FabSwingers.com forum: What question were you asked that secretly broke your heart

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Why doesn’t he love me anymore mum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you look for a good deal on a phone for me - I want my own contract.

And that folks is hoew you end a 13 year relationship without even blinking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in yet?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

When the consultant told me my husband had terminal cancer and I asked "how long has he got".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the consultant told me my husband had terminal cancer and I asked "how long has he got". "

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By *arrapsMan
over a year ago

port talbot

What if I don’t want you…. As said by my then American girlfriend, we had been together for three years and I just asked her to marry me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't you just try a little bit harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The high school beauty coming up to me, the anticipation in the air, before she said “is your mate single?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.

Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"

As best not to leave it too long....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that all?

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.

Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"

As best not to leave it too long....

Oh my god some people are insensitive idiots.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Can I have Dads watch now?

From my 23 year old step daughter 4 hours after her father passed away.

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Why have you only got one child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it ok if support Leicester dad ??

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.

Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"

As best not to leave it too long....

I wonder how peoples brains actually work sometimes and why they don't think before they speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You shouldn't have gone ahead with it [termination]".

9 years later I still can't comprehend it. Why? He wanted me to? Did he gain satisfaction of having that tiny hold over me? He's lucky certain things are illegal in this country. (not husband before you all gather with pitchforks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""You shouldn't have gone ahead with it [termination]".

Shucks. That wasn't a question. Although I'm sure there were alot of questions fired back and forth that day.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Why doesn’t he love me anymore mum?"

Ouch!! That's real pain, your child's hurt that you can't remedy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.

Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"

As best not to leave it too long....

That made me gasp!!

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Whilst still sat in hospital after loosing my first baby late in pregnancy.

Someone asked me "when I would try again for another one"

As best not to leave it too long....

I thought I was insensitive sometimes... OMFG!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“How’s the dogs getting on?”

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

He's a good age (19) and a tumour on his kidney. Then the unspoken question from the vets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you sorted a funeral plan

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

How can my dad love his step daughter and he can't even send me a birthday card, love me or see me?

She was 10 at time and hadn't seen her dad from 6yrs.

The step daughter messaged my daughter on fb messagener and told my daughter he did not love her.

We cried and it still breaks my heart thinking about it. She's 26 nearly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it in?

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Why aren't you having a baby now? You didn't have one before either."

4 year olds have big ears as it turns out.

Posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's gone isn't he?

I had to call my brother to tell him to go home when my dad died. I didn't want to tell him over the phone especially while he was driving but I ended up having no choice

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Oh my gosh these are breaking my heart.

Especially Nora’s and the children not being loved by a parent.

Hugs to everyone here who’s had these awful experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow some of these comments are gut wrenching

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Oh my gosh these are breaking my heart.

Especially Nora’s and the children not being loved by a parent.

Hugs to everyone here who’s had these awful experiences

Nooooo! She was referring to a boyfriend. Long term relationship though. She was heartbroken x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother called me one night after a week of watching mum fade. He said “you know why I’m phoning, don’t you?”

Everyday someone had gone to sit with her at the care home. On that night my sister had been but left at 8.30pm, at 9pm a care worker had gone in to see her, she took a long breath, relaxed and that was it. She was 97.

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Oh my gosh these are breaking my heart.

Especially Nora’s and the children not being loved by a parent.

Hugs to everyone here who’s had these awful experiences

Nooooo! She was referring to a boyfriend. Long term relationship though. She was heartbroken x"

Ahhh! My mistake for you, mind you relationship heartbreak is just as tough especially your first

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

You do know it's just friendship with me.

And

After telling husband I was pregnant was.. so what are you going to do about it ?

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Ex wife said before we split

How did we fall out of love ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you want me to move out?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Are you ready?

Just before my baby daughter died

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Doctors asking me about do not resuscitate on my husband

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By *al kalMan
over a year ago

london

Some really tough moments\scenarios here.

Sending love and respect...

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By *erenity20Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Will you be alright"?

Asked by my dear nan who brought me up, when she knew she had days to live, after fighting cancer for as long as she could.

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman
over a year ago

Banbury

Will never ever forget having to formally identify my 20 yr old son after a horrific car accident in July.

Police liaison officer to me ??

“ I have to ask you , is this your son “

Broken hearted doesn’t even begin to describe.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

“Why couldn’t you save him?” A 17yo me was asked after performing CPR on my dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want me to move out?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow some very sad things in here im not adding to them I could go on all night lol. we all have sad times and they make us stronger.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Can't I come and live with you Miss?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Will never ever forget having to formally identify my 20 yr old son after a horrific car accident in July.

Police liaison officer to me ??

“ I have to ask you , is this your son “

Broken hearted doesn’t even begin to describe. "

Oh my goodness, that's heartbreaking. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

The vet called to say my bog did not make it through the night.

Seem very trivial to what's some of you guys and girls have been through and I wish you all the best literally broke my heart over and over.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The vet called to say my bog did not make it through the night.

Seem very trivial to what's some of you guys and girls have been through and I wish you all the best literally broke my heart over and over."

Pets are family too x

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"The vet called to say my bog did not make it through the night.

Seem very trivial to what's some of you guys and girls have been through and I wish you all the best literally broke my heart over and over.

Pets are family too x"

I would still eat one (pet) if there was a Zombie ?? apocalypse..

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Why did he leave us?

My sister as a kid in response to my dad buggering off, still breaks my heart when I think about it x

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I was not mentally prepared for reading this thread.

Much love to you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or fook it im doing it this is so hard for me I've not talked to anyone about this. My dad passed away recently and he depended on me for advice it was lung cancer. Macmillan came out and told me he didn't have long, i did everything in my power to help and we was talking that night just before they put they put the machine on to him he went to sleep. Sorry everyone I can't do it my finger is hovering do I press? I'm a man we shouldn't be like this

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By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

"Or fook it im doing it this is so hard for me I've not talked to anyone about this. My dad passed away recently and he depended on me for advice it was lung cancer. Macmillan came out and told me he didn't have long, i did everything in my power to help and we was talking that night just before they put they put the machine on to him he went to sleep. Sorry everyone I can't do it my finger is hovering do I press? I'm a man we shouldn't be like this "
strong man your Dad would be so proud

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By *elvet_OrchidWoman
over a year ago

Banbury

Oh my goodness, that's heartbreaking. I'm so sorry for your loss."
thank you JoJo x

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Don't come back to see me like this.

From my Grandad the day before he passed in palliative care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why has it happened to me… what did I do to deserve this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of mine was when I had to have one of my cats put down last year.

And the vet said to me do you want to be with her when she goes or not?

Of course I did, little did I know that because of the restrictions they were not allowed to give her the injection directly. Instead they had to give it to her via a long tube whilst she was on my lap in a towel, and she just looked up at me and then closed her eye's it broke my heart in so many pieces!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks buddy im just not ready, lovely post op honestly not just saying that. and yes I hope my old man is proud of me I fooking miss him so much you all would have loved him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“She’s not one of them, is she?”

Question asked by my ex mother in law, when I told her her three year old grandchild was being tested for autism. She meant children who went to a school for challenging behaviour. As it was my daughter’s needs were too profound and she needed specialist education, so that school was unsuitable anyway.

Her loss though, my daughter is awesome! Even if she isn’t a mathematical genius like everyone assumed she would be, lol- good old Rain Man meant everyone was an expert on autism x

Viv x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Don't come back to see me like this.

From my Grandad the day before he passed in palliative care. "

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Chin up mucca he be proud

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Will never ever forget having to formally identify my 20 yr old son after a horrific car accident in July.

Police liaison officer to me ??

“ I have to ask you , is this your son “

Broken hearted doesn’t even begin to describe. "

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

""Will you be alright"?

Asked by my dear nan who brought me up, when she knew she had days to live, after fighting cancer for as long as she could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why aren’t I pretty like the other girls?

Said to me by my daughter after I broke the bathroom door down where she had locked herself in and refused to come out.

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Eamon are you sure your on the right tax code

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

A girl I was mad about asked me to ask one of my friends to ask her out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why didn’t you say something sooner?

I don’t think an explanation is needed. It’s what everyone is asked, whatever age you are, whatever gender the perpetrator is, whatever type it is x

Massive healing hugs to anyone who has ever been asked that question x

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"When the consultant told me my husband had terminal cancer and I asked "how long has he got". "

so sorry to hear this,

I have been through that too.

Sending big hugs x

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Why didn’t you say something sooner?

I don’t think an explanation is needed. It’s what everyone is asked, whatever age you are, whatever gender the perpetrator is, whatever type it is x

Massive healing hugs to anyone who has ever been asked that question x "
because I am shy and could never pluck up the courage to ask her out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why didn’t you say something sooner?

I don’t think an explanation is needed. It’s what everyone is asked, whatever age you are, whatever gender the perpetrator is, whatever type it is x

Massive healing hugs to anyone who has ever been asked that question x because I am shy and could never pluck up the courage to ask her out "

Apologies, I was stating a question that broke my heart “why didn’t you say something sooner?”

In regards to your response though, I think we’ve all been like that at some point, and I’m sorry that you didn’t get to ask her out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending

to all

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

'Why does he love her and not me mum? '

My son about his father, and the fact he will do anything for his daughter but doesn't even see our son now

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By *organ DeanWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Why didn’t you say something sooner?

I don’t think an explanation is needed. It’s what everyone is asked, whatever age you are, whatever gender the perpetrator is, whatever type it is x

Massive healing hugs to anyone who has ever been asked that question x "

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"Is it in yet?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

My 9 year old son, when begging his grandparents to tell him why their son won't even talk to him.

"Your mother won't let him"

Absolutely, utterly and completely untrue. I spent many years trying to keep contact for my children and although they tell me they don't believe what they were told, they heard that lie when they were both children so there will always be doubt.

We all carry that with us and both my adult children feel abandoned by their father still.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't you be more like my ex?

Relationship ender right there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's been no brain activity for 3 hours now would you like us to turn off the machines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a man exactly because you feel. I'm sure he was very proud of the man you are.

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