FabSwingers.com forum: threesome dream or pitfall

By *ameasyou1234 OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hi all, looking for information. We were of the thinking that an ongoing threesome with same male would be what we want, now we have had two experiences with one guy and then nothing- which is fine that happens.

So really we are asking does an ongoing threesome work? Does it exist? Are our expectations too high?. Is only a couple of meets with one person the way it goes.

The odd person we have messaged usually say they have one - three meets with same person.

By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

"Hi all, looking for information. We were of the thinking that an ongoing threesome with same male would be what we want, now we have had two experiences with one guy and then nothing- which is fine that happens.

So really we are asking does an ongoing threesome work? Does it exist? Are our expectations too high?. Is only a couple of meets with one person the way it goes.

The odd person we have messaged usually say they have one - three meets with same person."

Yes, 1-3 has been my experience too. I think thats how long it takes to decide if you really click.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been meeting the same couple since early 2019. It does happen, although there are so many reasons to why it doesn’t. They’re not all necessarily bad/negative. It’s just usually distance or life gets in the way, stars don’t align then you/they meet someone and else the months just go by.

I met a couple over a year apart - it felt like we’d last seen each other the week before. Just work and life got in the way

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep dreaming

By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I'm guessing for some it does work, personally I've never managed repeat meets with the couples I've met for whatever reasons they had not to, I guess it just comes down to the individuals and their mindset