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Why are there no sexy male underwear...?

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington

OK, when I say sexy male underwear, I mean it in the most stereotypical masculine way possible, like something a barbarian or gladiator would wear ( ok maybe not to that extreme ). I know there are pink fluffy underwear for men (that's fine if you find that sexy, more power to you) but for me personally that's just not sexy ( at least not the type of sexy I want to feel like). Went to Ann Summers with a friend and I asked for sexy male underwear, and I was given a red thong with an elephant nose in front , how is that sexy? That's just comical rather than anything else . I envy women sometimes, honestly...you have so many options of underwear and lingerie you can choose from, us men have briefs and boxer briefs that look somewhat sexy on us, and don't get me started on the colours, because if it's not white, black, grey, dark grey, dark blue, dark green, dark red or shades of dark colours, it just doesn't look "manly". I know that times are changing and more men are breaking stereotypes, but are there any brands that make sexy male underwear and cater more towards men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you've found a gap in the market? When you need an accountant and photographer can you just remember me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It does exist but it's mostly marketed to gay men.

Some men you're lucky to get them in ones that don't have holes or stains so I'm guessing there's not a huge market for it with straight men unfortunately. There's more out there on the fetish side of things.

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

Hubby has some from a company called Blanc, that I like, they do a good range of colours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men care ware woman’s underwear to you know there’s nothing wrong with it

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I would say try deadgoodundies. But they are fricking expensive and all of the models on the site are oiled up Adonis’s.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Love honey have a big selection

Everything from camp, lace boxers, bumless, fancy dress, sheer boxers and some fetish type.

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Hubby has some from a company called Blanc, that I like, they do a good range of colours"

Just Googled it. I like some of their underwear...looks pretty decent actually.

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Men care ware woman’s underwear to you know there’s nothing wrong with it "

I beg your pardon?

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London


"Hubby has some from a company called Blanc, that I like, they do a good range of colours

Just Googled it. I like some of their underwear...looks pretty decent actually. "

They normally have offers on packs of three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found the same problem. Most “sexy” men’s underwear are marketed towards gay men. I have a few pairs of Box briefs. Didn’t even realise it was a “gay” brand when I bought them. Can’t remember how it’s spelt, but I used to buy some sexy stuff off a site called Kiniki (like I said, might be spelt entirely wrong)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men care ware woman’s underwear to you know there’s nothing wrong with it

I beg your pardon?"

Ha ha there’s no gender on underwear

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Not on mine, I have big comfy batman knickers on

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Men care ware woman’s underwear to you know there’s nothing wrong with it

I beg your pardon?

Ha ha there’s no gender on underwear "

OK I'm not getting into this debate with you over underwear , but I do believe there are underwear and lingerie that cater more towards the female demographic and underwear that cater more towards a male demographic

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I’ve got quite a few pairs of Hollister Lycra type boxers which work well.

I’ve also got several pairs of sheer boxers which C loves me in.

There are a lot of options now…it just depends on your definition of sexy underwear.

But I wouldn’t expect Ann Summers to have a good range at all

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men care ware woman’s underwear to you know there’s nothing wrong with it

I beg your pardon?

Ha ha there’s no gender on underwear

OK I'm not getting into this debate with you over underwear , but I do believe there are underwear and lingerie that cater more towards the female demographic and underwear that cater more towards a male demographic "

Sorry if I touched a nerv there was ment to be a light harted joke but ok

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Men care ware woman’s underwear to you know there’s nothing wrong with it

I beg your pardon?

Ha ha there’s no gender on underwear

OK I'm not getting into this debate with you over underwear , but I do believe there are underwear and lingerie that cater more towards the female demographic and underwear that cater more towards a male demographic

Sorry if I touched a nerv there was ment to be a light harted joke but ok "

You misunderstood my comment...there was no offence taken

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Definitely look on sites aimed towards gay men. They have much more choice! Colour and style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men care ware woman’s underwear to you know there’s nothing wrong with it

I beg your pardon?

Ha ha there’s no gender on underwear

OK I'm not getting into this debate with you over underwear , but I do believe there are underwear and lingerie that cater more towards the female demographic and underwear that cater more towards a male demographic

Sorry if I touched a nerv there was ment to be a light harted joke but ok

You misunderstood my comment...there was no offence taken "

Definitely think I did then sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red pants on men are nice.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Red pants on men are nice. "

That’s the first time I’ve ever heard a woman say that

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Anyone said leopard print thong yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Red pants on men are nice.

That’s the first time I’ve ever heard a woman say that "

Red man pants but Im probably still partial to red lady pants on a man too.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Red pants on men are nice.

That’s the first time I’ve ever heard a woman say that

Red man pants but Im probably still partial to red lady pants on a man too. "

Brazilian type.. ? They are my favourite to wear

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By *atangMan
over a year ago

bolton

I have red pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Jockmail, hellsinki athletic, pump, diesel.

I love mesh, sheer on a guy and wet look/PU and a few others.

PW

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By *vbride1963TV/TS
over a year ago

E.K . Glasgow

I've had lots of satin boxers in the past in many colours and designs .

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Get a pair of the old skool y-fronts and get creative

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

Save the hassle and just go commando

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"Save the hassle and just go commando "

That would be plan B

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I quite like the underwear you have on in your picture. I do understand you might like different choices though.

Definitely sounds like a business opportunity there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately the choice is lacking if you are shopping on the high street. Quite a few choices online that have already been mentioned.

I buy mesh or sheer colours from Amazon which look good and don’t look feminine. I have a pic wearing some on my profile.

T

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

I got mr some lovely wet look pants from love honey

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"I quite like the underwear you have on in your picture. I do understand you might like different choices though.

Definitely sounds like a business opportunity there."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Figleaves and oboy are good sites for male underwear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got mr some lovely wet look pants from love honey "

Is it manly to look incontinent?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, when I say sexy male underwear, I mean it in the most stereotypical masculine way possible, like something a barbarian or gladiator would wear ( ok maybe not to that extreme ). I know there are pink fluffy underwear for men (that's fine if you find that sexy, more power to you) but for me personally that's just not sexy ( at least not the type of sexy I want to feel like). Went to Ann Summers with a friend and I asked for sexy male underwear, and I was given a red thong with an elephant nose in front , how is that sexy? That's just comical rather than anything else . I envy women sometimes, honestly...you have so many options of underwear and lingerie you can choose from, us men have briefs and boxer briefs that look somewhat sexy on us, and don't get me started on the colours, because if it's not white, black, grey, dark grey, dark blue, dark green, dark red or shades of dark colours, it just doesn't look "manly". I know that times are changing and more men are breaking stereotypes, but are there any brands that make sexy male underwear and cater more towards men? "

How about pants made with a material that looks like raw meat but impregnated with the scent of 2-stroke engine oil and Swarfega.

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By *agic.M OP   Man
over a year ago

Orpington


"OK, when I say sexy male underwear, I mean it in the most stereotypical masculine way possible, like something a barbarian or gladiator would wear ( ok maybe not to that extreme ). I know there are pink fluffy underwear for men (that's fine if you find that sexy, more power to you) but for me personally that's just not sexy ( at least not the type of sexy I want to feel like). Went to Ann Summers with a friend and I asked for sexy male underwear, and I was given a red thong with an elephant nose in front , how is that sexy? That's just comical rather than anything else . I envy women sometimes, honestly...you have so many options of underwear and lingerie you can choose from, us men have briefs and boxer briefs that look somewhat sexy on us, and don't get me started on the colours, because if it's not white, black, grey, dark grey, dark blue, dark green, dark red or shades of dark colours, it just doesn't look "manly". I know that times are changing and more men are breaking stereotypes, but are there any brands that make sexy male underwear and cater more towards men?

How about pants made with a material that looks like raw meat but impregnated with the scent of 2-stroke engine oil and Swarfega. "

Sounds manly as f$%#. That would be the Chad of all male underwear

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Try AussieBum OP

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got mr some lovely wet look pants from love honey

Is it manly to look incontinent? "

Good point well made

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Y fronts

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

elephant ears and a trunk

Fair comment. Imagine women asking for sexy underwear and getting a thong with snake eyes and a flickering tongue ....

How long before someone says that's a turn on 5.....4.....3..2..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not intended as a political statement at all; but is the huge disparity in range and options between men and women also largely to do with marketing, a long history of objectification? Decades of soft porn and glamour photography etc. So Today there is a much bigger expectation and therefore market for female product vs male.

It is an interesting thought but I imagine the demand for “sexy” male underwear is niche. Then again it could well take off. Never though I’d see a bloke working in a makeup shop. But times are changing and tasted and options adapts. Still can’t see AP selling many £500 boxers though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" elephant ears and a trunk

Fair comment. Imagine women asking for sexy underwear and getting a thong with snake eyes and a flickering tongue ....

How long before someone says that's a turn on 5.....4.....3..2.."

A sense of humour is always a turn on

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

The market is dictated by supply

The reason there aren’t any is because most women aren’t really into that

That’s why you can find suits everywhere

Equality and stereotypes aren’t about trying to make everything the same. Women and men both seem to be attracted to different things, and so the market dictates that

Want an example? Go to the gay section of a sex website/store and you’ll find plenty of sexy underwear choices.

The truth is, if your at the point where a woman’s wants to see yoir underwear, she’s already into you. Something Lacey or frilly won’t add to that

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I asked a FB recently about this as i came to same conclusion not much about and I just assumed white cK or Levi’s boxers etc are the best and what women liked so I just buy them. What she showed me was kinda odd, like a mix of adventure / functional and fetish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite like the underwear you have on in your picture. I do understand you might like different choices though.

Definitely sounds like a business opportunity there."

Can you imagine the pitch on Dragon’s den?

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

I would add that men get a bum deal in underwear and clothing department.

Stereo typically you have socks, briefs/boxers, trouser/Jean, shirt/ t shirt, jumper/jacket.

Women get to full range shapes and the colours of the rainbow.

Only those men on the fringes explore, the rock, goth, lgbt etc.

Men. Be free. Be free to express yourself outside of the box.

There is a wonderful world of shape and colour there for you. If you let yourself be free...

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