FabSwingers.com forum: How to give a great handie

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I alone in thinking these are the afterthought of foreplay? Do men enjoy getting these off other people? I feel like it's one of those things that's only used to convey the message you're about to fuck; just rub it a little for good luck and then lose momentum and move onto something else. So yeah, any tips on how to make the humble handjob a main event?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Much oil ..praise and admiring looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick the football on in the background.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Varying degrees of grip pressure. Various stroke length and speed. Don’t neglect the balls. Coconut oil (recent discovery)

. Fingers to rub around the tip. Oh, and if you’re feeling frisky, I would be upset by a cheeky finger in my bum at the same time.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing) "

Ooh kissings good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Varying degrees of grip pressure. Various stroke length and speed. Don’t neglect the balls. Coconut oil (recent discovery)

. Fingers to rub around the tip. Oh, and if you’re feeling frisky, I would be upset by a cheeky finger in my bum at the same time.

Can you use lube if you don't want to awkwardly excuse yourself to go get a knob of coconut oil from the kitchen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Varying degrees of grip pressure. Various stroke length and speed. Don’t neglect the balls. Coconut oil (recent discovery)

. Fingers to rub around the tip. Oh, and if you’re feeling frisky, I would be upset by a cheeky finger in my bum at the same time.

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What, we can't away with a quick rub now? God, men are SO demanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tie his hands behind his back.

Oil up his cock and give him an oily slippy wank while he watches.

Edge him until he begs to cum.

Don't let him cum, make him watch you cum instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Varying degrees of grip pressure. Various stroke length and speed. Don’t neglect the balls. Coconut oil (recent discovery)

. Fingers to rub around the tip. Oh, and if you’re feeling frisky, I would be upset by a cheeky finger in my bum at the same time.

Can you use lube if you don't want to awkwardly excuse yourself to go get a knob of coconut oil from the kitchen? "

Absolutely.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Yes, handjobs are really underappreciated. I really enjoy them.

I like her to start slow, use lube then get a bit quicker with the stroke and use a firm grip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual massage !

Warm Oil, balls prenium, anus and plenty shaft n head work to finish off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What, we can't away with a quick rub now? God, men are SO demanding

Blowjob is only a figure of speech too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tie his hands behind his back.

Oil up his cock and give him an oily slippy wank while he watches.

Edge him until he begs to cum.

Don't let him cum, make him watch you cum instead. "

God you're evil!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Lube is always good! Ask if they like having their balls played with, it's not a given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What, we can't away with a quick rub now? God, men are SO demanding

Blowjob is only a figure of speech too.

Fucks sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing) "

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Varying degrees of grip pressure. Various stroke length and speed. Don’t neglect the balls. Coconut oil (recent discovery)

. Fingers to rub around the tip. Oh, and if you’re feeling frisky, I would be upset by a cheeky finger in my bum at the same time.

This plus also occasionally two hands with a contra rotating motion

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I find it something that is too often forgotten about.

Most women just go straight in with their mouths, but I actually prefer a handjob (if done well).

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

So..."oh ...oh..yeah..that's how you like it, big boy..let's get slippery" kind of thing?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Varying degrees of grip pressure. Various stroke length and speed. Don’t neglect the balls. Coconut oil (recent discovery)

. Fingers to rub around the tip. Oh, and if you’re feeling frisky, I would be upset by a cheeky finger in my bum at the same time.

Can you use lube if you don't want to awkwardly excuse yourself to go get a knob of coconut oil from the kitchen?

Absolutely. "

Always carry a knob with you..I do

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Varying degrees of grip pressure. Various stroke length and speed. Don’t neglect the balls. Coconut oil (recent discovery)

. Fingers to rub around the tip. Oh, and if you’re feeling frisky, I would be upset by a cheeky finger in my bum at the same time.

Can you use lube if you don't want to awkwardly excuse yourself to go get a knob of coconut oil from the kitchen? "

You have a spare nob made of coconut oil in your kitchen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll correct my typo.

“I wouldn’t be upset by a cheeky finger in my bum”

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By *asteslikegingerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I like the above answers about edging, oil etc.

Personally I love it when a woman spits on my cock / her hand while she strokes it

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Lube is always good! Ask if they like having their balls played with, it's not a given. "

I've never needed lube tbh.

There is usually plenty of precum forming anyway, just spread that around and maybe add a little spit if needed.

Much more fun than grabbing a bottle of lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy handing these out (sorry) and I seem to have encountered guys who enjoy them. I don't think they were just being kind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like the above answers about edging, oil etc.

Personally I love it when a woman spits on my cock / her hand while she strokes it "

That's what I usually do but I find it dries up quite quickly

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"Tie his hands behind his back.

Oil up his cock and give him an oily slippy wank while he watches.

Edge him until he begs to cum.

Don't let him cum, make him watch you cum instead. "

You sound like you've done this before!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I am partial to giving a two handed coconut oil handie. Boobs out, eyes locked, ready to make that pottery!

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By *asteslikegingerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

So..."oh ...oh..yeah..that's how you like it, big boy..let's get slippery" kind of thing?

It would make me laugh so I guess that would be... not... boring

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By *asteslikegingerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I like the above answers about edging, oil etc.

Personally I love it when a woman spits on my cock / her hand while she strokes it

That's what I usually do but I find it dries up quite quickly"

The answer is always more spit !

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By *ightower2021Man
over a year ago

donegal

I actually cum the hardest and have a much more intense orgasm from a handjob done well than anything else love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

So..."oh ...oh..yeah..that's how you like it, big boy..let's get slippery" kind of thing?

It would make me laugh so I guess that would be... not... boring

need to work on my technique!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

So..."oh ...oh..yeah..that's how you like it, big boy..let's get slippery" kind of thing?

It would make me laugh so I guess that would be... not... boring

need to work on my technique! "

If you need a volunteer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I like my balls grabbed and pulled on them gently wank my shaft the addition of oils is always greatly received

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I am partial to giving a two handed coconut oil handie. Boobs out, eyes locked, ready to make that pottery!

Oh my love...my darling

I've been yearning for your touch

A long lonely time......

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

If done well, it’s excellent, but it’s often not done well.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

So..."oh ...oh..yeah..that's how you like it, big boy..let's get slippery" kind of thing?

It would make me laugh so I guess that would be... not... boring

need to work on my technique! "

Volunteer number two reporting for action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I alone in thinking these are the afterthought of foreplay? Do men enjoy getting these off other people? I feel like it's one of those things that's only used to convey the message you're about to fuck; just rub it a little for good luck and then lose momentum and move onto something else. So yeah, any tips on how to make the humble handjob a main event?

Use your feet instead - the ultimate foreplay as one of my pics portrays! Hot!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Do it lying down with him next to you and just reach across. That way your arm doesn’t feel like it will drop off.

And lube it up so when you do the downward bit it feels like his cock is going to shoot up out of your grasp and hit the ceiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

So..."oh ...oh..yeah..that's how you like it, big boy..let's get slippery" kind of thing?

It would make me laugh so I guess that would be... not... boring

need to work on my technique!

If you need a volunteer...

Teach an old bird some new tricks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

So..."oh ...oh..yeah..that's how you like it, big boy..let's get slippery" kind of thing?

It would make me laugh so I guess that would be... not... boring

need to work on my technique!

Volunteer number two reporting for action

Bloody hell I need to shut up sometimes - yesterday it was threesomes

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

So..."oh ...oh..yeah..that's how you like it, big boy..let's get slippery" kind of thing?

It would make me laugh so I guess that would be... not... boring

need to work on my technique!

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Bloody hell I need to shut up sometimes - yesterday it was threesomes

I share nicely too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, who’s coming to practice then? Pretty please

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I am partial to giving a two handed coconut oil handie. Boobs out, eyes locked, ready to make that pottery!

Oh my love...my darling

I've been yearning for your touch

A long lonely time......

Time, goes by, so slowly, and time can do so much…

Patrick, is that you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by itself as I find it a bit boring. While kissing though...

How would you make it not boring? Aside from kissing (or as well as kissing)

Good question. Maybe quite a bit of lube, a lot of edging while teasing the head, and a bit of dirty talk. Not over the top but sensual talk

So..."oh ...oh..yeah..that's how you like it, big boy..let's get slippery" kind of thing?

It would make me laugh so I guess that would be... not... boring

need to work on my technique!

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Bloody hell I need to shut up sometimes - yesterday it was threesomes

I share nicely too

That's what all you men say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can do a great hand shandie but my 5 finger knuckle shuffle is lightning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, who’s coming to practice then? Pretty please

You're in another country soz

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I quite enjoy giving them, so I'll offer that only for a special man.

It's not the same as them rubbing one out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, who’s coming to practice then? Pretty please

You're in another country soz "

Stoke ain’t that far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mix it up with a bit of both hand(s) and mouth. Definitely don't forget the balls. Even stroking around the base of the cock without touching it. Spend some time focusing on the head. I use a finger and thumb to hold it and gently massage the base of the head.

Lots of eye contact, telling him how wonderful it looks, feels, smells and tastes, I've found is good too. Let him lead you if you're struggling. I love it when they either take over and leave me to focus on their balls or they put their hand over mine and we do it together. Watching how they touch themselves is so good and helps me know what they like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handjob whilst looking me in the eyes and breasts rubbing on my chest please

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I quite enjoy giving them, so I'll offer that only for a special man.

It's not the same as them rubbing one out."

I'm quite special...and very appreciative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't

Tell him to do it himself as he will always be netter at it than you

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Lube is always good! Ask if they like having their balls played with, it's not a given.

I've never needed lube tbh.

There is usually plenty of precum forming anyway, just spread that around and maybe add a little spit if needed.

Much more fun than grabbing a bottle of lube. "

Spitting is grim.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I quite enjoy giving them, so I'll offer that only for a special man.

It's not the same as them rubbing one out.

I'm quite special...and very appreciative

You trying it on, Mister?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I quite enjoy giving them, so I'll offer that only for a special man.

It's not the same as them rubbing one out.

I'm quite special...and very appreciative

You trying it on, Mister?

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absolutely xx

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I like being between his legs, him laying back, and using two hands and lots of moisturiser of some kind.

Cocoa butter moisturiser works well and they have a lovely smooth, scented penis afterwards.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I quite enjoy giving them, so I'll offer that only for a special man.

It's not the same as them rubbing one out.

I'm quite special...and very appreciative

You trying it on, Mister?

absolutely xx

I like your front

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I quite enjoy giving them, so I'll offer that only for a special man.

It's not the same as them rubbing one out.

I'm quite special...and very appreciative

You trying it on, Mister?

absolutely xx

I like your front

I like your front too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like being between his legs, him laying back, and using two hands and lots of moisturiser of some kind.

Cocoa butter moisturiser works well and they have a lovely smooth, scented penis afterwards. "

oh my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, who’s coming to practice then? Pretty please

You're in another country soz

Stoke ain’t that far

You're in the states according to your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with anything really, pay attention to your partner at the time, be attentive.

Several things mentioned in this thread really wouldn't do it for me.

We're all different

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"As with anything really, pay attention to your partner at the time, be attentive.

Several things mentioned in this thread really wouldn't do it for me.

We're all different

I always have questions while I'm doing it, and ask if I can touch the balls too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, who’s coming to practice then? Pretty please

You're in another country soz

Stoke ain’t that far

You're in the states according to your profile "

A tad confusing, but it’s just a reference to the film I nicked my username from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tie his hands behind his back.

Oil up his cock and give him an oily slippy wank while he watches.

Edge him until he begs to cum.

Don't let him cum, make him watch you cum instead. "

Am I the on,y one to seriously like the idea of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, who’s coming to practice then? Pretty please

You're in another country soz

Stoke ain’t that far

You're in the states according to your profile

A tad confusing, but it’s just a reference to the film I nicked my username from.

Lol I didn't know that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, who’s coming to practice then? Pretty please

You're in another country soz

Stoke ain’t that far

You're in the states according to your profile

A tad confusing, but it’s just a reference to the film I nicked my username from.

Lol I didn't know that. "

Sounds more glamorous than Stoke too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tie his hands behind his back.

Oil up his cock and give him an oily slippy wank while he watches.

Edge him until he begs to cum.

Don't let him cum, make him watch you cum instead.

Am I the on,y one to seriously like the idea of this?

No, you won't be. It's the sort of thing my partner would like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My donor card Says I'm happy to donate my organ if you need something to practice on

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

With deep kissing and talking… erotic filthy talking… not asking my views on the massive social and economic decide in the country or my thoughts of climate change

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

They seem pointless if you could be having a blow or sex, we can give ourselves a hand job whenever we like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They seem pointless if you could be having a blow or sex, we can give ourselves a hand job whenever we like"

This I agree with... Much prefer to use my mouth or foof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, who’s coming to practice then? Pretty please

You're in another country soz

Stoke ain’t that far

You're in the states according to your profile

A tad confusing, but it’s just a reference to the film I nicked my username from.

Lol I didn't know that.

Sounds more glamorous than Stoke too

Im in Hull, glamour capital of Yorkshire.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Hand jobs are amazing. I love a hand job. Do not underestimate the hand job.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"They seem pointless if you could be having a blow or sex, we can give ourselves a hand job whenever we like"

Yeah..but it's an actual bird doing it for you ..because she wants to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to sit in front, use both hands, nice and oily and use my thumbs in little circles on the head above the banjo.

dunno if it's good, but I haven't had complaints

just feels nice to me

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

"I like to sit in front, use both hands, nice and oily and use my thumbs in little circles on the head above the banjo.

dunno if it's good, but I haven't had complaints

just feels nice to me "

BRB

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I like to sit in front, use both hands, nice and oily and use my thumbs in little circles on the head above the banjo.

dunno if it's good, but I haven't had complaints

just feels nice to me "
sounds nice to me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like to sit in front, use both hands, nice and oily and use my thumbs in little circles on the head above the banjo.

dunno if it's good, but I haven't had complaints

just feels nice to me "

Sorry this has really tickled me

like a little bellend massage aha

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Sadly no one has ever given me a good hand job. It just doesn't work unless I do it myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like to sit in front, use both hands, nice and oily and use my thumbs in little circles on the head above the banjo.

dunno if it's good, but I haven't had complaints

just feels nice to me

Sorry this has really tickled me

like a little bellend massage aha"

Hahahaha

Yep, lay a little towel on and everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find a handjob while the woman sits on my chest with her bum towards me pretty erotic ...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

https://youtu.be/RqG0rc7vZX4

These two legends want tips as well

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"They seem pointless if you could be having a blow or sex, we can give ourselves a hand job whenever we like

Yeah..but it's an actual bird doing it for you ..because she wants to

To be honest I'm better trained at doing me

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

A handjob can be a main event.

Get them to lie back and relax. Blindfold maybe even a little restraint.

Some nice scented massage oil, sit between their legs. Use one hand flat at the base with cock between thumb and forefinger and fingers splayed while the other works the shaft in a slow steady slightly rotating way.

Every now and then use your non wanking hand to stroke their legs and balls.

Edge them, letting them build up close to orgasm and then delaying it. listen to their breathing. When ready go all the way and continue working it while they orgasm, don’t stop once they start to ejaculate.

Slowly wind down, still stroking but at a slower pace until they stop shaking

Clean up.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I love a good handjob - particularly if I am playing with her at the same time. A long slow wank up and down - especially with lube - is fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine travelling x miles for handjob. I need that vacuum seal double hand twist. This is also known as the gawk gawk combo 3000

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Lube is always good! Ask if they like having their balls played with, it's not a given.

I've never needed lube tbh.

There is usually plenty of precum forming anyway, just spread that around and maybe add a little spit if needed.

Much more fun than grabbing a bottle of lube.

Spitting is grim.

It's just saliva, the same as would get on it if you gave head, or that you'd swap when kissing.

I'm not wanting anyone to phlegm up over my cock

Find it odd that people find that grim, when they are happy to put someone's cock in their mouth

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By *elboy64Man
over a year ago

weston

Talking and saying please cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"https://youtu.be/RqG0rc7vZX4

These two legends want tips as well

That is so funny

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"So, who’s coming to practice then? Pretty please

You're in another country soz

Stoke ain’t that far

You're in the states according to your profile

A tad confusing, but it’s just a reference to the film I nicked my username from.

Usual Suspects!

C x

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

So after 18 years together, the husband finally tells me that some times - just some times - I don’t do hand jobs right! So I had him show me how he likes it!!

It absolutely can be a main event and often is for us. Twice last week I gave him a hand job and had him cum in to my underwear, something new for us but it got us both very hot and bothered! He likes it slower, I take my time and edge him out for a while, we kiss or I kiss his neck and talk to him, I cup his balls and gently tug and knead them. I mix up the movement of my hand and some times add my other hand in. He likes his cock nice and wet when I’m stroking it so lots of spit or some lube if he wants it. He likes a tight grasp but not too tight. My thumb underneath and four fingers on top, long strokes and then build up speed and stay away from the tip when he about to cum but don’t stop stroking until he stops pulsing. Absolutely LOVE making him cum with a good hand job and I know he loves it too!

C x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Read his responses and act accordingly, every man is different and tipping them over the edge is hard but achievable in most cases

I use coconut oil whilst kneeling at his side, that way I can change hands fluidly whilst massaging his chest or balls and bum at the same time, use a open pot of oil by your side on a towel then you can just dip your hand in it to top.

I also detest spitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread could be handy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is spitting really that bad?? I'm not talking about hocking a loogie lol, just an elegant little pool of dribble into the hand. It's the same spit I'd be swapping if I kissed them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lil spit and use both hands

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Is spitting really that bad?? I'm not talking about hocking a loogie lol, just an elegant little pool of dribble into the hand. It's the same spit I'd be swapping if I kissed them... "

Exactly.

I hate it when people spit on the streets, but using a bit of saliva on someone that you are already likely to be exchanging and getting covered in their bodily fluids doesn't seem too bad.

It doesn't need to be a force camel-spit type spit and can be done in a much sexier way. It has to be sexier, more enjoyable and more natural than stopping to reach for a plastic bottle of lube hasn't it?

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Tie his hands behind his back.

Oil up his cock and give him an oily slippy wank while he watches.

Edge him until he begs to cum.

Don't let him cum, make him watch you cum instead. "

What a gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coconut oil is amazing

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"Is spitting really that bad?? I'm not talking about hocking a loogie lol, just an elegant little pool of dribble into the hand. It's the same spit I'd be swapping if I kissed them... "

Love spitting during oral fun/foreplay.

Mrs has got the technique spot on with us, she can edge me very quickly. I find blow jobs can be a bit too intense, hand jobs help slow things back down again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tie his hands behind his back.

Oil up his cock and give him an oily slippy wank while he watches.

Edge him until he begs to cum.

Don't let him cum, make him watch you cum instead.

You sound like you've done this before!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stood up, both kissing and playing with each other at the same time....now that gets me going every time

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