FabSwingers.com forum: Being straight and having a wank buddy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not

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By *he_massangerMan
over a year ago

Stornoway

Not really my thing but it's good to have a thing or two. Are you bistraightual like me?

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By *elboy64Man
over a year ago

weston

"So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not "
you're not alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not you're not alone "

I agree…you’re not alone. I’m looking for a buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers , so thankfully it’s not just me then

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I don’t understand this concept. Please explain why you need another guy to wank with. Do you shout words of encouragement to each other? Pat each other on the back?

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

So you’re straight but enjoy watching other men wank and wanking alongside them?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I don’t understand this concept. Please explain why you need another guy to wank with. Do you shout words of encouragement to each other? Pat each other on the back? "

It's not something I understand either. Is it like watch the footie with your hands down your pants and no judgement?

Genuinely interested in the dynamic and what it is about having another person wanking in the same room that creates interest, especially when there's no attraction between the 2.

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By *elboy64Man
over a year ago

weston

Watch some porn and wank it add another dimension to it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not for me. Someone I know professionally, repeatedly tries to get me into this, insisting he isn’t gay or bi and its normal for mates to sit around , watch porn, drink beer and wank. I’m not convinced he’s being honest about his intentions. Whenever I talk about kink and women, he turns it into a convo about wanking, his silky balls, how often he wanks, then starts questioning me about my wank routine and style.

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By *elboy64Man
over a year ago

weston

"Not for me. Someone I know professionally, repeatedly tries to get me into this, insisting he isn’t gay or bi and its normal for mates to sit around , watch porn, drink beer and wank. I’m not convinced he’s being honest about his intentions. Whenever I talk about kink and women, he turns it into a convo about wanking, his silky balls, how often he wanks, then starts questioning me about my wank routine and style. "
lol think you have pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New to all this but enjoyed wanking another off then wanking myself over him. Class myself as bi curious. Because I only wank and suck.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I don’t understand this concept. Please explain why you need another guy to wank with. Do you shout words of encouragement to each other? Pat each other on the back?

It's not something I understand either. Is it like watch the footie with your hands down your pants and no judgement?

Genuinely interested in the dynamic and what it is about having another person wanking in the same room that creates interest, especially when there's no attraction between the 2."

Yeah, I was surprised to find out men have all sorts of wanks... Horny ones (obvs) but also...

... quickies, lazy ones, bored ones, just-something-to-do-with-the-hands ones...

So I guess these sociable ones shouldn't surprise me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got to be honest, I don’t understand this in a straight man at all. I’m not kink shaming, I just don’t get it. The straight men I know would be horrified at the thought.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I don’t understand this concept. Please explain why you need another guy to wank with. Do you shout words of encouragement to each other? Pat each other on the back?

It's not something I understand either. Is it like watch the footie with your hands down your pants and no judgement?

Genuinely interested in the dynamic and what it is about having another person wanking in the same room that creates interest, especially when there's no attraction between the 2.

Yeah, I was surprised to find out men have all sorts of wanks... Horny ones (obvs) but also...

... quickies, lazy ones, bored ones, just-something-to-do-with-the-hands ones...

So I guess these sociable ones shouldn't surprise me..."

I can't ever imagine saying to ones of my mates "fancy coming round for a wank?"

I'd just have a wank. By the time they got there I'd be long finished. To be fair their presence would put me off. It fascinates me.

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not "

You are bi. Get over it!!! There is nothing wrong with it.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

I'd have no interest in such a thing, and to be honest, having another dude in the room would just put me off an otherwise jolly good tug.

You're obviously free to identify your sexuality anyway you see fit, and I'm certainly not gonna judge you for wanting a wanking pal. But, like a lot of people who've replied here, the idea of being turned on by watching another guy whack off, to me, seems a little... ya know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should go in the 'bi' room at Greenhouse Darlaston

Guys get up to all sorts in there, but it's not gay, it's bi, cos there's a fanny on the telly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you race?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I have to say it really doesn't appeal to me in any way at all and I find it a bit bizarre that a straight guy would want to do it but hope you find one if that's what you want

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"Cheers , so thankfully it’s not just me then

Up to now it is just you OP the previous guys all identify as bi-curious...Does it really matter if it's just you?

Enjoy it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it, as a woman anyway. I think its just a voyeur thing? The freedom of it and the slight vulnerability of watching someone doing something so personal and almost being a part of it. I am a little bit fascinated by watching but not joining in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not "

Head over to Blakpool in March, there’s a huge social dedicated to this pastime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be there if you’re going Jenny !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When something is going on in a club a lot of the single guys will be wanking themselves off in close proximity to each other.

Does the proximity increase their excitement and give some sort of confirmation that it’s acceptable?

Is this a different thing altogether.

Not understanding the dynamic tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not shaming in any way, but I think you might be “fab straight”.

This is certainly of no interest to a straight man.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I’m not shaming in any way, but I think you might be “fab straight”.

This is certainly of no interest to a straight man.

Agree, zero interest to wank in front of mates, or see them doing it. It sounds like a kink / fetish, I’m not going gonna judge someone’s sexuality but it does suggest at least bi-curious.

If women are involved like a MMF or MMFF and one of guys is wanking, that’s different , it doesn’t bother me in the slightest ….as long as he’s not using me for material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should go in the 'bi' room at Greenhouse Darlaston

Guys get up to all sorts in there, but it's not gay, it's bi, cos there's a fanny on the telly "

Lol

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"I don’t understand this concept. Please explain why you need another guy to wank with. Do you shout words of encouragement to each other? Pat each other on the back?

It's not something I understand either. Is it like watch the footie with your hands down your pants and no judgement?

Genuinely interested in the dynamic and what it is about having another person wanking in the same room that creates interest, especially when there's no attraction between the 2.

Yeah, I was surprised to find out men have all sorts of wanks... Horny ones (obvs) but also...

... quickies, lazy ones, bored ones, just-something-to-do-with-the-hands ones...

So I guess these sociable ones shouldn't surprise me...

I can't ever imagine saying to ones of my mates "fancy coming round for a wank?"

I'd just have a wank. By the time they got there I'd be long finished. To be fair their presence would put me off. It fascinates me."

Yeah I’d be the same. If I want a fanny fiddle I just do it and I’m done in a few minutes and back to doing the washing up of whatever.

I notice none of them have answered our curiosity…I guess they must’ve watched each other wank and the interest has gone now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you race?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bi thing why do guys have such a problem admiting there bi...?

Most people are in my experiance ?

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"New to all this but enjoyed wanking another off then wanking myself over him. Class myself as bi curious. Because I only wank and suck."

A lot of bi and gay men ‘only’ wank and suck too. It’s a misconception that they all have anal sex.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"When something is going on in a club a lot of the single guys will be wanking themselves off in close proximity to each other.

Does the proximity increase their excitement and give some sort of confirmation that it’s acceptable?

Is this a different thing altogether.

Not understanding the dynamic tbh. "
Being someone who has attended lots of club’s and party’s of all dynamics the difference iv seen is at a club of party the guys stud around are wanking while watching the people getting it on whereas at a bi party they are doing this while also looking down at the guys next to them wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not "

Yeah me too, I enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not

Head over to Blakpool in March, there’s a huge social dedicated to this pastime.

They say a joke falls down when if needs explanation. But to help those who did not quite hear this penny drop. This was a reference to the Tory Party Conference. It was not a serious post and there is no real wankfest social in Blackpool

So no need to dm asking for details. Unless you care to contact Boris

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not

Head over to Blakpool in March, there’s a huge social dedicated to this pastime.

So no need to dm asking for details. Unless you care to contact Boris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a wank buddy too

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

You are 100% right, he is not honest with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if I'm knocking one out I dont someone looking over my shoulder makes the bus journey very difficult

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Depends what you are wanking over. I've wanked with a number of guys on cam who have been showing off wife pics, I tend to look upon it as showing a compliment to them both. However the cam sites are anonymous so I'll never meet these guys in real life once I've logged off. Not so sure about sitting in the same room as someone just wanking to generic porn though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not "

Just get yourself to A&S in Walsall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if I'm knocking one out I dont someone looking over my shoulder makes the bus journey very difficult "

Always keep one hand on the steering wheel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry if I'm knocking one out I dont someone looking over my shoulder makes the bus journey very difficult

Always keep one hand on the steering wheel.

Didn't think of that

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By *atch0101Man
over a year ago

Here

In my opinion if you want to wank along with other men then yiu can't be fully straight.

My opinion of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can be straight and have a wank buddy, as long as you have shared interests to wank over

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Not really my thing but it's good to have a thing or two. Are you bistraightual like me?"

Bistraightual

. Love it. Word of the day

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

That's an oxymoron, no?

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By *plashThisSplashThatMan
over a year ago

London/portsmouth

I don’t get it not shaming your kink or anything but wanting to wank or watch someone wanking does seem a bit sus but each to their own. But if your having a threesome or orgy or at a swing party I think it’s different ???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First off id say defo bi cur. Peoples reasons could be... like been watched like, watching, like looking at other cocks but just dont want to play with one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why people are assuming or making judgements that the OP is bi anything. They have said they're straight, i.e. not attracted to other men, but they enjoy wanking in the presence of other men. That in itself doesn't make someone bi, imho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know why people are assuming or making judgements that the OP is bi anything. They have said they're straight, i.e. not attracted to other men, but they enjoy wanking in the presence of other men. That in itself doesn't make someone bi, imho. "

Exactly this, no-one else can decide if he's straight or not.

There's no difference here to a MMF with two straight guys, doesn't make them bi because they like to have sex with the same girl at the same time.

What about a guy that likes porn with cocks showing?

You can find something sexually arousing without it affecting your sexual orientation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly this, no-one else can decide if he's straight or not.

There's no difference here to a MMF with two straight guys, doesn't make them bi because they like to have sex with the same girl at the same time.

What about a guy that likes porn with cocks showing?

You can find something sexually arousing without it affecting your sexual orientation

Exactly!! Thank you!

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By *ittlewinkerMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

"So I’ve had several messages saying that if I enjoy wanking with other guys I must be bi

I just get laughed at when I say I am straight so my question is do any other straight guys enjoy wanking in front of others ? Or is it just me ? Surely not "

Theres nothing wrong with it. Years ago i had a 3some mmf and the girl got off on the other guys and i by slapping our cocks with each other, it was good fun too

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"I don’t understand this concept. Please explain why you need another guy to wank with. Do you shout words of encouragement to each other? Pat each other on the back? "

I am definitely doing this next time! *high five*

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Sounds like exhibitionism.

But what about the 'Dutch rudder' where you hold your own cock, but your mate holds and moves your wrist up and down?

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

If the point of the wank is to get off watching the other guy then probably a bit bi curious but if they are both wanking over a third party such as porn, wife pics, home movies then no. Anyway, each to their own, just be honest with your wank buddy about what it actually is you are wanking over.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"If the point of the wank is to get off watching the other guy then probably a bit bi curious but if they are both wanking over a third party such as porn, wife pics, home movies then no. Anyway, each to their own, just be honest with your wank buddy about what it actually is you are wanking over."

Yeah, I was invited over for a wanking session, but he actually wanted a full sex session.

I'm bi and would have been happy to indulge, but thinking it was a wank session, hadn't brought condoms, so no play.

Honesty is the best policy

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

Sexuality is not who you do any form of sexual act with.

Sexuality is when you look at someone and it stirs lusty feelings toward them.

It is how you can have people who are asexual but also enjoy sex.

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Dutch rudder. Never heard of that before.

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Mr here

There isn't anything to get, it's the act that is a turn on.

Watching lesbian porn is sexy, but I much prefer it when I see a cock in porn with a lady playing with it.

Watching Mrs suck someone's cock is a massive turn on.

Seeing a guy jerk off to Mrs is a turn on.

It's about the act, not the gender.

Just being open minded and enjoying life.

I'm not bi, and I don't get turned on by men, but seeing a cock does

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