FabSwingers.com forum: What are you looking for?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well?

What are you looking for on fab?

Are you looking for anything?

I get asked this a fair bit and i don't know why. Ive not lost anything to be looking for anything.

Is it an offer to help me look for something?

Help!!!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Honestly don't know.

I'm here hanging out now and again and just seeing what happens. Not just fab, life in general is currently in that whole phase for me. Tried to do things and make things happen many times over the years and they just didn't, so now I'm no longer proactive, but just reactive.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

im looking for my pen, ive left it somewhere and ive looked everywhere else

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By *rade69Man
over a year ago

dublin

I’m looking for a dominant lady to take full advantage of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well?

What are you looking for on fab?

Are you looking for anything?

I get asked this a fair bit and i don't know why. Ive not lost anything to be looking for anything.

Is it an offer to help me look for something?

Help!!!! "

I can help you look if you want..

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I still can't find my sodding back up pair of glasses....

I wonder if U2 are any good?

Perhaps you have found your niche in Covid. Looking for things that nobody knows what they are looking for? You just need a Ouija board and Derek Acorah's Native American spirit guide!

Can you ask him where me glasses are if you do decide to though cos it's fucking me off now after months of searching...

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Mainly cuppa socials when I have a free morning now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy sex.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

I have no idea anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think i. Lost in what I came here looking for now

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I went and climbed the highest peaks.

I ran through fields, sometimes crawling. I even did some wall climbing in the city.

But I still haven't found what I was looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just tell them to read my profile and they get annoyed because they assumed a woman online will drop everything to fuck them.

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By *unloversCouple
over a year ago

rotherham

I’m not looking as can never find anything

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I’m waiting for someone to find me, I’ve been lost for years

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Laughter and cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s usually a question asked by someone who either hasn’t read your profile or isn’t great at making conversation.

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

The marmalade

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Jaffa cakes by the yard

Other than that fun and friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On fab probably nothing.

I don't except to find happy ever after here, to be honest as much as I want it, I sadly don't think I'll find it anywhere now. I'm losing more hope every single day.

So mostly I join in on the forums, chat to some cool people and post photos for a confidence boost while real life tries to steal it away.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just to share ideas, thoughts and humour. Anything else is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m waiting for someone to find me, I’ve been lost for years

Any chance you're surrounded by odd socks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sanity, lost it somewhere I think.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

But she still hasn't found what she's looking for,,,,

*sung in a Bono voice

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By *hischarmingdevilMan
over a year ago

Ringwood

I don't think I know until I find it. It might be a funny place to find a life long soul mate, but who knows, she might be on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've forgotten, but I'm still here, so I must be looking for something?

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

You know when you walk in to a room, and you forgot why?

That's me logging into Fab.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm looking for the No.12 bus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“What are you looking for?” Always seems to be a filler question someone asks me when they message me and have no better conversation to make. I’ve just kinda given up on answering it tbh.

I’m on the site, but I’m not actually actively LOOKING for something. I’m honestly just existing. If something good comes along then great, but I wouldn’t say I’m actively seeking anything specific.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Well, 6 years ago started out as the same reason as most others. To explore the sexual realms and live a hedonistic side to my life.

Now I'm here out of habit and fear. If I break the habit I'll have no excuse not to address just how fucked up I am, and that shit's scary.

At least here I can justify why I won't let anyone close. Here sex is a commodity much like money that people will lie, cheat, steal, manipulate and con to achieve and the more I see it the less I trust. So I guess I'm keeping myself trapped in a safety net of "fuck the world I don't need anyone" coz as fucked up as that is, it's less fucked up than I am.

Nothing. I'm looking for nothing. Merely a distraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What am i looking for on fab?

Just friends now and having fun

Was I looking for anything?

Yes I was indeed romance passion chemistry, to kiss someone with all 3 of them, I did believe that it's not just about sex.

Have I lost anything,, yep I have the confidence to find that now. The confidence to message someone because I understand women get lot's of messages and can't reply to everyone.

Its ok not to be ok, I stand by that

What have I found? Well forum's it's a wonderful place piss taking having fun sticking up for people and some op post are fooking good keep it up you guys and girls.

So I've not lost anything I've found you lot what more can anyone ask for

Fook now did I put my car keys over here??

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

"I’m waiting for someone to find me, I’ve been lost for years

Any chance you're surrounded by odd socks? "

Omg how did you know?

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

My lightbulb switched on this morning so I updated my bio accordingly.

I think I’m asking for the impossible

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"My lightbulb switched on this morning so I updated my bio accordingly.

I think I’m asking for the impossible

Yip. I'm not into pegging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv past thinking about what I want anymore , dont know if just me or if anyone else gets like this but getting bored in here haha

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

1 sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just viewing great pictures and like to chat at the moment because right now I have something great going on

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By *atch0101Man
over a year ago

Here

Just a fantasy really.

Seeing how other people have their fun and kinks.

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By *hischarmingdevilMan
over a year ago

Ringwood

"Just viewing great pictures and like to chat at the moment because right now I have something great going on

Thats nice to hear!! Good for you. There are some happy people out there!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"My lightbulb switched on this morning so I updated my bio accordingly.

I think I’m asking for the impossible

Yip. I'm not into pegging.

Awww Chunky!!! Not even a small one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The future Mrs Taff_Man125

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"My lightbulb switched on this morning so I updated my bio accordingly.

I think I’m asking for the impossible

Yip. I'm not into pegging.

Awww Chunky!!! Not even a small one?

Nope. My arse is virginal and staying that way.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I joined fab to look for a female FWB as I was sick of men.

5 years and one husband found on Fab later, I would love to find a female FWB

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

These days I just hang out (quite literally), I’ll guess I know when I find it?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Nothing in particular. I'm hoping to talk to more people, enjoy some laughs but right now, I think I'm at a stage where I'm just enjoying interactions for what they are - whether it's a fleeting hello, a longer stretch of prose or the start of a friendship. That organic, mindful way of being where I'm enjoying the now is better for me. More enjoyable.

So yes, not really looking for anything. And would probably say nothing if asked in a private message as people don't want to read my ramblings. On the forum you're stuck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came on here looking to experiment & have more adventurous sex than I had previously experienced.

I’ve found a confidence I never knew I had and some wonderful friendships I never expected and I’m having some of the most adventurous sex. So I certainly found more than I was looking for.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I feel a bit like U2 atm.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Sex

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I feel a bit like U2 atm.

It's just playing on the radio.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Well? What are you looking for on fab? "

To pass the time, shit posting on the forum!

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Haven't got the faintest idea, mainly lurking on the forum and commenting as and when x storm x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No idea but I did find a needle in a haystack

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No idea but I did find a needle in a haystack

Invite me round. I'll help you look.

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By *aximus74Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Well?

What are you looking for on fab? I hate this question!!

Are you looking for anything?

I get asked this a fair bit and i don't know why. Ive not lost anything to be looking for anything.

Is it an offer to help me look for something?

Help!!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looking for the equation that leads to 42.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"That’s usually a question asked by someone who either hasn’t read your profile or isn’t great at making conversation. "

True. If read a profile I’d expect to find the answer , it can be detailed or abstract but I can figure it out

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

My Tupperware lids and phone chargers.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"My Tupperware lids and phone chargers.

They've fallen down the back of the corner cupboard.

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By *icky and MandyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Mmmmm……..

……….Sexy time….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peanut m and m’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well?

What are you looking for on fab?

Are you looking for anything?

I get asked this a fair bit and i don't know why. Ive not lost anything to be looking for anything.

Is it an offer to help me look for something?

Help!!!! "

I literally use the same answer as you. Because I have lost anything to be looking. Respectfully

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I came here looking for some uncomplicated fun, to explore my bi side more, and have some amazing meets.

I got some of that and more than what I expected

My B

All the above is still on the cards though with the right people in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On fab probably nothing.

I don't except to find happy ever after here, to be honest as much as I want it, I sadly don't think I'll find it anywhere now. I'm losing more hope every single day.

So mostly I join in on the forums, chat to some cool people and post photos for a confidence boost while real life tries to steal it away. "

Sinders, you need to relocate to Aberdeenshire

Honestly though, you're lovely and will find it where you least expect it; probably when you don't even want it!!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Like-minded people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just here until someone turns the internet off. Then I'll go do something else.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Im just here until someone turns the internet off. Then I'll go do something else. "

Haha this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To find someone that likes me for me. Someone that makes me laugh and turns me on.

I'll keep looking....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"To find someone that likes me for me. Someone that makes me laugh and turns me on.

I'll keep looking....

Need any help?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

To build connections with sexually confident and adventurous women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just looking to connect with like minded people in the lifestyle be it in a plutonic way or maybe more so I can fully explore what the lifestyle is all about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im just here until someone turns the internet off. Then I'll go do something else. "

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