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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’d hope most of the married ones do.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some will, some won't.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

Yes ,why not R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Whether they’ll have it with you, is a different question altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it depends !

Has he been open about his marriage

Is he part of a couple and she is agreed to it all

Or is he just cheating ??

Who knows I believe each to their own

Just be happy and enjoy yourself !

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I posted a similar thread last week xx descended into a moral debate ! I’m still looking for ladies who would !!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I posted a similar thread last week xx descended into a moral debate ! I’m still looking for ladies who would !!"

As per all forum threads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!"

Yeah loads of the ladies are married on here too, like with men some have partners that are aware and some have partners that aren’t.

Everyone has their own reasons for being on here and their own individual backstory that brought them here so without knowing their full story I don’t judge.

There are lots of women that won’t meet married men, and lots that do. The key difference with married men and married women playing away on here is that the women tend to be much more discreet about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh most definately, they are always more grateful than the single guys and you don't have to keep them afterwards....

(Joke obviously)

Us despicable married ones have to stick together!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes

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By *illynillyCouple
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yep...no judgement from us

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!"

If you broad your search horizon to bi curious/ bi sexual guys you’ll have dozens of offers per day.

Yeah, annoying, I know, it’s just a reality of fabs

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Yes, I'm not here to judge anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to the cheating ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going by your green arrow OP I’d guess it’s maybe maybe not.

Best of luck.

T

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By *arksjamesMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Definite no from my wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are honest with me from the start about being attached i would consider

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By *irtycumboCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

For us, we won't meet married men if their wife is unaware of the goings on...its just not for us. No judgement...each to their own

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes, I'm not here to judge anyone "

Message me !!! Lol xxxx

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes I regularly do with the full consent of their wives.

However thats the thing with casual sex especially in a club, you have no idea if he is or isn't and likely never will, even the best of us can be deceived all we can do is trust at face value that they are being truthful to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh most definately, they are always more grateful than the single guys and you don't have to keep them afterwards....

(Joke obviously)

Us despicable married ones have to stick together! "

Here here.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

If I'm at a club it's not something I ask or consider.

As I'm primarily looking for bdsm, outside of clubs I'm wanting more than a one off. Having been on all sides of an affair I'm not willing to deal with the hassle and last minute changing of plans again, so it has to be a legitimate open/poly marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me!

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I often do oh wait that doesn't count it's my husband haha

If they are cheating then no but otherwise maybe depending on the man

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Some will some will not! I wont! But not because I judge! Just not for me! But good luck x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If his relationship with his spouse is open and they are aware and okay with it.

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
over a year ago

Derby

Personally I think so long as the guy is upfront with the lady in question then fine, but I also get that for some ladies it’s a definite no no due to situations they may have experienced themselves. We’re all here for our reasons and shouldn’t be judged

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some girls will, some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' and some girls don't....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think so long as the guy is upfront with the lady in question then fine, but I also get that for some ladies it’s a definite no no due to situations they may have experienced themselves. We’re all here for our reasons and shouldn’t be judged "

I judge. People judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much point in saying you “shouldn’t be judged”.

You will be, and it’ll probably be more beneficial to you if you embrace that and accept that it’ll happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you asked this very same question 4 weeks ago, I doubt the answers have changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet married men, just our preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much point in saying you “shouldn’t be judged”.

You will be, and it’ll probably be more beneficial to you if you embrace that and accept that it’ll happen. "

I was going to say it was a straight question was to the ladies so no reason to imply anything about the OP. But then later in the thread he showed he was on a fishing expedition!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!"

After reading all the replies to your other threads on this subject, are you really asking would any lady from here have sex with you in particular OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you asked this very same question 4 weeks ago, I doubt the answers have changed."

He's a tryer ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!

After reading all the replies to your other threads on this subject, are you really asking would any lady from here have sex with you in particular OP? "

That was my thought.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If he's cheating then I wouldn't. It's not a big moral judgement because someone else's relationship is none of my business, it's because I've been there and it's bloody annoying spending time getting ready only to be cancelled at the last minute when his wife's plans change and he suddenly can't get away.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some girls will, some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' and some girls don't.... "

Earworm now...thanks for that

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By *nn_JamesCouple
over a year ago

the

We visit Swinging Clubs and have never asked what anyones marital status was. Thus, we presume we have hooked up with a married single guy at some point (moral judgement for them not us).

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

This is cropping up a lot lately, maybe people are just realising a large percentage of the men on here are married but because they don't admit it on their profiles and be straight from the word go they end up letting people down and getting a bad name for other men when they bottle it or are not allowed out. Far better to chance putting folk off and just saying if you are married from the outset and let people make their own mind up if they want to chat and peruse a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes xx

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Where's the "Sex with a married woman" thread?

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

When I was single and on here then yes, I never asked if they were married. To me it wasn’t my business if they were cheating it was on their conchonce (spelt wrong, sorry).

Now I’m married and on here with hubby (we have a couples profile), then no, I wouldn’t touch a married or taken man if he was cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where's the "Sex with a married woman" thread? "

You’ll get one of those when the forum isn’t full of married men asking whether people will fuck them! I can’t remember seeing many if any from married women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where's the "Sex with a married woman" thread?

You’ll get one of those when the forum isn’t full of married men asking whether people will fuck them! I can’t remember seeing many if any from married women. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where's the "Sex with a married woman" thread?

You’ll get one of those when the forum isn’t full of married men asking whether people will fuck them! I can’t remember seeing many if any from married women. "

lol xx

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

There are surely married women on here meeting singles or couples. Are people going to get judgy about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If all else fails OP, and the women won’t.

Bend over and I’ll sort you out. I’ll even give you a reach around.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Depends if he's got permission or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are surely married women on here meeting singles or couples. Are people going to get judgy about them?"

I wouldn't fuck them either. Does that help?

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"There are surely married women on here meeting singles or couples. Are people going to get judgy about them?

I wouldn't fuck them either. Does that help?"

Yes.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Only if their wife knew, otherwise no. I always ask aswell if I'm chatting to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married here, with permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh most definately, they are always more grateful than the single guys and you don't have to keep them afterwards....

(Joke obviously)

Us despicable married ones have to stick together! "

And not too fussy lol

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By *ichelle and DaveCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Michelle quite enjoys it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are surely married women on here meeting singles or couples. Are people going to get judgy about them?"

Well in my heyday on here, on my old origins about 4 years ago, I was lucky enough to meet quite a few people, many were very popular “single” ladies that were, in fact, married and playing away.

Many told me that they’d been propositioned by people that, publicly, were very much “anti-cheater” and vocal about it in the forums.

But when it came to potentially meeting a married unicorn, their reluctance soon disappeared!

Of course I have this second hand, but a number of women independently have said the same thing, so I guess that kind of answers your question!

As I said earlier, the cheating women on here don’t shout so loudly about it as the men, and tend to go under the radar!

If the forum mix is the same today as it was back then, I bet that a large number of these “single women” on here are actually partnered up. Which is fine, and up to them, we don’t know their backstory and journey to why they’re here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done, yes.

My rationale is between me and them.

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By *exiSalliTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

Well I'm married and doubt anyone would want sex with me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh most definately, they are always more grateful than the single guys and you don't have to keep them afterwards....

(Joke obviously)

Us despicable married ones have to stick together!

And not too fussy lol"

Remember the reason for the Block

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Yes I would with permission from the lady and I wouldn't accept permission on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing that most comments are about married and still living with their partners. Some of us are separated with their own lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d hope most of the married ones do. "

Belter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done, yes.

My rationale is between me and them."

This for me too, sometimes it suits, sometimes it doesn’t, all situations and people are different after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the Mrs knew and agreed in person then yes. I much prefer the thought of having sex with a married man because most won't keep pestering you to meet again (although, I think I'd put anyone off meeting me a second time). Constant messages, let along constant messages to meet frustrate me. I like to be left along 99% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the Mrs knew and agreed in person then yes. I much prefer the thought of having sex with a married man because most won't keep pestering you to meet again (although, I think I'd put anyone off meeting me a second time). Constant messages, let along constant messages to meet frustrate me. I like to be left along 99% of the time. "

So have sex & never speak again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the Mrs knew and agreed in person then yes. I much prefer the thought of having sex with a married man because most won't keep pestering you to meet again (although, I think I'd put anyone off meeting me a second time). Constant messages, let along constant messages to meet frustrate me. I like to be left along 99% of the time.

So have sex & never speak again? "

Well, at least don't message me afterwards for small talk. Haven't got time for that

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!"

Yes lots of guys are. I’m here for a good time, not a long time!

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!

Yes lots of guys are. I’m here for a good time, not a long time! "

Message me xxx

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If he accommodated somewhere other than the marital bed, his backseat or a log in a forest.

And didn’t pester me for attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if it was agreed with all parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have once before and didn't enjoy the guilt, so never again.

Each to their own though.

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

The answer is yes.... but it depends on a whole range of factors.

Being married isn't part of what attracts me to a man though.

Posh

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Not for me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd only play with a married guy IF his wife were present or they were separated and living apart x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes…they have their reasons and I wouldn’t judge them… each to their own

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I will never judge anyone. People have their reasons as to why they do these things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the time it isn’t as simple as it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would, and have. I’m not really interested in their back story though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, that's not for me

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I have in the past, and it has very much depended on the particular circumstances.

Hypothetically, if I was just looking for a one-off encounter, I would neither care nor ask what their marital status was. If I was looking for something more regular I'd consider the facts and make a decision mainly centred around how likely they would be to actually be able to meet when arranged.

Everybody has their own personal reasons for being on here, I'm not living their life so I'm not in any position to cast judgement.

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yes, have & would again. They're a desirable bunch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kind of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't actively seek out married men but most that we meet are married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of women will meet married men. I meet married women. I prefer to know they are married so I know what I’m getting into but other than that I’m not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised the Moral Police haven't hijacked this feed

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Yes, have & would again. They're a desirable bunch "

I'm sure a message tidal wave has just hit your inbox

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I wouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in an open relationship (well one sided) but I encourage my bf to have sex with other women. I would not sleep with another man married or not while I'm in a relationship.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Found a few ladies over the years how will.

Of course it was with my wife's permission.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I make no judgements but I wouldn't knowingly touch a man playing without permission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cant stand liars and cheaters. And definitely don't want to be the reason a family splits a d the carnage in causes.

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By *panddaCouple
over a year ago

West Mids


"Would any lady from here have sex with a married man?!"

Your wife doesn't mind you being here?

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By *wilightQueenWoman
over a year ago

Lisburn

Absolutely, yes, but I would also like your wife alone I may let you watch that part.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

I’ve got to say it wouldn’t be my thing. . But definitely the other way around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would yes if they were honest with me from the start.

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