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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West

hi guys

been on this site as a single guy for a long while and have stood up and been counted protecting the constant slagging of about single men time wasters

i have always turned up to any meet even when i have made a mistake and thought was going to be local and had to dash hundreds of miles to make it

but to get to the point

booked a hotel last night put a post up on this site set our rules only bi apply had loads of men contact us begging for the details..... so we thought we would be greedy and picked 6 men . thinking we might get two who will turn up[laws of averages lol] guess what not one turned up which shocked me out of my socks

yes we still had fun but its left a bitter taste in my mouth

sorry for this rant about single men yet again at least my eyes are wide open now

thanks guys xxxxx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sorry you were let down.

did you speak to them before

maybe block guys and do your own searching and start contact.

good luck for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to here about you being let down. I find taking time getting to know people help ... so far in my years been let down by one lady who was a man ... Its hit and miss this swinging why lots go to clubs like chams so thay dont get let down .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My experience with bi guys in particular is the further ahead you chat, the less chance there is of them turning up.

A lot of 'single' bi guys have commitments (family, work etc) and find it difficult to commit upfront.

If I am meeting a guy I tend to find I have more success with 'last minute larrys' than anything.

I still occasionally get the odd no show, but by far and large they do turn up.

Sorry you were let down, but glad you had fun !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear not good at all! Were the guys you chose verified, been on the site for long?

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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West


"sorry you were let down.

did you speak to them before

maybe block guys and do your own searching and start contact.

good luck for the future"

yes spoke to them it was going to cost them nothing was a classy hotel massive bed good food and they missed out on great sex as my partner can suck for wales and cock hungry lol there loss hehehehehehehehehe

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"sorry you were let down.

did you speak to them before

maybe block guys and do your own searching and start contact.

good luck for the future

yes spoke to them it was going to cost them nothing was a classy hotel massive bed good food and they missed out on great sex as my partner can suck for wales and cock hungry lol there loss hehehehehehehehehe "

onwards and upwards, good luck for the future and many great times

all the best

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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West


"Oh dear not good at all! Were the guys you chose verified, been on the site for long?"

yes good verris been on a while i recon these men verri eachother but for all six well well well there loss they are all blocked now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear not good at all! Were the guys you chose verified, been on the site for long?

yes good verris been on a while i recon these men verri eachother but for all six well well well there loss they are all blocked now lol "

Surprised at that!

We've not experienced a no show before, but for 6, that does seem odd, hence I asked, as I wondered if they were new and bottled it, or fake accounts.

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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West


"Sorry to here about you being let down. I find taking time getting to know people help ... so far in my years been let down by one lady who was a man ... Its hit and miss this swinging why lots go to clubs like chams so thay dont get let down . "

yes we going to stick with clubs still have hotel meets but from peeps we meet at the clubs thats the way to go i think lol

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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West


"Oh dear not good at all! Were the guys you chose verified, been on the site for long?

yes good verris been on a while i recon these men verri eachother but for all six well well well there loss they are all blocked now lol

Surprised at that!

yes it shocked me thought a few would not come but all six well maybe the hotel was to posh for them lol and was not allowed in hehehehehehehe

We've not experienced a no show before, but for 6, that does seem odd, hence I asked, as I wondered if they were new and bottled it, or fake accounts.

"

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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West


"Oh dear not good at all! Were the guys you chose verified, been on the site for long?

yes good verris been on a while i recon these men verri eachother but for all six well well well there loss they are all blocked now lol

Surprised at that!

yes it shocked me thought a few would not come but all six well maybe the hotel was to posh for them lol and was not allowed in hehehehehehehe

We've not experienced a no show before, but for 6, that does seem odd, hence I asked, as I wondered if they were new and bottled it, or fake accounts.

"

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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West


"Oh dear not good at all! Were the guys you chose verified, been on the site for long?

yes good verris been on a while i recon these men verri eachother but for all six well well well there loss they are all blocked now lol

Surprised at that!

yes it shocked me thought a few would not come but all six well maybe the hotel was to posh for them lol and was not allowed in hehehehehehehe

We've not experienced a no show before, but for 6, that does seem odd, hence I asked, as I wondered if they were new and bottled it, or fake accounts.

"
may be the hotel was to posh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear not good at all! Were the guys you chose verified, been on the site for long?

yes good verris been on a while i recon these men verri eachother but for all six well well well there loss they are all blocked now lol

Surprised at that!

yes it shocked me thought a few would not come but all six well maybe the hotel was to posh for them lol and was not allowed in hehehehehehehe

We've not experienced a no show before, but for 6, that does seem odd, hence I asked, as I wondered if they were new and bottled it, or fake accounts.

may be the hotel was to posh lol "

We like posh hotels haha

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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West


"Oh dear not good at all! Were the guys you chose verified, been on the site for long?

yes good verris been on a while i recon these men verri eachother but for all six well well well there loss they are all blocked now lol

Surprised at that!

yes it shocked me thought a few would not come but all six well maybe the hotel was to posh for them lol and was not allowed in hehehehehehehe

We've not experienced a no show before, but for 6, that does seem odd, hence I asked, as I wondered if they were new and bottled it, or fake accounts.

may be the hotel was to posh lol

We like posh hotels haha

"

i only do posh lol premmier yuk should burn them down lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

joking aside, maybe a posh hotel might put them off as security may be _iewed as tighter there....

only a hunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"joking aside, maybe a posh hotel might put them off as security may be _iewed as tighter there....

only a hunch"

still no excuse for not letting them no they couldnt make it.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"joking aside, maybe a posh hotel might put them off as security may be _iewed as tighter there....

only a hunch

still no excuse for not letting them no they couldnt make it."

I didn't say it was.

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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West

It did shock 'Ding', as she had already met a couple of them before as a single. One did say 'maybe' which is fair enough, but the other one said definate, then this morning an excuse turned up. His loss on all accounts now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"joking aside, maybe a posh hotel might put them off as security may be _iewed as tighter there....

only a hunch"

We find there is less security than a bog standard Premier Inn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

sure but most posh hotels have health clubs, conference and business centres.... if and only if you are a single playing away... the chance of bumping into someone you may know is greater at a posh hotel, than a premier inn.

only an idea

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

We have been around the scene for around 8 years and always met couples, but in the last year or so we have looked to meeting single guys for fun.

Now my perception was this, hundreds of guy waiting for the invite to come and fuck my Mrs, there are so many we would have the pick of the bunch.

Ok now to real life.

We tried for last weekend to get a single guy to come round to our house, must have emailed around 10 guys (play the numbers game again) and yep you guessed it only one could make it, and even he was on shaky ground as he was married (his choice to fuck around not ours).

Alot apologized that they could not make it as they had something else on, but a lot of single guys are married and have commitments a lot deeper than a quick fuck with someones Mrs, a lot think they can do it but when it comes down to it they cannot perform in front of another guy, and a lot are just out for the chase. All mouth and no fuckin trousers.

We think its just too easy these days for someone to log on sign up and think they can do what ever they want behind there wives backs when in reality they do not have a clue what they are actually getting into, always thinking will I get caught will some one see me what would happen if I passed something on (std) to the wife.

PnJ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"sure but most posh hotels have health clubs, conference and business centres.... if and only if you are a single playing away... the chance of bumping into someone you may know is greater at a posh hotel, than a premier inn.

only an idea"

Yes I suppose that is possible, we have bumped into others swingers, who we don't know lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up posting for meets on here as I get 100's of responses but never anything worth the effort of preparing for a meet.

Now I just go to a club by myself and am never disappointed

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By *etes-dragon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West

thanks for the replys

was interesting on other peoples opinion but will stick to clubs

security would of not been a problen as i would have paid for extra guests simples as the meer cat says a simple message would of done as our time is very rare and if men dont want to take advantage thats there loss lol

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I dont get it... why people DNA. Not just on the scene but for appointments at GP, hospital etc.

I really don't get what is so difficult sending a text message to say you cannot make it.

It is just rude to let people down and it does leave a bitter taste.

In my experience people tend not to DNA when they have paid for something! Sad but true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could wear a suit and talk deep, would that help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Martin) used to arrange gang bangs in this area. The first woman just asked for as many guys as I could get. I booked 10, thinking I'd get 3 or 4 as I hadn't used any of the men before. Guess what... NINE turned up. Must be something in the water up here. She loved it, though she was walking a bit like John Wayne the next day

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I could wear a suit and talk deep, would that help "

Hahaha that made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could wear a suit and talk deep, would that help

Hahaha that made me laugh "

This morning I have realised I could have said, with my strap on underneat

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