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By *igGfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford

So my main question is on this who is into this and can it actually be good, I have a very busy work schedule and think this would work well for me inbetween meets as to be honest porn is pretty boring now and i feel i need some sort of real connection even if just talking opinions please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.

Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment.

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By *igGfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford

I've tried sexting in the past but never really done anything for me but maybe the person sexting wasn't great at it so i dunno haha

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.

Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment."

It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.

For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.

With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Not my thing

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By *igGfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.

Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment.

It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.

For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.

With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there. "

See this is what I'm thinking I have a bery vivid imagination and as meeting can be difficult for me at times i think it would be good, porn bores me now to be honest

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Done well its brilliant to help build the anticipation and sexual tension before a meet.

Done poorly its cringey as hell.

MJ x

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I love sexting as long as I don't get called babe or baby. I hate that, I'm nobody's babe!

Xx

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By *igGfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford

Never really met a woman who has excited me through it but they haven't been very discriptive either

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By *igGfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"I love sexting as long as I don't get called babe or baby. I hate that, I'm nobody's babe!

Xx"

Thats interesting is it just those 2 things you don't like being called

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By *avelovesfeetMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I do like doing this. Have Kik or Snapchat and WhatsApp

feel free to ask

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By *igGfun OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford


"I do like doing this. Have Kik or Snapchat and WhatsApp

feel free to ask"

I'm only into women but thank you

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By *avelovesfeetMan
over a year ago

Kettering


"I do like doing this. Have Kik or Snapchat and WhatsApp

feel free to ask

I'm only into women but thank you"

I didn't put it on for you. Put it on for anyone who is interested. That's the idea of these Forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.

Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment.

It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.

For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.

With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there. "

I guess I see them as different. At least as a shorthand for a given activity.

Sexting being provocative through to downright filthy text messages, possibly intermittent through the day. Cybersex being two people messaging and playing at the same time for a defined period.

At least that's my understanding from my (many) years of hanging around on dodgy websites. I guess there could be overlap.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.

Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment.

It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.

For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.

With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there.

I guess I see them as different. At least as a shorthand for a given activity.

Sexting being provocative through to downright filthy text messages, possibly intermittent through the day. Cybersex being two people messaging and playing at the same time for a defined period.

At least that's my understanding from my (many) years of hanging around on dodgy websites. I guess there could be overlap. "

That's true. But yes there is definitely an overlap

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

So long as its sensual and not crude it can be very erotic.

Knowing you've made someone cum with your words is fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find sexting can be great for keeping things ticking over when not with your partner/playmate and for the build up to a date.

Cybersex has never been my thing so I can't comment.

It is essentially the same thing really. Though lends itself more to details than little teasing one liners.

For it to be effective, both people need to be in to it. Both need to be imaginative and good with word use. The ability to describe something and have somebody get the sensation of feeling it as I they read it is not for the uninterested or those unable to imagine.

With the right people it can be far more effective than any porn clip out there.

I guess I see them as different. At least as a shorthand for a given activity.

Sexting being provocative through to downright filthy text messages, possibly intermittent through the day. Cybersex being two people messaging and playing at the same time for a defined period.

At least that's my understanding from my (many) years of hanging around on dodgy websites. I guess there could be overlap.

That's true. But yes there is definitely an overlap"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own but not my thing. The biggest barrier to it for me is being dyslexic, not exactly hot when you can’t type words with speed or accuracy to make it exciting. I draw the line at being flirtatious, I’d rather play than just think about it

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It was fun back in the day but sadly everyone seems bored of it now.

I guess it got samey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some fantastic sexting sessions and tbh it's what made lockdown 1 bearable.

People need to be able to write well and tell a story. I've found all too often that I'm just doing it for the guy. It's got to be a back and forth between two people.

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Sexting can be very horny especially when it is just suggestive and has a double meaning. It can get your pulse racing with the thought of things to come.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Some folk can be hard work - but it’s great when you “click”.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I've had some fantastic sexting sessions and tbh it's what made lockdown 1 bearable.

People need to be able to write well and tell a story. I've found all too often that I'm just doing it for the guy. It's got to be a back and forth between two people. "

I tend to find it the opposite way round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it with the right person! It's very rare I do it though as I do need that connection to someone if I want enjoyment from it.

I enjoy sending videos too, again depends on the connection. But it's amazing seeing what you're doing to each other when all you want to do is fuck.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I love it with the right person! It's very rare I do it though as I do need that connection to someone if I want enjoyment from it.

I enjoy sending videos too, again depends on the connection. But it's amazing seeing what you're doing to each other when all you want to do is fuck. "

Phew. It's getting warm in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cybersex know. Sexting only once I have met the person we have connected in that way. I don’t last year like doing it before meeting first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cybersex know. Sexting only once I have met the person we have connected in that way. I don’t last year like doing it before meeting first time. "

Cybersex - no!

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Does nothing for me, I need that physical connection

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By *an_buryMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many people want to talk about it and not do it...

Not a fan, the 'fancy a chat' thing properly makes my shit itch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about the connection with the person and also in context with how the conversation is developing it can really add to the excitement and anticipation of things to come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many people want to talk about it and not do it...

Not a fan, the 'fancy a chat' thing properly makes my shit itch"

I love it but only with people I'm fucking.

Hate when strangers want sext wank chat.

Just by posting on this thread the women will likely get some one handed wonder sending "chat?" messages.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Does absolutely nothing for me, I'd rather let the anticipation build for when I can next see them in person x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If I'm interested in the person, I fancy them then yes, it can be fun and hot. If I'm not really sure or not interested, I find it awkward and a bit of a turn off. Tend to make some kind of excuse to leave it there.

That being said, there are women who enjoy sexy chat with men they don't really know, a few of my male friends have had some very raunchy messages. So who knows OP, you might find your perfect erotica penpal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many people want to talk about it and not do it...

Not a fan, the 'fancy a chat' thing properly makes my shit itch

I love it but only with people I'm fucking.

Hate when strangers want sext wank chat.

Just by posting on this thread the women will likely get some one handed wonder sending "chat?" messages. "

Yes I did when I first posted but tbh it's happening on lots of threads! I'd only want to sext with someone I'm seeing. Not randoms in my inbox!

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