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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sometimes I get messages from men who have messaged me before. They clearly can’t remember so send me another message that’s clearly copy & pasted. Got another such one tonight, word for word, except that he’s had a birthday lol. They may start a new message, but when I get it, it’s attached to the previous message .

Anyone get “doublers”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and it's frustrating. Fair enough it's easy to forget you've messaged someone but if you've messaged before with no reply or little interaction take it as a hint and make a note or block me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't the site give a warning if you've not received a reply from the last message?

I usually block if they do that especially if it's a copy and paste.

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

All the time.... private notes are fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. I had a message today, and he’s sent the exact same message 4 times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time lol we've has a message from this one single guy 3 times in the last week. Copy and paste... he can't even remember he's sent one before lmao

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't the site give a warning if you've not received a reply from the last message?

I usually block if they do that especially if it's a copy and paste. "

Goodness, then there really is no excuse!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Loads!

Had one fella sending me the same message every few months for more than a few years now

And then there's 36y polish. He's rummaging round my inbox on a monthly basis and I still ain't opened a message. He'd love to do something and as yet I'm still not curious enough to open the message and learn what that something is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocked three repeaters today. FFS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads!

Had one fella sending me the same message every few months for more than a few years now

And then there's 36y polish. He's rummaging round my inbox on a monthly basis and I still ain't opened a message. He'd love to do something and as yet I'm still not curious enough to open the message and learn what that something is."

Fine will stop sending you that message

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"Loads!

Had one fella sending me the same message every few months for more than a few years now

And then there's 36y polish. He's rummaging round my inbox on a monthly basis and I still ain't opened a message. He'd love to do something and as yet I'm still not curious enough to open the message and learn what that something is."

Awww...I thought he was only copy and pasting to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads!

Had one fella sending me the same message every few months for more than a few years now

And then there's 36y polish. He's rummaging round my inbox on a monthly basis and I still ain't opened a message. He'd love to do something and as yet I'm still not curious enough to open the message and learn what that something is.

Awww...I thought he was only copy and pasting to me!"

I can if you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m under order of execution from el presidente I can’t send or receive messages

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Loads!

Had one fella sending me the same message every few months for more than a few years now

And then there's 36y polish. He's rummaging round my inbox on a monthly basis and I still ain't opened a message. He'd love to do something and as yet I'm still not curious enough to open the message and learn what that something is.

Awww...I thought he was only copy and pasting to me!"

And everyone else with a chuff within a 50 mile radius I'm guessing. Flattering ain't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Loads!

Had one fella sending me the same message every few months for more than a few years now

And then there's 36y polish. He's rummaging round my inbox on a monthly basis and I still ain't opened a message. He'd love to do something and as yet I'm still not curious enough to open the message and learn what that something is.

Fine will stop sending you that message "

I'm so used to seeing it I'd probably miss it these days if it never arrived.

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Iv had one guy on a few profiles begging me for my dirty socks covered in cum I don't get it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X"

Good luck!

I can always reply for ya. You'll never meet but he'll NEVER forget ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X"

Ooh exciting Dieu!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X

Good luck!

I can always reply for ya. You'll never meet but he'll NEVER forget ya "

Ha ha! Don’t worry, if ever I’m in need of a feisty alter-ego (or even feistier than me at least!), I’ll wheel you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a persistent 'hi'-er

Never says anything else

I've never replied

I just get a 'hi' every 2 or 3 months

It amuses me greatly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get some who constantly wink, seldom messages though. Gina doesnt like to respond but I respond to all messages unless its "Hi".

All of them have given polite responses to rejection or they dont respond at all. We count ourselves very lucky with that. I know women get some right abuse for saying no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X"

Good luck….. since we are both in Edinburgh I sincerely hope it’s not the same guy

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I had the same copy and paste message over 50 times from one guy! Fair play to him because his response when I pointed out what a nana he was being was "but it worked because you've replied to me now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and it's frustrating. Fair enough it's easy to forget you've messaged someone but if you've messaged before with no reply or little interaction take it as a hint and make a note or block me. "

Is that what I did wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X

Good luck….. since we are both in Edinburgh I sincerely hope it’s not the same guy "

He’s a Fifer but you can’t have it all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We get some who constantly wink, seldom messages though. Gina doesnt like to respond but I respond to all messages unless its "Hi".

All of them have given polite responses to rejection or they dont respond at all. We count ourselves very lucky with that. I know women get some right abuse for saying no."

I’ve only once had dummies thrown at me because I said no, but then he ignored my “no” & carried on asking, til I told him if he carried on I’d just block him, then he said I was a boring fat cow - well yes I maybe am but there must have something about he liked enough to message in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the private notes so I don't do this.

No one left to message now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't the site give a warning if you've not received a reply from the last message?

I usually block if they do that especially if it's a copy and paste. "

Yes it definitely does as i see it alot lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had the same copy and paste message over 50 times from one guy! Fair play to him because his response when I pointed out what a nana he was being was "but it worked because you've replied to me now" "

God loves a trier…….

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X

Good luck!

I can always reply for ya. You'll never meet but he'll NEVER forget ya

Ha ha! Don’t worry, if ever I’m in need of a feisty alter-ego (or even feistier than me at least!), I’ll wheel you out

"

I'm giving you a back up for your next miracle.

Dear Mr Sexy Pants

Thanks for your message!

Not only did it shock and surprise me in a good way, it gave me a wee minge twinge. Oooft.

I won't waffle on for ages coz you'll likely think I'm usually found round the back of the bins at Lidl with the other broken paper bag drinkers and neither of us want that so soon.

Anyway, I have a hole and you have a toad.... they're always better together

You're welcome to use that ANY time you like. Ya know. It'll have him tripping over his jaw in disbelief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X

Good luck!

I can always reply for ya. You'll never meet but he'll NEVER forget ya

Ha ha! Don’t worry, if ever I’m in need of a feisty alter-ego (or even feistier than me at least!), I’ll wheel you out

I'm giving you a back up for your next miracle.

Dear Mr Sexy Pants

Thanks for your message!

Not only did it shock and surprise me in a good way, it gave me a wee minge twinge. Oooft.

I won't waffle on for ages coz you'll likely think I'm usually found round the back of the bins at Lidl with the other broken paper bag drinkers and neither of us want that so soon.

Anyway, I have a hole and you have a toad.... they're always better together

You're welcome to use that ANY time you like. Ya know. It'll have him tripping over his jaw in disbelief."

I do enjoy a “wee minge twinge”. Watersports only after the first date though.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I’m under order of execution from el presidente I can’t send or receive messages "

Have you fallen under his spell already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and it's frustrating. Fair enough it's easy to forget you've messaged someone but if you've messaged before with no reply or little interaction take it as a hint and make a note or block me. "

Yes i get it to and i fully agree with what’s said here lol

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I use the private notes so I don't do this.

No one left to message now. "

You've got through all 20 of us genuine females already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit this is not a problem that's on my spectrum!! I would love to get the same message twice from a lady!!! In fairness, I would probably bite her hand off the first time, so a second message would be superfluous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get this all the time and just tell them that they already messaged twice before and that I said no both times. Can they not see the messages are still there?

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Yes, happens often and really gets on my tits. Repeat offenders now just get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the private notes so I don't do this.

No one left to message now.

You've got through all 20 of us genuine females already "

I'm a fast typer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, happens often and really gets on my tits. Repeat offenders now just get blocked. "

Same here x

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I use the private notes so I don't do this.

No one left to message now.

You've got through all 20 of us genuine females already

I'm a fast typer "

Hmmm ... copy and paste I'd suspect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X

Good luck!

I can always reply for ya. You'll never meet but he'll NEVER forget ya

Ha ha! Don’t worry, if ever I’m in need of a feisty alter-ego (or even feistier than me at least!), I’ll wheel you out

I'm giving you a back up for your next miracle.

Dear Mr Sexy Pants

Thanks for your message!

Not only did it shock and surprise me in a good way, it gave me a wee minge twinge. Oooft.

I won't waffle on for ages coz you'll likely think I'm usually found round the back of the bins at Lidl with the other broken paper bag drinkers and neither of us want that so soon.

Anyway, I have a hole and you have a toad.... they're always better together

You're welcome to use that ANY time you like. Ya know. It'll have him tripping over his jaw in disbelief."

Darn it, if only I’d seen this 5 minutes ago The toad and hole comment though, bloody love it. I shall use that for sure. Dunno when. Probably when completely blootered!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X

Good luck!

I can always reply for ya. You'll never meet but he'll NEVER forget ya

Ha ha! Don’t worry, if ever I’m in need of a feisty alter-ego (or even feistier than me at least!), I’ll wheel you out

I'm giving you a back up for your next miracle.

Dear Mr Sexy Pants

Thanks for your message!

Not only did it shock and surprise me in a good way, it gave me a wee minge twinge. Oooft.

I won't waffle on for ages coz you'll likely think I'm usually found round the back of the bins at Lidl with the other broken paper bag drinkers and neither of us want that so soon.

Anyway, I have a hole and you have a toad.... they're always better together

You're welcome to use that ANY time you like. Ya know. It'll have him tripping over his jaw in disbelief.

Darn it, if only I’d seen this 5 minutes ago The toad and hole comment though, bloody love it. I shall use that for sure. Dunno when. Probably when completely blootered! "

Is your gusset like a slip n slide? Spill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep all the damn time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me too. It makes me roll my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I get this all the time and just tell them that they already messaged twice before and that I said no both times. Can they not see the messages are still there? "

If you don't pay you don't see the trail of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@PP, Mixedrace just answered your question in both an accurate and timely fashion

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"@PP, Mixedrace just answered your question in both an accurate and timely fashion "

yaaay! Hahaha haha love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Albeit unwittingly ...

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Yaaay Mr SexyPants!

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By *ewto this stuffMan
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Being a bloke over 50. .I don't get this problem lol. .I can count my messages on one hand lol ..( well maybe 2 ) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Albeit unwittingly ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a few tbh, but it's ok doesn't really bother us we just delete them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh my God, I don’t mean to tempt fate, but I have actually just received THE best message. It’s a decent length, well-written, witty, not sexual, and the guy looks to have a good body too.

I am in state of shock - I’ve forgotten how to reply to the good ones!

I hope to God he’s not a forumite, as I’d die of shame if he saw this!!

Wish me luck!

X"

When you’ve finished with him ask if you can post his message in profile help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I get messages from men who have messaged me before. They clearly can’t remember so send me another message that’s clearly copy & pasted. Got another such one tonight, word for word, except that he’s had a birthday lol. They may start a new message, but when I get it, it’s attached to the previous message .

Anyone get “doublers” "

I don't know why people can't be original ..or remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I get messages from men who have messaged me before. They clearly can’t remember so send me another message that’s clearly copy & pasted. Got another such one tonight, word for word, except that he’s had a birthday lol. They may start a new message, but when I get it, it’s attached to the previous message .

Anyone get “doublers” "

I don't know why people can't be original ..or remember . Besides it's my birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I get messages from men who have messaged me before. They clearly can’t remember so send me another message that’s clearly copy & pasted. Got another such one tonight, word for word, except that he’s had a birthday lol. They may start a new message, but when I get it, it’s attached to the previous message .

Anyone get “doublers”

I don't know why people can't be original ..or remember . Besides it's my birthday "

Happy birthday !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one's that have 'just stumbled on your profile' for the 5th time. Either their memory is terrible or I'm not that memorable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one's that have 'just stumbled on your profile' for the 5th time. Either their memory is terrible or I'm not that memorable "

I "stumble" over your pics alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one's that have 'just stumbled on your profile' for the 5th time. Either their memory is terrible or I'm not that memorable "

This is hilarious a usually ask them if they forgot the last time i told them no

One guy said he just messages 100s he sees online he doesnt even look at the pic or profile so he has no idea if hes messaged before.. desperation comes to mind

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Well when I first joined I sent a fair few messages out to people hoping to make friends etc with no responses.

I don't generally bother to send messages out now because it seems pointless. I sent 2 today but that's rare.

If I came across a person that I had messaged back then I wouldn't message them now. They are obviously not interested.

Copy and paste messages... Nope definitely not great.

My messages now come straight from the forum interaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ladies I never massage so your safe. My spelling and grammar is poor but I have no creepiness and I don't try sex chat lol.

You probably have seen me everyday in forums trying my best to fit in and always been respectful and kind and always happy to help people and have your backs. It's so hard for people like me that can't spell really good but it doesn't make me a bad person, I work so hard everyday to keep all the good things in life. I will never have a job in an office but I have my own business. So if you see me in forums and the spelling isn't good help me out. It's just nice to make friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one's that have 'just stumbled on your profile' for the 5th time. Either their memory is terrible or I'm not that memorable "

Ironic when they've probably said how stunning and gorgeous you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ladies I never massage so your safe. My spelling and grammar is poor but I have no creepiness and I don't try sex chat lol.

You probably have seen me everyday in forums trying my best to fit in and always been respectful and kind and always happy to help people and have your backs. It's so hard for people like me that can't spell really good but it doesn't make me a bad person, I work so hard everyday to keep all the good things in life. I will never have a job in an office but I have my own business. So if you see me in forums and the spelling isn't good help me out. It's just nice to make friends "

Your spelling is fine.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"All the time.... private notes are fun "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I change my profile text and pic quite often so I can't blame people who message me again, how can they know? Not everyone is a site supporter so it doesn't show as messaged before.

I also don't mind copy and paste messages. Most women and couples say they don't reply. I wouldn't be arsed writing a lovely message every time just to be ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ladies I never massage so your safe. My spelling and grammar is poor but I have no creepiness and I don't try sex chat lol.

You probably have seen me everyday in forums trying my best to fit in and always been respectful and kind and always happy to help people and have your backs. It's so hard for people like me that can't spell really good but it doesn't make me a bad person, I work so hard everyday to keep all the good things in life. I will never have a job in an office but I have my own business. So if you see me in forums and the spelling isn't good help me out. It's just nice to make friends "

You are lovely, and your spelling and grammar are fine! Truly, you are nothing like some of the orcs who message us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ladies I never massage so your safe. My spelling and grammar is poor but I have no creepiness and I don't try sex chat lol.

You probably have seen me everyday in forums trying my best to fit in and always been respectful and kind and always happy to help people and have your backs. It's so hard for people like me that can't spell really good but it doesn't make me a bad person, I work so hard everyday to keep all the good things in life. I will never have a job in an office but I have my own business. So if you see me in forums and the spelling isn't good help me out. It's just nice to make friends

Your spelling is fine. "

Yer it took me 30 minutes to do it hahaha but thank you so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ladies I never massage so your safe. My spelling and grammar is poor but I have no creepiness and I don't try sex chat lol.

You probably have seen me everyday in forums trying my best to fit in and always been respectful and kind and always happy to help people and have your backs. It's so hard for people like me that can't spell really good but it doesn't make me a bad person, I work so hard everyday to keep all the good things in life. I will never have a job in an office but I have my own business. So if you see me in forums and the spelling isn't good help me out. It's just nice to make friends

Your spelling is fine.

Yer it took me 30 minutes to do it hahaha but thank you so much "

There used to be a bloke on the forums who pretty much spelled every word wrong/ phonetically. People got used to it and accepted him for it. Some used to take the piss but they'd be told to give their head a wobble.

If you feel ok with it just write how you write, don't overthink it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t care about that if they’re sweet. It’s when it’s coupled with talk of sucking my nipples for hours that it becomes annoying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well ladies I never massage so your safe. My spelling and grammar is poor but I have no creepiness and I don't try sex chat lol.

You probably have seen me everyday in forums trying my best to fit in and always been respectful and kind and always happy to help people and have your backs. It's so hard for people like me that can't spell really good but it doesn't make me a bad person, I work so hard everyday to keep all the good things in life. I will never have a job in an office but I have my own business. So if you see me in forums and the spelling isn't good help me out. It's just nice to make friends

Your spelling is fine.

Yer it took me 30 minutes to do it hahaha but thank you so much

There used to be a bloke on the forums who pretty much spelled every word wrong/ phonetically. People got used to it and accepted him for it. Some used to take the piss but they'd be told to give their head a wobble.

If you feel ok with it just write how you write, don't overthink it. "

Such nice words again thank you.

Its just how I feel when I come in with you lot, and it's a fun and nice place to be. It takes alot of heart and confidence to chat with you lot, but thank you for having my back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message "

This week a local guy messaged me for the 3rd time with a one-liner and the subject was "how do I get to talk to you?". He's married. Wants NSA and attached a dick pic. All 3 things are listed in my profile as what I don't want. Should I really take that as a compliment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message "

That's like saying can't you be grateful that a takeaway wants you to eat at their restaurant. They've posted the same invitation through 1000 letterboxes and the food isn't even that great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message

This week a local guy messaged me for the 3rd time with a one-liner and the subject was "how do I get to talk to you?". He's married. Wants NSA and attached a dick pic. All 3 things are listed in my profile as what I don't want. Should I really take that as a compliment?"

Maybe not now but when you get it another 346 times you might think differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message

That's like saying can't you be grateful that a takeaway wants you to eat at their restaurant. They've posted the same invitation through 1000 letterboxes and the food isn't even that great."

Touché!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the comment I made was in jest and in no way shape or form do I think that persistent messages are a good thing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message

This week a local guy messaged me for the 3rd time with a one-liner and the subject was "how do I get to talk to you?". He's married. Wants NSA and attached a dick pic. All 3 things are listed in my profile as what I don't want. Should I really take that as a compliment?

Maybe not now but when you get it another 346 times you might think differently "

Oops. Blocked him.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

All the time, it's just part of fab, I can kind of understand it, this place is hard work for guys but I imagine it's very rare they get any success from a generic message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message

This week a local guy messaged me for the 3rd time with a one-liner and the subject was "how do I get to talk to you?". He's married. Wants NSA and attached a dick pic. All 3 things are listed in my profile as what I don't want. Should I really take that as a compliment?

Maybe not now but when you get it another 346 times you might think differently

Oops. Blocked him. "

I think it was a wise decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message

That's like saying can't you be grateful that a takeaway wants you to eat at their restaurant. They've posted the same invitation through 1000 letterboxes and the food isn't even that great."

I'm like Saturday night's kebab tipped out on the kerb. Cold and congealed and odd bits of carrot but loads of men still want to lick me.

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Constantly. I block after the third time.

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message "

It’s not a compliment, they just send the exact same message to EVERY woman in a certain radius and hope someone, anyone, will meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message

This week a local guy messaged me for the 3rd time with a one-liner and the subject was "how do I get to talk to you?". He's married. Wants NSA and attached a dick pic. All 3 things are listed in my profile as what I don't want. Should I really take that as a compliment?

Maybe not now but when you get it another 346 times you might think differently

Oops. Blocked him.

I think it was a wise decision "

My conscience is clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t you all just take it as a compliment that for some part of everyday (or few days, weeks, months) someone is thinking of you that much that they want you to know that they are, hoping that maybe just this once you will reply to their 349th message

That's like saying can't you be grateful that a takeaway wants you to eat at their restaurant. They've posted the same invitation through 1000 letterboxes and the food isn't even that great.

I'm like Saturday night's kebab tipped out on the kerb. Cold and congealed and odd bits of carrot but loads of men still want to lick me. "

Jesus Christ woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to me all the time. it must be my charming personality))))

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

C is usually happy with a repeater …but not in this instance!

We get them often…I usually screen shot the same messages and send them back to them saying they need to change their message

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite one was a chap who sent a copy amd paste message, where he just changed the name for the recipient.

He forgot to change it though on the message he sent me... so I let him know, and he thanked me for pointing it out

He then sent the same c&p message the week after, and the week after that

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"My favourite one was a chap who sent a copy amd paste message, where he just changed the name for the recipient.

He forgot to change it though on the message he sent me... so I let him know, and he thanked me for pointing it out

He then sent the same c&p message the week after, and the week after that "

Or ya get "hi both"

Well I know full well you ain't referring to ma tits mate!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

How can people not know they messaged already when it tells you if you have?

I had someone send me a vag pic with genital warts and I definitely wasn't interested and then about a month again she messaged me saying how hot I looked but I remembered the name and just ignored

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"How can people not know they messaged already when it tells you if you have?

I had someone send me a vag pic with genital warts and I definitely wasn't interested and then about a month again she messaged me saying how hot I looked but I remembered the name and just ignored "

Was it Worticia Addams?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"How can people not know they messaged already when it tells you if you have?

I had someone send me a vag pic with genital warts and I definitely wasn't interested and then about a month again she messaged me saying how hot I looked but I remembered the name and just ignored

Was it Worticia Addams?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can people not know they messaged already when it tells you if you have?

I had someone send me a vag pic with genital warts and I definitely wasn't interested and then about a month again she messaged me saying how hot I looked but I remembered the name and just ignored

Was it Worticia Addams?"

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"How can people not know they messaged already when it tells you if you have?

I had someone send me a vag pic with genital warts and I definitely wasn't interested and then about a month again she messaged me saying how hot I looked but I remembered the name and just ignored

Was it Worticia Addams?"

it was not but maybe she should change name to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can people not know they messaged already when it tells you if you have?

I had someone send me a vag pic with genital warts and I definitely wasn't interested and then about a month again she messaged me saying how hot I looked but I remembered the name and just ignored

Was it Worticia Addams?

it was not but maybe she should change name to that "

This has really made me laugh

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"How can people not know they messaged already when it tells you if you have?

I had someone send me a vag pic with genital warts and I definitely wasn't interested and then about a month again she messaged me saying how hot I looked but I remembered the name and just ignored

Was it Worticia Addams?

it was not but maybe she should change name to that

This has really made me laugh "

The mental scar is forever haunting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can people not know they messaged already when it tells you if you have?

I had someone send me a vag pic with genital warts and I definitely wasn't interested and then about a month again she messaged me saying how hot I looked but I remembered the name and just ignored "

It only tells you you've previously messaged if you're a site supporter. Or if you've messaged again within a week (I think)

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Sometimes I get messages from men who have messaged me before. They clearly can’t remember so send me another message that’s clearly copy & pasted. Got another such one tonight, word for word, except that he’s had a birthday lol. They may start a new message, but when I get it, it’s attached to the previous message .

Anyone get “doublers” "

They may click through updates or use the search function, whilst they are lying back in the privacy of their wanking chariot in their mother's spare room.

They will have 2 screens, one for the game they are playing and the other for Fab.

But to be fair they will be multitasking. They will have their left hand on their joystick and the other copying and pasting the text from one message to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I get messages from men who have messaged me before. They clearly can’t remember so send me another message that’s clearly copy & pasted. Got another such one tonight, word for word, except that he’s had a birthday lol. They may start a new message, but when I get it, it’s attached to the previous message .

Anyone get “doublers” "

Yes regularly. I always respond along the lines of "tha ks again for messaging me, my answer remains the same in that I'm not interested. Then they get blocked if they haven't already!

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Sometimes I get messages from men who have messaged me before. They clearly can’t remember so send me another message that’s clearly copy & pasted. Got another such one tonight, word for word, except that he’s had a birthday lol. They may start a new message, but when I get it, it’s attached to the previous message .

Anyone get “doublers”

Yes regularly. I always respond along the lines of "tha ks again for messaging me, my answer remains the same in that I'm not interested. Then they get blocked if they haven't already! "

Note to self.

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Doesn't the site give a warning if you've not received a reply from the last message?

I usually block if they do that especially if it's a copy and paste.

Goodness, then there really is no excuse!"

When you go into their profile it tells you if you've messaged them and how long ago. It also tells you when they last replied.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

All the time, I block after the third one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only get guys messaging me and checking my profile out

Do I not fit the profile of being a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve had someone message us, have a short back and forth and then an hour later send another opening message. How can you forget in the space of an hour?

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I only get guys messaging me and checking my profile out

Do I not fit the profile of being a swinger?"

Loads of people have their profile set on private so you won't see that they've viewed you.

There must have been thousands that have viewed me that I can't see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use the private notes so I don't do this.

No one left to message now.

You've got through all 20 of us genuine females already

I'm a fast typer

Hmmm ... copy and paste I'd suspect "

Never, always an individually crafted load of nonsense

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

There are serial offenders. Its the repeaters who open with "enjoyed our chat last week" and are then polite that catch us, have we talked before? and we then have to do a cross check and realise it's BS. Grrr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We’ve had someone message us, have a short back and forth and then an hour later send another opening message. How can you forget in the space of an hour?"

Dementia?

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