FabSwingers.com forum: Who cums first?

By *entleman_of_pleasure OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Who cums first when you play?

Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?

Or do you aim to cum together?

Do you have a preference?

Cum and tell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cums first when you play?

Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?

Or do you aim to cum together?

Do you have a preference?

Cum and tell!"

Definitely the partner. I have high stamina so the session usually lasts a while anyway

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im not bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It needs to be natural. There should never be any pressure on either side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Great if you cum together but do like making them cum with my tongue they cum first

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

That's way to calculated

If your lost in the moment and the sparks are flying who cares who comes first,

Take a breather a sip of water or wine, reload and jump back in,,

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"It needs to be natural. There should never be any pressure on either side. "
well there are different kinds of Pressures,,, and some of em are good, very good.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Its situational. But generally, as a non repeater, I like to wait as it can forshorten a very nice night otherwise.

No issue as it is always a natural process.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'd hate to think it would be the same every time. That would get boring very quickly.

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales

I always aim to please, once that’s done I boom.

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales

"I always aim to please, once that’s done I boom.

Saying that I’ve had some stunning hotties that have had me counting sheep in my head to stop me from cumming in 30 seconds lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I always aim to please, once that’s done I boom.

Saying that I’ve had some stunning hotties that have had me counting sheep in my head to stop me from cumming in 30 seconds lol"

Always wondered if things like that worked. Is it easy to stop yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually the perv watching through the window....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies first anything els is just rude lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cumming at all would be a bonus.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I normally finish first when playing.

But thats because I'm pretty good at Monopoly.

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By *entleman_of_pleasure OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Cumming at all would be a bonus. "

That's not good.

And a pound to a penny you're going to get volunteers to remedy that now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cumming at all would be a bonus. "

Need a hand

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Cumming at all would be a bonus. "

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall asleep straight after so I've never noticed

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

It's always me I'm polyorgasmic and cum really easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always me I'm polyorgasmic and cum really easily

Oh when did you say you be free

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I fall asleep straight after so I've never noticed"

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Cumming at all would be a bonus. "
like Never???

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

enniscorthy hotel

Ladies first - always

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always cum first. I'm lucky that I can have multiple orgasms but also lucky that if D does cum before me, (very rare) It doesn't take long before he can go again. Win. Win.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely cum on meets but I always make sure they do as many times as possible xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cumming at all would be a bonus.

Yup

Yes definitely would be for me too

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By *entleman_of_pleasure OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Cumming at all would be a bonus.

Yup

And that, Minx, is a disgrace!

Superb pictures by the way, simply superb.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I always aim to please, once that’s done I boom.

Saying that I’ve had some stunning hotties that have had me counting sheep in my head to stop me from cumming in 30 seconds lol

Always wondered if things like that worked. Is it easy to stop yourself?"
no impossible and it never worked for me, never,

Thank god for a quick reload time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

I can’t keep the taxi waiting on the meter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cumming at all would be a bonus.

Yup

Yup Yup

It's not the be all and end all if you don't come.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Depends if he's a one shot or not tbf

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Latest FwB and I always cum together x

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By *orset.JMan
over a year ago

Weymouth

For me- it’s making a woman cum orally again and again or at least very close to the point of cumming.

When on top I can cum very quickly in these situations so I usually switch to being beneath and ridden on.

It really depends on the partner and their needs which I always ask first.

I had one partner who always came really hard almost at the last pulse of ejaculation almost when my cock was starting to go soft .

Everyone is different, communication is the key and go slow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum really easily if im in the mood and very multi orgasmic if the right spot gets hit and Mr W&W is a bit of a stayer so 99% of the time its me if we are having full blown dirty filthy sex , ooops got carried away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I strive to get them to cum first, if they've not cum by the time I'm ready to as selfish as this sounds "They'll have to do it themselves!"

I'm lucky I can stay hard as long as needed but once I'm done he needs to recharge and much like my car he goes into "Limp mode"

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'm one of those lucky buggers that can have multiple orgasms, so it's usually me, repeatedly. But I love it on the rare occasions that he orgasms fairly quickly. And if we cum together, ooft

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"It needs to be natural. There should never be any pressure on either side. "

Good to know I’ll do my best in the 30 seconds it takes though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lass, she cums atleast 15-20 times before I do, she's easy to make cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cumming at all would be a bonus.

Yup

Yup Yup

It's not the be all and end all if you don't come. "

Errr I want the be all and end all!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Who cums first when you play?

Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?

Or do you aim to cum together?

Do you have a preference?

Cum and tell!"
on swing meets it's rare I cum at all... its all about the other person's pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bothered either way. However it works out.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.

So hopefully he would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.

So hopefully he would."

Accidentally???

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

The egg! Since the chicken eventually evolved from something else that came from an egg before it. You are welcome.

However depending on if you go back far enough, and how technical you want to be the evolution ancestry started before lifeforms were laying eggs. So you could say the chicken. Just depends on direct specifics!

Oh, sorry I only read the title

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.

So hopefully he would.

Accidentally???

Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.

So hopefully he would.

Accidentally???

Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz

Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend.

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By *ub_boiMan
over a year ago

manchester

Mistress always cums first, and last.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.

So hopefully he would.

Accidentally???

Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz

Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend. "

Is it awful if I say I don’t care how it happens, so long as it happens?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It’s not really a race between us two but more often than not C will cum first, second, third and fourth as they usually follow soon after.

Then more often than not we’ll cum together before starting the cycle again…

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.

So hopefully he would.

Accidentally???

Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz

Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend.

Is it awful if I say I don’t care how it happens, so long as it happens?

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By *entleman_of_pleasure OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.

So hopefully he would.

Accidentally???

Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz

Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend.

Is it awful if I say I don’t care how it happens, so long as it happens?

That's...that's hot.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

I (mrs) can have multiple orgasms without actually Cumming... that and the fact we sometimes like to edge eachother for a few days. We like to think that sex isn't all about the finish line when there's soooooo much to enjoy in-between

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"I (mrs) can have multiple orgasms without actually Cumming... that and the fact we sometimes like to edge eachother for a few days. We like to think that sex isn't all about the finish line when there's soooooo much to enjoy in-between

Totally agree with this! I not a race

edging is really fun too massive tease

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’d like to think it’s not a race or a competition, it happens when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cumming at all would be a bonus.

Yup

Yup Yup

It's not the be all and end all if you don't come.

Errr I want the be all and end all!

Sorry! I've spent years not coming and I've given up. Obvs not everyone has.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Cumming at all would be a bonus.

Yup

Yup Yup

It's not the be all and end all if you don't come.

Errr I want the be all and end all!

Maybe you haven't found the right guy

Invite me round and I'll help you find him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to watch Lexi cum, as often as I can. I either do or don't, it's not quite as important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to cum first

Then I'm happy to let my partner do whatever they want to make themselves cum

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

For me it's been different them first most of the time so must be doing something creative at times it can take me forever.so in that time it can be like a pool as for pleasure it's always been an fantastic experience Followed by well deserved sleep the experience Can be different depending upon how one is able to control themselves

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's never a race its when it's going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy sex even without an orgasm so if he cums first it doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a bit of a kink for accidentally making a guy cum quickly.

So hopefully he would.

Accidentally???

Yes. Premature ejaculation and all that jizz….I mean jazz

Does it need to be down to your own ability... Or just naturally fast... Asking for a friend.

Is it awful if I say I don’t care how it happens, so long as it happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (usually) let my partner finish first. More than once if possible too lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inked always let’s who he’s with cum first, multiple times, haha. So when with him, I/they tend to cum first, but when I’m playing with a woman then I like to make her cum many times before I do.

I’ve taken part in recorded bukkake meets in the past, for Inked, and the guys have cum from me giving oral, but there’s been no sexual play where I’m concerned, so I haven’t cum during those meets. I’m fine with that as I get pleasure from giving pleasure x

Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always them. I’ve never orgasmed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies always first..

but you can’t beat that feeling when you both orgasm at the same time.

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By *xploring2getherCouple
over a year ago

Desborough

S does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Inked always let’s who he’s with cum first, multiple times, haha. So when with him, I/they tend to cum first, but when I’m playing with a woman then I like to make her cum many times before I do.

Viv x"

When you cum together though, it’s the best feeling ever!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do and I keep comming till he does, he knows how to make me cum when he is close so we can cum togeather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best if it’s me.

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

"Cumming at all would be a bonus. "

You mean you don't or never do???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, me obvs.

A couple of thrusts, trembly knees, wipe my cock in the curtains, all done!

Isn’t that how sex is done? You mean the lady gets to cum too!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, me obvs.

A couple of thrusts, trembly knees, wipe my cock in the curtains, all done!

Isn’t that how sex is done? You mean the lady gets to cum too!?

Why not just get her to position herself on a towel, then when you’re done, wipe yourself on that? Even better- bend her over the washing machine, wipe yourself on the towel, pop it straight in the washer! She’ll be that impressed with how much of a considerate guy you are, she won’t care that she hasn’t cum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, me obvs.

A couple of thrusts, trembly knees, wipe my cock in the curtains, all done!

Isn’t that how sex is done? You mean the lady gets to cum too!?

xx"

and I can put the spin cycle on to finish her off manually, I’m all heart! Good idea!

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By *ameasyou1234Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Male response from a couple. The woman always cums first, there is no other way. Her pleasure is most important.

Female response: Coming together if at all possible as the bigger thrusts and spurting cum can make for a bigger orgasm although if coming during sex is dependant on coming first - I'm not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You couldn’t pay most men millions to get on this website and confess to not making (or trying to make) a woman come first so just listen to women if you want to know the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever happens. Spontaneously each time. Variety and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also this thread has reminded me of that scene from (the utterly flawless) When Harry Met Sally which was improv I believe? God I love that film.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this cumming and going is making me jizzy Er I mean dizzy.

God help me I am starting to post to inane threads such as this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, me obvs.

A couple of thrusts, trembly knees, wipe my cock in the curtains, all done!

Isn’t that how sex is done? You mean the lady gets to cum too!?

and I can put the spin cycle on to finish her off manually, I’m all heart! Good idea!

Good thinking! You’ll never go without sex, as there’s always washing to be done

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By *elshman78Man
over a year ago

South Wales

"I always aim to please, once that’s done I boom.

Saying that I’ve had some stunning hotties that have had me counting sheep in my head to stop me from cumming in 30 seconds lol

Always wondered if things like that worked. Is it easy to stop yourself?"

Trust me…sometimes I’ve zoned right out & thought about work to stop myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guy cums first because I need to see his cum.... That turns me to cum

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Lady should always cum first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is to give as much pleasure as I can before i cum but I'm a repeater anyway

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London

I'm told it's better if one isn't worried about the timing. But it's more enjoyable here if A comes first!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

However it ocures really x

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By *ohn123456789999Man
over a year ago

hastings

Have always believed the lady should be pleasured first as us men can cum easy

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

It varies, some times I cum multiple times, other times N cums first and then helps me finish after, other times I cum once and then he cums and some times we cum together.

C x

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

I love to make the lady cum first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the woman first!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Some times I cum first and other times she cums second.

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By *torm8913Woman
over a year ago

Cape Coral

"Who cums first when you play?

Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?

Or do you aim to cum together?

Do you have a preference?

Cum and tell!"

Your questions imply one orgasm each. That’s so sad.

North of 15 or 20 just to get started for me (f). As many as possible for her if I’m with a female. Several for him as well if possible if I’m with a man.

Who goes when is irrelevant as long as we are keeping busy and having fun.

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Ladies 1st is my motto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I laugh at all these guys trying to impress the ladies by insisting they cum first!

It’s whatever happens, surely? Variety and all that, communication too about what each other would like at that moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who cums first when you play?

Do you like to get your partner to the finish line first so they can concentrate on your pleasure?

Or do you aim to cum together?

Do you have a preference?

Cum and tell!

Your questions imply one orgasm each. That’s so sad.

North of 15 or 20 just to get started for me (f). As many as possible for her if I’m with a female. Several for him as well if possible if I’m with a man.

Who goes when is irrelevant as long as we are keeping busy and having fun.

Some people struggle to come once or don't come at all - it's not sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I laugh at all these guys trying to impress the ladies by insisting they cum first!

It’s whatever happens, surely? Variety and all that, communication too about what each other would like at that moment. "

I won't meet the type of men who insist I will cum first. I'm a person not a fucking competition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually me

But I don't like to to leave the lady without a happy ending if I can help it

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Biggest turn off for me is when a guy says he will make the woman come first. Such a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The milkman

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By *wan64Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Aim to cum together

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London

"Biggest turn off for me is when a guy says he will make the woman come first. Such a turn off"

I (the male) hear what you’re saying. A says that too. But it’s kind of a catch 22 - it is better when she comes first or together, and that often needs some effort.

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

It’s normally me , hubby like to see me satisfied

Hubby can satisfy me for ages

He’s very good at pleasuring 2 female at one time

But hubby won’t cum until the me / females are warn out and legs are like jelly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me.

Otherwise I ask for a refund.

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