FabSwingers.com forum: Just a reminder

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sharing adult photos of your partner/wife etc without their consent is illegal.

Some need reminding!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very sick mind would do that if still in relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A very sick mind would do that if still in relationship."

Plenty of guys on here do this

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

The amount of men who presume it's M answering then. Sending pictures of wives on a singles profile is worrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many of them read the forums, so will continue to do post them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea. "

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea. "

I’ve actually been told it’s without consent and observed it in the forums many times! Quite shocked guys admit to doing it given that it’s against the law!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea. "

I tend to ask if their wife knows they are on here, I've yet to have a yes response. So can only presume they don't know their photos are being shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

I’ve actually been told it’s without consent and observed it in the forums many times! Quite shocked guys admit to doing it given that it’s against the law! "

Then report it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread"

So you know one person!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

So you know one person! "

And the 70 people in his chatgroup

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

So you know one person! "

Nope not just one person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

So you know one person!

Nope not just one person! "

You and the person above can claim outrage but unless you have reported them to admin it feels a bit pointless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

So you know one person!

Nope not just one person!

You and the person above can claim outrage but unless you have reported them to admin it feels a bit pointless. "

I have reported them obviously! Still worth reminding people it’s illegal! And my post refers specifically to sharing without consent so not sure what your issue is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sick mind would do that if still in relationship."

Nothing changes when the relationship is over. It’s called revenge porn.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I saw a photo on a blokes profile yesterday of a naked woman asleep on a bed. I’m hoping she was just asleep. She clearly didn’t know the photo was being taken so god knows if she knew it was on here. It was uploaded months ago and he wasn’t even in the photo - it got approved though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sharing adult photos of your partner/wife etc without their consent is illegal.

Some need reminding! "

This always concerns me when looking at singles profiles. Especially when there are multiple women/men in different photos. Also few veris that don’t account for the numerous women/men.

It would be good to have a feature, where single profiles have to have photo veri process. where by the other members in the photo confirm it’s them, before a post is approved. A bit of extra work and I know fake profiles could bypass this. but just feel it could be an idea, so not to repeat the copper who used his ex wife’s photos on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A very sick mind would do that if still in relationship.

Nothing changes when the relationship is over. It’s called revenge porn. "

The kind of guy who shares them without consent certainly won’t stop because the relationship ends! It’s a massive abuse of trust and only a sick person would do this.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

I’ve actually been told it’s without consent and observed it in the forums many times! Quite shocked guys admit to doing it given that it’s against the law! "
lots of things are illegal 420 included

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

So you know one person!

Nope not just one person!

You and the person above can claim outrage but unless you have reported them to admin it feels a bit pointless. "

Does it or does it remind some of those paying lip service to online safety and telling us to look out for each other to remove their rose tinted glasses?

I don't ask questions on here to white knight.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

So you know one person!

Nope not just one person!

You and the person above can claim outrage but unless you have reported them to admin it feels a bit pointless. "

Of course I report it Lorna it's wrong and not something I'd want to happen to me. I'm not outraged whatsoever, but I do want swinging and sites like this to have a less sleezy image. And in my opinion it's my duty as part of the community to report it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

So you know one person!

Nope not just one person!

You and the person above can claim outrage but unless you have reported them to admin it feels a bit pointless.

I have reported them obviously! Still worth reminding people it’s illegal! And my post refers specifically to sharing without consent so not sure what your issue is."

You and others based on one post have assumed that people who send photos of their partners are doing it without consent when the truth of the matter is you actually have no idea. Also you have no idea if those photos are already in the public domain and if that is the case it is not against the law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

I’ve actually been told it’s without consent and observed it in the forums many times! Quite shocked guys admit to doing it given that it’s against the law! lots of things are illegal 420 included

Exactly this. Feels like selective outrage.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Hardly in the same league though is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

So you know one person!

Nope not just one person!

You and the person above can claim outrage but unless you have reported them to admin it feels a bit pointless.

I have reported them obviously! Still worth reminding people it’s illegal! And my post refers specifically to sharing without consent so not sure what your issue is.

Where did I say this relates to one post? FYI it doesn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sick mind would do that if still in relationship.

Nothing changes when the relationship is over. It’s called revenge porn. "

Whenever I ask who the woman/ women are in a man's pics it's always his ex.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"Sharing adult photos of your partner/wife etc without their consent is illegal.

Some need reminding! "

Are you a Cop?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Exactly this. Feels like selective outrage. "

Slightly different though is it if someone wants to smoke something illegal that's on them. Someone sharing a non swinger image on here in messages behind closed doors is involving an innocent party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sick mind would do that if still in relationship.

Nothing changes when the relationship is over. It’s called revenge porn.

Whenever I ask who the woman/ women are in a man's pics it's always his ex.

Alsways had same response.

Yet never answer when you ask if they know their photo is being shared online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Hardly in the same league though is it?"

And who decides that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Exactly this. Feels like selective outrage.

Slightly different though is it if someone wants to smoke something illegal that's on them. Someone sharing a non swinger image on here in messages behind closed doors is involving an innocent party. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sharing adult photos of your partner/wife etc without their consent is illegal.

Some need reminding!

This always concerns me when looking at singles profiles. Especially when there are multiple women/men in different photos. Also few veris that don’t account for the numerous women/men.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've often wondered why single profiles are allowed pics where other people are in them...personally I think they should only be allowed if the other persons username is on them... otherwise how do they know that consent HAS been given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Exactly this. Feels like selective outrage. "

Not really with you consider the ramifications to the person having their personal pictures share without knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A very sick mind would do that if still in relationship.

Nothing changes when the relationship is over. It’s called revenge porn.

Whenever I ask who the woman/ women are in a man's pics it's always his ex.

Alsways had same response.

Yet never answer when you ask if they know their photo is being shared online. "

Yep. I can only remember 2 men who said the woman was on here. The rest all said it's an ex. So highly unlikely any consent was given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Exactly this. Feels like selective outrage.

Not really with you consider the ramifications to the person having their personal pictures share without knowledge.

In almost every case where I see a photo of someone else in a profile their face is obscured which is within the site rules and not against the law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Exactly this. Feels like selective outrage.

Not really with you consider the ramifications to the person having their personal pictures share without knowledge.

In almost every case where I see a photo of someone else in a profile their face is obscured which is within the site rules and not against the law. "

Still against the law if you cover the persons face actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Exactly this. Feels like selective outrage. "

I can’t stand 420 either so I avoid those who like it.

If someone posted pics of me without permission though, that directly affects me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Exactly this. Feels like selective outrage.

Not really with you consider the ramifications to the person having their personal pictures share without knowledge.

In almost every case where I see a photo of someone else in a profile their face is obscured which is within the site rules and not against the law.

Still against the law if you cover the persons face actually. "

Actually no it's not. I think you need to look up revenge porn law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not saying it's right if this is happening however just feels like a lot of people making a lot of assumptions.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm not saying it's right if this is happening however just feels like a lot of people making a lot of assumptions.

I haven't made any assumptions. There are 2 current threads inviting people to join specifically to share pics of their wives. In one of those threads it was stated by the person running the group that not all of the wives were aware their pics were being shared

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

This is why I don't like seeing action shots on people's profiles, you never know if the other person has given permission.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not saying it's right if this is happening however just feels like a lot of people making a lot of assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

Exactly this. Feels like selective outrage.

Not really with you consider the ramifications to the person having their personal pictures share without knowledge.

In almost every case where I see a photo of someone else in a profile their face is obscured which is within the site rules and not against the law.

Still against the law if you cover the persons face actually.

Actually no it's not. I think you need to look up revenge porn law.

As long as the person is identifiable in the picture the yes still illegal. This isn’t just by face. Many factors can play in that.

Example

However, it is important to note that a person’s face is not the only way to identify him or her in a photograph or video. Tattoos, birthmarks, jewelry and articles of clothing can be used to identify a person. Similarly, the background of the image is important. There may be unique items in the image that can be identified, such as unique decorations or artwork, family photos or other distinctive property.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not saying it's right if this is happening however just feels like a lot of people making a lot of assumptions.

I’m just responding to the thread title and first post; if it’s without permission it is indeed illegal.

I have asked guys who’ve messaged me who they’re showing in their pictures and I don’t recall any ever saying the pics are there with the full knowledge of the lady in them.

Tbh, I’d rather not see action pics even if they are there with full consent.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"I'm not saying it's right if this is happening however just feels like a lot of people making a lot of assumptions.

And as the profile making that statement is no longer on the site I can only assume I wasn't the only one to find it unacceptable

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

So what, somebody call the profile police!

And really...

To this day, nobody really cares.

What do people think is going to happen if somebody takes a pic on their moby?

Treasured memories forever?

More like profile fodder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not saying it's right if this is happening however just feels like a lot of people making a lot of assumptions.

And as the profile making that statement is no longer on the site I can only assume I wasn't the only one to find it unacceptable"

Yep; just read that thread. Shocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have to pop your head into swingers chat to see that very often there are guys using a single guys profile starting threads looking for others up for some wank chat and pic swapping of (alleged) wives/girlfriends/partners.

Some claim to have her consent when challenged.

We'll probably never know for sure if that's true.

I find it really scuzzy behaviour and I'd quite like threads of that kind to be banned

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Sharing adult photos of your partner/wife etc without their consent is illegal.

Some need reminding! "

As is uploading them here, even I’d set to private of friends only , uploading to a server without consent is a criminal act in itself even if no members see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow so brazen!

He had absolutely zero care. Hopefully his little group end up be outed like the one on fb/Snapchat. They’ll soon care then.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I just saw the thread in swingers chat. I can't believe the person said that 'the husbands dont mind sharing the photos' Like that makes it acceptable!!

It's just disgusting!

Jo.Xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"So what, somebody call the profile police!

And really...

To this day, nobody really cares.

What do people think is going to happen if somebody takes a pic on their moby?

Treasured memories forever?

More like profile fodder. "

I think you'll find a lot if people care!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"People often assume it's without consent but really you have no idea.

We do actually going from the response to a question I asked in another thread

So you know one person!

Nope not just one person!

You and the person above can claim outrage but unless you have reported them to admin it feels a bit pointless.

I have reported them obviously! Still worth reminding people it’s illegal! And my post refers specifically to sharing without consent so not sure what your issue is."

From the thread this is on the back off, people were talking about other chat apps they were talking on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what, somebody call the profile police!

And really...

To this day, nobody really cares.

What do people think is going to happen if somebody takes a pic on their moby?

Treasured memories forever?

More like profile fodder. "

People do care, and so they should. It’s immoral.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If you think this is happening on this site report please. Also rather than constantly commenting on pics being approved wrong on the forum, report instead please. Mods are human, thousands of pics get approved a day, some mistakes will no doubt me made

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