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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby

Ok so please lady’s help normally iv got no problem with the lady’s but what the hell am I doing rong im stil only getting men interested in me and I’m Definitely not gay

Is it my photos ? Or something else ?

Any advice will be most appreciated thanks

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

This reply carries more information than your profile.

And men will always message you regardless.

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby

Ok thanks I’m gonna get it right this time I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the plus side, you look a bit like Steven Gerrard

Your profile says nothing really. And having your phone number on there indicates poor judgement and desperation.

Good luck though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would say set dick pics to friends only if someone wants to see it they ask but your profile post what pics you like as I do

I would say your bio is the real hold back just say accomdte

Dosent tell me much up you

Dosent tell me what your looking for

What it dose tell me

Is you accomdate reads to me like your just after a fast shag then kick the person out the door afterwards

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing on your profile about who you are, what you are looking for or what you can offer.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"There's nothing on your profile about who you are, what you are looking for or what you can offer. "

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Would say set dick pics to friends only if someone wants to see it they ask but your profile post what pics you like as I do

I would say your bio is the real hold back just say accomdte

Dosent tell me much up you

Dosent tell me what your looking for

What it dose tell me

Is you accomdate reads to me like your just after a fast shag then kick the person out the door afterwards "

This

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby

?? thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"?? thanks "

OP if you use “reply +quote” it helps know who you are replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every post you've made on the forums so far has been the same thing.

Maybe that's what you're doing wrong?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Green arrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green arrow suggests that it’s about time you worked it out for yourself.

Good luck.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I think you need more detail. And keep it light hearted.

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby

I’m posting it like this now because thanks to everyone I realy having got a clue ?? but I will get it right this time thanks again ??

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Block males then.

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"On the plus side, you look a bit like Steven Gerrard

"

You say that like it's a good thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting messages from men just means some men find you attractive and others just want a fuck. You have absolutely zero control over these things so dinnae sweat it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This will sound cheeky but it’s really not. Try writing like an adult rather than a teen on a Nokia 3210. All phones have autocorrect so it’s actually harder to write like that than it is to write normally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, you've only said "can accommodate " in your profile. That could mean anything from you've got your own house to you'll pitch a tent and bang any woman up for it.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m posting it like this now because thanks to everyone I realy having got a clue ?? but I will get it right this time thanks again ?? "

Maybe fab isn’t for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace the gays dude. It’s part of fab

If it gets too much block men from messaging

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Ok so please lady’s help normally iv got no problem with the lady’s but what the hell am I doing rong im stil only getting men interested in me and I’m Definitely not gay

Is it my photos ? Or something else ?

Any advice will be most appreciated thanks "

Op I suggest searching the forum for help and advice this will give you some guidance as many people have posted and other users provided some very helpful and useful information.... Remember your profile completed is a pitch for others to visit and find a connection via rest how you approach others via messages...

Good luck pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Embrace the gays dude. It’s part of fab

If it gets too much block men from messaging "

Disclaimer : this does not mean I now want a ton of messages from gay men

Ta muchly

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"This will sound cheeky but it’s really not. Try writing like an adult rather than a teen on a Nokia 3210. All phones have autocorrect so it’s actually harder to write like that than it is to write normally."

Those 3210s were the bollocks back in the day though right!

OP good luck in your quest. You have been given some good advice. Take it on board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t looked at your profile sorry but if you’ve not even set your message filters I don’t think your using the site correctly. I’d say take a step back and really think about how you want to come across to others ? Think about how your profile looks and sounds to somebody taking a look for the first time ? Don’t rush and make sure you also read profiles selectively messaging others with a similar outlook or mindset. I’m certainly not an expert though I’ve been here 2 minutes but that’s just my opinion and approach

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby


"This will sound cheeky but it’s really not. Try writing like an adult rather than a teen on a Nokia 3210. All phones have autocorrect so it’s actually harder to write like that than it is to write normally."
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I was brought up in Greece is English is my second language so yes I spell like a teen or younger because simple I learned Greek in school not English so thanks any way I Appreciate it

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby


"I haven’t looked at your profile sorry but if you’ve not even set your message filters I don’t think your using the site correctly. I’d say take a step back and really think about how you want to come across to others ? Think about how your profile looks and sounds to somebody taking a look for the first time ? Don’t rush and make sure you also read profiles selectively messaging others with a similar outlook or mindset. I’m certainly not an expert though I’ve been here 2 minutes but that’s just my opinion and approach "

Do you know what thank you great advise I rushed you see DIDNT WORK ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so please lady’s help normally iv got no problem with the lady’s but what the hell am I doing rong im stil only getting men interested in me and I’m Definitely not gay

Is it my photos ? Or something else ?

Any advice will be most appreciated thanks "

You can stop men from messaging you by going into your message filters and changing it there. Problem solved x

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby


"This will sound cheeky but it’s really not. Try writing like an adult rather than a teen on a Nokia 3210. All phones have autocorrect so it’s actually harder to write like that than it is to write normally.

Those 3210s were the bollocks back in the day though right!

OP good luck in your quest. You have been given some good advice. Take it on board."

I certainly will pall thanks

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby


"Embrace the gays dude. It’s part of fab

If it gets too much block men from messaging "

I’m not gay but I’m sound about gays and I actually reply to messages so no need to block

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby


"I’m posting it like this now because thanks to everyone I realy having got a clue ?? but I will get it right this time thanks again ??

Maybe fab isn’t for you"

And why is that Because il get if right ??

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By *homaslfc OP   Man
over a year ago

kirkby

Thanks everyone again I have now Changed it thanks to all the great advises ??

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