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do faces/looks matter?

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By *els_Bells OP   Woman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I have been out at the theatre tonight. And was wondering do looks (as in facially) matter (soz for the bad selling buut have had a wine or 6 lol )

I got totally put off by the mans face but he had an amazing, drool worthy body, and boy could he dance!

So does good looking with an amazing body turn you on, or do you prefer a hot body and an ok/slapped by the midwife kinda face?

For some reason, I lurrrved the body and grew to appreciate the face.

So are you a body or face kinda person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An amazing body makes up for a lot in the face dept. after all,you don't stare at the mantlepeice when ur stoking the fire

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By *els_Bells OP   Woman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"An amazing body makes up for a lot in the face dept. after all,you don't stare at the mantlepeice when ur stoking the fire"

So how about they have a face of ann widicombe but a figure like kelly brook? Would you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An amazing body makes up for a lot in the face dept. after all,you don't stare at the mantlepeice when ur stoking the fire"

im the other way round, i love kissing and lots of eye contact while having sex, i love looking up into a guys eyes and watching is face as i suck his cock and also love eye contact while kissing etc so id sooner have a nice face and a ok body than the other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how about they have a face of ann widicombe but a figure like kelly brook? Would you?"

sooner than i would with a girl who had the face of kelly and the body of anne!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be an attraction before anything can happen. So yeah a pretty face does count for alot, but i do like the woman as a whole package, looks and personality together.

however sometimes personality does win me over lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i couldnt have sex with someone if i didnt fancy them no matter how nice they was

Theres a few people i have known for years, who i see regular at clubs, parties etc and i class as friends but i would never play with them as theres just not physical attraction there

im sorry but if the first time i meet someone i dont fancy then that wont change just because i have gotten to know them

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


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So are you a body or face kinda person? "

Arse

*courtesy of the useless information department^

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

The body is important but I like an attractive face too. However, what I find attractive others may not.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If your talking about for sexual reasons, i go for personality. But obviously there has to be a physical attraction, i just like nice ordinary people.

In the real world in the situation you was in i would be watching his dancing and probely wouldnt notice if he was plain or not.

Im also attracted to "lived in" faces on a guy. Faces that tell a story.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Depends in what context. If it was a one off with someone you didn't know then I would agree. I am more of a face person

If it is for a long term relationship then that is a very shallow view

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

attraction for me (Mrs) is about the whole package but a sense of humour goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face is more important to me than body. But they must have a sense of humour too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Im also attracted to "lived in" faces on a guy. Faces that tell a story."

Mine 's been lived in by the neighbours from hell.....

Tells the story of War and ( almost) Peace....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its for meaningless sex then hell yeah id go for body over face providing we arent talking Lloyd Webber kinda lookin face..

For a relationship personality and face would play more importance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think face is the most important as you have to fancy them really. Besides you can change your body to a degree but you can't change a funky looking face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think face is the most important as you have to fancy them really. Besides you can change your body to a degree but you can't change a funky looking face. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An amazing body makes up for a lot in the face dept. after all,you don't stare at the mantlepeice when ur stoking the fire"

Oh I deffo do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be some physical attraction for me to be interested in playing with someone.

Having said that, I am unlikely to be interested in someone who has the looks of a Greek god with the personality of a slug!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sure do

why dya think i keep mine hidden ? !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to be attracted to face, mind, body and personality but hey Im a fussy bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been out at the theatre tonight. And was wondering do looks (as in facially) matter (soz for the bad selling buut have had a wine or 6 lol )

I got totally put off by the mans face but he had an amazing, drool worthy body, and boy could he dance!

So does good looking with an amazing body turn you on, or do you prefer a hot body and an ok/slapped by the midwife kinda face?

For some reason, I lurrrved the body and grew to appreciate the face.

So are you a body or face kinda person? "

Both for us we like to be attracted to who we play with and see little point in compromising what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky question.

Visualy, most of us are stimulated by sight.

What if we didn't have sight?

All we could do is rely on hearing, and intuition of the person/people involved.

What would stimulate us then?

Take radio for example, when we listen to radio we visualise what the person talking looks like and we paint our own picture.

If we were deaf we would be stimulated by sight.

Would art and things we take forgranted visualy mean more?

What about the old fashioned pen friends situation?

First a letter, then correspondence, then getting to know the person etc etc. Nothing visual as such, just getting to know someone.

Now the internet is the main source of meeting and correspondence, we have the choice of selection of who we talk to, meet, and so on.

If people do make arrangements to meet from whatever site, for whatever reason, a pound to a pinch of shit, they wont pick an ugly fucker!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant put a bag over there head and think of England ... so i have to have looks and body .. and i like lots of different looks and body's too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to have a woman working for me who not good looking, did not have a body to die for (okay she was slim, but her bod was just 'OK') was, at times, fairly dowdy in her dress sense and could be a little annoying with the way she spoke. not a good picture, is it?

But..... I once asked the blokes in the office who they would love to jump into bed with and SHE came out way out on top!!! Why? All of them said the same thing - it was the overall package coupled with a VERY attractive vivacious streak - and that was the clincher.

When I was swinging as a single guy on another site before I met Perky, I met a number of ladies who you would not have called 'attractive' either in face or body, but they had 'something' which went straight to my loins.... and they were very welcome to go straight for my loins too... Lol!

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