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By *ussyeater2419 OP   Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Am new to this why is it nobody bothers with you when you’re new to things

And why do I seem just to attract single men

I don’t understand

I personally don’t think I’m the ugliest person around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does nobody bother?

Cos you're 1 in 20,000

Why single guys?

Cos you're straight and some see that as a challenge

You've also got that rough tradie look about ya - that's like nectar to a gay bloke

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

One thing I've learned on here is that it helps to be patient, very, very patient.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

You've been here a year whereas others only few months or weeks we all attract what we don't intend to meet just enjoy the experience people just like being nosey

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

Men grossly out number women on here, so it's a challenge for even the best to get noticed. Keep working on your profile, and photos to present yourself in the best possible light and to try and make yourself stand out from the mahoosive crowd of other guys.

Guys who are looking for other guys will message just about anyone, en masse, on the off chance that someone might be up for it. Just ignore them if you're not interested, or block them.

Most importantly, don't let a lack of success here, get you down. It's tough.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

And the number of guys on here means nothing.its how well you connect their are a number of things respect personality looks able to string more than a few words not everything has to be about filth or not at all as your building up a connection with chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key, .

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Am new to this why is it nobody bothers with you when you’re new to things

And why do I seem just to attract single men

I don’t understand

I personally don’t think I’m the ugliest person around"

I wouldn't say a profile over a year old is new. Single guys always check out single guys. Same as girls checl out the girls. Because we nosey.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It's about being what women are looking for and presenting yourself well in your profile and messages you send. Women have a great deal of choice so most men aren't going to get much luck on here.

I think your username would put off a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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And why do I seem just to attract single men"

Your head would look a good target in the middle of a circle jerk

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I wouldn’t have got further than the username I’m afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you made any effort to getting involved in the swinging scene or have you just opened a profile and expected people to come to you.

You often find in life that rewards are reaped by the the amount of effort put in.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I wouldn’t have got further than the username I’m afraid. "

Me neither it’s a bit juvenile. Your profile standing out is key really. I don’t think anyone wants to babysit people. Make an effort, what have you got to lose at the end of the day. Get to socials if not a club. Interact on the forums.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Am new to this why is it nobody bothers with you when you’re new to things

And why do I seem just to attract single men

I don’t understand

I personally don’t think I’m the ugliest person around"

Hello,

You are right, you are not the ugliest person I have ever seen.

Why do you think your lack of success is due to you being 'new here' as you call it?

You attract single men because single men message everything and anything and they text type with their cocks so don't labour under the illusion that it's something about you that is fuckable..... if i put a picture up of an apple they would message it.

You would understand if you put a little effort into analysing what goes on.

Have a lovely day.

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By *ussyeater2419 OP   Man
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I wouldn’t have got further than the username I’m afraid.

Me neither it’s a bit juvenile. Your profile standing out is key really. I don’t think anyone wants to babysit people. Make an effort, what have you got to lose at the end of the day. Get to socials if not a club. Interact on the forums."

And your username is not juvenile okay then

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Fifteen weeks later....

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