FabSwingers.com forum: I love that I’m your secret

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was watching a tv show, and during a hot scene of quite rough sex, she looks at him and says

“ I love that I’m your secret and I can’t tell a soul”

And he responds by saying

“I love how sick you are”

There was a time where my freaking twisted mind used to LOVE and found it such a turn on to be somebody’s dirty secret. Particularly because these people were involved with other women, so it had to be kept a secret and we’d end up having steamy rendez vous

So that scene sort of resonated with me.

Is this sort of messed up? What triggers this sort of scenario of being turned out about messing about in secret? (It could be any secret btw, not necessarily messing with someone who’s already taken)

I wanna disclaim… I’m a reformed girl now btw, and I don’t like being someone’s secret anymore (I guess being hurt in the process a few times as it’s a losing game anyway, really beat it out of me - AND. It shitty thing to do) , so please don’t be too judgy

Tell me your stories and if you have learnt from them?

By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

I love the fact that we have this side of our life as a secret.

I fully understand where you're coming from. It can feel special to be a secret just between 2 people.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love the fact that we have this side of our life as a secret.

I fully understand where you're coming from. It can feel special to be a secret just between 2 people."

I don’t know how the arousal happened/happens but it did. Maybe the whole forbidden fruit kinda idea?

By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Yep did it at 18, full office affair with the boss, I was young, dumb and easily led with him showering me with gifts. Lasted 3 months until I met my longterm fwb and realised what a cunt I was being partaking in an affair so I ended it.

My fwb relationship lasted 13 years and taught me a lot about myself