place. I’ve thought about doing this for a long time.

The rational part of me knows age is just a number and you will too. Keep enjoying yourself and you’ll feel a good 10-15 years younger and if you’re anything like me you’ll know yourself far better now than you did in your mid 20s…

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I thought "Shit, I'm about to age out of a bunch of people's age range", and so I spent the last couple of weeks of my thirties messaging people I would soon be unable to contact.

Didn't achieve anything, but it was worth the punt.

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

I always maintain that growing old is mandatory but growing up is optional.

Age really is just a number, what is more important is your attitude to life and how you deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both turned 40 end of last year............actually quite like it!!!

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Many happy returns! I’m 40 in August. Perhaps in many ways this imminent landmark birthday coupled with my new found singleness it’s what’s prompted me to join this place. I’ve thought about doing this for a long time.

Thank you, yeah I know it’s just a number but it’s a crazy number! Haha I do know a little more about myself thanks to this site here’s to many more yrs of discovering

lol x

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"We both turned 40 end of last year............actually quite like it!!!"

I hope I start to feel the same as you too

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Loved my 40s..finally felt i became me.... I became more confident, self focused and aware.. Oh i also had my first orgasm after discovering the magical rabbit

Haha I love this who’s needs men when you have a toy that doesn’t answer back

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Ask me 27 years ago .....

It didn't hurt

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"It’s just a number. When I turned 30 I lost my husband four months later. He was 32. He should’ve been 40 the year before last. This year I’ll turn 40 and I’ll be embracing it.

I don’t feel my age anyway, just grab life by the balls and enjoy it

What are we doing for your 40th?! X"

Not much of a drinker so I’m in the middle of getting a thigh tattoo done. Actually just arrived and about to head in, rocking 40s in style

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Same as now.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We were in Corfu for mine having a week long party xxxxx

Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just a number. When I turned 30 I lost my husband four months later. He was 32. He should’ve been 40 the year before last. This year I’ll turn 40 and I’ll be embracing it.

I don’t feel my age anyway, just grab life by the balls and enjoy it

What are we doing for your 40th?! X

Not much of a drinker so I’m in the middle of getting a thigh tattoo done. Actually just arrived and about to head in, rocking 40s in style

That’s cool, I’ve often thought about getting inked but never had the guts - that and I’m quite indecisive about what image I’d actually get done

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

I was actually pretty happy about turning 40, my 30s were great and had loads of good things in, but it was only in the last few years of them that I felt like I had actually found me and my style. I have soo much more confidence now, and I know that my 40s are gonna be full of filthy fun!

MJ x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I was fine with 40. 50 not so much but like others have said it’s better than the alternative!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I felt exactly the same mentally. However the body started to fail.

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

I'm 45 (feel like I'm 20 inside) but life and circumstances make me feel more like I'm 75 most of the time. Sometimes I feel like my life is over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday ??

Turning 40 was no big deal to me, but I'm 50 next month, so I'm starting to think and worry a little more of my ageing parents health and the fact I am much nearer the mortician than the midwife.

But 40 is good ??.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked my 40's. I could pass as an adult without too much problem..

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

all down hill from here

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Probably felt really old at the time but little did I know, it’s by far the best decade

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By *verest9545Man
over a year ago

bolton

40 was ok, 30 was bad for me

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'm skydiving for mine on Saturday, I've done it before many years ago so it's not a new experience, but in these covid times it has been difficult to plan anything big when I had no idea when restrictions would be lifted. Hitting terminal velocity with a big smile on face will be a reminder that I may be aging but I'm still very much alive with that youthful sense of adventure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who turned 40 last year don’t sweat it! The 40s have been fantastic!

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By *CheshireMaleMan
over a year ago

Middlewich

ffs its 2o years ago lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s just a number. When I turned 30 I lost my husband four months later. He was 32. He should’ve been 40 the year before last. This year I’ll turn 40 and I’ll be embracing it.

I don’t feel my age anyway, just grab life by the balls and enjoy it

What are we doing for your 40th?! X

Going out on the piss!!

And then what….

Couldn’t possibly say on here

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"It’s just a number. When I turned 30 I lost my husband four months later. He was 32. He should’ve been 40 the year before last. This year I’ll turn 40 and I’ll be embracing it.

I don’t feel my age anyway, just grab life by the balls and enjoy it

What are we doing for your 40th?! X

Going out on the piss!!

And then what….

Couldn’t possibly say on here

Don't mind me, I'll just be in the tree outside spying.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Happy birthday!!!

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By *elightfulharmony OP Woman
over a year ago

Cheshire

Thank you all had a great day. Tattoo is finished and in sooo much pain but totally worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So as I’ve midnight tonight I can no longer claim to be in my late 30s

Which tbh I don’t know how I feel about it! it’s just a number I know but

How did that even happen it’s flown by in a blink of an eye its crazy

Happy belated birthday! Welcome to the naughty forties! x

How did you feel when you turned 40?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Felt like a bum when I turned 40.

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No different really apart from my body hurt more and every joint clicks

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

The only age I ever dreaded turning is 30 for some reason! Over half a life time ago now lol x

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By *echnosonic_BrummieMan
over a year ago

Willenhall

Nothing fell off or turned a funny colour so it wasn't too bad.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

That will be me in the summer. Not sure how I think really turning 40 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turning 40 was great it's been my naughtiest decade let's hope my 50's carry on the trend when I get there

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