FabSwingers.com forum: I’m cumming…

By *B69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Following on from a comment in a thread about who cums first, how do you stop yourself, do you think of something off putting, sing a song or just pull away, a friend once told me he thinks of his Nans stew…..don’t ask. Could be none of the above or you just let it flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take an anti depressant, the torture is unreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just slow down or stop for a few seconds.

Change the stimulus.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't. Orgasm tease and denial doesn't work for me, as I go from cold to orgasm too quickly.

I can edge myself if I really try but I have to stop all stimulation to do so, the slightest touch will set me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t there’s no shame in rounds

Don’t worry I be ready to go agein in 2-3 minutes

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've never been tested to see if I could hold to this, but I find cumming is mostly about letting myself and being relaxed. So someone can fuck me just as hard, and I can just switch that off for a time.

The instruction "don't cum" happens but never lasts long

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By *B69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"I don't. Orgasm tease and denial doesn't work for me, as I go from cold to orgasm too quickly.

I can edge myself if I really try but I have to stop all stimulation to do so, the slightest touch will set me off."

I’m like that at times

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I don’t stop myself, nor would I want a woman to stop herself.

Why stop at one. Enjoy the times together. Xx

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

Just think of Ann Widdecombe.

Actually, perhaps not, that'd kill it completely...

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Why would I want to do that? I'm lucky in that I have multiple orgasms, so I just let them happen and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, if my orgasm

Is being controled and im edging, i would just stop all together.

If its just normal, I would just cum as normal, if my partner is close i would just keep going until she came as well. But I can't remeber the last time I came first.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Slow down or take a break and do something else

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For guys I learnt this the other day, relaxing your muscles can stop you or make you last longer. I’ve tried it and it does help. Anything below your belly button relax and it should last longer.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I think of a gallery of fab forum users observing me and telling me I am doing it wrong, and offering low marks out of 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ever stop myself and I'm not a fan of edging (for me). I have a tendency to just lose it altogether if that's what someone is going for. I'd prefer to just orgasm, then orgasm again than hang off and potentially not at all.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I usually have to make myself cum. I dont struggle to control myself, I just enjoy it for what it is.

Eventually I will let go...but it is an effort.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Following on from a comment in a thread about who cums first, how do you stop yourself, do you think of something off putting, sing a song or just pull away, a friend once told me he thinks of his Nans stew…..don’t ask. Could be none of the above or you just let it flow

Ryan Giggs' semi-final goal celebration against Arsenal. Keeps me very excited but that hairy chest is a put off.

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

I don't need to think of anything, once I'm in the zone I just keep going!

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh for few days

As they say "how do you make a woman orgasm?" who cares.

How do you give a woman multiple orgasms? Who cares!!

So no real need to worry about stopping your own orgasm as long as you have fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask her to shout, "quick, get in the cupboard, [insert name] has just pulled into the drive"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just leave go of my dick....

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh for few days

"I just leave go of my dick...."

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Try reciting p (Pi)

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I can't be edged as I need to let go and mind tip over in order to cum, if that process is halted then I lose it completely and cannot orgasm.

Its a pain sometimes but the body shaking earth tremors are worth it

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