FabSwingers.com forum: Daddy issues

By *olacola OP Man
over a year ago

lincoln

Don’t all shout at once, but a younger woman who wants to meet an older experienced guy would be just the ticket….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

here we go again

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

I keep creeping round in old tombs..but I’ve got mummy issues..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh? You want this or you're not a fan?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

OP you've just alienated all the lovely young ladies on here who like older guys but, don't in any way shape or form have Daddy issues.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I dont have any issues with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just here to read the replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do they need to have issues?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

Steals some popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck in your search OP, I hope you find what you want.

Use the search function to find ladies around the ages your looking for. Very few fabbers come to the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

Steals some popcorn"

Refills the bowl. And brings drinks

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Popcorn time

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Are you asking for a younger woman who has a bad relationship with their father?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I don't really get on with my dad. Not seen him in about 20 or so years.

Wouldn't say it makes me attracted to older men though.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Stop it OP, you'll give all the other monkeys here a bad name

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

Steals some popcorn

Refills the bowl. And brings drinks "

Fancy seeing you here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

Steals some popcorn"

*slaps hand. Manners!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

Steals some popcorn

Refills the bowl. And brings drinks "

thank you

*gives Drew the side eye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really get on with my dad. Not seen him in about 20 or so years.

Wouldn't say it makes me attracted to older men though. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

Steals some popcorn

Refills the bowl. And brings drinks

Fancy seeing you here

We meet in all the right treads

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By *olacola OP Man
over a year ago

lincoln

"Stop it OP, you'll give all the other monkeys here a bad name

LvM"

All monkeys are bad…

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

I have daddy issues. Doesn’t mean I want to fuck men who are much older than me though, or those who remind me of him. Urgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

Steals some popcorn

Refills the bowl. And brings drinks

Fancy seeing you here

We meet in all the right treads

I am keeping a low profile shhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

Steals some popcorn

Refills the bowl. And brings drinks

Fancy seeing you here

We meet in all the right treads

I am keeping a low profile shhh"

Me to, I’m just here to take notes for Sydney university.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m just here to read the replies

Popcorn *holds out bowl

Steals some popcorn

Refills the bowl. And brings drinks

Fancy seeing you here

We meet in all the right treads

I am keeping a low profile shhh

Me to, I’m just here to take notes for Sydney university. "

Brilliant. I mean someone always has to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm attracted to older men, always have been. Doesn't mean I have "daddy issues" though.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"I'm attracted to older men, always have been. Doesn't mean I have "daddy issues" though. "

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I've got a thing for the characters created by Ken Dodd... Diddy issues

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"OP you've just alienated all the lovely young ladies on here who like older guys but, don't in any way shape or form have Daddy issues. "

You can't alienate a group that doesn't exist.

*joking angry people reading this*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm attracted to older men, always have been. Doesn't mean I have "daddy issues" though.

Flirt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?"

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daddy issues and being attracted to older men are two different things. I can’t imagine too many people who have daddy issues would want to fuck older men let alone call them ‘daddy’

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Wait, does this mean you have daughter issues?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I have daddy issues but my other half is 9 years younger than me. Just because we do doesn't mean we're looking for a replacement.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Don’t all shout at once, but a younger woman who wants to meet an older experienced guy would be just the ticket…."

The only ticket I want can be found in Wonka bars!

Fucking Charlie Bucket, bring back Augustus Gloop, that silly nincompoop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it always blamed on the women by being daddy issues, why isn’t it blamed on the father that gave her the issues…

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Why is it always blamed on the women by being daddy issues, why isn’t it blamed on the father that gave her the issues…"

Because its a male fantasy to have someone with “Daddy issues” and who fantasises about being a twat?

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

... and what about the men, who only ever seek out younger women - what issues do they have - I wonder?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If wanko puts a rolling eye emoji on a thread then it kind of tells you it’s going to be a bad/funny thread.

Best of luck op!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it always blamed on the women by being daddy issues, why isn’t it blamed on the father that gave her the issues…

Because its a male fantasy to have someone with “Daddy issues” and who fantasises about being a twat?"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"If wanko puts a rolling eye emoji on a thread then it kind of tells you it’s going to be a bad/funny thread.

Best of luck op!!!!

Wanko.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"OP you've just alienated all the lovely young ladies on here who like older guys but, don't in any way shape or form have Daddy issues.

You can't alienate a group that doesn't exist.

*joking angry people reading this*"

We need to have words you cheeky wotsit. *joking not joking*

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Don’t all shout at once, but a younger woman who wants to meet an older experienced guy would be just the ticket…."

This isn’t turning out quite as you hoped, is it?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"... and what about the men, who only ever seek out younger women - what issues do they have - I wonder?!

A desire to fuck someone whos boobs aren’t good friends with their ankles?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Don’t all shout at once, but a younger woman who wants to meet an older experienced guy would be just the ticket…."

I don’t understand. Do you have daddy issues ? And you need help on a swingers forum ?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I’m saying nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not 100% sure on this, I think he just wants to recreate the things that caused said issues, but at a more experienced level of disappointment ?

But you need to take a ticket and wait your turn?

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By *iss_FickleWoman
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

"... and what about the men, who only ever seek out younger women - what issues do they have - I wonder?!

A desire to fuck someone whos boobs aren’t good friends with their ankles?"

Not all women have boobs, regardless of age...

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love. "

Ah, it’s simpler than that. He has clearly been watching too much American porn which always seems to be about daddies, stepmoms etc.

He is probably suffering from Tissue Issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love. "

He's literally written one sentence and you can gauge all that? That's a bit much to be even suggesting that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe pause the pile on and wait for the OP to clarify?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

He's literally written one sentence and you can gauge all that? That's a bit much to be even suggesting that. "

But it is a valid point of what some (not necessarily the OP) would look for in vulnerability, to manipulate a situation or person in such a way. They didn’t necessarily say that is absolutely what the OPs intentions are, but it is however a possibility.

It’s all hypothesis, _ased on the question “why do you need to have issues “ rather than a direct conclusion.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe the word "daddy" should be removed....we all know how that turns out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe the word "daddy" should be removed....we all know how that turns out"

To be honest, I thought this was going’s to go along the lines of, the want for older men or a DD dynamic only stems from daddy issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe the word "daddy" should be removed....we all know how that turns out"

Then what would my wife call me? Dave? Don’t be ludicrous

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I’m not 100% sure on this, I think he just wants to recreate the things that caused said issues, but at a more experienced level of disappointment ?

But you need to take a ticket and wait your turn? "

More experienced at abandoning or neglecting children. Gotcha. I was way off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

He's literally written one sentence and you can gauge all that? That's a bit much to be even suggesting that.

It’s all hypothesis, _ased on the question “why do you need to have issues “ rather than a direct conclusion. "

It's a lot of hypothesising _ased on very little.

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

40 odd thousand members here of which 20,000 are suspected single males leaving 15,000 couples and 5,000 suspected single females. Not accounting for time wasters.the single guys and couples want single ladies

what are your chances

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

He's literally written one sentence and you can gauge all that? That's a bit much to be even suggesting that.

It’s all hypothesis, _ased on the question “why do you need to have issues “ rather than a direct conclusion. "

Deep.

Of the women I know/known, the ones with daddy issues often seen submissive not dominant men, the ones using the word Daddy to a partner are very secure usually don’t have daddy issues or they’d reuse to use the term. And not all men attracted to vulnerability are weak or manipulative, some just have the capacity to deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"here we go again

El presidente wonko !

Two bierr pot favor !

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Maybe the word "daddy" should be removed....we all know how that turns out

Then what would my wife call me? Dave? Don’t be ludicrous

It's only ludicrous if your name is Alan

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Maybe he wants to spoil her and treat her nice, to make up for the lack of a father.

I had a wonderful dad who we lost way too soon.

It's nice to feel protected and loved.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Maybe he wants to spoil her and treat her nice, to make up for the lack of a father.

I had a wonderful dad who we lost way too soon.

It's nice to feel protected and loved.

Was about to come and say maybe he's worded it wrong and has the desire to nuture someone. Some people have that desire to care and look after others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep.

I agree, not all will be looking for the same reasons.

Motive would be something to look at though. Why look for some one with a vulnerability, Rather than accepting of vulnerability that person may have. This for me would be where I would question motives.

Not all will have sinister motive, but there is also those who will.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

He's literally written one sentence and you can gauge all that? That's a bit much to be even suggesting that. "

... and in the one dented that he ruled he didn’t even mention daddy issues, just saying he’s love to hear from a younger lady who was looking for an older experienced guy.

Some of what had been read into this is a bit extreme ... that he is looks for vulnerable people to exploit as taking advantage of, etc.

I suspect that the reason that we haven’t heard more from OP is that he is busy dealing with all the young ladies who want to meet him.

Or maybe he is having a nap.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Deep.

I agree, not all will be looking for the same reasons.

Not all will have sinister motive, but there is also those who will.

Have you read OP’s initial post? Or just the heading?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

He's literally written one sentence and you can gauge all that? That's a bit much to be even suggesting that.

... and in the one dented that he ruled he didn’t even mention daddy issues, just saying he’s love to hear from a younger lady who was looking for an older experienced guy.

Some of what had been read into this is a bit extreme ... that he is looks for vulnerable people to exploit as taking advantage of, etc.

I suspect that the reason that we haven’t heard more from OP is that he is busy dealing with all the young ladies who want to meet him.

Or maybe he is having a nap.

If I were him I'd have a nap

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Come on OP......

So everyone can stop guessing,

What's with the Daddy Issue title???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep.

I agree, not all will be looking for the same reasons.

Not all will have sinister motive, but there is also those who will.

Have you read OP’s initial post? Or just the heading? "

Read both and like many confused as to what the link is between the two.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

Deep.

I agree, not all will be looking for the same reasons.

Not all will have sinister motive, but there is also those who will.

Have you read OP’s initial post? Or just the heading?

Read both and like many confused as to what the link is between the two. "

I got the impression that he was hoping to have add with a young lady who liked having sex with older men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe the word "daddy" should be removed....we all know how that turns out

Then what would my wife call me? Dave? Don’t be ludicrous

It's only ludicrous if your name is Alan

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP has gone senile and forgot he's got a fab account so won't respond. He's off looking for his landline phone to call a number he got in a phonebox in the 70s.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men. "

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “ "

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions. "

... and it’s piqued, not peaked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do young guys that like older women have mummy issues?? I certainly don't think so,so whats the difference??

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Jesus wept..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions. "

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"So do young guys that like older women have mummy issues?? I certainly don't think so,so whats the difference??"

They are the same as old blokes who are looking for younger women, just blokes who are trying to get laid. But you will be familiar with the term “cougar” ...

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent . "

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

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By *osmicraverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Grabs a handful of popcorn, HAVE I MISSED ANYTHING YET

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mummy,daddy,family, friend work, mental and car issues .....where the hell do I stand then..... is there a name for that??

Is it life?

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over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun. "

I’m guessing you haven’t seen the sheer vitriol on the Ddlg threads then?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Another op who throws a grenade then buggars off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another op who throws a grenade then buggars off

He could be at....drumroll.... work?!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another op who throws a grenade then buggars off

Hence my post

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun. "

That’s more than a bit odd

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

That’s more than a bit odd

Just a bit

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Another op who throws a grenade then buggars off

Hence my post

Haven’t seen your thread my dear

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By *osmicraverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Huge fan of the older lady, but dont have mummy issues, problem is that the older i get, the older lady thing is bordering on necrophilia, question is for me, how old is too old.

and go.................

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Chair and popcorn at the ready

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Huge fan of the older lady, but dont have mummy issues, problem is that the older i get, the older lady thing is bordering on necrophilia, question is for me, how old is too old.

and go................."

Wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

That’s more than a bit odd

Its not really odd at all if 'son' is just replaced by 'person wishing to give care too' . Its a loving, caring type of thing in my eyes.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

That’s more than a bit odd

Its not really odd at all if 'son' is just replaced by 'person wishing to give care too' . Its a loving, caring type of thing in my eyes. "

Wanting younger men to pretend to be her son.

Sorry I should have said “to me”‘ that’s odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did somebody mention ‘popcorn’ earlier? My spidey sense was tingling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

That’s more than a bit odd

Its not really odd at all if 'son' is just replaced by 'person wishing to give care too' . Its a loving, caring type of thing in my eyes.

Wanting younger men to pretend to be her son.

Sorry I should have said “to me”‘ that’s odd. "

Doesnt really want it to be a son though. (Im sure) Its just words.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

That’s more than a bit odd

Its not really odd at all if 'son' is just replaced by 'person wishing to give care too' . Its a loving, caring type of thing in my eyes.

Wanting younger men to pretend to be her son.

Sorry I should have said “to me”‘ that’s odd.

Doesnt really want it to be a son though. (Im sure) Its just words. "

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

That’s more than a bit odd

Its not really odd at all if 'son' is just replaced by 'person wishing to give care too' . Its a loving, caring type of thing in my eyes.

Wanting younger men to pretend to be her son.

Sorry I should have said “to me”‘ that’s odd.

Doesnt really want it to be a son though. (Im sure) Its just words. "

Correct. Like I say, it was a bit of fun. An odd experience, but you have to try new things the odd time, she clearly enjoyed it, and I got a kick out of her enjoying herself so much.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

I’m guessing you haven’t seen the sheer vitriol on the Ddlg threads then?"

No, I haven’t.

Not a scenario that has ever appealed to me.

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he's handsome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as he's handsome

Pretty much sums it up.

Tolerance of someone’s naughty kinks is directly proportional to how fuckable/fanciable they are.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

That’s more than a bit odd

Its not really odd at all if 'son' is just replaced by 'person wishing to give care too' . Its a loving, caring type of thing in my eyes.

Wanting younger men to pretend to be her son.

Sorry I should have said “to me”‘ that’s odd.

Doesnt really want it to be a son though. (Im sure) Its just words.

Correct. Like I say, it was a bit of fun. An odd experience, but you have to try new things the odd time, she clearly enjoyed it, and I got a kick out of her enjoying herself so much. "

Still in my eyes the fact she wanted you to pretend to be her son is sick (imo)

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

That’s more than a bit odd

Its not really odd at all if 'son' is just replaced by 'person wishing to give care too' . Its a loving, caring type of thing in my eyes.

Wanting younger men to pretend to be her son.

Sorry I should have said “to me”‘ that’s odd.

Doesnt really want it to be a son though. (Im sure) Its just words.

Correct. Like I say, it was a bit of fun. An odd experience, but you have to try new things the odd time, she clearly enjoyed it, and I got a kick out of her enjoying herself so much.

Still in my eyes the fact she wanted you to pretend to be her son is sick (imo)"

Fair enough. But in seeking someone to play the part, was she exploiting someone who was vulnerable? Absolutely not.

And that’s the point that I am trying to convey.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do. "

They’re an odd lot aren’t they ! Maybe because they are young and / or led a sheltered life in a small village? I’m not sure but that ability to accept people are different and like different things amd not be grossed out, it’s kind of an essential skill.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world "

And the inability to realise that words can be used with a different context.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world "

Thats a bit patronising

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising "

What’s a better explanation then?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world "

Yeah that’ll be what it is

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?"

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!"

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only 50 though...does the Daddy stuff not usually involve guys older than you? Or am I in denial as I'm 47...

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site. "

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that, daddy stuff is weird

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own."

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck that, daddy stuff is weird

I'll introduce you to mine...you'd get on like a house on fire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck that, daddy stuff is weird

I'll introduce you to mine...you'd get on like a house on fire

"
lol right mammy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck that, daddy stuff is weird

I'll introduce you to mine...you'd get on like a house on fire

lol right mammy

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

. My kink is well weird. I kink shame myself!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

. My kink is well weird. I kink shame myself!

Me too

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

. My kink is well weird. I kink shame myself!

Me too

"
me three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another op who throws a grenade then buggars off

Hence my post

Haven’t seen your thread my dear "

1St reply to thus thread

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Why do they need to have issues?

Just a thought but maybe it is because he believes that women with daddy issues are more vulnerable and more easily emotionally manipulated.

I am just guessing but it would appear he is a weak man who is looking for a woman to control and mistreat who won't be able to leave because she sees abuse as love.

Maybe it’s because I lived in the US for a number of years that I am seeing the “daddy” thing differently. Over there the word “daddy” is very much taken to mean an authoritative older man.

Rather confusingly, the phrase “call her daddy” has also emerged, referring to a woman who is authoritative (Google “call her daddy” merchandise).

But it really isn’t about exploiting vulnerable young ladies as some posters seem to be suggesting.

And in this instance it just looks like a bloke who is looking for a young lady who likes older men.

But it’s the “daddy issues” that’s peeked interest.

I can enjoy a DD dynamic and have found older men attractive, none of which stems from “daddy issues “

I think you’re overanalysing the poster’s intentions.

To be fair daddy posts are a touchy subject on here. Often met with negativity and misinformation surrounding dynamics. Which is why it can be met with a bit of skepticism on the intent .

People need to lighten up a little.

Years ago I met a woman on Craigslist (in the old days!) who wanted to meet younger men who would pretend to be her son as she gave them a bath and then went to bed together.

Odd? Yeah.

Nice soapy hot bath, handjob in the bath and blowjob in bed? Yeah.

Fun? Yeah.

Would I do it again? No

Glad I did it? Yeah.

Did I feel that “mummy” was taking advantage of someone who had serious psychological issues? Of course not, it was a bit of fun.

That’s more than a bit odd

Its not really odd at all if 'son' is just replaced by 'person wishing to give care too' . Its a loving, caring type of thing in my eyes.

Wanting younger men to pretend to be her son.

Sorry I should have said “to me”‘ that’s odd.

Doesnt really want it to be a son though. (Im sure) Its just words.

Correct. Like I say, it was a bit of fun. An odd experience, but you have to try new things the odd time, she clearly enjoyed it, and I got a kick out of her enjoying herself so much.

Still in my eyes the fact she wanted you to pretend to be her son is sick (imo)

Fair enough. But in seeking someone to play the part, was she exploiting someone who was vulnerable? Absolutely not.

And that’s the point that I am trying to convey. "

Ab so that’s ok to think about it as long as you don’t act on it in real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone for cake?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Anyone for cake?"

This is far more interesting. What kind of cake do you have?

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own."

Shooting down in flames happened to the OP, a tendency to gang up happens a lot on the forums as the next poster tries to out do the last.

My post about the number of people find things odd is that observation, one person calls it odd and a barrage of odds follow, which I find odd

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You're only 50 though...does the Daddy stuff not usually involve guys older than you? Or am I in denial as I'm 47...

My daddy is 29

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"You're only 50 though...does the Daddy stuff not usually involve guys older than you? Or am I in denial as I'm 47...

My daddy is 29"

Time travel is real!

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By *aountyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

It's a family affair...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"You're only 50 though...does the Daddy stuff not usually involve guys older than you? Or am I in denial as I'm 47...

My daddy is 29

Time travel is real! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Huh? You want this or you're not a fan? "

Wow beautiful

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"So do young guys that like older women have mummy issues?? I certainly don't think so,so whats the difference??

They are the same as old blokes who are looking for younger women, just blokes who are trying to get laid. But you will be familiar with the term “cougar” ... "

I mostly meet younger men, but I'm not a cougar.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"As long as he's handsome

Pretty much sums it up.

Tolerance of someone’s naughty kinks is directly proportional to how fuckable/fanciable they are. "

Beautiful people get away with murder on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still have cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch"

Is cheating a kink?? Not getting the argument.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch"

Sometimes daddy's are married. Kinkception.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch"

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)"

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?"

Exactly the same!

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!"

And you judge because you know what?

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I have mummy issues

cant wont so dont (ask)

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?"

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it. "

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words"

What exactly is your point? Are you trying to create an argument?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words"

If they are meeting and having sex with others behind their wives/gf/husbands/bf back, it's cheating. I don't condone cheating and never will. If they can't be honest with someone they are supposed to love then they are hardly going to be honest with anyone else.

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

What exactly is your point? Are you trying to create an argument?"

My point is clear. Saying someone who is on this sight without their partners knowledge disgusts them is judgmental.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

What exactly is your point? Are you trying to create an argument?

My point is clear. Saying someone who is on this sight without their partners knowledge disgusts them is judgmental. "

No-one is disputing that fact

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

On this site does not mean anyone is doing what you said above, however you have judged that to be the situation. I could be in a partnership and use this site as a social platform, never getting into a sexual relationship. I would even suggest that many accounts here are just that, social..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

I think it's a question of whether their partner might still consider that to be lying. I do know quite a few married men who are here socially - it's true.

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

What exactly is your point? Are you trying to create an argument?

My point is clear. Saying someone who is on this sight without their partners knowledge disgusts them is judgmental.

No-one is disputing that fact

Your words "Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)"

Did I misunderstand you?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Daddy!

Daddy wasn't there

Daddy!

Daddy wasn't there,

To take me to the fair,

To cange my underwear,

It seems he doesn't caaaarrrrreeee!!!

Daddy wasn't there

Daddy!

Daddy wasn't there,

To change my underwear,

It seems he doesn't care!

Daddy wasn't there!

(When I was first baptized,

When I was critizised,

When I was ostercised,

When I was jazzercised,

Steak and Kidney Pies,

One hour martinized,

When I was Circumcised!...

Daddy wasn'there)

To take me to the fair,

To change my underwear,

Daddy wasn't there!

...................

If you got a daddy issue,

Here's a daddy tissue!

D to the A to the DDY!

They say it's just a fad,

But I got a dead beat dad!

D to the A to the DDY!

I sit in my room and cry,

And ask my self, the reason why!

D to the A to the DDY!

DADDY!

....

DADDY!

....

DADDY!

....

D A DDY!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

Where did I say EVERYONE was????

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

What exactly is your point? Are you trying to create an argument?

My point is clear. Saying someone who is on this sight without their partners knowledge disgusts them is judgmental.

No-one is disputing that fact

Your words "Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)"

Did I misunderstand you?"

Think you need to re-read.

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By *ndrewmanc777Man
over a year ago

salford

I dont like Popcorn have you got any Rollo's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this thread livened up.

Cheating isn’t a kink. A kink is consensual between the parties involved. Cheating doesn’t take in to consideration the person being left in the dark, nor that persons sexual health. Even with condoms there are things such a herpesvirus that isn’t necessarily protected by condoms. So to put someone’s health at risk without their knowledge or consent it isn’t a kink! Not sure why the two are being compared.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

What exactly is your point? Are you trying to create an argument?

My point is clear. Saying someone who is on this sight without their partners knowledge disgusts them is judgmental.

No-one is disputing that fact

Your words "Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)"

Did I misunderstand you?"

Just for the record, and back on topic, I couldn't care less what others call their sexual partners...personally it's not a word I use or will ever use so its of no consequence to me.

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

I think it's a question of whether their partner might still consider that to be lying. I do know quite a few married men who are here socially - it's true. "

Judge every person on how you think their partner might think? A person should be able to use a site without being judged as "disgusting". People use this site for different reasons, for some it is their only outlet, others get off on flirting, others will be in it for whatever they can score.

They are not all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

I think it's a question of whether their partner might still consider that to be lying. I do know quite a few married men who are here socially - it's true.

They are not all the same "

I think you're deliberately misinterpreting what I'm saying. You're looking for a fight. I'm out.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

I think it's a question of whether their partner might still consider that to be lying. I do know quite a few married men who are here socially - it's true.

They are not all the same "

In my judgement...if it involves lying to a partner then yes it's disgusting. The fallout, hurt and damage that lies cause can be lifechanging and soul destroying. Why any decent human being would want to inflict that on someone they love is beyond me.

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

What exactly is your point? Are you trying to create an argument?

My point is clear. Saying someone who is on this sight without their partners knowledge disgusts them is judgmental.

No-one is disputing that fact

Your words "Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)"

Did I misunderstand you?

Just for the record, and back on topic, I couldn't care less what others call their sexual partners...personally it's not a word I use or will ever use so its of no consequence to me."

You do know the words I quoted are yours?

I will post them again below here. You are saying you don't judge but below you said men on here without their partners knowledge disgusts you, and when I asked you how you feel about women doing the same, you said you felt the some. You then went onto say they were cheating, you can't judge everyone as the same! People use this site for their own needs, not all the same.

Your words

"Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never mind, threads almost finished

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

What exactly is your point? Are you trying to create an argument?

My point is clear. Saying someone who is on this sight without their partners knowledge disgusts them is judgmental.

No-one is disputing that fact

Your words "Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)"

Did I misunderstand you?

Just for the record, and back on topic, I couldn't care less what others call their sexual partners...personally it's not a word I use or will ever use so its of no consequence to me.

You do know the words I quoted are yours?

Your words

"Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)""

I also said no-one was disputing that fact!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Never mind, threads almost finished"

Thank god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cake and gin?

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

"I find it odd that a swingers forum finds lots of things odd and I think that is at odds with the actual odds of people finding things odd, but they do.

I think it’s the same with racism, sexism , homo phobia etc small minds simply can’t cope with a big world

Thats a bit patronising

What’s a better explanation then?

Just because people don't like or find a dynamic "wrong" for them does not mean they've led a sheltered life or have a simple mind!

But we’re supposed to agree with everything and not have our own opinions. We’re not allowed to find anything odd because we are on a swingers site.

You are shot down in flames if you dare say anything negative.

The kink isn't for me but each to their own.

Exactly. I’m sure nobody’s going to think oh I best not do that Nora doesn’t like it.

Steady on you'll be accuse of kink shaming soon

Yeah but you only screech about kink shaming when it suits your kink see....God forbid a bloke says he's here as a married man, hung drawn, quartered. Yet it's ok to have sex with your 'Daddy'

It's the hypocrisy that makes my shit itch

Who's said its OK....I didn't. And as for married men (on here without their partners knowledge, just disgust me)

How do you feel about married women on here, without their partners knowledge?

Exactly the same!

And you judge because you know what?

You asked how I felt...I answered. If you see that as a judgement then so be it.

you judged every man and women who is on this site without their partners knowledge.

Not having a sexual encounter, being on here.. your words

I think it's a question of whether their partner might still consider that to be lying. I do know quite a few married men who are here socially - it's true.

They are not all the same

I think you're deliberately misinterpreting what I'm saying. You're looking for a fight. I'm out."

I have not misunderstood you at all, you jumped in with no understanding of the posts before or are being deliberately confrontational

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

Monkey tennis?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Daddy

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