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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m just forward

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it? "

Do you, OP? Go for it. What's the worst that could happen?

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Our hotlist is basically people way beyond our reach xD

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I’m just forward "

Not a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, today is not the day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it?

Do you, OP? Go for it. What's the worst that could happen?"

That is very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our hotlist is basically people way beyond our reach xD"

WonT know till you try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, today is not the day."

But why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, today is not the day.

But why? "

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, today is not the day.

But why?

Why not?"

Because

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah my hotlist is for untouchables, those too far away, and those who don’t post on the forum. None of whom will have increased chances of meeting just because 1 more guy says they fancy them out loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, today is not the day.

But why?

Why not?

Because "

Well, can't argue with that reasoning.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Nope, I've spoken to them all bar one, who is looking for men but I bloody love perving over the pics!

My hotlist isn't particularly extensive, which helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, today is not the day.

But why?

Why not?

Because

Well, can't argue with that reasoning. "

Nailed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just message them.

What’s the worst to happen. They say no, or laugh at the mere suggestion of my wanting to bump fun bits.

Either way, I’ll know.

Besides, I’ve been pleasantly surprised at the responses.

My advice. Make today the day, you never know.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Um yes. But let's just keep the fantasy going for a bit longer.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My hotlist is made up mostly of people I definitely don't want to talk to.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

There's one or two I will one day maybe talk to. Today is not that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, today is not the day."

Aw it's ok, take your time.I'm not going anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, how scary is that?!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No I'm up-to-date on all my wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve chatted with the majority of my hotlist, but my hotlist is comprised of people who post pretty pictures, rather than those I wish to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve chatted with the majority of my hotlist, but my hotlist is comprised of people who post pretty pictures, rather than those I wish to meet. "

You're pictures are lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the majority of my hotlist I've conversed with in some way. I'm in on anyones though (ha, if only) and we haven't spoken feel free to drop me a message (if filters allow). Or if we've spoken before and you want to chat again, do it

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

No what is the point being up front and honest best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve chatted with the majority of my hotlist, but my hotlist is comprised of people who post pretty pictures, rather than those I wish to meet.

You're pictures are lovely "

Aww, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today is not the day, as I can’t be arsed.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"No, today is not the day."

Yesterday was the day...I missed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, today is not the day.

Yesterday was the day...I missed it. "

You win some you lose some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve chatted with the majority of my hotlist, but my hotlist is comprised of people who post pretty pictures, rather than those I wish to meet. "

What’s the prettiest picture?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the majority of my hotlist I've conversed with in some way. I'm in on anyones though (ha, if only) and we haven't spoken feel free to drop me a message (if filters allow). Or if we've spoken before and you want to chat again, do it "

What we chatting about?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Today is not the day, as I can’t be arsed."

Lazy Sunday vibes ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve chatted with the majority of my hotlist, but my hotlist is comprised of people who post pretty pictures, rather than those I wish to meet.

You're pictures are lovely

Aww, thanks "

S'alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve chatted with the majority of my hotlist, but my hotlist is comprised of people who post pretty pictures, rather than those I wish to meet.

What’s the prettiest picture? "

Depends on the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today is not the day, as I can’t be arsed."

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today is not the day, as I can’t be arsed.

Lazy Sunday vibes ha "

Totally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most are to far away but still think wow. Never know might end up close at some point

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I've got someone on my hot list I've not contacted, I've got a thing for his thighs haha, I've fab'd a lot of his pictures but he's the other side of the country, he has viewed my profile though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve chatted with the majority of my hotlist, but my hotlist is comprised of people who post pretty pictures, rather than those I wish to meet.

What’s the prettiest picture?

Depends on the day "

Today…. Sunday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Today is not the day, as I can’t be arsed.

Lazy Sunday vibes ha

Totally! "

Booooo… get at ‘em ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've got someone on my hot list I've not contacted, I've got a thing for his thighs haha, I've fab'd a lot of his pictures but he's the other side of the country, he has viewed my profile though "

Who is he…. Maybe you can reach out to him….

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Hotlist is almost like a watch list for us so who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it? "

I wouldn't wait anyone to text me if I fancied them,I would text myself no harm...

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk


"I've got someone on my hot list I've not contacted, I've got a thing for his thighs haha, I've fab'd a lot of his pictures but he's the other side of the country, he has viewed my profile though

Who is he…. Maybe you can reach out to him…."

I've seen him on the forums I think he might work it out but who knows if he sees this or not

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By *etra43TV/TS
over a year ago

Gillingham


"No, I’m just forward "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hotlist is almost like a watch list for us so who knows "

A watch list? Or wish list?

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By *etra43TV/TS
over a year ago

Gillingham


"No, I’m just forward "

Me to, dont beat around the Bush,I know what I want and say so. Is that so shocking and puts people off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've got someone on my hot list I've not contacted, I've got a thing for his thighs haha, I've fab'd a lot of his pictures but he's the other side of the country, he has viewed my profile though

Who is he…. Maybe you can reach out to him….

I've seen him on the forums I think he might work it out but who knows if he sees this or not"

Fingers crossed for you….

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

A few.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A few."

Get messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but no and no..

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Gawd yes there is. Imagination is a wonderful thing and it was fuelled by a few cocktails last night.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"I’ve chatted with the majority of my hotlist, but my hotlist is comprised of people who post pretty pictures, rather than those I wish to meet.

You're pictures are lovely "

Totally agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got someone on my hot list I've not contacted, I've got a thing for his thighs haha, I've fab'd a lot of his pictures but he's the other side of the country, he has viewed my profile though "

I have thighs too....just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got someone on my hot list I've not contacted, I've got a thing for his thighs haha, I've fab'd a lot of his pictures but he's the other side of the country, he has viewed my profile though

Who is he…. Maybe you can reach out to him….

I've seen him on the forums I think he might work it out but who knows if he sees this or not"

All the guys on the other side of the country, with thigh pic’s, now checking…….

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

My hotlist is for stunning ladies who are out of my league who probably don’t want yet another guy telling them they’re the sexiest woman since Lady Godiva. If I have great cgats with them, they generally end up in the friends list. So hotlist is for the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently rejoined

Hotlist is growing very quickly, so plenty of beautiful women I want to message

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk


"I've got someone on my hot list I've not contacted, I've got a thing for his thighs haha, I've fab'd a lot of his pictures but he's the other side of the country, he has viewed my profile though

Who is he…. Maybe you can reach out to him….

I've seen him on the forums I think he might work it out but who knows if he sees this or not

All the guys on the other side of the country, with thigh pic’s, now checking……. "

Haha don't think I'm that popular though there's plenty of more interesting women on here than vanilla old me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hotlist is for stunning ladies who are out of my league who probably don’t want yet another guy telling them they’re the sexiest woman since Lady Godiva. If I have great cgats with them, they generally end up in the friends list. So hotlist is for the rest. "

But how do you know that you’re not exactly who they’ve been looking for unless you ask?

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it? "

I sent a line to all ladies and couples from my hotlist. Otherwise how would they know they are there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got someone on my hot list I've not contacted, I've got a thing for his thighs haha, I've fab'd a lot of his pictures but he's the other side of the country, he has viewed my profile though

Who is he…. Maybe you can reach out to him….

I've seen him on the forums I think he might work it out but who knows if he sees this or not

All the guys on the other side of the country, with thigh pic’s, now checking…….

Haha don't think I'm that popular though there's plenty of more interesting women on here than vanilla old me"

I like vanilla....Anything that can be associated with Mr Whippy isn't boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hotlist is for stunning ladies who are out of my league who probably don’t want yet another guy telling them they’re the sexiest woman since Lady Godiva. If I have great cgats with them, they generally end up in the friends list. So hotlist is for the rest. "

That Lady Godiva makes damned good chocolates.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. My hotlist is empty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. My hotlist is empty "

Why?

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Yes, and I've tried but all people of my sex are blocked.

Playing hard to get?

No matter

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I have two men on my hotlist and they both know

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No. My hotlist is empty

Why?"

No one interests me at the moment, or if they do they're on my friend list

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

The people on my hotlist are way out of my league.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone that hasn’t replied to this thread with the name Sam Tender is either kidding themselves or shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone that hasn’t replied to this thread with the name Sam Tender is either kidding themselves or shy."

You were on mine a long long time before we started talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’ve spoken to everyone on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone that hasn’t replied to this thread with the name Sam Tender is either kidding themselves or shy.

You were on mine a long long time before we started talking "

I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone that hasn’t replied to this thread with the name Sam Tender is either kidding themselves or shy.

You were on mine a long long time before we started talking

I know."

I'm not on yours yet, I know. I need to up my game picture wise. Working on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I firmly believe today is not the day - it's better to have them sitting on the list with at least some hope, than to tell them and get confirmation of rejection!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have two men on my hotlist and they both know "

Room for a third?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The people on my hotlist are way out of my league."

Never say never

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I usually talk to mine daily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two and they both chat in forums. But im not messaging them I've seen what they say to people ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist wouldn't find me hot. I just enjoy their pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone that hasn’t replied to this thread with the name Sam Tender is either kidding themselves or shy."

You're on my official to-do list.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"My hotlist wouldn't find me hot. I just enjoy their pics. "

Oh ye of little faith, I hope.

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By *lwaysonmymind!Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Should rename my hotlist to wish list as I do nothing but wish they would notice me. Have tried but that’s just how it goes unfortunately

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I doubt I’m on anyones hotlist and the only person on my hotlist in this thread is hippychick and we have spoken.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Anyone that hasn’t replied to this thread with the name Sam Tender is either kidding themselves or shy."

That sweet understated modesty is what got you on our hotlist

Your penis is what keeps you there

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"A few."

Nope. Unrequited lust is better than rejection.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"The people on my hotlist are way out of my league.

Never say never "
the thing is iv played with people I have thought where out of my league and they obviously where not I should probably have more confidence in myself but I’m a chicken.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The people on my hotlist are way out of my league.

Never say never the thing is iv played with people I have thought where out of my league and they obviously where not I should probably have more confidence in myself but I’m a chicken."

Come hard with the confidence …. Ooze it

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"The people on my hotlist are way out of my league.

Never say never the thing is iv played with people I have thought where out of my league and they obviously where not I should probably have more confidence in myself but I’m a chicken.

Come hard with the confidence …. Ooze it "
in person or in a club I do it’s just on hear I’m not confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not, I'll just keep browsing their profiles and have private thoughts about them.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I have two men on my hotlist and they both know

Room for a third? "

Taking a peek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am just going to say that if I am someone's crush that it would be lovely to be told... (DM if you feel more comfortable), who knows it could break the ice and a chat or more could develop. If nothing else I would have made a new fab friend.

I like to let people know if I have a crush, if it's not reciprocated then I hope to have at least made them smile.

NBVN x

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"I am just going to say that if I am someone's crush that it would be lovely to be told... (DM if you feel more comfortable), who knows it could break the ice and a chat or more could develop. If nothing else I would have made a new fab friend.

I like to let people know if I have a crush, if it's not reciprocated then I hope to have at least made them smile.

NBVN x"

You are on my hotlist and I’m sure we have spoken at some point

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

My hotlist is mixture of people I’d like to meet, I admire from afar and friends. I do pluck up the courage occasionally and msg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it? "

Maybe I'll be brave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The people on my hotlist are way out of my league.

Never say never the thing is iv played with people I have thought where out of my league and they obviously where not I should probably have more confidence in myself but I’m a chicken.

Come hard with the confidence …. Ooze it in person or in a club I do it’s just on hear I’m not confident "

How come?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably not, I'll just keep browsing their profiles and have private thoughts about them."

Don’t keep them private

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have two men on my hotlist and they both know

Room for a third?

Taking a peek "

Oh are you really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am just going to say that if I am someone's crush that it would be lovely to be told... (DM if you feel more comfortable), who knows it could break the ice and a chat or more could develop. If nothing else I would have made a new fab friend.

I like to let people know if I have a crush, if it's not reciprocated then I hope to have at least made them smile.

NBVN x"

I’d say I have a little fab crush on you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hotlist is mixture of people I’d like to meet, I admire from afar and friends. I do pluck up the courage occasionally and msg"

I’m

Waiting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it?

Maybe I'll be brave "

Do it!!! I’m sure they’ll be chuffed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am just going to say that if I am someone's crush that it would be lovely to be told... (DM if you feel more comfortable), who knows it could break the ice and a chat or more could develop. If nothing else I would have made a new fab friend.

I like to let people know if I have a crush, if it's not reciprocated then I hope to have at least made them smile.

NBVN x

You are on my hotlist and I’m sure we have spoken at some point "

Yes we have spoken about it

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few. I haven't told them though because they're miles away so I'm not quite sure what telling them would accomplish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quite a few. I haven't told them though because they're miles away so I'm not quite sure what telling them would accomplish."

Distance can be overcome? Both travel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is still empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it? "

Today, tomorrow, the day after….it will never be the day

I’ll just admire from afar and be that perve I always told myself I wouldn’t be haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hotlist is still empty"

No1 of interest to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a few. I haven't told them though because they're miles away so I'm not quite sure what telling them would accomplish.

Distance can be overcome? Both travel? "

That's true, I suppose there's no harm in sending a message out, I feel inspired

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quite a few. I haven't told them though because they're miles away so I'm not quite sure what telling them would accomplish.

Distance can be overcome? Both travel?

That's true, I suppose there's no harm in sending a message out, I feel inspired "

I’m

Here all week haha

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Yeah those on my hotlist are too far away for me to initiate anything really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is just my Perve List. I haven't directly spoken to any of them and likely never will.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Lord no far too shy for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it? "

Yep - my hotlist is full of them. Just don't ever get chance to meet/we're rarely on the same page at the same time so I just put them on there to perv at. C x

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

Most of my hotlist I've not messaged yet.

Fitness is crap due to back injury, lockdown and covid so waiting until I've got back to reasonable fitness level before trying to arrange a new meet.

Joys of long covid. Out of breath in minutes. Not conducive to a good fun night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not, I'll just keep browsing their profiles and have private thoughts about them.

Don’t keep them private"

I'm too shy to go public with them

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Hotlist is almost like a watch list for us so who knows

A watch list? Or wish list?

"
same difference hahaha

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"The people on my hotlist are way out of my league.

Never say never the thing is iv played with people I have thought where out of my league and they obviously where not I should probably have more confidence in myself but I’m a chicken.

Come hard with the confidence …. Ooze it in person or in a club I do it’s just on hear I’m not confident

How come? "
I think I’m better in person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hotlist is just my Perve List. I haven't directly spoken to any of them and likely never will. "

Not want to meet them? Fantasy better than reality?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lord no far too shy for that "

That’s why I started this thread lose the shy grab the bull by his horns

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably not, I'll just keep browsing their profiles and have private thoughts about them.

Don’t keep them private

I'm too shy to go public with them "

Whisper in my ear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hotlist is almost like a watch list for us so who knows

A watch list? Or wish list?

same difference hahaha "

Do you have a big list?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The people on my hotlist are way out of my league.

Never say never the thing is iv played with people I have thought where out of my league and they obviously where not I should probably have more confidence in myself but I’m a chicken.

Come hard with the confidence …. Ooze it in person or in a club I do it’s just on hear I’m not confident

How come? I think I’m better in person."

Well your profile is great

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"The people on my hotlist are way out of my league.

Never say never the thing is iv played with people I have thought where out of my league and they obviously where not I should probably have more confidence in myself but I’m a chicken.

Come hard with the confidence …. Ooze it in person or in a club I do it’s just on hear I’m not confident

How come? I think I’m better in person.

Well your profile is great "
well thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The people on my hotlist are way out of my league.

Never say never the thing is iv played with people I have thought where out of my league and they obviously where not I should probably have more confidence in myself but I’m a chicken.

Come hard with the confidence …. Ooze it in person or in a club I do it’s just on hear I’m not confident

How come? I think I’m better in person.

Well your profile is great well thank you "

Anytime

Great ink too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a crush but he is well aware of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I talk to them sometimes, but I dont think its mutual!

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"I have a crush but he is well aware of it "

No I'm not!

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Hotlist is almost like a watch list for us so who knows

A watch list? Or wish list?

same difference hahaha

Do you have a big list? "

Not massive but reasonably sized hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a crush but he is well aware of it

No I'm not! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I wished I was one of them, anyways just happy to stand on the side lines I'm so happy for you all I truly am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a couple on here. Mules away but do I tell them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a crush but he is well aware of it "

Lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I talk to them sometimes, but I dont think its mutual!"

Have you asked?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hotlist is almost like a watch list for us so who knows

A watch list? Or wish list?

same difference hahaha

Do you have a big list?

Not massive but reasonably sized hahah "

Above average?

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

They know… I’m forward enough to tell them and thick skinned enough to take the no’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be nervous to make the first move in real life, but not on here. Nothing ventured, nothing gained

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By *ulu and MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Is there a way to tell if You're on someone's hotlist? Quite flattering really

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Hotlist is almost like a watch list for us so who knows

A watch list? Or wish list?

same difference hahaha

Do you have a big list?

Not massive but reasonably sized hahah

Above average? "

What’s average???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be nervous to make the first move in real life, but not on here. Nothing ventured, nothing gained "

Internet is a brave place haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there a way to tell if You're on someone's hotlist? Quite flattering really "

They could tell you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hotlist is almost like a watch list for us so who knows

A watch list? Or wish list?

same difference hahaha

Do you have a big list?

Not massive but reasonably sized hahah

Above average?

What’s average??? "

I’m unsure … so many numbers out there that differ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is there anyone on your hotlist that you havent spoke to that you really like the look of …

But you just can’t bring yourself to message?

Is today the day to do it? "

Tried, but can't, I am blocked! (by her settings, not something I did

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

My hotlist consists of people who I admire but may not necessarily meet, posters of pretty pictures and who I don’t like to miss out on viewing when they upload new content - it’s mainly an easy perving tool however there are some on there who are now friends too xx

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Nobody on mine

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"My hotlist consists of people who I admire but may not necessarily meet, posters of pretty pictures and who I don’t like to miss out on viewing when they upload new content - it’s mainly an easy perving tool however there are some on there who are now friends too xx"

You aren't on any of my lists Dancer.

Somehow I still manage to find your new pics and fab them though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My hotlist consists of people who I admire but may not necessarily meet, posters of pretty pictures and who I don’t like to miss out on viewing when they upload new content - it’s mainly an easy perving tool however there are some on there who are now friends too xx"

Ooo I wonder if I’m on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just message them.

What’s the worst to happen. They say no, or laugh at the mere suggestion of my wanting to bump fun bits.

Either way, I’ll know.

Besides, I’ve been pleasantly surprised at the responses.

My advice. Make today the day, you never know. "

^^^ What this man said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My hotlist is for stunning ladies who are out of my league who probably don’t want yet another guy telling them they’re the sexiest woman since Lady Godiva. If I have great cgats with them, they generally end up in the friends list. So hotlist is for the rest.

But how do you know that you’re not exactly who they’ve been looking for unless you ask? "

I must stop agreeing with you today. It's beginning to look weird

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7


"My hotlist consists of people who I admire but may not necessarily meet, posters of pretty pictures and who I don’t like to miss out on viewing when they upload new content - it’s mainly an easy perving tool however there are some on there who are now friends too xx"

You were the first I added to mine.

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