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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For the guys and the girls out there, do you get more on with your mum or with your dad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Divorced when I was a baby so my Mum brought me up and always been closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't spoken to my dad for over twenty years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both equally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely mum.

Dad can be quite difficult to talk to, not his fault, he’s just dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mom. Mind you there isn't much competition when your dad's an alcoholic abuser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum as my dad passed 17 years ago.

I used to get on well with both but in different ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose my mum.

I dont really have a great deal to do with either though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both shits!

But he was the better one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before anyone asks this thread is just a general question... There is an anything behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are both dead.

Looking back definitely my dad.. He put up with far more than anyone realised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad is past away when I was 19 i miss him dearly

Love mom to bits ....as long as it's in small doses

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

Him: both equally although being a 'chip off the ol' block' had a couple of fractious years butting heads with Dad as a teen.

Her: both although Dad can be a bit hard going at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven’t spoken to my mum in over a decade but regularly speak to my dad (my dad raised me).

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Both equally. They're both good people who irritate me in their own special ways as I'm sure I do them

In-laws however it's definitely my father in law as my mother in law's a crazy b*tch

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Always been a daddy's girl. It's a bit of a family joke that my first words were 'daddy do it!'.

I love my mum and see her quite often but we clash sometimes. Not enough to fall out but long stays with her drive me insane!

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

My dad is my world, i can’t imagine life without him.

My mum however, I massively struggle with her, we are very different people

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Sadly mine are both gone

Miss them both as much as each other.

Miss

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I’m still a daddy’s girl I’m afraid but I get on with them both thankfully.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Not close. I'm the black sheep of the family. The left wing tree hugging hippie from the right wing facicst tree...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum died when I was 9. I didn't meet my biological father until I was 33, he and I have a lovely relationship.

NBVN x

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By *ovebjsMan
over a year ago

Bristol

My mum left us when I was 5 and I had 3 younger bros, dad brought us up.

So my dad

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

I'm with Philip Larkin on this and my kids agree entirely.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I get on way better with my dad than my mum

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

mother passed away in 2006

our relationship was best described as strained

father and I parted company a long long time ago, he waas a difficult person to be around, no idea where he went, life is better without him.

Some families are not how all families work.

My GrandMothers were closer and for that, I give thanks.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Mam cos my Dad's dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both abused me so the bugs that eat their corpse maybe

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Miss my dad terribly and very close to my mum. I honestly look back with nothing but happiness, I really feel for those who have not been as lucky as me growing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Miss my dad terribly and very close to my mum. I honestly look back with nothing but happiness, I really feel for those who have not been as lucky as me growing up"

It’s everything, I have to struggle to the extreme so much because of it but I don’t mention that usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there’s many worse things at all than child abuse, this comment will get buried but wanted to air that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have message filters that I won’t change but separate to that if anyone wants to talk about anything and feel like they have nobody I can always chat, non-sexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No relationship with my dad, get on more with my mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm very, very lucky to have great relationships with both parents. I aspire to that when my kids are grown up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on with them both really well but I can only manage them in small doses now that I have my own family, the way I do things etc.

Mum used to help me alot though, especially after childbirth or illness. I could barely lift my arms above my chest after childbirth so she would come and shower me so Mr could sit with the baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t spoken to my mum, dad or sister for 4 years now.

I miss them and I’m sad but my life is happier without them in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both parents died but was definitely my dad

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My dad, stepmum & step dad are all brilliant. My mum isn’t but we can spend time together without falling out.

T’s parents are brilliant too.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum. My dad never stayed around

But I wouldn't change it for the world

Nikki xx

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I talk to both equally but at family gatherings Dad usually takes a backseat and Mum is the talkative one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven’t spoken to my mum, dad or sister for 4 years now.

I miss them and I’m sad but my life is happier without them in it. "

I feel you on this, I don’t speak to my mum or sister because they’re toxic. I’m happier without them in my life. I speak to my dad but haven’t seen him in years! I mean he claimed driving 2 hours to see me on my 40th birthday was too far (he drives and is in good health).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my dad, he's my hero, my mum on the other hand , well let's just say I've never really had one and had to grow up pretty quickly xx

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

My mum, I don’t speak to my dad and haven’t done for almost 30yrs, he walked out on my mum when I was 7 and my sister was 3

My mother is the epitome of a strong, resilient and just bloody marvellous woman, we have our differences but her unconditional love remains the same, I adore her xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

When they were alive deffo more with my dad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not spoken to them in almost 13 years

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Until my dad passed away, I'd say equally to be honest. Certainly, I can't say that consciously I got on better/worse with one than the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got on well with my dad and I loved him but I'd probably say I was closer with my mum even though we had a very difficult relationship and she could be toxic at times.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Since my dad died I have grown very close to my mum. Before that my dad was my idol. When he was dying he asked me to promise to look after her so I do.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here


"I haven’t spoken to my mum, dad or sister for 4 years now.

I miss them and I’m sad but my life is happier without them in it.

I feel you on this, I don’t speak to my mum or sister because they’re toxic. I’m happier without them in my life. I speak to my dad but haven’t seen him in years! I mean he claimed driving 2 hours to see me on my 40th birthday was too far (he drives and is in good health). "

This sounds like my mum, she claims a 1.5 hour drive down one road is too far, and how would I feel if she was to have an accident when she drove to me? I mean, it doesn’t matter if her daughter and grandchildren have an accident However, she will catch a flight several times a year to see my brother. I’ve lived in my current house for 2.5 years, she still hasn’t visited

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By *offee27Man
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Fractured, my dad is ok these days but don't don't speak to my mum anymore, she was abusive whenever my dad was away in the army. Luckily they got divorced when I was 10 so spent some quality time with my dad through my teen years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on great with both, am lucky my parents are very decent people.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Both relationships are different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, my mum is an interfering old cow who has gaslighted me and hates my hubby for making me stronger and my dad is a pussy who firmly keeps his balls in her purse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got on with my mum miss her lots !

Father was waste of space

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By *ewfie02Couple
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Never got on with either of mine. Mostly raised by nannies and boarding schools.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I get on somewhat okay with the mother but the father is a non-goer given he is dead. I could always break out a Ouija board, but effort...

C

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Mum raised me by herself very close would do anything for me and vice versa

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

My relationship with my mother improved dramatically when she died.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"My relationship with my mother improved dramatically when she died."

Wow

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By *AURA6969TV/TS
over a year ago

RUGBY

Both are passed by got on with dad more but still loved and miss my mum.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Very close so losing my dad in 2020 was devastating.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I get on well enough with all of my parents but Mum is one of my best friends these days

P

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Fem answer = I'm very happily estranged from them. I packed and left when I was 18. They only made 1 phone call to get me back. If I don't ever talk, hear or see them again I'll be very happy thank you.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Definitely get on better with my mum, I'm pretty sure she's the reason for my sarcasm too

LvM

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By *oah VailMan
over a year ago

Dover

I was very close to my dad. He died when I was 17, after a long illness.

My mum was a “challenging” individual to have a relationship with. Particularly as I was the one upon whom it fell to coordinate care, affairs etc. as her health failed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was close to both but in different ways and for different reasons. I didn't grow up living with my Mum so we never had a conventional Mum/Daughter relationship. But she was great and I loved her

My Dad was the parent, I loved him and there wasn't much he didn't know so would always seek his comfort and advice for sure

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Haven't seen my day in over 15 years. I have a very fractured relationship with my mum.

Don't chat to my sister.

It's true when they say you can't choose your family but you can your friends.

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By *est Mims LookingCouple
over a year ago

Crofton

Neither

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By *annGentMan
over a year ago

With a cracking view

Left home after school, and the best decision I ever made.

I tolerated my parents when I had to see them, but never thought about them otherwise, less so now they're dead.

Seen my brother twice in over 30 years, we're chalk and cheese.

I see myself as the white sheep of our family !

If you have a great relationship with your parents and family ... great, enjoy it and enjoy them.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My dad. I love my mum but the relationship is a bit emotionally stunted.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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My mum definitely. We had a challenging relationship during my teenage years (mainly due to me not being the beautiful daughter she'd hoped for and far more interested in books and girls then boys) but now it's changed and we get on really well - she even complimented me on some work I did recently and that meant a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get on with both equally. But their opinions mean literally fuck all to me. Once you hit 18 it shouldn't matter what they think. Never understood people being consumed by the need to please their parents.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Both equally, but in very different ways

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By *incloudukMan
over a year ago

Medway

Mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mam. I had a very difficult relationship with my dad until I was an adult but now we get on well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know how you feel

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