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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Off the forums. Has anyone else experienced this. A flat feeling like there isn't much to contribute. The repetitive nature of forum topics and you just can't be bothered to post.

I've been feeling like this for the past few days.

I guess nobody even noticed my absence but if you did, luvs ya back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m still ok with the forums, but often feel this way about the messaging side of things.

Maybe have a wee break and see how you feel then?

Much as I love the forum, I do agree that it can be repetitive.

X

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm a bit of an unenthusiastic forumer at the moment. I put it down to January blues.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I come and go a lot from the forums and fab In general.

If you feel you’re getting more or moaning more than smiling, take a break. It often works wonders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I totally get where you're coming from.

I don't post as much as I used to. It can all get a bit 'meh' and as others have said it can be repetitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit of an unenthusiastic forumer at the moment. I put it down to January blues. "

I was thinking just earlier that I feel I’ve lost my sparkle this month. January blues for sure.

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Fab - Come for the sexy, stay for the (forum) nonsense!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

January blues in the air ... or maybe a serious dose of CBA

(Can't be arsed )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m still ok with the forums, but often feel this way about the messaging side of things.

Maybe have a wee break and see how you feel then?

Much as I love the forum, I do agree that it can be repetitive.

X"

Same goes with the messages. Not messaged anyone new for a while for the same reason. It's all repetitive. If you catch my drift

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

I often feel like this, I arrive with enthusiasm, scroll around, stare into the mid-distance, contemplate the meaning of existence then return to oggling bums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"January blues in the air ... or maybe a serious dose of CBA

(Can't be arsed )

"

It could be 'Fabbed off'

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"January blues in the air ... or maybe a serious dose of CBA

(Can't be arsed )

It could be 'Fabbed off' "

Oh yes ... good one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"January blues in the air ... or maybe a serious dose of CBA

(Can't be arsed )

It could be 'Fabbed off'

Oh yes ... good one "

Maybe haven't lost all the shine

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have regular fab breaks, keeps things fresh and I look forward to coming back

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Yep. Very frequently.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I use the forums while I'm waiting for messages.

It's something to pass the time in between the sex stuff.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

They get so repetitive at times with the same band of formites commenting.

I regularly take breaks from them. Suppose it helps that most of my communications happen with people who don't use the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like my daily newspaper now. Just scroll through forums, mostly just lurking unless I have something stupid to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been really quiet recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you need to adjust your expectations.

The forums aren't some kinda magical gateway to happiness, popularity and access to cock/pussy on tap *delete as applicable)

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

It's all pretty new to me. But they do let me express myself without others interrupting me.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Yes rarely post anything on the forum these days. Either can't be bothered, have nothing to contribute or even worse I don't understand the topic. Also the fact that in 99% of my post my contribution will be ignore means I think why bother.

Irony is that I am posting on this threat.

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By *anasGodMan
over a year ago

everywhere

Hi am new here dunno if I can write at forum yet…

So maybe the forum is a lil bit boring or sometimes gets?

One good update should be thumps up or down (something like or dislike) to the post …maybe to show that you agree or disagree? Or something like that is not always that you must answer to something…you just nod you head and action is better than word they say

Just say… . Ideas

Human solutions….

Happy fabing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noochie felt the same and he left site completely, ive taken his place and I think im heading the same way....forums are getting a tad boring and very samey

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I'm definitely at that point, but habit has me scrolling, usually when I'm on boring conference calls. Plus I'm a nosey bugger and it can make for decent people wanting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had that, just a complete mental block where I don't know what to post or contribute and the threads don't interest me, even my ability to be a smart-arse deserts me and can try to force it. Just need to admit it's not my day and try again the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stayed away for 5 years. The downside is everyone’s left and I can’t remember how to do any of the hidden emojis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They get so repetitive at times with the same band of formites commenting.

I regularly take breaks from them. Suppose it helps that most of my communications happen with people who don't use the forums."

Exactly this and I wonder how they are able to keep commenting on the same topics over and over. It's commendable in a fab kinda way

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