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"I have used them because I'm bad with details so if I'm chatting I might make a note of their real name and other details. I chat to lots of people and it's really hard to keep track! I also copy in the text of the message when I block occasionally. So I can remember how shit it was. ![]() I like to put a summary.. "Rude", "Rude as fuck", "text speak", "entitled", "advocating dangerous acts" ![]() | |||
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"I have used them because I'm bad with details so if I'm chatting I might make a note of their real name and other details. I chat to lots of people and it's really hard to keep track! I also copy in the text of the message when I block occasionally. So I can remember how shit it was. ![]() ![]() Oh that's a good idea re:reports. ![]() | |||
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" What's irritating is you don't know if there are notes on blocked profile without clicking in. " How do you mean? On the "block list" you can see anyone on the list who has a note? | |||
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"Do you use them and how? I often forget there's the function available but I usually use it when blocking people to make a note as to why. ![]() Hi op. I very rarely block people - only those who are downright abusive/offensive - or those who do bareback gangbangs etc (purely for my own sexual safety). I personally use the notes to remind myself not to re-message people who clearly aren’t interested. Saying that - I’m sometimes wrong. I had a great meet on Friday with a chap I assumed wasn’t interested. If I’d blocked him as many would I’d be a great shag down! ![]() | |||
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"No I am amused by the thought of a random stranger making little notes about me because of something I said in a post about clit flicking in 2014, just in case I might message them at some point" I wouldn't block someone for their opinion. I'd block, and have blocked if people have been down right rude directly to me though. I can take a joke, but I'm not standing for plain rudeness ![]() | |||
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"I only started using mine after I forgot someone's name I had planned to meet." Yep, me too. Awkward ![]() | |||
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" What's irritating is you don't know if there are notes on blocked profile without clicking in. How do you mean? On the "block list" you can see anyone on the list who has a note? " I mean from the individual profile. Is there a shortcut to get to the block list? Stupid I know, but I usually block and unblock someone to get to the list ![]() | |||
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"I only started using mine after I forgot someone's name I had planned to meet. Yep, me too. Awkward ![]() I am so relieved that I'm not the only one! | |||
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" What's irritating is you don't know if there are notes on blocked profile without clicking in. How do you mean? On the "block list" you can see anyone on the list who has a note? I mean from the individual profile. Is there a shortcut to get to the block list? Stupid I know, but I usually block and unblock someone to get to the list ![]() If you've blocked someone and you're on their "can't view profile" page then click the 3 dots and notes. Otherwise Account - Blocklist | |||
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"Yes I use them for various reasons, incl names, why I wouldn't meet them, and general notes as a reminder." This I find it very helpful | |||
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" What's irritating is you don't know if there are notes on blocked profile without clicking in. How do you mean? On the "block list" you can see anyone on the list who has a note? I mean from the individual profile. Is there a shortcut to get to the block list? Stupid I know, but I usually block and unblock someone to get to the list ![]() ![]() | |||
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"No I am amused by the thought of a random stranger making little notes about me because of something I said in a post about clit flicking in 2014, just in case I might message them at some point" • There's no impetus for me to make notes (or block) because of people's opinions. There is a notable forum member with whom I chatted to (extensively) in early 2021. She was interested until she discovered that I wasn't "white" and that people 'like me' were trouble makers. Suffice to say the Notes feature proved to be an invaluable tool for my catharsis. | |||
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"Do you use them and how? I often forget there's the function available but I usually use it when blocking people to make a note as to why. ![]() Didn't you read the note you made on mine ![]() | |||
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"No I am amused by the thought of a random stranger making little notes about me because of something I said in a post about clit flicking in 2014, just in case I might message them at some point • There's no impetus for me to make notes (or block) because of people's opinions. There is a notable forum member with whom I chatted to (extensively) in early 2021. She was interested until she discovered that I wasn't "white" and that people 'like me' were trouble makers. Suffice to say the Notes feature proved to be an invaluable tool for my catharsis." You know how angry I am on your behalf, Nero ![]() | |||
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"No I am amused by the thought of a random stranger making little notes about me because of something I said in a post about clit flicking in 2014, just in case I might message them at some point • There's no impetus for me to make notes (or block) because of people's opinions. There is a notable forum member with whom I chatted to (extensively) in early 2021. She was interested until she discovered that I wasn't "white" and that people 'like me' were trouble makers. Suffice to say the Notes feature proved to be an invaluable tool for my catharsis." Oh wow. ![]() | |||
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"I use them all the time. If I message someone and they read and never reply Iput that in the notes so I know they aren't interested and I don't bother them again. " I do the same, and for people that seem to have multiple accounts or were here before under different names etc. | |||
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"Yeah, I put things like "Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging. Also stuff like "cunt" "Massive cunt" "Proper cunt" "Grade A cunt" Ya know, the norm ![]() What's on mine? ![]() | |||
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"Yeah, I put things like "Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging. Also stuff like "cunt" "Massive cunt" "Proper cunt" "Grade A cunt" Ya know, the norm ![]() ![]() You don't need notes! I never know whether to give you a comfort hug or a bitch slap tho. I'll work it out one day. | |||
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"I use them all the time. If I message someone and they read and never reply Iput that in the notes so I know they aren't interested and I don't bother them again. " Why the hell didn't I think of this! Great shout ![]() | |||
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"Yeah, I put things like "Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging. Also stuff like "cunt" "Massive cunt" "Proper cunt" "Grade A cunt" Ya know, the norm ![]() ![]() A bitch slap then a block is the best option | |||
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"Yeah, I put things like "Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging. Also stuff like "cunt" "Massive cunt" "Proper cunt" "Grade A cunt" Ya know, the norm ![]() ![]() Pretty similar to mine. | |||
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"Yeah, I put things like "Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging. Also stuff like "cunt" "Massive cunt" "Proper cunt" "Grade A cunt" Ya know, the norm ![]() Yes pretty much this x | |||
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"Yeah, I put things like "Covid cunt" when we were in full lockdown and they were advertising meets on the sly or messaging. Also stuff like "cunt" "Massive cunt" "Proper cunt" "Grade A cunt" “Prickly cunt “ Ya know, the norm ![]() FIFY Peach ![]() | |||
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"Yep.. we use them in case we’ve been looking for people away from each other. Stops us both contacting them. Also if they’ve done something particularly offensive or annoying. Or if we’ve chatted in the past and decided we’re not a match. We have notes on all of you.. ![]() Can you message a copy of mine please ![]() | |||
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"Don't use them but they are a useful tool. I've never used them when I block someone because "being a dick" covers most things so it would get repetitive. " And that's wrong because?...all of us pedants are very happy with our filed notes ![]() | |||
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date." I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes. ![]() | |||
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date. I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes. ![]() I need to know the reason now ![]() | |||
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date. I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes. ![]() ![]() Lol. So this guy messaged months ago now when I first joined. I said no very politely and that he wasn't my type. Fast forward 3 months, there was a thread on here about "types". I made a comment that I didn't really have one. He messaged that day to have a go at me about daring to say he wasn't my type! I was absolutely flabbergasted. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Mrs appletree I hate to go off topic (that’s a lie I do it all the time ![]() ![]() Thank you ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date. I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I bet he’d been waiting for that moment for the whole 3 months. I always wonder if people feel better about themselves after having a little petulant temper tantrum with a complete stranger online. | |||
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date. I started doing it when someone messaged to have a go 3 months after he'd first messaged. His reason was so daft I just had to keep it in notes. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() He was probably muttering "bitch" under his breath the entire time! Bonkers to waste your energy on crap like that. | |||
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"Mrs appletree I hate to go off topic (that’s a lie I do it all the time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It is beautiful! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Mrs appletree I hate to go off topic (that’s a lie I do it all the time ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I usually just write the reason why I’ve blocked someone so I don’t get tempted to unblock at a later date." • This resonates with me: occasionally I go through an altruistic "forgive and forget / amnesty" process. But then my notes remind me how much of a wankstain that person was (to me). ![]() | |||
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"Do you use them and how? I often forget there's the function available but I usually use it when blocking people to make a note as to why. ![]() What does mine say? | |||
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"Do you use them and how? I often forget there's the function available but I usually use it when blocking people to make a note as to why. ![]() Cute, would fuck if he recreated the glasses on the stairs pose for me in person. | |||
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"If anyone’s openly admitted to liking Jaffa Cakes in the forums, I make a little warning note." ^^^ This, but in reverse ![]() | |||
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"If anyone’s openly admitted to liking Jaffa Cakes in the forums, I make a little warning note. ^^^ This, but in reverse ![]() You are a cheeky madam! ![]() | |||
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"Never, dont know how... not sure what id say? ![]() Appletree1000 - fucking hot. There you go ![]() | |||
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"Never, dont know how... not sure what id say? ![]() ![]() That’s not what my private note says about you ![]() | |||
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"Never, dont know how... not sure what id say? ![]() ![]() ![]() I know, yours says "hotter than my wife" but I know you don't want to tell everyone ![]() | |||
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"Never, dont know how... not sure what id say? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Nope. Not even close… the note that is, you are canny hot like ![]() | |||
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