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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s your ideal opening message be or like to be received ?

For myself I find it hard trying to kick start a convo whether it needs to be filled with banter or flirty chat.

Flirty chat ends up being like, oh he is just a sex head !

Banter, we’ll how can you banter to a stranger ? Or is that just my shit chat ? Haha

Tips would be greatly appreciated! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to know they've read my profile. So simply something like "I know you're not meeting guys..." but then I don't like it to carry on with.. ".. but I have a bi female friend if you're up for meeting?"

My advice would be study their profile and their preferences and respect it

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

I’m staying locally with work and can host in the travel lodge I’m staying in….. that seems to be fairly common - always nice to see that the Mrs is going to get spoiled in luxury surroundings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never write a first message, but the ones I like to receive are the ones that show that they have read my profile (either by mentioning sonething that's on it or by explicitly saying they have) and also show that they find me hot. Short and sweet, if I'm interested and find them hot I will answer

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

I prefer this kind of message : "Hi, can we meet for sex, and I'll also repay the money I owe you".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attach a face pic of Chris Hemsworth.

Read their profile 16 times.

Be whatever they want you to be.

Use banter wisely but not the actual word banter, or bants, or any other variation.

Tell them you have a big dick (unless they prefer small then tell them you’re small).

Wear grey joggers unless they don’t like grey joggers in which case don’t. Apply this to a suit also.

Be tall, unless they prefer short then be that.

Have a beard but be prepared to shave your beard if they don’t like beards.

Have tattoos but be willing to undergo laser tattoo removal if they don’t like tattoos.

And have looks and a personality attached to your message, unless they prefer one over the other then remove one.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to know they've read my profile. So simply something like "I know you're not meeting guys..." but then I don't like it to carry on with.. ".. but I have a bi female friend if you're up for meeting?"

My advice would be study their profile and their preferences and respect it "

I did read your profile and STILL got ignored

But yes a profile read and maybe something witty for me to laugh at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that the best option is to show you've read their profile and show why you're messaging and then invite a reply.

If their profile gives you a sense they have a cheeky sense of humour, throw the same back. If not, just a simple friendly message works.

What gets deleted by me:

"Great tits. F**k later?"

"I'm in your area this afternoo ..."

"I'm wanking, come help me."

You get the gist.

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