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"Nope, far too many easily offended snowflakes and they try push their opinions on others.. I'll think for myself "Me too | |||
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"Can we have a 'edit Biker Drews avatar' game? There's so many stickers out there that Bikers manmeat would look incredible sporting "Oh good game | |||
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"Can we have a 'edit Biker Drews avatar' game? There's so many stickers out there that Bikers manmeat would look incredible sporting "Feel free  | |||
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"Can we have a 'edit Biker Drews avatar' game? There's so many stickers out there that Bikers manmeat would look incredible sporting
Feel free "turn it into an old fashioned barber shop pole | |||
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"Plenty to talk about Sparkle like I hope you had a wonderful day to day xxxx " It's been ok thank you despite not feeling 100%. How has your day been? xx | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? " Of course there is. What happened to the cry's of calling out shitty behaviour where ever it’s found? #notallmen | |||
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"Plenty to talk about Sparkle like I hope you had a wonderful day to day xxxx It's been ok thank you despite not feeling 100%. How has your day been? xx" Awww hugs and that’s very good to hear it’s been ok mines hasn’t been to bad started work got about a hour in a decade I was take the day off just finsh dinner but now pondering if I should clock back in to work xx | |||
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"Yeah let's rate Wonko "I rate him the same as Elvis Costello's debut single. | |||
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"Yeah let's rate Wonko
I rate him the same as Elvis Costello's debut single."utter shite | |||
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"Nope, far too many easily offended snowflakes and they try push their opinions on others.. I'll think for myself "too true. | |||
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"Plenty to talk about Sparkle like I hope you had a wonderful day to day xxxx It's been ok thank you despite not feeling 100%. How has your day been? xx Awww hugs and that’s very good to hear it’s been ok mines hasn’t been to bad started work got about a hour in a decade I was take the day off just finsh dinner but now pondering if I should clock back in to work xx" I'd sack it off for the rest of the evening x | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? Of course there is. What happened to the cry's of calling out shitty behaviour where ever it’s found? #notallmen" Even that is frowned upon...unless they are cute. | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? " At least some of those threads are worth joining in even if they get a bit lary! It’s the benale threads like ‘ rate my clock’ , fab a pic of the person above’ , ‘ sniff my kecks’ etc etc that are mind numbing. | |||
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"Plenty to talk about Sparkle like I hope you had a wonderful day to day xxxx It's been ok thank you despite not feeling 100%. How has your day been? xx Awww hugs and that’s very good to hear it’s been ok mines hasn’t been to bad started work got about a hour in a decade I was take the day off just finsh dinner but now pondering if I should clock back in to work xx I'd sack it off for the rest of the evening x"That could be a fine idear in fact I may just sack my self for the week ha ha x | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? At least some of those threads are worth joining in even if they get a bit lary! It’s the benale threads like ‘ rate my clock’ , fab a pic of the person above’ , ‘ sniff my kecks’ etc etc that are mind numbing. " Agreed...same old day after day. | |||
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"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!!" Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things | |||
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"We can always chat about the different shades of blue underwear. "That could take all night... I'll start: Navy | |||
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"We can always chat about the different shades of blue underwear.
That could take all night... I'll start: Navy"Done - now. When am I taking you shopping | |||
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"We can always chat about the different shades of blue underwear.
That could take all night... I'll start: Navy
Done - now. When am I taking you shopping "Royal blue | |||
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"We can always chat about the different shades of blue underwear.
That could take all night... I'll start: Navy
Done - now. When am I taking you shopping
Royal blue "Even better. | |||
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"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!! Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things "You're off my hotlist.  | |||
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"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured. " That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned. | |||
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"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured. That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned." I see what you mean, that is just gross. | |||
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"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves... "This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off. | |||
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"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves...
This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off. " | |||
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"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!! Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things "We haven't spoken. You've no idea if I'm evil or not | |||
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"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day "I know. I miss those days  | |||
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"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!! Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things
We haven't spoken. You've no idea if I'm evil or not "I am | |||
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"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day "It really was soooooo different! | |||
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"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured. That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned. I see what you mean, that is just gross. "Shhh you will have it all kicking off. I'm trying to keep this fun | |||
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"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves...
This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off. " | |||
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"If anyone dares shame choccy biccys then I shall smite theevdown!!! Choccy bics should never be shamed..apart from Jaffa's. Evil little things
We haven't spoken. You've no idea if I'm evil or not
I am "Well now I have to add you to my hotlist and see how evil | |||
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"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves...
This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off. "There’s a bit difference between giving an opinion, and ridiculing people, and trying to make them feel like shit though. I don’t give a fuck what people think of my kink, but some people do, and they shouldn’t feel they have to censor themselves because they worry they will be bullied otherwise. People say #bekind and call out shitty behaviour, but then if you do, you get called a snowflake. If people took responsibility for their actions and tried not to be unkind, it would happen a lot less *not aimed at anyone in particular | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??" *runs and hides* | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??" Or more sticker pictures  | |||
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"If anyone gets upset about a random strangers comments on the internet, I'd suggest going having a serious chat with themselves...
This is kind of how I feel as nobody’s opinion would affect what I do or don’t do. I have said I find some things disturbing before and that I can’t understand why people do certain things. Which I can’t! That’s not kink shaming. It is getting a bit ridiculous lately. We can’t even give opinions on things when asked for them without someone kicking off.
There’s a bit difference between giving an opinion, and ridiculing people, and trying to make them feel like shit though.
I don’t give a fuck what people think of my kink, but some people do, and they shouldn’t feel they have to censor themselves because they worry they will be bullied otherwise.
People say #bekind and call out shitty behaviour, but then if you do, you get called a snowflake.
If people took responsibility for their actions and tried not to be unkind, it would happen a lot less
*not aimed at anyone in particular "I agree if someone is ridiculing someone personally then no it’s not on at all and I’m one of the first who would comment on that kind of thing. But if someone is giving their general opinion on something whether it’s a kink/body size/cock size etc and not aiming it a particular individual then I don’t see the issue. | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it??" lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on  | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? Or more sticker pictures "I do like the idea of this game. Send someone a pic and let them add stickers and set as profile | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on "They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? Or more sticker pictures
I do like the idea of this game. Send someone a pic and let them add stickers and set as profile "Game on. Be as evil as you like haha | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on
They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere " | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on
They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere "Mmmmmm wellies. You should run a forum wellie photo challenge | |||
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"Can we have a 'edit Biker Drews avatar' game? There's so many stickers out there that Bikers manmeat would look incredible sporting
Feel free "Hahaha! Love it!! | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on
They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere
Mmmmmm wellies.
You should run a forum wellie photo challenge "Good idea | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on
They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere
Mmmmmm wellies.
You should run a forum wellie photo challenge
Good idea "Wait! What? I had a good idea????? | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? lol let's hope there's no rain kink shamers on
They will be lurking in their wellies somewhere
Mmmmmm wellies.
You should run a forum wellie photo challenge "You gotta love a bit of 'Wellie Wangling' | |||
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? Or more sticker pictures
I do like the idea of this game. Send someone a pic and let them add stickers and set as profile "I am so editing Biker's cock now | |||
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"Only you wonky lol"  sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that
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"Maybe we should just take about the weather..surely nothing could be wrong with that?? Or can it?? Or more sticker pictures
I do like the idea of this game. Send someone a pic and let them add stickers and set as profile
I am so editing Biker's cock now " | |||
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"Only you wonky lol sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that
Here come the kink shamers "Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe | |||
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"Only you wonky lol sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that
Here come the kink shamers
Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe "It's the cold custard filling that repulses most people | |||
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"Only you wonky lol sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that
Here come the kink shamers " | |||
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"Only you wonky lol sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that
Here come the kink shamers
Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe
It's the cold custard filling that repulses most people "I'm not surprised | |||
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"Only you wonky lol sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that
Here come the kink shamers
Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe
It's the cold custard filling that repulses most people
I'm not surprised " | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" " Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone | |||
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"People have always been easily offended by different opinions, the internet has just made it really easy to argue lol. " Can't be arsed with the ones who want to turn everything into an argument just because someone dared air their opinion. Thank god for the block button. | |||
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"People have always been easily offended by different opinions, the internet has just made it really easy to argue lol. Can't be arsed with the ones who want to turn everything into an argument just because someone dared air their opinion. Thank god for the block button." Block me block me | |||
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"Only you wonky lol sorry I shouldn't have mentioned that
Here come the kink shamers
Only ones who don't like rubber.. I think you're safe
It's the cold custard filling that repulses most people "I like cold custard, but not after you had your feet in it in your wellies. | |||
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"People have always been easily offended by different opinions, the internet has just made it really easy to argue lol. Can't be arsed with the ones who want to turn everything into an argument just because someone dared air their opinion. Thank god for the block button. Block me block me "Nah, you're alright in small doses | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone " but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day | |||
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"People have always been easily offended by different opinions, the internet has just made it really easy to argue lol. Can't be arsed with the ones who want to turn everything into an argument just because someone dared air their opinion. Thank god for the block button. Block me block me
Nah, you're alright in small doses "Awww | |||
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"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured. That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned. I see what you mean, that is just gross.
Shhh you will have it all kicking off. I'm trying to keep this fun "What about socks! Should they be ironed or not? | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day" Same here. If someone doesn't like what I do or what I'm into, as long as it's legal and consensual, I couldn't care less and certainly wouldn't make a drama out of it. | |||
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"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured. That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned. I see what you mean, that is just gross.
Shhh you will have it all kicking off. I'm trying to keep this fun
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"Maybe if people didn't do it then they wouldn't be accused of it "You'll find accusations get thrown around a lot now regardless of anything done or said. Same as throwing shit against the wall and hoping it sticks. 99% of the time it simply isn't true. C | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day" I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so | |||
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"What about odd food combinations. Cheese and jam is quite tasty. Or it was before my taste buds matured. That causes too much drama..especially when pineapple and pizza are mentioned. I see what you mean, that is just gross.
Shhh you will have it all kicking off. I'm trying to keep this fun
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "Damn it for the inability to use gifs, because I have the perfect one as its the exact face I just had myself! | |||
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""Lets talk about sex baby" don't think we speak often enough on this subject "Earworm now | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "If you can't tell the difference between an opinion and abuse then I can show you where your power button is. C | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "I think that about abusive messages anyway. They're entitled to their opinion. | |||
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"We could start another “rate the user above you” thread and watch as thirsty guys all fight over posting in time to rate a blank female profile 9.6/10" The accuracy of this | |||
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"We notice with a thread if it goes one way or the other then a lot of people jump on the bandwagon. It is often a race to be the first or most offended. " I am most offended I wasnt the most offended by this | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "well you'll never hear "I got an abusive message" from me.. I'd actually have to give a fuck to care.. I block assholes | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so
Damn it for the inability to use gifs, because I have the perfect one as its the exact face I just had myself! "It’s been pointed out to me that as I enter emoji’s I actually try and make the face. Had no idea | |||
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"So Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????" Cartoons. | |||
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"So Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????" Me ! | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so well you'll never hear "I got an abusive message" from me.. I'd actually have to give a fuck to care.. I block assholes "Me neither. I’d never do a thread like that. But I do get why people do and that sometimes support helps and that people can get upset by personal insults/messages. I’ve always been supportive on here and I’ve never got personal. I’ve disagreed a hell of a lot but never got personal. Same with my opinions on certain things, they’re not personal they’re general. | |||
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"So Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone????? Cartoons. "They lie Physics does not work like that. You fall whether you look down or not  | |||
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"One persons "unkind" is anothers "opinion" Unkind is unkind no matter how you spin it....just because its your 'opinion' doesn't mean it doesn't offend someone but because YOU think it's unkind or take offense doesn't make it unkind.. the forums are a busy place and you'll never please everyone.. I'm not gunna let someone randoms comments dull my day I’m glad we cleared that up. Now we can shut down all those “I got an abusive message threads” with a new battle cry.. instead of block and report we can just remind them that it was the senders opinion and while you may find it unkind it doesn’t make it so "Also what you've described as abusive messages is completely different to what the op is talking about...but here's an explanation anyway.. if I guy messages and tells me I'm a fat cow or whatever do I care? Nope because a few minutes earlier he was trying to get a meet with me and I said no..his words don't affect me because he's that random stranger I mentioned earlier..hope THAT clears things up for you | |||
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"So Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone????? Cartoons. "Someone may take offence at how Tom was treated by Jerry | |||
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"Has there been a what’s for tea thread lately? They don’t seem too offensive unless there’s those pineapple on pizza weirdos on there" Ohhh you shamed...tut tut | |||
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"Has there been a what’s for tea thread lately? They don’t seem too offensive unless there’s those pineapple on pizza weirdos on there Ohhh you shamed...tut tut "Ooppps I meant unique pineapple pizza lovers of course | |||
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"Has there been a what’s for tea thread lately? They don’t seem too offensive unless there’s those pineapple on pizza weirdos on there Ohhh you shamed...tut tut
Ooppps I meant unique pineapple pizza lovers of course " | |||
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"So Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone?????" Yes Cake n custard | |||
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"So Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone????? Yes Cake n custard "Been done to death.. | |||
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"So Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone????? Yes Cake n custard
Been done to death.."Very true ! In this day age with all the doom and gloom think it’s only right to send some good cheer to all folks of fab be fabulous all day be good to all day or even should I say it yes more light hearted threads that make us all laugh and sometimes cry people of fab call to arms !  | |||
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"So Is there anything fun left to talk about that won't offend anyone????? Cartoons.
Someone may take offence at how Tom was treated by Jerry "Or how Scratchy is treated by Itchy. | |||
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"Has there been a what’s for tea thread lately? They don’t seem too offensive unless there’s those pineapple on pizza weirdos on there Ohhh you shamed...tut tut
Ooppps I meant unique pineapple pizza lovers of course "Pinapple pizza lovers should be put in the stocks. Or publicly flogged. | |||
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Anyway, the real question is; Anal or Caviar? | |||
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"Oooob and is it physically possible to fold a fitted sheet properly without just screwing it up and shoving it in a cupboard?" Wow! That's proper shocking talk!
At least you didn't say you iron sheets. | |||
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"As a relative newcomer to the forums, some of the behaviour I’ve seen is tantamount to mob “you’re either with us or against us” behaviour.
Anyway, the real question is; Anal or Caviar? "It is indeed but that's the joys of Fab...some people get offended easily and some don't care what others think.. | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? " I rarely comment on here anymore for that simple reason. Recently I was told my comments were disparaging for simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! Or do we have to agree with everything? | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? I rarely comment on here anymore for that simple reason. Recently I was told my comments were disparaging for simply expressing my opinion. These days it seems like one can't make a single comment without being pulled on it. I should be able to speak negatively of someone's kink interest without being called disparaging! Or do we have to agree with everything? " Seems so. God forbid anyone who speaks freely and doesn't conform with others. | |||
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"Oooob and is it physically possible to fold a fitted sheet properly without just screwing it up and shoving it in a cupboard? Wow! That's proper shocking talk!
At least you didn't say you iron sheets. "Almost did but held myself back | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? " Don't forget the boobs Sparkle...everyone seems obsessed with who has the best/biggest | |||
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"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day
It really was soooooo different! "Indeed! I was looking back on some threads a few years ago where people could disagree and still have fun. Remember the one about the conservative republic I did? | |||
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"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day
I know. I miss those days "A lot of interesting people left. I'm not one of the interesting ones. | |||
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"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day
I know. I miss those days
A lot of interesting people left. I'm not one of the interesting ones."Don't say that, everyone has a place and everyone brings something x | |||
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"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day
It really was soooooo different!
Indeed! I was looking back on some threads a few years ago where people could disagree and still have fun.
Remember the one about the conservative republic I did? "Haha I do!!!! | |||
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"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day
I know. I miss those days
A lot of interesting people left. I'm not one of the interesting ones."Me either...definitely don't fit in with the crowd | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? Don't forget the boobs Sparkle...everyone seems obsessed with who has the best/biggest "Even that subject turns ugly | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? Don't forget the boobs Sparkle...everyone seems obsessed with who has the best/biggest
Even that subject turns ugly "Because nobody has the biggest or best anything. Everyone is equally beautiful
Same as sports days at school these days. No winners. They are all winners. | |||
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"This conversation about conversations is creating quite a conversation. OP you and MissD you do fit in. " Sadly not. I feel my time on this plain is coming to an end. | |||
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"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day
It really was soooooo different!
Indeed! I was looking back on some threads a few years ago where people could disagree and still have fun.
Remember the one about the conservative republic I did?
Haha I do!!!! "You had liberals and conservatives both taking the mic out of each other in good fun. Would never work today. | |||
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"We used to have some great conversations om here, back in the day
It really was soooooo different!
Indeed! I was looking back on some threads a few years ago where people could disagree and still have fun.
Remember the one about the conservative republic I did?
Haha I do!!!!
You had liberals and conservatives both taking the mic out of each other in good fun. Would never work today."It seems nothing works these days. Even lighthearted threads get twisted and turns bad. | |||
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"This conversation about conversations is creating quite a conversation. OP you and MissD you do fit in. Sadly not. I feel my time on this plain is coming to an end." Oh no! we can't lose any more good ones x | |||
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"Perfect example of a thread where everyone was polite and light hearted even when having different perspectives. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/941482" Exactly how it should be x | |||
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"Anything fun left to chat about on the forums without anyone being accused of kink shaming or taking the piss out of something??? " It’s how the world is really | |||
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It is just how things and people work. No there is no need for anyone to get nasty and aggressive but really, it's going to happen regardless. | |||
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"Perfect example of a thread where everyone was polite and light hearted even when having different perspectives. https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/941482 Exactly how it should be x" Isn't it? This is the forum vibe I really miss | |||
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"Honestly, just talk about what you want and accept whatever comes from it. Be it positive, negative, if you feel bullied or if you feel welcomed. Or don't accept those things and don't. It really is as simple as that, you have issue with the same thing as other people. Moaning about you can't do something without it being attacked by others.
It is just how things and people work. No there is no need for anyone to get nasty and aggressive but really, it's going to happen regardless. "I do post what I want. The people who like the drama, I just ignore if they post. Sad state of affairs that it happens though. | |||
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