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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question for people to think about.

I like older and younger long as they Respectful but very Naughty in the bed room but I find with younger gentleman they more try get it over Quicker but not all x

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By *95888Man
over a year ago

carlisle

I like older, it’s quite hard finding someone that likes younger though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I do get that alot and to be far

You body looks really lovely by the way

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

For us it's less about the age and more about the person. You meet so many people on here of so many different types that its would be unfair to discount anyone unless for particular reasons...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally older, less inhibitions, kinkier & tend to be more comfortable with their body. Ive found younger have been very vanilla especially on fab.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley


"Generally older, less inhibitions, kinkier & tend to be more comfortable with their body. Ive found younger have been very vanilla especially on fab. "

Ironic being vanilla while on this site!

Totally agree with what your saying though. Admittedly we often find thats the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older! Give me a silver fox over a young stud any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both. Depends on the lady and the attraction, mind and body and personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally older, less inhibitions, kinkier & tend to be more comfortable with their body. Ive found younger have been very vanilla especially on fab. "

I’ve found this to be the case too!

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Older ladies for me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Older men, women around my age for the most part - that's not set in stone though, I can find people attractive and enjoyable to spend time with regardless of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally older, less inhibitions, kinkier & tend to be more comfortable with their body. Ive found younger have been very vanilla especially on fab.

Ironic being vanilla while on this site!

Totally agree with what your saying though. Admittedly we often find thats the case"

I was having a convo with a friend on here and she agreed that sex has been very vanilla on here which tbh you wouldnt expect

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By *lassy2Couple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield


"For us it's less about the age and more about the person. You meet so many people on here of so many different types that its would be unfair to discount anyone unless for particular reasons..."
Generally agree with you on this, we get great messages from all ages!

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I prefer older to be honest. But saying that, it's more about the person and how well you connect with someone rather than the age really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of evidence to support the dirty 30's and naughty 40's re women we've met on here. I'm happy to do research on ladies in their 20's if required (only for the benifit of fab you understand)

My wife prefers the more mature male as long as they aren't a strange shape and can perform.

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Over 35 for me and definitely over 50. It's the drama with younger I've experienced and also my children are in their 20s and would never meet anyone in that age bracket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe under 40 for me so younger. Usually find lads 21-25 are horny no barriers want to fuck and cum job done. 25-30 some experience and through experience good fun and not so hung up about there sexuality. 30-40 not getting it at home and acting like a 21-25 year old though that said I have met some great guys and still do who just like to have sex with men.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's the match of personality and interests but I prefer same age and younger guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like very young guys,never did...a bit younger is OK...but its all really depends on their personalities.

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By *acksparrow99Man
over a year ago

London

Over 30s are usually best. They know what they want and are prepared to go to the trouble of getting it. Younger are cute, but still a bit undecided and often unreliable when it comes to meets. There are exceptions, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to want older women but ultimately I’m happy with finding someone I just connect with. In my experience people aren’t better (or worse) at sex based on age.

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By *rincessPuddleDuck22Woman
over a year ago

.•°°

I haven't been with anyone younger than me or even my own age, not that i would never.

Older guys know what they want aswell as making sure you're comfortable and satisfied too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly? It depends on the stamina of the individual, and the sexual chemistry you have together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both, and the young men I've met certainly haven't wanted it over with quickly. I don't think age has anything to do with that.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Agree - I think when I was younger I was a bit insecure about my body and probably focused more on what I wanted from sex. As you get older and more confident you have more to give

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I like to be attracted to the person I'm going to get naked with, nothing else.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I like older! Give me a silver fox over a young stud any day "

xx

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Loving this thread. Problem is, I'm even older than 'older'!!!

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Hmm I would appear to be in a minority in that I prefer those around my age(ish). Probably explains a lot re my fab experience so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would just depend on the person for me.

And age doesn't always guarantee they will be good in bed, I'm older and I'm a crap shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older! Give me a silver fox over a young stud any day "

*raises hand* hi there

I like both. As said before, older women seem to have less hang ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thinks its more about people you meet, the way they are.

But i prefer older, but being 49,its getting abit difficult finding an older lady(especially locally) who would like fwb, or just fun now and again. Especially on here.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

As long as they have a mature outlook on life and we have a mental connection.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Older or Similar age range tend to find at this age there is less mind games and people are open and honest with what they want x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I prefer 10 years either side of my age.

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By *nce bitten twice shy !Couple
over a year ago

Travelling

Any hole is a goal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the amount of ladies saying older

However looking at their profiles I believe I've now tipped into ancient

May start another thread about ancient guys.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Question for people to think about.

I like older and younger long as they Respectful but very Naughty in the bed room but I find with younger gentleman they more try get it over Quicker but not all x"

Not all of the younger guys like to finish quick

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Definitely older for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 52, only been with one older man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is but a no. I’d prefer to be with someone who’s experienced, with an assertive attitude and an abundance of stamina.

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By *oreveryoungkWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Over 30 but younger than me. Love a guy who looks after himself

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By *oreThanCurvyWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

I prefer a bit younger men. I find them more confident.

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By *uminmyhole69Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I rarely meet youngsters although I get messaged quite a bit as I think that because I am comfortable with my body and sexuality that they like the experience some one older brings to the table

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like older! Give me a silver fox over a young stud any day "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely older for me"

You my dear are ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u everyone for your beautiful words I just made my mind up mmm x

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By *ama bamaMan
over a year ago

dalkeith


"I like older, it’s quite hard finding someone that likes younger though "
Impressive cock for a young man

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By *each69Woman
over a year ago

doncaster

Both for me, but all ways safe sex

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Both can equally form various fantasies of mine but, main thing is the person makes me laugh

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Although we have a preferred age range it's not set in stone and since visiting clubs our perspective is more open as long as they are respectful and generally they are in that environment.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Older would be my preference, love a silver fox x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer older as they see through all the bullshit and already know what they want through experience and know how to use what they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like older! Give me a silver fox over a young stud any day "

Your very mature anyway from what I've seen and heard on chatroom , very intelligent and sensible

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By *4oldercplMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

When it comes to guys I’m only interested in older preferably over 50 but with women any age is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely older, both men and women, older the better I say.. within reason lol

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

My age and younger is what I aim for, I have a couple of friends older than me, but they're guys I've known for many years since we were all young!

Mid 30s guys are usually the sweet spot though, still open, not set in their ways, but respectful too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever dated and slept with older women.

I like to take my time...lots if foreplay.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Only ever dated and slept with older women.

I like to take my time...lots if foreplay."

That reads like only older women want long foreplay and will get it from you even if they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that I’m getting older, someone can be younger without being young.

I’d never in a million years have met someone 10 years younger than me when I was in my early 30s, but now I’m late 30s I probably would.

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think it has to be partly irrelevant. It’s all about the connection. I have met older and younger partners. Each wanted something different. My current partner is only 7 months younger but was a complete virgin when we met so it’s a reasonably vanilla lifestyle. Previous partner was 12 years younger and was more experienced than an adult entertainment star!!

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Older would be my preference, love a silver fox x"

And omg.....we LOVE you!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older, my fb is 69yo and she is the best ride iv ever had.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I Prefer men my age, give or take a few years either way.

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Either,

Within reason,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women usually have a dinner ready after sex

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth


"Older would be my preference, love a silver fox x"

Might need to reset your age specifications, not too many silver foxes under 50!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case, the first question is 'short?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older definatly, just my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

But probably younger my fave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit older. I find that younger men are immature x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a new version of ‘the price is right’?

Fab edition

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

10 years either side of my age seems to suit me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10 years either side of my age seems to suit me x"

Can I add two years to my actual age so that I qualify?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like younger but must be over 35.

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By *aseyjones7Man
over a year ago

leicestershire


"Is this a new version of ‘the price is right’?

Fab edition "

I think your thinking of "play your cards right"

Higher....lower

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I tend to stick around my age preferences sometimes I will go outside them but usually go above rather than below them.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Any age above 20 i dont mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this a new version of ‘the price is right’?

Fab edition

I think your thinking of "play your cards right"

Higher....lower "

Possibly, only remember it vaguely

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I've never really had any preference about age, but I'm starting to desire some fun with an older lady

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By *rince_B97Man
over a year ago

Wirral


"Question for people to think about.

I like older and younger long as they Respectful but very Naughty in the bed room but I find with younger gentleman they more try get it over Quicker but not all x"

I think for me it depends on connection. I’m a bit of an old soul so I tend to chat to and get on with people older than myself more but it all depends on the person, no matter what age.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes agree have met 33 year olds youngest and its over all to soon give me a 50 ish or up any day x

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By *atsausageMan
over a year ago

CHICHESTER

Older and younger.

Younger is good but older have more experiance and willing to try new things

Older women for me but wouldn't say no to an energetic experimental young lady if any of them interested

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Younger for dating, either if it’s more casual

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

These days .. younger .. the goal posts move around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really not overly bothered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both for us just depends on attraction and if we click.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the oast 10 years, I have only been with one woman who was youbger than me, only a 2 year gap.

All the other have been older, ranging from similar age to a 15 year gap.

On Saturday, I have a date with a 20 year old. That's a gap of 13 years.

As long as everyone doesn't mind the age gap, older or youbger doesn't matter to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to get on with women older than me better but I’ll happily speak away to anyone really

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Younger 100% I’ve never gone for anyone older than me & this is about fulfilling fantasies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either, whoever I have an attraction and chemistry with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older definitely!

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"Loving this thread. Problem is, I'm even older than 'older'!!! "

You and me both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both prefer younger. 21-35!

Although happy to be proved wrong….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Older would be my preference, love a silver fox x"

Just counted! I have 4 grey hairs. Does that count?

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