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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

does age difference matter, being old enough to be there mum or dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No xx

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"does age difference matter, being old enough to be there mum or dad"

It matters for us.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A very definite yes for me. Hence why my age filters are set the way they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m currently sleeping with a woman twice my age- neither of us care. I think every individual person feels differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If both are comfortable then it's nobody else's business

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

No

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It matters to us but we don't care what other people do.

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By *moothshaftMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'll be watching this!

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

It's personal choice and personally I choose not to meet people I'm old enough to be the parent of or vice versa

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

some interesting thoughts i see alot of young ladies going for the much older guy

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Depends on what you mean by matter.

Overall no it doesn't matter. We can end up being attracted to almost anyone for many different reasons. If two people are attracted then what reason should they be told otherwise based upon opinion. Just as somebody may have no attraction to certain ages.

Age limits as a hard rule are bizzare to me (at least solid and none moving ones). A 30 year old is pretty much no different to a 31 year old, or a 50 year old from 51.they don't suddenly become something I'm not interested in once they gain that extra year under their belt.

I have age range on my profile, but they are most certainly guidelines rather than rules. The person will be of more interest to me than their age (over the legal age!). What I find is that the further from my own age I go the chances are I'd have less in common with them so the attraction will be reduced, but that doesn't mean I won't have things in common either. Between with plenty of people with a sizable age gap between us and worked out great.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"No xx"
hello

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By *oomerang73Man
over a year ago

Newton

I’ve always tended to find mature women sexy. Problem is now I’m not far of fifty so older ladies are harder to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter if you are both into each other.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Depends on what you mean by matter.

Overall no it doesn't matter. We can end up being attracted to almost anyone for many different reasons. If two people are attracted then what reason should they be told otherwise based upon opinion. Just as somebody may have no attraction to certain ages.

Age limits as a hard rule are bizzare to me (at least solid and none moving ones). A 30 year old is pretty much no different to a 31 year old, or a 50 year old from 51.they don't suddenly become something I'm not interested in once they gain that extra year under their belt.

I have age range on my profile, but they are most certainly guidelines rather than rules. The person will be of more interest to me than their age (over the legal age!). What I find is that the further from my own age I go the chances are I'd have less in common with them so the attraction will be reduced, but that doesn't mean I won't have things in common either. Between with plenty of people with a sizable age gap between us and worked out great. "

I don't find them bizarre at all. I have children in their 30's so I will never meet anyone even close to their ages.

It has no whatsoever to do with maturity or experience and everything to do with their age.

If that makes me ageist then so be it but I have no intention of ever breaking that rule.

In fact I take it so seriously that if I look at a profile and they are outside my age range I won't read it or look at the pics because we don't have anything in common regardless of how good their profile is.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it matters. We like meeting people of a similar age to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

For me Yes. Prefer a few years older than my son and someone younger than me

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

When younger I was attracted to older men, as in about 10-15 years older than me. As I’ve gotten older I find I am enjoying spending time with younger men - again on average about 10-15 years younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when it comes to attraction age doesn’t really matter…

I have found tho that it becomes a problem when two people are walking two paths in life, example. One is in the middle of their career and the other is thinking about retiring . (Even energy level wise)

I think differences become more evident and it can dig into the relationship and create some problems that will put into deciding what to do about the relationship.

Also 5-10 years difference (+/-) isn’t all that, generation wise. While 20 , I think there are less things in common or that someone can relate to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board."

Be careful. I got a forum ban for saying something similar.

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

Yes for me. I've got no interest in being with anyone young enough to be my child or my parent.

But each to their own.

Posh

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, matters to me.

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

For fucking or relationships?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their

Just saying

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yes matters to me that's why I haven't chosen 99

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"Their

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not at all. If you're both attracted to one and other who cares. Plus you never know, you might be missing out.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

It does to me, if they are younger than my son, it's not happening.

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By *haggydogMan
over a year ago

Brooklands/London

I like an age gap. It's something I've always enjoyed.

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By *londenewcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

We wish it was different in that we feel time has been stolen from us. Other than that we don’t give it a second thought

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board."

I do not post on certain posts . This comment has puzzled me. There are many females on here who have profiles and have 18 -99 age limits. I think I have seen other threads ? Where females have actual stated having sex with just above legal age limit .Even though a lot older. So that has to be creepy and weird ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it matters to me.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board."

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, it matters to me."

So oldies like me are consigned to the fab waste bin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does age difference matter, being old enough to be there mum or dad"

Wouldn't be my thing I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, it matters to me.

So oldies like me are consigned to the fab waste bin?"

Not at all... I prefer older x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, it matters to me.

So oldies like me are consigned to the fab waste bin?

Not at all... I prefer older x "

Oldies but goodies.

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By *ascal1475Man
over a year ago

york

I have a fetish for older. Once in my 20,s I was working at a house. And they had a cleaner. She was 62 but a really fancied her. Anyway she caught me ogling her large tits. Instead of telling me of, she asked if I’d like to suck them. Which lead to a really naughty afternoon. And It’s been a thing of mine ever since.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

It certainly doesn't matter, but we all have our preferences. Personally I like my age or younger- I haven't yet been attracted to anyone older than me, but never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think it matters.

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

As long as you both enjoy

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I’m currently sleeping with a woman twice my age- neither of us care. I think every individual person feels differently. "

^ He likes sleeping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally it doesn't matter, I had better fun with large age difference ladies

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I guess I prefer older but age really isn’t a deal to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m currently sleeping with a woman twice my age- neither of us care. I think every individual person feels differently.

^ He likes sleeping."

Missed this. I was asleep.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

My FWB is 33 years younger than me. When we are together I don’t think about it, it’s two adults enjoying themselves. If we are out in public we get a few looks particularly from young guys but she’s not bothered and neither am I.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me.

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By *acksparrow99Man
over a year ago

London

No. I've met a 22 year old recently and she was as filthy as I am.

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

It matters to me.

Anyone young enough to my children's age or old enough to my parents age is a no, why I have age filters.

What anyone else does as long as its legal & consensual is their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well been hard to meet older than me past few years as covid shut the old people's home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've reached the age where looking in the mirror is like checking the news. I know there'll be some new developments I won't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well been hard to meet older than me past few years as covid shut the old people's home "

A little creepy but did make me chortle!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I prefer guys of a similar age to myself or younger, but not fussed what other people do. It's up to the individual. We all have different preferences.

I've not spoken to guys at clubs as they looked too young and I thought they wouldn't be interested in me, but I guess you don't know unless you ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older men but for

Women i prefer them around my age or slightly younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relationship wise, an age gap to me matters. I’d want someone similar age to me. I dated a woman 15 years younger than me when about 15 years ago. As good as it was, there were things in every day life that showed our age gap and we eventually split. As for a fuck buddy, any age above legal is good to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to me

My OH is 24 years younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction. "

Cos older men are perves, older women are 'cougars'

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I guess if it's just sex then there will be some men and women happy to fuck someone young enough to be their daughter/son etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction. "

I wouldn't say creepy but I would wonder if there is a power imbalance - that also goes for an older woman with a teenage boy. I say that as a parent of an 18yo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction.

I wouldn't say creepy but I would wonder if there is a power imbalance - that also goes for an older woman with a teenage boy. I say that as a parent of an 18yo. "

My OH out earns me by 30k a year, yet strangers still put me in the 'sugar daddy' category

It is just unfeasible to some why a young, attractive, career successful person would get into a relationship with an old, fat, slaphead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction.

I wouldn't say creepy but I would wonder if there is a power imbalance - that also goes for an older woman with a teenage boy. I say that as a parent of an 18yo.

My OH out earns me by 30k a year, yet strangers still put me in the 'sugar daddy' category

It is just unfeasible to some why a young, attractive, career successful person would get into a relationship with an old, fat, slaphead"

Don't come across many teens who are career successful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction.

I wouldn't say creepy but I would wonder if there is a power imbalance - that also goes for an older woman with a teenage boy. I say that as a parent of an 18yo.

My OH out earns me by 30k a year, yet strangers still put me in the 'sugar daddy' category

It is just unfeasible to some why a young, attractive, career successful person would get into a relationship with an old, fat, slaphead

Don't come across many teens who are career successful "

You get my drift though

As I am older and less conventionally attractive, there is a line of thought that the younger, more attractive one is there for the money and the lifestyle

Like it isn't even feasibly possible that there could be a physical attraction or any true love there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction.

I wouldn't say creepy but I would wonder if there is a power imbalance - that also goes for an older woman with a teenage boy. I say that as a parent of an 18yo.

My OH out earns me by 30k a year, yet strangers still put me in the 'sugar daddy' category

It is just unfeasible to some why a young, attractive, career successful person would get into a relationship with an old, fat, slaphead

Don't come across many teens who are career successful

You get my drift though

As I am older and less conventionally attractive, there is a line of thought that the younger, more attractive one is there for the money and the lifestyle

Like it isn't even feasibly possible that there could be a physical attraction or any true love there "

I hadn't suggested that this couldn't be true. But if one of my teens was involved with someone far older I'd have some doubts to start. I think some people can still be very vulnerable in their teens and early twenties until they have some more life experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction.

I wouldn't say creepy but I would wonder if there is a power imbalance - that also goes for an older woman with a teenage boy. I say that as a parent of an 18yo.

My OH out earns me by 30k a year, yet strangers still put me in the 'sugar daddy' category

It is just unfeasible to some why a young, attractive, career successful person would get into a relationship with an old, fat, slaphead"

Maybe it's because you dress like Elton John when you're out together.

You're both fucking gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction.

I wouldn't say creepy but I would wonder if there is a power imbalance - that also goes for an older woman with a teenage boy. I say that as a parent of an 18yo.

My OH out earns me by 30k a year, yet strangers still put me in the 'sugar daddy' category

It is just unfeasible to some why a young, attractive, career successful person would get into a relationship with an old, fat, slaphead

Maybe it's because you dress like Elton John when you're out together.

You're both fucking gorgeous. "

We are the Elton and David of Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does age difference matter, being old enough to be there mum or dad"

I wouldn't shag someone old enough to be my mum or dad. Fucking someone young enough to be my son though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

Why is it creepy? And why older man/younger woman but not older woman/younger man?

Mutual attraction is mutual attraction.

I wouldn't say creepy but I would wonder if there is a power imbalance - that also goes for an older woman with a teenage boy. I say that as a parent of an 18yo.

My OH out earns me by 30k a year, yet strangers still put me in the 'sugar daddy' category

It is just unfeasible to some why a young, attractive, career successful person would get into a relationship with an old, fat, slaphead

Maybe it's because you dress like Elton John when you're out together.

You're both fucking gorgeous.

We are the Elton and David of Manchester "

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By *each69Woman
over a year ago

doncaster

Not for me,

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nope. If they don't have a problem, I don't have a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, I much prefer older guys, age just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as my son is 34 this year I’m letting the numbers slide a bit now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im 56 my partner is 78. Two years older than my mum. We have been together 15 years and it doesnt bother my family and friends at all

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Seeing as my son is 34 this year I’m letting the numbers slide a bit now "

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Either way, you still look amazing. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seeing as my son is 34 this year I’m letting the numbers slide a bit now

•

Either way, you still look amazing. x"

thanks. I creak a bit now tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as your both adults and have each others consent then age is nothink more than a number , each to their own and whatever floats your boat

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea


"Yes, it matters to me.

So oldies like me are consigned to the fab waste bin?

Not at all... I prefer older x "

Where were you when I was working in Barrow in Furness? Sadly fab wasn't around back then.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Fortunately for me (LB) we both don't care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does age difference matter, being old enough to be there mum or dad"

I have never dated a female older than me in my life as age is only a number, biggest age gap was was 25 years she was 25 i was 50.

I'm 12 years older than Jane and its never been an issue , she keeps me younger looking and I'm lucky she finds me attractive even though I know I'm punching well above myself being with her.

If 2 people are happy and in love good on them age shouldn't cone into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it really depends what the “relationship” is. Personally with having a son that’s half my age I couldn’t do it but would consider older then me

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By *ulu and MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Doesn't matter for a shag anyway

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

We don’t find age to be a particular issue.

It’s more how we connect with will in turn influence whether we play.

Experience has shown older guys are most respectful in general.

There was one occasion fairly recently where a random young fella just approached us and asked would you like to find a room ! We just told him NO.

On that same evening a much older chap asked if it was ok to sit next to us. He seemed nice so we said it was ok. Conversation just flowed. Inevitably after best part of an hour we were asked if we are interested in going further? Let’s just say it ended with Cat’s first spontaneous threesome.

To this day we don’t know how old as we didn’t ask but hazarding a guess he’s got to be at least 60. We do intend on finding out as he is regular at that club. C’s parents are within the same age range.

The beauty of this lifestyle is it allows you to explore and push boundaries and do things you wouldn’t ever think of doing ordinarily.

Sex with an older playmate is not the same as committing to a relationship ! That’s a different ball game entirely.

So yes we generally prefer older playmates here.

Can anyone else particularly girls relate to this ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter for a shag anyway "

Matters to some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does matter to me yeah. I don't like to go younger than me at all, and I definitely wouldn't go as far as my dad's age. 40-45 is my sweet spot.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes. It matters to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've played with ladies from early 30s to late 50s so no not really.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

It matters to me. I have my filters set for that reason. They aren't particularly narrow - there's a 20 year age range there.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

well, we are 10 years apart so we would say nope.

We have met with slightly younger than us and slightly older than us, no problems.

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By *oungcoup69Couple
over a year ago

hidden garden

Age is less of a concern to us. Attraction is the big thing. You could have a 20 year old who hasn't taken care of them selves and looks old enough to be my nan or you could have someone in their 50s who looks like they are in their 30s.

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By *uscle88Man
over a year ago

Potters Bar

Not for me. Love 40+ was fucking my mates auntie a while back. Love cougars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don’t find age to be a particular issue.

It’s more how we connect with will in turn influence whether we play.

Experience has shown older guys are most respectful in general.

There was one occasion fairly recently where a random young fella just approached us and asked would you like to find a room ! We just told him NO.

On that same evening a much older chap asked if it was ok to sit next to us. He seemed nice so we said it was ok. Conversation just flowed. Inevitably after best part of an hour we were asked if we are interested in going further? Let’s just say it ended with Cat’s first spontaneous threesome.

To this day we don’t know how old as we didn’t ask but hazarding a guess he’s got to be at least 60. We do intend on finding out as he is regular at that club. C’s parents are within the same age range.

The beauty of this lifestyle is it allows you to explore and push boundaries and do things you wouldn’t ever think of doing ordinarily.

Sex with an older playmate is not the same as committing to a relationship ! That’s a different ball game entirely.

So yes we generally prefer older playmates here.

Can anyone else particularly girls relate to this ??

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Anyone ive met, older or younger has been respectful, i can tell within a few messages if they know how what respectful is

Met 2 guys under 30 since ive been here, absolute gents, that great balance of humility with serious skills

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By *etra43TV/TS
over a year ago

Gillingham


"does age difference matter, being old enough to be there mum or dad"

Absolutely not

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara

Nope, attraction is attraction, age doesn't come into it.

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By *etra43TV/TS
over a year ago

Gillingham


"It depends. An older man sleeping with a teenage girl - even when she is above the age of consent - is creepy and weird.

Older than that, anything goes, as long as everyone is happy and on board.

I do not post on certain posts . This comment has puzzled me. There are many females on here who have profiles and have 18 -99 age limits. I think I have seen other threads ? Where females have actual stated having sex with just above legal age limit .Even though a lot older. So that has to be creepy and weird ? "

Shows a narrow mind in your case, it's attraction not age

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"does age difference matter, being old enough to be there mum or dad"

I’ve been with men old enough to be my grandpa! Age is just a number

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By *erenity20Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

For play, I don't have a top age limit but I draw the line at the under 30s...

Having said that, people are too ageist and you can't help who you fall for....

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Age isn't a factor however I am attracted to younger it seems, its because I still think I'm 21

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By *he AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara


"Age isn't a factor however I am attracted to younger it seems, its because I still think I'm 21 "
and you look it 2

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By *ftereightMan
over a year ago

SouthEast

We wont meet anyone under 25, but we have no upper age limit.. Doris aged 93 might be a tough call though

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Age isn't a factor however I am attracted to younger it seems, its because I still think I'm 21 and you look it 2 "

Aww aha thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a thing, part me thinks am 21 other part 91 depending on the day! As long as click with someone it really isn't an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah to a point.

We had a very charming couple approach is but as they were half our age (and very attractive - far out of our league) we'd have just felt really awkward.

Each to their own though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I’d never meet someone more than 10 years younger!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Nope, attraction is attraction, age doesn't come into it. "

It does for me. Even if I am attracted to someone, if I found they were young enough to be my son then it would be a no no.

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