FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a lazy lover?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A female friend of mine told me she is and just lets the bloke do all the work.

It kind of got me thinking, do you expect a partner to do everything or do you put in some work?

Because in my eyes if there is no work being put in, you may as well fuck a blow up doll.

What are your thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point if you are going to just lay there?

Good sex takes effort, amazing sex takes stamina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people just aren’t fussed with sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I just lie there as if stunned with a brick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favorite positions include me getting off my arse and putting effort in. So unfortunately not.

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over a year ago

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I'm more of a selfish lover

I shout out my own name wen I come ...lol x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've mentioned that on my profile funny enough. Not that I'm a lazy lover that I have no time for them

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"I'm more of a selfish lover

I shout out my own name wen I come ...lol x "

That's well funny mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the point if you are going to just lay there?

Good sex takes effort, amazing sex takes stamina

That’s what I was thinking, I mean if someone puts all the work in and you just let them do all the work that must be frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more of a selfish lover

I shout out my own name wen I come ...lol x "

Haha

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I'm more of a selfish lover

I shout out my own name wen I come ...lol x

That's well funny mate

Thanks m8 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's got to be a joint effort somewhere around 99% - 1% ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not, my favourite position is cowgirl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"some people just aren’t fussed with sex."

Even less so if there is no reciprocation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep. I just lie there as if stunned with a brick.

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My favorite positions include me getting off my arse and putting effort in. So unfortunately not."

And what a cracking arse it is too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im very lazy, i just my valet round

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Occasionally it is nice to be a bit of a pillow princess...but not often, and never for very long because I want to be more hands-on

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

There's gotta be mutual effort, otherwise I might as well whip out the fleshlight, and save myself some time. I have previously turned down second meets because of this kind of thing.

Its alright to have one party do all the work once in a while if you're in a relationship, or with a regular fuck buddy, but generally speaking both need to contribute.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

It's a long time since I had a partner other than my left hand, and neither of us can really be bothered making an effort for each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely not, my favourite position is cowgirl

I love that position too, but usually when I can lift up the woman on top and pound away rampantly. It sort of can steal control a bit, but it’s hot and fun to do.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I'm more of a selfish lover

I shout out my own name wen I come ...lol x

Haha

Happy 2 put a smile on a face x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I've had an orgasm, yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a long time since I had a partner other than my left hand, and neither of us can really be bothered making an effort for each other. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a lazy one.

Sometimes it's nice to just park it in there for a bit while you finish a good book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been liked to a belly dancer when on top.

I actually hate missionary. Love behind or doggy though.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

When he treats me to a full body with yoni massage yes I am a complete pillow princess because he wants me to me

Otherwise no

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, but I do make appreciative noises.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I didn't realise that you could actually describe sex in any form as being work. I would be more inclined to see good sex or bad sex, lazy sex or bed gymnastics, as being the ultimate recreational drug of choice producing a high that no substance can match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want someone who can do both.. take it like a bitch and give it to me like a bitch.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Yes, but I do make appreciative noises."

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, not at all. But sometimes yes.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s fine if I’m catching my breath, absorbing the o but we still aren’t finished or they want to take control, neither lasts a long time though as I’m hands on

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By *ategoodbyeMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I think that just about every lady I have been with has taken a mostly passive role. I’m not particularly assertive, so I assumed that most male/female sex sessions are still directed by the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no

Love to throw it back

Also love to ride on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh sometimes, depends on if he's ruined the mood by breathing...too loud

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

Depends who it’s with, sometimes it’s nice to not have to do anything, but it is a very rare occurrence!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm not bothered that much, if I have to direct for a couple of hours as long as we're having fun

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker

Yeah usually that's exactly it!!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Really ? I get mails offering to come into my house that I have left unlocked for them, to find me lying on my bed, legs akimbo in anticipation, they say I don't have to do anything, just lie back and they will give me the time of my life, expecting nothing in return

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker

Yeah usually that's exactly it!!

My postcode is .....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker

Yeah usually that's exactly it!!

I'd be happy for you to do that if you bounce on me between the jumping

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?

That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think there has to mutual effort and passion both ways or it’s boring but that doesn’t mean she has to do all the work physically or be on top , there’s plenty of ways to put effort in

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?

That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes

Is it! Damn I thought there were queues of men just waiting to perform this service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

Lazy lover

She'll get a hold on you believe it

Like no other

Before you know it you'll be on your knees

She's a lazy lover

She'll take your heart but you won't feel it

She's like no other

And I'm just trying to make you see

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

High energy and voracity from a woman is such a massive turn on tbh

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?

That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes

Is it! Damn I thought there were queues of men just waiting to perform this service

Sorry but no

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Just pull my nightie down when you’ve finished

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

No, I’m not a lazy lover…apart from when I’m hungover!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Lazy - never, but you can get on top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. I just lie there as if stunned with a brick.

Don't believe that

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?

That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes

Is it! Damn I thought there were queues of men just waiting to perform this service

Sorry but no

Don't be sorry I can't think of anything worse personally

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

Lazy lover

She'll get a hold on you believe it

Like no other

Before you know it you'll be on your knees

She's a lazy lover

She'll take your heart but you won't feel it

She's like no other

And I'm just trying to make you see"

Damn you! That's going to be playing in my head all evening now!

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker

Yeah usually that's exactly it!!

I'd be happy for you to do that if you bounce on me between the jumping

Oh I will... repeatedly

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Just pull my nightie down when you’ve finished "

When did you start wearing a nightie?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?

That's definitely a lie, my tongue starts to hurt after about 20 minutes

Is it! Damn I thought there were queues of men just waiting to perform this service

Sorry but no

Don't be sorry I can't think of anything worse personally

Can't say if fancy a bj for hours either, 5 minutes is enough for a warm up

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

I imagine you jumping around the room like firecracker

Yeah usually that's exactly it!!

I'd be happy for you to do that if you bounce on me between the jumping

Oh I will... repeatedly

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"What's the point if you are going to just lay there?

Good sex takes effort, amazing sex takes stamina

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I agree. Put the effort in.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"A female friend of mine told me she is and just lets the bloke do all the work.

It kind of got me thinking, do you expect a partner to do everything or do you put in some work?

Because in my eyes if there is no work being put in, you may as well fuck a blow up doll.

What are your thoughts. "

Bit like a pillow princess as they say. We'd not meet anyone like that as may as well just fuck each other

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

My favourite position involves me being on top, so no not lazy at all

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY

No I'm a very giving lover I put lots of effort into everything to make sure it's a great experience that gets better the more you meet

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's something I've worried about being perceived as before because in certain positions I can freeze up a bit trying to keep my cervix out of the way. I put in plenty of effort in foreplay though and I'm very happy to go on top. To be honest in any position I'm happy to do the thrusting but in some that would mean the guy not moving much and most aren't up for that. It's just if you're both going at it it can get a bit clumsy and it's harder to control depth.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"What's the point if you are going to just lay there?

Good sex takes effort, amazing sex takes stamina

Rather amazing sex myself. Joanne

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I don't agree by the time I've blown up bendy Brenda I'm out of breath. Give me the real deal every time, even if they. Do lie there like an ironing board

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"My favourite position involves me being on top, so no not lazy at all "

What a coincidence.

(Look up a few posts)

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

My mouth isn’t lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right now I could really do selfish sex. I'm so tired and have a headache but my brain and clitoris seem to have other ideas, so yeah, I'd like to just lay there and focus on the feelings.

Maybe. Not sure I could actually

Lazy lover

She'll get a hold on you believe it

Like no other

Before you know it you'll be on your knees

She's a lazy lover

She'll take your heart but you won't feel it

She's like no other

And I'm just trying to make you see

Damn you! That's going to be playing in my head all evening now!

You're welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy is just going to lie there and not do anything thing, I'd turf him out the door

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I'd like to think not ..a friend of mine always say I perspirate quite a bit but I believe I putting in the effort

If your going to f@#k then f@#k like it's the last one your going to have otherwise whats the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely not, my favourite position is cowgirl

There's a nice thought in my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can think of nothing worse than being a pillow princess, just couldn't do it. I like taking control too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As Soffiacool says, what about all the men who say they get their pleasure from our pleasure and like nothing more than coming round performing oral for hours and leaving with nothing in return?

My worst nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put the work in so it's over quicker.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’m lazy in everything I do.

Its all about my pleasure and fun after all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no…. I like different positions and to take control if the mood takes me

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

Good sex takes 2 people (or more

)

Hate to be with someone who made no effort, what is the point.

I've experienced it when I've met couples, ladies who just lie there and dont make any noises, or movement. It's soul destroying. Why fucking bother meeting for sex if you aren't going to partake.

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no! What would be the point? As someone said, if you're not interested in participating, just use your hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep. I just lie there as if stunned with a brick.

Each to their own. "

I was joking!

I’m fucking wild

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the point of laying there, may as well get one those blow up dolls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with someone who spent years calling me passive. Turns out he was just shit in bed and a cockwomble. Haven't had that label since I left.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere

"Definitely not, my favourite position is cowgirl

I’m lazy so hop on!

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