FabSwingers.com forum: Your first ever meet off the Internet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When was it?

Where was it?

How did it go?

Did it turn sexual?

Did you meet again?

Are you still in touch?

For me...

2001

A bar in Manchester

Pretty well, considering it was my first ever time deliberately meeting a stranger

Yes

Yes, but only once

Oddly, yes - didn't see each other for years, but both turned up at the same birthday party - turned out we had a friend in common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was it? 2018

Where was it? His place

How did it go? Ok

Did it turn sexual? Yes

Did you meet again? Yes

Are you still in touch? No, Thanks to the efforts of the police and my solicitor threatening a no contact order, I’ve not heard from him since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was it? 2010

Where was it? Local pub

How did it go? Very well

Did it turn sexual? Yes

Did you meet again? Many times

Are you still in touch? No they moved away

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Ooh, let me caste my mind way back and try to remember

Blimey, I really can't remember

It was so long ago; probably 13 years.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

So, 2008/9.

Chatted for ages as he was abroad.

Had sex first time we met.

Carried on having sex for about 2 years.

He was 20 years younger than me and showed me how good sex could be.

First time I had an orgasm from oral, and first time I deep throated.

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

A town and place not in the UK

When was it? 2015

Where was it? Shenzhen

How did it go? Very very well

Did it turn sexual? Very much so

Did you meet again? Yep

Are you still in touch? Yep

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

When was it? 2000

Where was it? USA

How did it go? Well

Did it turn sexual? Yes

Did you meet again? Yes

Are you still in touch? Yes

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By *est_Mids_Nice_GuyMan
over a year ago

willenhall

"When was it?

Where was it?

How did it go?

Did it turn sexual?

Did you meet again?

Are you still in touch?

1997

I picked her up at a car park in Worcester at a 1000 a few hours before she was due at work (she was a nurse). We initially went to a travel inn but we couldn’t book in until 1400 so we went for a walk in the woods.

We got on really well and we’re both intent on having sex with each other.

As soon as we found a spot of the beaten track it became very sexual. We kissed, had some mutual masterbation and took it in turns giving oral against a tree. We then put out coats down and she lay me on the coats, pulled out a condom from her bag and rolled it down my cock with her mouth before straddling me. We then fucked and she came very noisily twice before I came in the condom.

We never met again.

We kept in touch for a while but drifted apart

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

2019

Coffee shop

Got on well

No sex

Never met again

Still very much in contact x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was it? 2018

Where was it? in a hotel

How did it go? Excellent

Did it turn sexual? Very

Did you meet again? None

Are you still in touch None

I was blindfolded so never actually got to see him.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

When was it?

Where was it?

How did it go?

Did it turn sexual?

Did you meet again?

Are you still in touch?

For me...

2016

At his place

Ok, I was a little nervous at first but that soon past

Yes

No, he made the classic mistake of becoming clingy & messaging everyday over something that was meant to be some NSA fun

Obviously not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was it? - 2007, we started chatting in an AOL chatroom (anyone else remember chatrooms?).

Where was it? - at my place.

How did it go? - all the way.

Did it turn sexual? - oh yes.

Did you meet again? - oh yes, we married about year later.

Are you still in touch? - divorced 5yrs ago but still good friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When was it? - 2007, we started chatting in an AOL chatroom (anyone else remember chatrooms?).

Where was it? - at my place.

How did it go? - all the way.

Did it turn sexual? - oh yes.

Did you meet again? - oh yes, we married about year later.

Are you still in touch? - divorced 5yrs ago but still good friends.

I remember them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When was it? - 2007, we started chatting in an AOL chatroom (anyone else remember chatrooms?).

Where was it? - at my place.

How did it go? - all the way.

Did it turn sexual? - oh yes.

Did you meet again? - oh yes, we married about year later.

Are you still in touch? - divorced 5yrs ago but still good friends.

I remember them. "

Showing ur age now

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

Never met anyone off the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was it? 2002

Where was it? Aberdeen

How did it go? Not great

Did it turn sexual? Only a little

Did you meet again? Dated for a month

Are you still in touch? Hell no

Turned out she was a paranoid schizophrenic who was banging her dealers for smack... couldn’t see me for dust when that came to light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When was it? - 2007, we started chatting in an AOL chatroom (anyone else remember chatrooms?).

Where was it? - at my place.

How did it go? - all the way.

Did it turn sexual? - oh yes.

Did you meet again? - oh yes, we married about year later.

Are you still in touch? - divorced 5yrs ago but still good friends.

I remember them.

Showing ur age now

Yeah that's why I didn't give the year!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

2004, the dude I ended up in an 11 year relationship with, who abused me mentally and physically for 8 of those years.

Whadda mistakea to makea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was an early online game, met up and yes was lots of sex, would been in mid 90s

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

When was it? 2007

Where was it? Glasgow

How did it go? Horrendous

Did it turn sexual? Yes

Did you meet again? Nope, his brother walked in on us having sex on the kitchen counter and I’d already had sex with the brother about 6 months prior!

Are you still in touch? Nope!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It was 2013 (I think).

My first meet from the first time I was on fab (the real trooper).

We met at a pub just a few doors from her house.

And we've stayed friends ever since.

(Note to self - message her).

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Feb 2008, met at my place, I shook his hand when he came in the door which he found hilarious after

yes it was sexual, yes we met for many years after

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

When was it? 2010

Where was it? M/F couples home about an hours drive away

How did it go? Great, both nice people.

Did it turn sexual? Yes, it was expected.

Did you meet again? Yes

Are you still in touch? No

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't remember - back when Craigslist personal ads were a real thing.

It went really well and carried on for a few years. Weekly, every other day at one point. I even persuaded him to sign up to Fab and he occasionally pokes his head on the forums.

It turned very sexual very quickly. Such a slut I know. Old me was a riot.

Yeah, we're still in touch. He's got some kind of magnetic pull, I'm blaming that bloody Scottish accent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was it 2004

Where was it shopping center

How did it go emmmm though it went well but looking back on it definitely not ha ha

Did it turn sexual nope

Did you meet again yes and no sort off we had a friend in commen for a little while see each other in passing

Are you still in touch no

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

"When was it?

Where was it?

How did it go?

Did it turn sexual?

Did you meet again?

Are you still in touch?

For me...

2001

A bar in Manchester

Pretty well, considering it was my first ever time deliberately meeting a stranger

Yes

Yes, but only once

Oddly, yes - didn't see each other for years, but both turned up at the same birthday party - turned out we had a friend in common"

It was 2012 off Craiglist. It was in the university showers one day when I had stayed after work (student job in the uni while studying). It was totally all sexual, there was no talking (like zero words) and we didn’t meet again. In hindsight I think it may have been a first internet meet for the both of us. We didn’t even get each others names. It was a bit surreal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was it? 2000

Where was it?local pub

How did it go?better than I thought it would

Did it turn sexual? yes

Did you meet again? yes

Are you still in touch? nope got weird

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought Craigslist was just an American thing

Maybe I am innocent after all

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By *iggyStarjumpsMan
over a year ago

Stockport

When was it? 2017

Where was it? We met in a bar near her place

How did it go? We'd been sexting all week so there's was loads of tension and chemistry as soon as she walked in.

Did it turn sexual? Yes

Did you meet again? Yes but only a few times

Are you still in touch? Sadly not

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

It was about 17 years ago on another swingers site we got invited to a local party met some great people that we can still call our friends..

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"It was about 17 years ago on another swingers site we got invited to a local party met some great people that we can still call our friends.."
And yes their was plenty of sex involved

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

When was it? Summer 2021.

Where was it? In a coffee shop in Holborn, London.

How did it go? I gave her £500 and she handed me a 1st Edition of J R R Tolkien's "The Hobbit".

Did it turn sexual? No, but she gave me a cheeky wink as she departed for Yorkshire.

Did you meet again? I left her a review on eBay.

Are you still in touch? No.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

2014 I set it up without her knowing

Manchester

His first time also.

Was it good? It was mind blowing.

See him again? Too right

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

It started on MSN - maybe around 2001 ish.

A.S.L?

Remember that?

He was from Shropshire. I forget his name. He came to Wales on a stagecoach. My parents let him stay for one night, on the sofa! He didn’t leave for two weeks when my parents had to throw him out. I couldn’t get rid of him. So random!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I honestly can't remember... Possibly 2001 when I was in New Zealand?

Don't think it was a thing before that, did do the add in the paper though and get letters back in the 90s!

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

nr southend

2014

At dv8 in Kent

Went really well

Yes it certainly did lol

It lead to a two year poly relationship

Sadly not

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By *entralversMan
over a year ago

Stirling

When was it? 2014 after I joined the sister site as a horny 19 year old

Where was it? 2am in woods at the back of old commercial building

How did it go? Great

Did it turn sexual? Yes

Did you meet again? Yes

Are you still in touch? No

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"When was it?

Where was it?

How did it go?

Did it turn sexual?

Did you meet again?

Are you still in touch?

2014

Met for coffee

Yes

Yes x

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"When was it? 2018

Where was it? His place

How did it go? Ok

Did it turn sexual? Yes

Did you meet again? Yes

Are you still in touch? No, Thanks to the efforts of the police and my solicitor threatening a no contact order, I’ve not heard from him since. "

Holee Shit!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

When was it? 2009/10ish?

Where was it? Hotel in Glasgow

How did it go? Very well. I was naive to the point of idiocy so it could've gone very badly wrong, but he was a great guy and it was a brilliant introduction to submission.

Did it turn sexual? It started as a sexual thing, there was no build-up to it!

Did you meet again? No, it was a great couple of nights but we were fundamentally looking for very different things.

Are you still in touch? No. We did keep in touch for a while but life moves on.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Haha.

Grab yerselves a seat. I have been meeting people in person from online platforms since 1992. *reclines in rocking chair* *puts down knitting and takes a sip of her tea*

Not on sexual terms, though. Always vanilla. In 1992 I was chatting to a guy named Billy who was going to a different university campus, this was on Bitnet, he wanted to come and see me. And he did. He brought a friend, I brought a friend too and the 4 of us spent a Saturday together having lunch and I think we went to the cinema. I fancied him, he didn’t fancy me. He ghosted me afterwards.

After that, I’ve met possibly hundreds of people off the internet and have belonged to a plethora of online communities. This is how I socialise. I can show the real me online. In person I can sometimes be awkward, shy or insecure.

In sexual terms, i had my first meet in possibly 2008. I was living in Ireland and went on an adult swinging website not that different to this one. Met someone about 15 years older than me. Really pleasant and made me feel great about myself. Yes, we had sex but it wasn’t fantastic because despite he being lovely and making me feel great, I was not that attracted to him. We only met twice.

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By *ad Bod AdonisMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

If it ever happens I'll let you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was it? - 2006

Where was it? - their place (I met a couple)

How did it go? - really well

Did it turn sexual? - yes

Did you meet again? - yes many times but the sexual side petered out after about a year

Are you still in touch? - yes, we're still best friends

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By *omnvixCouple
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester

When was it? 2005

Where was it? A hotel in Cheltenham

How did it go? Amazing

Did it turn sexual? Yes

Did you meet again? No

Are you still in touch? No

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