FabSwingers.com forum: Coffee Meets

By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ?

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By *winckle toesMan
over a year ago

norwich

"What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ? "

Yes of course it is …. You got to be yourself or what’s the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual ok...

if your in a mood to tease put something sexy on

just enjoy yourself.

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

If a date 'expected' me to wear something in particular, there wouldn't be a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual always works best x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'd go on the casual side of smart casual, the same as I'd wear to meet friends for a coffee. Something like smart jeans, heeled boots, and a nice top or blazer if it's a colder day. Or a day dress/skirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ? "

I would go for smart casual, wear something you feel comfortable in

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By *atKatXWoman
over a year ago

I had my first one the other day, and I wore heeled black boots, black skinny jeans, a black low cut jumper, and a black furry coat. I had my hair in a Dutch braid, and minimal makeup

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go.

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By *winckle toesMan
over a year ago

norwich

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go."

We should all dress how we want to in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter the type of meet I’d much prefer the lady to be as casual and dressed down as poss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely casual or smart-ish casual for a coffee meet. No need for anything more IMO.

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

This is very true.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ?

Yes of course it is …. You got to be yourself or what’s the point "

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

A smart casual floaty dress with my work stuff in the car, I like to be girly whenever I can

My work clothes are outdoorsy and very functional

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go."

I always have a back up plan of people watching and wandering if they don't turn up. Can't be staggering round Asda in thigh high stiletto boots, pvc mini skirt and nipple tassles.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Depends on the weather. Either a sundress or skinny jeans with knee high boots and a fitted jacket.

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By *aui.Man
over a year ago

around here

I mean it depends where you’re meeting but I’m guessing you’re just talking about a standard Costa, Starbucks etc.

I would be expecting casual but would be happy for her to wear whatever she feels comfortable in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual dress and long boots or jeans and a nice jumper/top. Depends on the weather and what I feel comfy in at the time.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hazmat suit, or welders apron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ? "

Wear something you're comfortable in. You're there to have a relaxing conversation, not flirt constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual is fine, although at my last meet I was told my casual is overdressed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dose it matter? we would all like to turn up in are Sunday best and hope when she looks at us she thinks wow and it's the same for the woman. We could be in work gear or something else, its about just having a nice time and see if you both get on. Time is precious and we make do with what we have.

Plus you never look at the clothes when they are on the bedroom floor do you hahah sorry just been cheeky

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

She can wear wotever she wants .it's her I'm interested in not her clothes x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Its a coffee and a chat. So I wear a sequined tux and spatz

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

She however, can wear what she feels comfortable in.

Have met ladies in the past who wore very casual clothes.

The coffee went well and I found they had made the effort in the underwear department.

It was sexier knowing that they had a back up plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just be happy you turned up

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Casual ok...

if your in a mood to tease put something sexy on

just enjoy yourself. "

Enjoyment is the most important thing

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"I would just be happy you turned up

This

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go.

I always have a back up plan of people watching and wandering if they don't turn up. Can't be staggering round Asda in thigh high stiletto boots, pvc mini skirt and nipple tassles. "

Oh I don't know...that could be fun

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Cheshire / Manchester border

Casual is fine. Work clothing is fine if the lady is on her way to or from work.

It’s not about being ready for sex, or showing a body off. It’s about making enough of a mental connection that both sides want to follow up with a physical one.

The only things which would put me off would be tatty or dirty clothes - which I’m sure doesn’t apply to any of the ladies posting on this thread!

Dan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hazmat suit, or welders apron"

I hate it when the man turns up in the exact same outfit as me!

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"If a date 'expected' me to wear something in particular, there wouldn't be a date."

Likewise lol

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By *anchester_gentMan
over a year ago

Cheshire / Manchester border

I hate it when the man turns up in the exact same outfit as me! "

The only time that’s OK is when you’re both stark naked….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come as you are, no expectations, most I have are with lovely ladies between school runs lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ? "

Meets are stressful enough without putting expectations on what the other person should be wearing.

I want a lady to wear what she's comfortable wearing.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I would like the lady to wear whatever she feels comfortable in, for her to be herself with no preconceived expectations or agenda.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

A dress. Cardigan. Boots.

Or t-shirt, tight skirt, boots. Plus a cardigan.

Things that look nice and make me feel good, like a sexy but cute heffalump.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I dress slightly differently to if I were meeting a woman friend. Possibly a lower top, a more fitted dress but I leave the corset and over knee boots at home

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I'd go on the casual side of smart casual, the same as I'd wear to meet friends for a coffee. Something like smart jeans, heeled boots, and a nice top or blazer if it's a colder day. Or a day dress/skirt. "

Sounds nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeans,heeled boots, a nice top, nothing too revealing and a blazer.

I hope they would like me as a person though, not for what I'm wearing.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

A dress or top, jeans and boots maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A dress. Cardigan. Boots.

Or t-shirt, tight skirt, boots. Plus a cardigan.

Things that look nice and make me feel good, like a sexy but cute heffalump. "

Ok you just won!! That is the best look ever xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

When I had one on weds I wore skinny Jean's a cameo type black top boots and warm jacket smas was freezing which I took of in coffee shop had it been a summer meet usually a summer dress and sandals x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I only expect people to wear what makes them comfortable which is what I do.

I would never turn up to a coffee meet or social wearing a suit or even a shirt and tie.

To me that is just overkill and I would never expect any woman to dress up for a coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Super casual.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I actually enjoy dressing up, it's part of who I am. In fact I've often been accused of being over dressed followed by the person telling me they dress for comfort

Well so do I, my comfort not theirs

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I had my first one the other day, and I wore heeled black boots, black skinny jeans, a black low cut jumper, and a black furry coat. I had my hair in a Dutch braid, and minimal makeup "

Sounds hot

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go.

I always have a back up plan of people watching and wandering if they don't turn up. Can't be staggering round Asda in thigh high stiletto boots, pvc mini skirt and nipple tassles. "

You can in Birkenhead Asda.

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

I love a vanilla coffee meet where I share a secret like she is wearing a butt plug - outwardly normal, secretly erotic

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ? "

Expect? I would like to think they wouldn’t expect anything

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go.

I always have a back up plan of people watching and wandering if they don't turn up. Can't be staggering round Asda in thigh high stiletto boots, pvc mini skirt and nipple tassles. "

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

"What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ?

Expect? I would like to think they wouldn’t expect anything"

This I would never say to anyone I expect you to wear this or that.. unless it was a dynamic they wanted. But at that point it's likely to be past the coffee meet stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go.

I always have a back up plan of people watching and wandering if they don't turn up. Can't be staggering round Asda in thigh high stiletto boots, pvc mini skirt and nipple tassles.

You can in Birkenhead Asda.

Thought they'd all be in pj's

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By *nn_JamesCouple
over a year ago

Berkshire/ South Bucks Borders

I have a Coffee meet outfit photo, always gets a smile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. Tits out over a coffee. Brings back memories of a ‘social’ that turned very hot. Very quickly.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

I would wear a crash helmet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would wear a crash helmet lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yoga shorts, oversized t shirt, long socks and trainers, if she wears anything else I'm walking out on her Irish Goodbye style

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Jeans and a slightly low cut top but I will always wear nice underwear just in case it goes further! If it's the summer usually a dress or a skirt and vest top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just go casual jeans etc , I usually put on a low cut top , mainly because I think my boobs are my best asset and it gives me a bit of confidence.

Had one lady turn up in the short skirt with high heel boots and fishnet stockings , she told us she wasn't wearing any knickers. This was one of the rare occasions we played on first meet , don't know why.

Mrs W&W

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

What I'd wear on any other days, leggings and a long top/dress/jumper with boots.

Might even brush my hair and put some lippy on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual is fine by me

I've said all along during my time here, I want to meet people not personas

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Smart casual is fine , I’d always make an effort to look sexy still, even for a coffee date, it’s FAB after all. Too relaxed can be a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wear what you would normally wear if out for one with mates. The more comfortable and at ease you are the more of your personality I'm going to see

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The same as I would for most other situations, with a bit more attention to my overall outfit.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just casual, or my work stuff, but I always warn the person if im coming straight from work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual is fine by me

I've said all along during my time here, I want to meet people not personas "

I think the other thing to say is wear what makes you feel good, gives you confidence

I don't like dressing up - even 'smart casual' seems too work like or dressy for me

That makes me uncomfortable, so I rarely do it, especially for an afternoon coffee

I think jeans and a casual shirt is good for any social situation from my perspective

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Can they please turn up in a see through top and a blue bra - thanks in advance.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Casual is fine by me

I've said all along during my time here, I want to meet people not personas "

My persona is dressed up though Bussy. I'm not hiding anything with my clothes I'm expressing part of myself.

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Casual is fine for coffee I'd say. If it were champagne cocktails that would be a different matter

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Casual is fine by me

I've said all along during my time here, I want to meet people not personas

I think the other thing to say is wear what makes you feel good, gives you confidence

I don't like dressing up - even 'smart casual' seems too work like or dressy for me

That makes me uncomfortable, so I rarely do it, especially for an afternoon coffee

I think jeans and a casual shirt is good for any social situation from my perspective "

I enjoy dressing up, though. Haha

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Whatever I happened to have dressed myself in that morning.

I probably wouldn't turn up in what I'm wearing today though, mens work trousers (pockets, heaven), an old chenille jumper and sensible boots is probably not the best impression.

I've met men for a quick social expecting them to be in their workwear, that's fine by me.

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

I literally dress like a teenager on a day to day basis - jeans, Vans or Skechers, fandom t-shirt and a baggy hoodie, oh and I sport a beanie throughout winter too. Think if I turned up like that I’d be called a catfish because I look very little like any of my photos haha! I think I’d go smexy- smart sexy! Nice pair of tight jeans, boots, low cut top and a jacket.

C (wife)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Casual is fine by me

I've said all along during my time here, I want to meet people not personas

I think the other thing to say is wear what makes you feel good, gives you confidence

I don't like dressing up - even 'smart casual' seems too work like or dressy for me

That makes me uncomfortable, so I rarely do it, especially for an afternoon coffee

I think jeans and a casual shirt is good for any social situation from my perspective

I enjoy dressing up, though. Haha"

That's why I said wear what makes you feel good. I realised my first statement was quite restrictive

Just don't expect me to dress up

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Casual is fine by me

I've said all along during my time here, I want to meet people not personas

I think the other thing to say is wear what makes you feel good, gives you confidence

I don't like dressing up - even 'smart casual' seems too work like or dressy for me

That makes me uncomfortable, so I rarely do it, especially for an afternoon coffee

I think jeans and a casual shirt is good for any social situation from my perspective

I enjoy dressing up, though. Haha

That's why I said wear what makes you feel good. I realised my first statement was quite restrictive

Just don't expect me to dress up

Haha, fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wear what you would normally wear if out for one with mates. The more comfortable and at ease you are the more of your personality I'm going to see"

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Jeans, boot, a nice top and blazer.

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

"Just wear what you would normally wear if out for one with mates. The more comfortable and at ease you are the more of your personality I'm going to see

In Scotland just go Damart thermals,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She however, can wear what she feels comfortable in.

Have met ladies in the past who wore very casual clothes.

The coffee went well and I found they had made the effort in the underwear department.

It was sexier knowing that they had a back up plan

This is where I was going - always be prepared. You never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A dress. Cardigan. Boots.

Or t-shirt, tight skirt, boots. Plus a cardigan.

Things that look nice and make me feel good, like a sexy but cute heffalump. "

This sounds like my style. And I'm sure you're far from a 'heffalump' but I haven't heard that word in years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a vanilla coffee meet where I share a secret like she is wearing a butt plug - outwardly normal, secretly erotic

*cough*

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go.

I always have a back up plan of people watching and wandering if they don't turn up. Can't be staggering round Asda in thigh high stiletto boots, pvc mini skirt and nipple tassles. "

Now that would be funny.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Jeans and a top. Or a dress. Depends on how I'm feeling on the day

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Jeans, boot, a nice top and blazer. "

Hot

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

chinnor area

Whatever makes both comfortable

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Jeans, top, cagoule.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"She however, can wear what she feels comfortable in.

Have met ladies in the past who wore very casual clothes.

The coffee went well and I found they had made the effort in the underwear department.

It was sexier knowing that they had a back up plan

This is where I was going - always be prepared. You never know. "

As a woman, you have a better idea. We men are an instrument of your will.

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By *oomerang73Man
over a year ago

Newton

"Casual ok...

if your in a mood to tease put something sexy on

just enjoy yourself. "

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I would wear normally when meeting someone for coffee. It's not something I would give much thought to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fab friend said the other day that we should have had a coffee meet before she moved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the dressing up bit. It makes me feel good, so I tend to make an effort.

Nice clothes, hair done and makeup.

I like a good flirt so I want to show off a bit of what might be on offer

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Casual is definitely not ok!

They sure as hell better turn up in a ball gown, or there'll be no chance of them ever getting my peen.

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I would just be happy you turned up

This"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I enjoy the dressing up bit. It makes me feel good, so I tend to make an effort.

Nice clothes, hair done and makeup.

I like a good flirt so I want to show off a bit of what might be on offer

Exactly this! Effort goes a long way x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go.

I always have a back up plan of people watching and wandering if they don't turn up. Can't be staggering round Asda in thigh high stiletto boots, pvc mini skirt and nipple tassles.

You can in Birkenhead Asda.

Thought they'd all be in pj's"

It's an anything goes sort of Asda. Want to wear a onesie and fake uggs? Go for it. Nipple tassels and thigh highs? Why not? Kung Fu Panda costume? Sure, live your best life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself,casual is fine... to casual isnt i wouldnt be impressed if a woman turned up in tracky bottoms but equally may feel abit put off if she turned up in a powersuit & louboutins.

i always go casual smart, i think its important to feel relaxed but dress up enough to feel good about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything they feel comfortable/happy wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything they feel comfortable/happy wearing "

This

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

"If a date 'expected' me to wear something in particular, there wouldn't be a date."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to be comfortable and not attract looks if overdressed it’s our secret life yes

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By *adrideMan
over a year ago

taunton

"What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ? "
wear want you comfortable be you self

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

The first ever solo coffee meet I had with a guy, Mark’s aunt and uncle walked past and started chatting, then looked at me with disdain and walked off. We covered it with a “job interview” story so now I always dress “smart sexy” incase we need the interview line again

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

Wear whatever you feel comfortable in it’s coffee a starter for 10

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester

Wear what you want, casual, work attire, sexy & seductive. Its your choice

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By *shley79Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

Casual is fine for a coffee meet I think.

Being as your not sure if things will progress to the physical side I think it’s appropriate.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I usually wear a skirt with black tights and either a top with a bit of cleavage on show or a roll neck jumper that shows my curves. Heeled boots. I like to look subtly sexy but not OTT in a coffee shop.

It usually does the trick

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I enjoy the dressing up bit. It makes me feel good, so I tend to make an effort.

Nice clothes, hair done and makeup.

I like a good flirt so I want to show off a bit of what might be on offer

Flirting is always fun

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By *each69Woman
over a year ago

doncaster

Love dressing sexy and flirting on a social

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By *g1231974Man
over a year ago

wetherby

"Jeans, boots and a nice top. If a guy ever said "I want you dressed in etc etc" he would be told where to go."

Cappuccino?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Casual smart is fine if it’s a coffee date

However, if it was a suited and booted type guy I might be tempted to rock up in evening dress just for the hell of it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Casual smart is fine if it’s a coffee date

However, if it was a suited and booted type guy I might be tempted to rock up in evening dress just for the hell of it

I remember you looking absolutely lovely for our lunch.

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By *oungcoup69Couple
over a year ago

hidden garden

Casual is fine as its a casual meet up. Our only expectation is the other person doesn't turn up in a track suit haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual is a subjective term. Casual as in something smarter than joggers would be nice. I don't mind as such but joggers belong in a sports environment or at home. I'd say it can be casual but appropriate.

Then again, I'm a man who was asked why I looked so formal when I was at just about my most casual.

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Casual smart is fine if it’s a coffee date

However, if it was a suited and booted type guy I might be tempted to rock up in evening dress just for the hell of it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Corset and stockings of course

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Day to day clothes.... Depends what I an doing that day.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a date 'expected' me to wear something in particular, there wouldn't be a date."

Unless it's a D/s relationship and then you absolutely would

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

I love coffee socials and I’m pretty much always in jeans and comfortable

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Corset and stockings of course

I bet you look great

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London

"Casual smart is fine if it’s a coffee date

However, if it was a suited and booted type guy I might be tempted to rock up in evening dress just for the hell of it

Looking forward to that!

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Personally I go smart/casual, jeans and a nice top or something, if it's a first social that is.. after that I dress up a bit

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Casual is a subjective term. Casual as in something smarter than joggers would be nice. I don't mind as such but joggers belong in a sports environment or at home. I'd say it can be casual but appropriate.

Then again, I'm a man who was asked why I looked so formal when I was at just about my most casual.

So no joggers. Good to know.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Whatever they would wear to pop to Tesco’s is fine with me

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Whatever they would wear to pop to Tesco’s is fine with me"

So baggy tracksuit, hoodie and hair a mess

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I love coffee socials and I’m pretty much always in jeans and comfortable

Comfortable is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer anyone I met up with to wear whatever they feel comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a coffee social tomorrow. Is it bad I haven't given any thought what to wear?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I have a new coffee meet tomoz shall be wearing some raunchy undies for sure as best to b prepared! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a coffee social tomorrow. Is it bad I haven't given any thought what to wear?

He's just cancelled so I'm glad I didn't bother

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've got a coffee social tomorrow. Is it bad I haven't given any thought what to wear?

He's just cancelled so I'm glad I didn't bother

Wtf??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a coffee social tomorrow. Is it bad I haven't given any thought what to wear?

He's just cancelled so I'm glad I didn't bother

Wtf??"

At least he told me!

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By *shley79Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

I think casual is ok

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've got a coffee social tomorrow. Is it bad I haven't given any thought what to wear?

He's just cancelled so I'm glad I didn't bother

Wtf??

At least he told me!"

True.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Casual anything you feel comfortable with. As long as its not a red toto you’re okay

Just be you

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

"Whatever they would wear to pop to Tesco’s is fine with me

So baggy tracksuit, hoodie and hair a mess

"
haha yes definitely be happy with that shows she is comfortable with her self

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

"Whatever they would wear to pop to Tesco’s is fine with me

So baggy tracksuit, hoodie and hair a mess

Honestly I’d be ok with that and it would show a degree of confidence and comfort it on their part that I’d find really appealing

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I'd prefer anyone I met up with to wear whatever they feel comfortable with"

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

A cheeky monkey onesie would be ok, right?!

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"A cheeky monkey onesie would be ok, right?!

Would get a giggle at least

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

I would dress smart casual but always end up looking like a scruffy student.

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar

"What do you ladies wear to a coffee meet? I mean when you know it's just going to be a coffee as its all you have time for.

Guys what to you expect a woman to wear ? Is casual okay ? "

Hmmm depends.....is it just a Wetherspoons Coffee or is it an M&S Coffee

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's interesting that a lot of people associate comfort with casual.

I wouldn't feel comfortable in a track suit (I have no problem with people who do for clarity) but I do feel comfortable in a dress with boots or shoes. If clothes fit right they're comfortable.

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar

"It's interesting that a lot of people associate comfort with casual.

I wouldn't feel comfortable in a track suit (I have no problem with people who do for clarity) but I do feel comfortable in a dress with boots or shoes. If clothes fit right they're comfortable."

You certainly look comfortable in your photos

wow

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford... (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"A cheeky monkey onesie would be ok, right?!

Would get a giggle at least

Maybe useful as a sense of humour check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a coffee date, Then again what is a date !?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It's interesting that a lot of people associate comfort with casual.

I wouldn't feel comfortable in a track suit (I have no problem with people who do for clarity) but I do feel comfortable in a dress with boots or shoes. If clothes fit right they're comfortable.

You certainly look comfortable in your photos

wow

Well my clothes fit

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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago

ongar

"It's interesting that a lot of people associate comfort with casual.

I wouldn't feel comfortable in a track suit (I have no problem with people who do for clarity) but I do feel comfortable in a dress with boots or shoes. If clothes fit right they're comfortable.

You certainly look comfortable in your photos

wow

Well my clothes fit

Yes and so are your clothes

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I would dress smart casual but always end up looking like a scruffy student. "

Why is that?

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

I like to dress up and make an effort as I would for a date or a job interview

Plus I like to wear some sexy underwear too gets me excited knowing they can’t see it but I know it’s there .

And secretly hoping the can see a little or want a sneaky peek

Hot wife

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I like to dress up and make an effort as I would for a date or a job interview

Plus I like to wear some sexy underwear too gets me excited knowing they can’t see it but I know it’s there .

And secretly hoping the can see a little or want a sneaky peek

Hot wife "

Sounds hot

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"What is a coffee date, Then again what is a date !? "

It's like a date but with coffee

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

"I would dress smart casual but always end up looking like a scruffy student.

Why is that?"

It’s probably down to my poor wardrobe choices!

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I would dress smart casual but always end up looking like a scruffy student.

Why is that?

It’s probably down to my poor wardrobe choices! "

Shouldn't always judge a book by its cover

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"A cheeky monkey onesie would be ok, right?!

Would get a giggle at least

Maybe useful as a sense of humour check

Oh it would

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I don't know, but apparently I wore all the wrong clothes for our first meet in a tea rooms. However it ended well and here we are over four years later and engaged. So I probably wouldn't worry too much. If it's right it's right.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Depends on the weather really! Jeans, nice top and jacket autumn/winter. A nice dress and tights/stockings in spring/summer x

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"I don't know, but apparently I wore all the wrong clothes for our first meet in a tea rooms. However it ended well and here we are over four years later and engaged. So I probably wouldn't worry too much. If it's right it's right.

Mr"

That's so true and congratulations

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Depends on the weather really! Jeans, nice top and jacket autumn/winter. A nice dress and tights/stockings in spring/summer x"

Sounds lovely

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Got to be yourself no good pretending to be something your usually not. coffee chat laugh ....

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Got to be yourself no good pretending to be something your usually not. coffee chat laugh ...."

Very very true

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Casual, tidy and a little sexy x

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Casual, tidy and a little sexy x "

Sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone meeting on here tonight. Can accommodate over night

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By *iona OP Woman
over a year ago

outskirts

"Got to be yourself no good pretending to be something your usually not. coffee chat laugh ...."

This is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect her to wear the same thing to drink coffee as she would to drink rum.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Wear what's comfortable for you. Ladies turning up for my meets is a bonus straight away

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By *erry50Man
over a year ago

Liverpool and Cotswolds

After all it’s daytime and it’s a coffee. So coffee charisma and wellies if they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he can't accept me in my hoody he can get lost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect here to wear anything specific, whatever she feels comfortable in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he can't accept me in my hoody he can get lost. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he can't accept me in my hoody he can get lost. "

Is that a Marlyn Monroe quote?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s always just coffee and I would wear something comfy casual, blouse and jeans for instance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If he can't accept me in my hoody he can get lost.

Is that a Marlyn Monroe quote?"

It's a me quote.

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