FabSwingers.com forum: Being called Daddy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally I don’t like being called Daddy.

What do you guys and ladies think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree I don't like being called daddy either

NBVN x

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

The right person, in the right time, in the right context. Yes I have enjoyed it....

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By *rTongueMan
over a year ago

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Not my thing. Especially from someone older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with everything, as long as it’s between two consenting adults it shouldn’t be a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only by my actual children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find all that DDLG kink stuff a bit too clove to being a nonce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the circumstances, and stuff. I've said it once or twice and enjoyed it. The other times not so much

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Not for me

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I'm not that struck on being called daddy actually.

It draws my attention to my beard.

Posh

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Each yo their own but makes me feel a bit queezy. The connotations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d prefer it to mummy.

But I’m good with neither.

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By *urves and MischiefWoman
over a year ago

Northerner

Not for me either

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It's not our thing,but each to their own.

Miss

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I always think of that scene in scum.... right.. banks you bastard.. I'm the daddy now..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like calling a man daddy sometimes. If it's not your thing...don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With the right person it works

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I enjoy it

LvM

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Grim

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

If you don't like it you should communicate that. All boundaries should be adhered to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like it at all. Last time I was in the club this guy kept saying "I'm your daddy, call me daddy" then he slapped me on the face. Told him to stop, no slapping. It wasn't a hard slap, it was obviously a kink of his but it's not my kink. Put a stop to it and his daddy calling kink too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't like it at all. Last time I was in the club this guy kept saying "I'm your daddy, call me daddy" then he slapped me on the face. Told him to stop, no slapping. It wasn't a hard slap, it was obviously a kink of his but it's not my kink. Put a stop to it and his daddy calling kink too x"

He should never have done. You don’t force your kinks onto someone.

Both are things that should only take place between two consenting adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too. Hated it

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

I don’t mind, I’m mainly trying to help the other enact fantasy or come out their shell etc.

I won’t stifle them.

However with an actual partner I wouldn’t like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He should never have done. You don’t force your kinks onto someone.

Both are things that should only take place between two consenting adults. "

Absolutely. He made a hasty retreat after I told him where to go x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

The ability to separate the meanings of words is a wonderful thing.

Prostitutes in 1621 originally used daddy as a name for their pimp. A caregiver/guardian role.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

He should never have done. You don’t force your kinks onto someone.

Both are things that should only take place between two consenting adults.

Absolutely. He made a hasty retreat after I told him where to go x"

Good on you, just plain wrong that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me at all.

Just feels and sounds wrong.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Personally I don’t like being called Daddy.

What do you guys and ladies think ?"

In the right dynamic it can work. I prefer it to being called Sir, Master, Lord etc. and it rolls off the tongue easier than Supreme Leader.

Its not about role playing or replacing someones biological father, its just a title/honourific used to indicate a caregiver role.

We have had play partners that enjoy DDMD/lg use it, as well as more traditional D/s partners use it. We don’t force it upon people, if they don’t like it so be it, we find something else for them to use.

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By *lectrumMan
over a year ago

south shields

It’s a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a no from me. Feels and sounds wrong.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I'm very open that it's a kink of mine...

Both ways actually, I don't mind being Mummy (or Daddy... the joys if being GQ) with the right submissive partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can separate the meanings so I thoroughly enjoy it

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I hate it unless it was my own kids when they were really young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ability to separate the meanings of words is a wonderful thing.

Prostitutes in 1621 originally used daddy as a name for their pimp. A caregiver/guardian role. "

This is it. The ability to separate the meanings of words.

Love this

It is a caregiving role. It’s nurturing, guiding, supporting.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"The ability to separate the meanings of words is a wonderful thing.

Prostitutes in 1621 originally used daddy as a name for their pimp. A caregiver/guardian role.

This is it. The ability to separate the meanings of words.

Love this

It is a caregiving role. It’s nurturing, guiding, supporting.

My ex is half Puerto Rican, and "Papi" was used often, not just sexual but affectionate to, and not just by her but closer to a cultural thing. It's less about a parental thing and more about the role/relationship behind the word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me either. Grand daddy even worst but more accurate

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"Personally I don’t like being called Daddy.

What do you guys and ladies think ?"

Are we talking in a sexual scenario or just an affectionate way ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ability to separate the meanings of words is a wonderful thing.

Prostitutes in 1621 originally used daddy as a name for their pimp. A caregiver/guardian role. "

I suspect the pimps cared more about the earning potential of the prostitutes

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

I get one or two will you be my daddy requests a month, usually from 20 - 30 year old females, I think my age may have something to do with it

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Each to their own, but it creeps me out.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"I'm not that struck on being called daddy actually.

It draws my attention to my beard.

Posh

I thought you had that waxed Posh

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Definitely not

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By *igGfunMan
over a year ago

Oxford

It all depends for me I don't mind it in the right situation to be honest

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

At the end of the day each person decides how they take the meaning of the word Daddy.

For me It conjures up an image of my guide, my protector, a gentleman who is admired by others who would support me in whichever way he could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its cringy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, but then neither is Mummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

From the right person in the right scenario it isn’t an issue with me.

TG has mentioned before in previous posts that I play that role just without her ever saying it.

Beard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think its all about the scenario, the person your with and the communication you have had before hand.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"From the right person in the right scenario it isn’t an issue with me.

TG has mentioned before in previous posts that I play that role just without her ever saying it.

Beard "

Its exactly like that,just a word. My little used to call me his queen

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

"I personally think its all about the scenario, the person your with and the communication you have had before hand. "

exactly

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By *ayskiMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Not keen on it.

Prefer to be called - little bitch

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