FabSwingers.com forum: Am I missing something here?

By *Lhead OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

I'll ask this question again to make sure I'm not going crazy.

Would anyone meet a complete stranger off here for a shag for the 1st time without any pictures whatsoever? No veri, no pic, no nothing.

Seriously, does anyone actually meet these people?

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

I wouldn’t no. But I’m sure there are people who would and do- plenty of men expect me to meet them in those circumstances.

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By *orruptionandliesMan
over a year ago

leeds

Without a pic no, I don't get the ones where they expect to meet without a face pic who and how do you know who you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red flags everywhere OP I'm afraid to say xx

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Not a chance from me, but I’m sure some would.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't personally but I'm sure others would.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

When I first signed up on a the new profile. I had no photos,no verifications and no profile bio. I had over 40 messages in the first few hours asking to meet now

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

There is no right or wrong way to fab, just your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men would

Ask the women with no pics at all, they still get messaged to death

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By *Lhead OP Man
over a year ago

Chester

"Red flags everywhere OP I'm afraid to say xx"

Exactly and I ask them outright and tell them they could be literally ANYONE and nothing like their profile description Ffs.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Would I?

Nope

Do others?

Yep.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I absolutely wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic.

In the past I have met unverified men, only after chatting for a good while and then having a social.

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By *oulou0974Woman
over a year ago

Inverness

"When I first signed up on a the new profile. I had no photos,no verifications and no profile bio. I had over 40 messages in the first few hours asking to meet now "

I had this too, couldn’t actually believe it!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first signed up on a the new profile. I had no photos,no verifications and no profile bio. I had over 40 messages in the first few hours asking to meet now "

The vultures love the new women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men would

Ask the women with no pics at all, they still get messaged to death"

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Not a chance

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've met unverified men a few times. Never meet without a face photo.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

trouble most likely, or creating it :)

"I've met unverified men a few times. Never meet without a face photo."
I've met many people with no verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not a chance.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Absolutely not!!

There are SO many reasons- attraction, security, possible embarrassment meeting someone you know...it could be cringeworthy or downright dangerous!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, definitely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I first signed up on a the new profile. I had no photos,no verifications and no profile bio. I had over 40 messages in the first few hours asking to meet now "

I had this too. Crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite no

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

No, absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a firm no from me!

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never have a first meet on the basis that there will definitely be sex.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Nope.

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly different thought to it all, would the fantasy of it turn you on… blind meet in hotel room, all you have is maybe pics of bodies do know the body size shape… i think it would be very hot.. enter the room and both so horny they ravish each other

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

No pictures = no from us.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I've had people arrange a social, before seeing a face pic.

Not something I would do.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Slightly different thought to it all, would the fantasy of it turn you on… blind meet in hotel room, all you have is maybe pics of bodies do know the body size shape… i think it would be very hot.. enter the room and both so horny they ravish each other "

No chance, I value my life

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By *immyb1985Man
over a year ago

bridgend

Been asked and always asked myself for a face pic before both of my meets on here years ago.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"I'll ask this question again to make sure I'm not going crazy.

Would anyone meet a complete stranger off here for a shag for the 1st time without any pictures whatsoever? No veri, no pic, no nothing.

Seriously, does anyone actually meet these people? "

Yeah, you are missing the point that world is different. What is ok for you could be extreme for other and what is extreme for you could be ok for other. It’s just perception.

There are good amount of human being who would say mfm 3some is unacceptable. And they have very very low opinion about these who do such things.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Many of us take security arrangements for meets very seriously. We mostly have preferences that include physical appearance, that exclude the majority of people who claim to be what we need.

Throwing those things of great importance away, seems a little silly, desperate, naive, possibly an anonymous meet fetish. Or even someone who is very different to their profile claims. A man pretending to be a woman?

I might do such a meet at a club or a fab social, if I felt protected. There are others around to rely on.

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

Just to add, I’ll not meet for sex with random people. Social first and see how it goes. But I don’t have any reservations for these who do.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

No chance far too risky

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

No, I would to know what they look like first

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not many.

My very first meet met me that way

I'd forgotten to send a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for a shag I wouldn’t ...

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

I'll meet people with no veris - everyone has to start somewhere.

But no pics or info and just for a shag - not a chance!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance, I value my life"

Yeah it would definitely be very risky.

Although exciting i think you have the right idea.

I think for me it would be a turn on waiting for that room door to open… then see s horny women drag me in lol

But completely understand from a woman’s perspective

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have met for a social without seeing pics before now. We'd been messaging for ages and it didn't occur to me until I was on my way to the pub that I had no idea what he looked like.

He had seen my face photo on WhatsApp so could recognise me.

I wouldn't meet for sex without a social first, so I know whether I fancy someone beforehand.

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By *hocCock1Man
over a year ago

Southampton

"I'll ask this question again to make sure I'm not going crazy.

Would anyone meet a complete stranger off here for a shag for the 1st time without any pictures whatsoever? No veri, no pic, no nothing.

Seriously, does anyone actually meet these people? "

A lot of men on here would, very few women would, I never have and never will

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