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What is the pettiest reason you have refused to date someone

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They supported celtic

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"They supported celtic "
woops

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Chigwell


"They supported celtic "
the OP specifically asked for “petty” reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wore a backpack to our date in a bar

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"He wore a backpack to our date in a bar"
do one pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one, he invited me to dinner and his mayonnaise jar was empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

They preferred cats over dogs. I would still have sex with cat people. Just not date them as I’m allergic. and dogs are superior.

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Another one, he invited me to dinner and his mayonnaise jar was empty "
you know how to pick them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogs are well superior. As are Celtic fans.

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

They had a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They had a cock "

I’m actually not too sure that’s petty, if you’re straight

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

They said words to the effect of "ewww, rats are so gross". I consulted with my lil homies, and apparently the feeling was mutual, so I unmatched her, and threw a pile of Cheerios in their cage as a sign of solidarity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is going to upset a few people. A dinner date, she was a vegan...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They said words to the effect of "ewww, rats are so gross". I consulted with my lil homies, and apparently the feeling was mutual, so I unmatched her, and threw a pile of Cheerios in their cage as a sign of solidarity."

Aw, do you have pet rats? That’s so cute. I’ve heard they’re intelligent and clean. And I daresay I could get over the thought of the long tail over time

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"They said words to the effect of "ewww, rats are so gross". I consulted with my lil homies, and apparently the feeling was mutual, so I unmatched her, and threw a pile of Cheerios in their cage as a sign of solidarity.

Aw, do you have pet rats? That’s so cute. I’ve heard they’re intelligent and clean. And I daresay I could get over the thought of the long tail over time "

Yeah, I have 4. Personality wise, they're like teeny dogs. They are intelligent, and they are great at keeping themselves clean, not so great at keeping everything else clean though. You get used to the tails pretty quickly... and the massive bols - I swear, if their nuts were any bigger I'd start feeling self-conscious

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"They preferred cats over dogs. I would still have sex with cat people. Just not date them as I’m allergic. and dogs are superior. "

Phew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They said words to the effect of "ewww, rats are so gross". I consulted with my lil homies, and apparently the feeling was mutual, so I unmatched her, and threw a pile of Cheerios in their cage as a sign of solidarity.

Aw, do you have pet rats? That’s so cute. I’ve heard they’re intelligent and clean. And I daresay I could get over the thought of the long tail over time

Yeah, I have 4. Personality wise, they're like teeny dogs. They are intelligent, and they are great at keeping themselves clean, not so great at keeping everything else clean though. You get used to the tails pretty quickly... and the massive bols - I swear, if their nuts were any bigger I'd start feeling self-conscious "

One of the lads I work with has them as pets. He’s forever talking about them, and they seem to have such distinct personalities. In fact, his could be renamed Greedy Bastard and Houdini It’s very sweet.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle somewhere


"They preferred cats over dogs. I would still have sex with cat people. Just not date them as I’m allergic. and dogs are superior. "

Good job I don’t want to date you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were on Fab.

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


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Anyone with kids or dogs. It’s a dealbreaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They were on Fab."

Actually, it’s doubtful that the man for me would be on here. So I do kinda get you with that. I’m definitely more dater than swinger! And nobody I have ever dated (cough -half of Edinburgh- cough) is on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They were on Fab.

Actually, it’s doubtful that the man for me would be on here. So I do kinda get you with that. I’m definitely more dater than swinger! And nobody I have ever dated (cough -half of Edinburgh- cough) is on here."

How many dates do you reckon you've been on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She seemed to think because i work within 'eco power' i wanted to hear her waffle on about 'the green party' for a whole hour yawn

date two never happened, ashame because she was stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was leaving the country the next week

I didn't want ginger babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They had a cock

I’m actually not too sure that’s petty, if you’re straight "

Maybe he was talking about a male chicken

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

Also hate tattoos, so definitely a no

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

She had a big bum

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Usually over annoying speech mannerisms.

One kept adding '..and blah, blah blah' to anything she was recounting

Another used say 'D'jya get mah drift?' at the end of most sentences, question or otherwise.

Djinnot armeen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They said words to the effect of "ewww, rats are so gross". I consulted with my lil homies, and apparently the feeling was mutual, so I unmatched her, and threw a pile of Cheerios in their cage as a sign of solidarity.

Aw, do you have pet rats? That’s so cute. I’ve heard they’re intelligent and clean. And I daresay I could get over the thought of the long tail over time

Yeah, I have 4. Personality wise, they're like teeny dogs. They are intelligent, and they are great at keeping themselves clean, not so great at keeping everything else clean though. You get used to the tails pretty quickly... and the massive bols - I swear, if their nuts were any bigger I'd start feeling self-conscious "

My ex used to keep rats and gave a home to a rescue one. Unusually he was very anti social with other rats but (despite being rescued from a family who claimed he was vicious) was the friendliest and tamest rat ever. His cage was next to where I sat on the sofa and when I sat down with food he would open the door of his cage so it made a little draw bridge across to the sofa arm then come and sit beside me and steal bits of my food. He never let himself out any other time,

only when I was eating then after would curl up in the crook of my arm.

I miss Sir Samuel Vimes.

Mr

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

She asked me and i refused ...

She was married to my best friend

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

They didn't like music

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By *uscious_lips30Woman
over a year ago

gloucestershire

Scruffy shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They didn't like music "

All music? Did they have sound sensitivity?

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs


"They said words to the effect of "ewww, rats are so gross". I consulted with my lil homies, and apparently the feeling was mutual, so I unmatched her, and threw a pile of Cheerios in their cage as a sign of solidarity."

This is brilliant, I have pet rats too, so much more to them than people expect.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"They didn't like music "

How can anyone not like music? Life without music would be awful

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By *aughtyGentleman43Man
over a year ago

copthorne

I can't date smokers / have sex with smokers

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"They didn't like music

All music? Did they have sound sensitivity? "

No, when I asked them about it they just said 'some people aren't into sport, I'm not into music.'

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"They didn't like music

How can anyone not like music? Life without music would be awful "

My thoughts exactly hence couldn't consider dating someone like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of someone not liking music just blows my mind. I can’t get on board with that at all. Why, it’s worse than not liking books.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He kept going on and on about money and only having the best. Kept opening his suit jacket and flashing the label in the inside pocket. After he realised I was ignoring it, he then told me how much he loved designer brands and said his jacket was Dolce and Gabbana.

So I got up and said I don't give a F about money and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He wore a backpack to our date in a bar"

Omg no way haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He kept going on and on about money and only having the best. Kept opening his suit jacket and flashing the label in the inside pocket. After he realised I was ignoring it, he then told me how much he loved designer brands and said his jacket was Dolce and Gabbana.

So I got up and said I don't give a F about money and left "

I’ve just had a message from a guy asking to spoil me, take me out shopping and then on to a nice hotel.

It ain’t Pretty Woman mate

And I’ll buy my own stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dogs are well superior. As are Celtic fans."

So glad am a cat girl and a bluenose hate being superior, rather be the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, I did have a social with a guy who had a very long black coat.

It felt like being out with the Equaliser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dogs are well superior. As are Celtic fans.

So glad am a cat girl and a bluenose hate being superior, rather be the norm "

You minx!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dogs are well superior. As are Celtic fans.

So glad am a cat girl and a bluenose hate being superior, rather be the norm

You minx! "

Miaow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He kept going on and on about money and only having the best. Kept opening his suit jacket and flashing the label in the inside pocket. After he realised I was ignoring it, he then told me how much he loved designer brands and said his jacket was Dolce and Gabbana.

So I got up and said I don't give a F about money and left

I’ve just had a message from a guy asking to spoil me, take me out shopping and then on to a nice hotel.

It ain’t Pretty Woman mate

And I’ll buy my own stuff!"

I've had a few messages along those lines. Money is a turn off for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not refused, exactly.. just..side stepped

.. their lips were too thin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He kept going on and on about money and only having the best. Kept opening his suit jacket and flashing the label in the inside pocket. After he realised I was ignoring it, he then told me how much he loved designer brands and said his jacket was Dolce and Gabbana.

So I got up and said I don't give a F about money and left

I’ve just had a message from a guy asking to spoil me, take me out shopping and then on to a nice hotel.

It ain’t Pretty Woman mate

And I’ll buy my own stuff!

I've had a few messages along those lines. Money is a turn off for sure."

Ugh I'm not a fan of those messages either

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I can't date smokers / have sex with smokers "

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a guy wears on his feet is a big deal breaker for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He kept going on and on about money and only having the best. Kept opening his suit jacket and flashing the label in the inside pocket. After he realised I was ignoring it, he then told me how much he loved designer brands and said his jacket was Dolce and Gabbana.

So I got up and said I don't give a F about money and left

I’ve just had a message from a guy asking to spoil me, take me out shopping and then on to a nice hotel.

It ain’t Pretty Woman mate

And I’ll buy my own stuff!

I've had a few messages along those lines. Money is a turn off for sure.

Ugh I'm not a fan of those messages either "

Someone mentioned Michelin starred restaurants here and honestly - picked the wrong woman!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

She was a manc fan i supported liverpool

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I sold it as something else, but it was a mixture of her increasingly revealing she was a bit odd and also having a gammy tooth that was exactly like one of my old boss’s teeth.

You don’t need to think of an old boss when you’re up to the hilt in someone.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

All his pics had no smile.

Turned up with teeth missing and what was left were black.

He was only 38.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Refused date outright !

Because she was a Man Utd supporter !

I sleep with any lady just not a Man Utd supporter !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Refused date outright !

Because she was a Man Utd supporter !

I sleep with any lady just not a Man Utd supporter ! "

But surely any hole’s a goal!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

She had absolutely no appreciation for the Archers.

Yeah, I know, there are actually people like that out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Refused date outright !

Because she was a Man Utd supporter !

I sleep with any lady just not a Man Utd supporter !

But surely any hole’s a goal!"

Not when she wants to wear a Man Utd shirt lol

Been LFC since 1977 my mates wouldn’t speak to me I would be ostrisised from greater community lol

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By *adistic_visionMan
over a year ago

bolsover

Oh I totally get this one

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By *adistic_visionMan
over a year ago

bolsover

Mine and to me not petty she said oh I so want to do kinky stuff have you got a red room of pain I so love that book ………..

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Her name was Tom and she was a Heartbreaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine and to me not petty she said oh I so want to do kinky stuff have you got a red room of pain I so love that book ……….. "

Oh ffs

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By *adistic_visionMan
over a year ago

bolsover

I know right so many consent violations and unrealistic play mind they usually run when I say I get hard when I hurt people then politely say look up sadist on Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reasons including the following…

Had the same name as my mum

Because they never stopped harping on about being vegan

Also stopped dating a woman after 3 great dates for being a shit kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know right so many consent violations and unrealistic play mind they usually run when I say I get hard when I hurt people then politely say look up sadist on Google "

Damn Jamie Dornan for giving sadists a good name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw my friends name on their verifications. Id always be thinking who did it better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t care what he did, I still would!

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By *adistic_visionMan
over a year ago

bolsover

Oh god you would think judging by him we are all fluffy bunnies lol

Take of your underwear imagine doing that in Wetherspoons pub lol

Ah my favourite saying oh please do cry don’t hold it in tears make the best lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh god you would think judging by him we are all fluffy bunnies lol

Take of your underwear imagine doing that in Wetherspoons pub lol

Ah my favourite saying oh please do cry don’t hold it in tears make the best lube "

Well tbf sadists do have a reputation as rather nice people after you get past the pain stuff

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By *icktickboomMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've done that too.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

They said they didn't like cats

They had the same name as other exes

Their job

They weren't into music

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