FabSwingers.com forum: Has your age goalposts moved with getting older. .

By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I have found that as I get older on here my age limits have moved on with me, older on opposite sides of the scale.

I mean I still look at fab pics and say wow but if the profile is in their 20's, now I'm like nope,and likewise at the other end of the scale, I find older womens profiles super hot.

Is this the same for the rest of you folks who have been here a while?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, mine have aged with me.

I wouldn't go much above 5 years either way. Now I'm happy to date 15 years old but not younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep as weve got older our age range as gone up. Got a rule must be 5 yrs older than our daughter

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border

"Yeah, mine have aged with me.

I wouldn't go much above 5 years either way. Now I'm happy to date 15 years old but not younger. "

I hope you meant 15 years older? Not 15 years old??!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes we moved our lower age limit up, I think we moved our upper limit too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep as weve got older our age range as gone up. Got a rule must be 5 yrs older than our daughter

Thats at least 5 yrs older not just all 30 yr olds

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Yep as weve got older our age range as gone up. Got a rule must be 5 yrs older than our daughter

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I can't use that rule it still leaves me under 20.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I actually like younger than I once did. Not too young though. 35+

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Thanks for the reminder I haven’t altered mine this year, yes I have set limits that move accordingly

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

I actually havnt moved by limits on here in settings (must do list) I ment in my head as I browse/perp profiles I find I'm gravitating towards older by 5 to 8 years.

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Thanks for the reminder I haven’t altered mine this year, yes I have set limits that move accordingly "

ahh here I just checked,, don't move then too much,, please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not particularly, aslong as we click on a maturity level thats all that matters.i dont like 'teen' looking women so early 20s upwards.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I actually havnt moved by limits on here in settings (must do list) I ment in my head as I browse/perp profiles I find I'm gravitating towards older by 5 to 8 years. "

We tend to gravitate to the 55 plus âgé range although our settings are wider. I don't know if tastes change or you see things differently as you get older maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah totally agree, I also find that women of a similar age are that much more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, still prefer men in their late thirties/forties.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Always preferred an older man, my upper age limit has for manoeuvre give or take a few years however my lower age limit remains at 5yrs younger than I am and I doubt that would change.

I’m an old soul trapped in a late 30yr olds body, I want someone I can converse with over and above most things - banter and common interests are important to me and I find my interests/mindset seem’s to favour those in the 40+ age bracket xx

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I actually like younger than I once did. Not too young though. 35+"
so the starting age of the middle aged range so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope my age rateing will probably stay the same for a long time 20-60

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Manchester/ Cheshire border

"Always preferred an older man, my upper age limit has for manoeuvre give or take a few years however my lower age limit remains at 5yrs younger than I am and I doubt that would change.

Ah damn…. I’m still too bloody old!!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My lower age limit will always be 10 years above my eldest child. I've never changed my upper limit because I've never met a woman older than me.

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By *hris 62Man
over a year ago

HEREFORD

Move my upper age ranger as the years go by ,some of the older lady nowadays in better shape than some of the young ones

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

It is a little different for me as there are ony 2 ladies on

here older than me within a 500 mile radius so no point in setting my upper limit higher than my age.

My lower limit is set at 40 wnich when set was 10 years older than my daughter, I am about to change it to 45 or possibly 50, that would bring my inbox to an abrupt halt

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yep. I've gone up to 60 (if I remember correctly) and gone from 30 to 35 for men. I've not really aged much but I have realised I do prefer men older than me - even 35 might be too young for me (for men).

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Yep. I've gone up to 60 (if I remember correctly) and gone from 30 to 35 for men. I've not really aged much but I have realised I do prefer men older than me - even 35 might be too young for me (for men)."

well please please don't move it over 42,,

Give a man a life line here Mel ffs,

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Thanks for the reminder I haven’t altered mine this year, yes I have set limits that move accordingly

ahh here I just checked,, don't move then too much,, please

You’ll still be in range

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By *ingle To MingleMan
over a year ago

Swalwell

Mine have crept slowly older. Now it's generally 40+ although a mature minded younger person/couple would be fine too.

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Thanks for the reminder I haven’t altered mine this year, yes I have set limits that move accordingly

ahh here I just checked,, don't move then too much,, please

Phew,,,

Thats the nicest thing anyone said to me today,

You’ll still be in range

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

I seem to be drawn to men either the same age or younger than me ... maybe it's because I'm trying to repel growing up?!

Midlife crisis anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weirdly since rejoining I would much prefer people around my own age. I keep my preferences pretty wide though because it’s good to keep an open mind- upper age isn’t a huge deal to me. In terms of lower age limit. I think it’s perfectly normal for that to change as you get older. When I was 21, 19 year olds were in the year below me at uni. Now I wouldn’t be interested in anyone that young and would prefer a smaller lower age gap.

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I seem to be drawn to men either the same age or younger than me ... maybe it's because I'm trying to repel growing up?!

Midlife crisis anyone?

have you thought of buying a Porsche or Hartley yet??

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I am happy to go around 8yrs younger and 5 or 6 older, maybe more with the right person/people.

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

My age limits have always been set the same, but over the years virtually all my playmates have been around the same age or older than me - only a few were younger, and not massively so...

....as I've got older, I've tended to mainly garner interest from similar age groups as before - although I now seem to be attracting the attention of a few considerably younger women...

....and as for the older ladies, it's now getting increasingly difficult for me to be the younger man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally older or just a few years younger. Age isn't that much of an issue for me though, it's more their maturity level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady’s same age or older

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My age range is set 10 years either side of my age. I don't want to fuck someone young enough to be my son (don't care how mature they claim to be) or someone old enough to be my father.

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"My age range is set 10 years either side of my age. I don't want to fuck someone young enough to be my son (don't care how mature they claim to be) or someone old enough to be my father."
this

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

"Is this the same for the rest of you folks who have been here a while? "

Pretty much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved my lower limit up as I got older. The upper limit has never really changed as I have always enjoyed older women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines 10 years either side on here, however that may change in a club when meeting someone.

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Is this the same for the rest of you folks who have been here a while?

Pretty much"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found that as I get older on here my age limits have moved on with me, older on opposite sides of the scale.

I mean I still look at fab pics and say wow but if the profile is in their 20's, now I'm like nope,and likewise at the other end of the scale, I find older womens profiles super hot.

Is this the same for the rest of you folks who have been here a while? "

Mine has gone up a bit. Lol

Sure we are getting older

still not attracted to youngsters though.

might come after couple of years

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Mines 10 years either side on here, however that may change in a club when meeting someone. "
a club,, wtf is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mines 10 years either side on here, however that may change in a club when meeting someone. a club,, wtf is that

Haha

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Not changed mine. Very wide and I let the person dictate my interest.

There are some very worldly people a lot younger than I am.

There are some very young thinking elders.

I take each as an individual and see what occurs.

Age is one of the factors that is intangible and as I dont have kids, I don't have that subliminal bar set for me.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Have not changed mine since joining, never even crossed my mind, would never go younger though.

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Everybody moves their goalposts as they get older.

Except Rupert Murdoch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My preference is for +/- 5 years, but I'm happy to consider a wider range...

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Have not changed mine since joining, never even crossed my mind, would never go younger though."
whattttt,

Surely you would make an expectation

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

"Have not changed mine since joining, never even crossed my mind, would never go younger though. whattttt,

Surely you would make an expectation

Sorry I meant younger than the age stated on my profile, your safe x

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Have not changed mine since joining, never even crossed my mind, would never go younger though. whattttt,

Surely you would make an expectation

Sorry I meant younger than the age stated on my profile, your safe x"
well thank FFFFFKKKK for that, pheww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar."

Yes - you should change your upper limit to 52 (Whistles innocently).

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

"Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar."

Oooooft.

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar."
as all the young bucks sit upright to attention lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever since my 20s I've always tended to go for guys in their late 30s/40s. I have a bit of a dilemma now that I'm catching up/overtaking! I might be heading for a future as a cougar.

Yes - you should change your upper limit to 52 (Whistles innocently).

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I seem to be drawn to men either the same age or younger than me ... maybe it's because I'm trying to repel growing up?!

Midlife crisis anyone?

have you thought of buying a Porsche or Hartley yet?? "

... went for a Triumph Daytona

Any other midlife toy suggestions appreciated

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I definitely consider older ladies than I once did although I haven't entirely written off the young'uns

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

My upper age limit creeps up as my age does, but my lower limit stays pretty much the same

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

So safe to say I'm not alone here so,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, they've got closer together

These days, I am so fussy it's untrue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself i dont like anyone to be too much younger than me(i mean my son is 20) im leaning more towards older cpls/women but inked doesnt seem to have a preference with age.

(Miss)

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

As my sons ages move up, so does my preferences

Hence now 25 plus (thought I'd best get that in there)

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"As my sons ages move up, so does my preferences

Hence now 25 plus (thought I'd best get that in there)"

You are a gorgeous milf (thought I'd best get that in there)

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

I've always preferred older woman but now yes a lot older haha

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"As my sons ages move up, so does my preferences

Hence now 25 plus (thought I'd best get that in there)

You are a gorgeous milf (thought I'd best get that in there)"

Thank you Chunky xx

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"As my sons ages move up, so does my preferences

Hence now 25 plus (thought I'd best get that in there)

You are a gorgeous milf (thought I'd best get that in there)

Thank you Chunky xx"
I with Chunky on this 1,,

Wowzerrrr

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"As my sons ages move up, so does my preferences

Hence now 25 plus (thought I'd best get that in there)

You are a gorgeous milf (thought I'd best get that in there)

Thank you Chunky xx I with Chunky on this 1,,

Wowzerrrr"

Thank you

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"As my sons ages move up, so does my preferences

Hence now 25 plus (thought I'd best get that in there)

You are a gorgeous milf (thought I'd best get that in there)

Thank you Chunky xx I with Chunky on this 1,,

Wowzerrrr

Thank you

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no thanks needed, and if anything it's me who should be thanking you,,

Woke me right up,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My upper age limit creeps up as my age does, but my lower limit stays pretty much the same"

So last year it was 18-98?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I think mine will stay at 35-55 for a long time tbf with a few exceptions maybe, its a range that suits me well

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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

"I think mine will stay at 35-55 for a long time tbf with a few exceptions maybe, its a range that suits me well

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can't remember his reply as the Empire march theme is back inside his head,, and lightsabers going off all over the place,,, ahhh ffs.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have now reached the age where I feel guilty about being attracted to certain women.

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