FabSwingers.com forum: Spend it or save it?

By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I've just been paid back some money by a friend. If I'm honest, I wasn't expecting it back and had written it off so it's a nice surprise and a bonus (mid 2 figures as opposed to something life chamging).

So..... do I do the sensible thing and hold on to it until needed or until my next road trip in 3 weeks..... or do I blow it on a glass butt plug and some new underwear?

Or do I do something else with it?

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Posh

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Road trip money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend it.... tomorrow is never promised

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I've just been paid back some money by a friend. If I'm honest, I wasn't expecting it back and had written it off so it's a nice surprise and a bonus (mid 2 figures as opposed to something life chamging).

So..... do I do the sensible thing and hold on to it until needed or until my next road trip in 3 weeks..... or do I blow it on a glass butt plug and some new underwear?

Or do I do something else with it?

Gimme some ideas fabbers!

Posh

Save it for petrol fro next month.

Be sensible, Posh! X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

spend it, unless you have no savings at all.

Serious aside I'm watching my very old parents sit on money they could be using to make their life way more comfortable. Enjoy it now and use it to make your life more pleasurable

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Well it depends how much you have day to day.

I'm going to be a bore and say save it - putting it towards good experiences with friends is more memorable than putting it in your arse.

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Road trip money "

See Peach.... you're basically my guru.... so I can't argue with that dammit.

But the pretty knickers

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Spend it.... tomorrow is never promised "

That's been my mantra all my life....

This is why I'm so skint all the time

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

So..... do I do the sensible thing and hold on to it until needed or until my next road trip in 3 weeks..... or do I blow it on a glass butt plug and some new underwear?

Or do I do something else with it?

Gimme some ideas fabbers!

Posh

Save it for petrol fro next month.

Be sensible, Posh! X"

New phone.... who dis?

(

that's the sensible option)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it depends how much you have day to day.

I'm going to be a bore and say save it - putting it towards good experiences with friends is more memorable than putting it in your arse."

too funny. Meli has a very valid point Posh. Keep hold of it until you really need to spend it

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"spend it, unless you have no savings at all.

Serious aside I'm watching my very old parents sit on money they could be using to make their life way more comfortable. Enjoy it now and use it to make your life more pleasurable

Can I ignore the "unless you have no savings at all" part.....

Can you not convince them to use it? It's so hard when they get to that stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're very lucky to get that money back. Treat yourself to that road trip! An ex owes me over a grand but I wrote that off a long time ago. I was lucky to get back 300. Enjoy it OP, whatever you decide x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Road trip money

See Peach.... you're basically my guru.... so I can't argue with that dammit.

But the pretty knickers

No you can't argue.

My logic is this. You have the road trip covered now, so if something financial happens (anything, new fridge needed say) you will hopefully afford both and not need to blow off the road trip to cover the unexpected expense.

Whereas if you don't put it to one side and spend it, you wouldn't have it there ready and waiting so would need to then afford the new fridge AND the road trip out of the same income.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"spend it, unless you have no savings at all.

Serious aside I'm watching my very old parents sit on money they could be using to make their life way more comfortable. Enjoy it now and use it to make your life more pleasurable

Can I ignore the "unless you have no savings at all" part.....

Can you not convince them to use it? It's so hard when they get to that stage."

you can ignore it, we spent the first fifty odd years of our life with nothing more than what we had in our wallets.

Trust me if I could convince my parents of anything I would

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Well it depends how much you have day to day.

I'm going to be a bore and say save it - putting it towards good experiences with friends is more memorable than putting it in your arse."

Putting it in my arse *could* be memorable....

But talking out of myvarse with the bunch of degenerates I'll be seeing next month will be more memorable I guess.

Dammit. This is not going how I'd hoped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend it. I don't get people who live for tomorrow when it might never happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spend it. I don't get people who live for tomorrow when it might never happen. "

Plus it isn't life changing so I wouldn't even give it a second thought.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

ok, how about spending half?

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Well it depends how much you have day to day.

I'm going to be a bore and say save it - putting it towards good experiences with friends is more memorable than putting it in your arse.

too funny. Meli has a very valid point Posh. Keep hold of it until you really need to spend it "

I thought I could rely on you for taking the blow it option

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"You're very lucky to get that money back. Treat yourself to that road trip! An ex owes me over a grand but I wrote that off a long time ago. I was lucky to get back 300. Enjoy it OP, whatever you decide x"

I really am.

Someone else owes me £1800 and I doubt I'll ever see it.

This is £50..... and I was gobsmacked.

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Road trip money

See Peach.... you're basically my guru.... so I can't argue with that dammit.

But the pretty knickers

No you can't argue.

Whereas if you don't put it to one side and spend it, you wouldn't have it there ready and waiting so would need to then afford the new fridge AND the road trip out of the same income.

And this is why you're my guru. Even when you know I know the logic and you know I'm just trying so hard to pretend it isn't the sensible thing to do..... you still are patient enough to spell out the logic.

Dammit. I'm gonna have to save it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really am.

Someone else owes me £1800 and I doubt I'll ever see it.

This is £50..... and I was gobsmacked."

It might only be £50 but it's better off in your pocket x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it depends how much you have day to day.

I'm going to be a bore and say save it - putting it towards good experiences with friends is more memorable than putting it in your arse.

too funny. Meli has a very valid point Posh. Keep hold of it until you really need to spend it

I thought I could rely on you for taking the blow it option

I can do sensible occasionally

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"spend it, unless you have no savings at all.

Serious aside I'm watching my very old parents sit on money they could be using to make their life way more comfortable. Enjoy it now and use it to make your life more pleasurable

Can I ignore the "unless you have no savings at all" part.....

Can you not convince them to use it? It's so hard when they get to that stage.

you can ignore it, we spent the first fifty odd years of our life with nothing more than what we had in our wallets.

Trust me if I could convince my parents of anything I would

I feel that pain. And apparently slapping them upside the head is frowned upon and doesn't work anyway

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Road trip money

See Peach.... you're basically my guru.... so I can't argue with that dammit.

But the pretty knickers

No you can't argue.

Whereas if you don't put it to one side and spend it, you wouldn't have it there ready and waiting so would need to then afford the new fridge AND the road trip out of the same income.

Dammit. I'm gonna have to save it now

Indeed.

And if you ain't got an unexpected expense land at your feet, you're laughing all the way to the petrol pump

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Do you need a glass butt plug and new underwear?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"spend it, unless you have no savings at all.

Serious aside I'm watching my very old parents sit on money they could be using to make their life way more comfortable. Enjoy it now and use it to make your life more pleasurable

Can I ignore the "unless you have no savings at all" part.....

Can you not convince them to use it? It's so hard when they get to that stage.

you can ignore it, we spent the first fifty odd years of our life with nothing more than what we had in our wallets.

Trust me if I could convince my parents of anything I would

I feel that pain. And apparently slapping them upside the head is frowned upon and doesn't work anyway

I suspect they felt the same about me when I was a teenager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Logically thing and sensible thing to do would be to save it

But on the other hand

Butt plug and lingerie is a hard one to beat

Even harder to beat when you can ware the butt plug and lingerie out on your trip

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Save it for the road trip missus! Then it'll definitely happen x

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Spend it. I don't get people who live for tomorrow when it might never happen.

Plus it isn't life changing so I wouldn't even give it a second thought. "

It was just such a surprise!

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"ok, how about spending half?"

I like that idea.....

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I really am.

Someone else owes me £1800 and I doubt I'll ever see it.

This is £50..... and I was gobsmacked.

It might only be £50 but it's better off in your pocket x"

It is. He would only blow it....

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Well it depends how much you have day to day.

I'm going to be a bore and say save it - putting it towards good experiences with friends is more memorable than putting it in your arse.

too funny. Meli has a very valid point Posh. Keep hold of it until you really need to spend it

I thought I could rely on you for taking the blow it option

I can do sensible occasionally

Stop it! It confuses me!

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Road trip money

See Peach.... you're basically my guru.... so I can't argue with that dammit.

But the pretty knickers

No you can't argue.

Whereas if you don't put it to one side and spend it, you wouldn't have it there ready and waiting so would need to then afford the new fridge AND the road trip out of the same income.

Dammit. I'm gonna have to save it now

Indeed.

And if you ain't got an unexpected expense land at your feet, you're laughing all the way to the petrol pump

It'll give me half a tank or more!

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"Do you need a glass butt plug and new underwear?"

Well obviously..... doesn't everyone?

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By *piderBunny OP Couple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"spend it, unless you have no savings at all.

Serious aside I'm watching my very old parents sit on money they could be using to make their life way more comfortable. Enjoy it now and use it to make your life more pleasurable

Can I ignore the "unless you have no savings at all" part.....

Can you not convince them to use it? It's so hard when they get to that stage.

you can ignore it, we spent the first fifty odd years of our life with nothing more than what we had in our wallets.

Trust me if I could convince my parents of anything I would

I feel that pain. And apparently slapping them upside the head is frowned upon and doesn't work anyway

I suspect they felt the same about me when I was a teenager "

This is the revenge of the parents!

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Cucumbers are what now? 50p and you can get a bargain 5 pack of knickers for a fiver from Asda Posh so get them and save the rest for your road trip....hell you can go mad and get 2 cucumbers for hours of DP onanist fun or if that doesn't batter your butthole, get a butternut squash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save. I sound like a bore but national insurance will be increasing along with many other bills. So it's handy to have something for a rainy day.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Save it.

If you put £20 a week away from now til next Xmas you will have almost £1k without trying.

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By *honabitvTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

spend it and enjoy tomorrow’s not guaranteed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You deserve to spend it on some treats, for being a lovely friend x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

So..... do I do the sensible thing and hold on to it until needed or until my next road trip in 3 weeks..... or do I blow it on a glass butt plug and some new underwear?

Or do I do something else with it?

Gimme some ideas fabbers!

Posh

Spend it on doing something nice with your friend...

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So..... do I do the sensible thing and hold on to it until needed or until my next road trip in 3 weeks..... or do I blow it on a glass butt plug and some new underwear?

Or do I do something else with it?

Gimme some ideas fabbers!

Posh

Shove it up your ass…. Literally.

Gotta love a glass butt plug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Road trip. If you see something you fancy on your trip then you can spend it then anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet me in 3 weeks and spend it on me. Thank you in advance.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Save for road trip.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Spend 1/3 & save the rest

We only finishing Jan the year is long & might need that money later on

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

So..... do I do the sensible thing and hold on to it until needed or until my next road trip in 3 weeks..... or do I blow it on a glass butt plug and some new underwear?

Or do I do something else with it?

Gimme some ideas fabbers!

Posh

As you appear so conflicted as to what to do with it I think the only real solution is to give it to me

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Any unexpected bonus I get, goes on, or towards something memorable. I'd never spend it on day to day stuff.

I'm sure you'll find something appropriate, Posh

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