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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No I'm not and I'd never allow photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not prudish. More sensible IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all! I wouldn't either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

If that defines a prude, I guess I am! Oh well, so be it.

(I think it's prudent not prudish, personally unless you take and control those images yourself.)

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By *ordo320Man
over a year ago

Gatwick

I’m not sure if anyone who’s a member here could really be called a prude to be honest!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

Crikey - he sounds like a charmer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t either.

Unless it was a porn shoot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
He's a knob. Everything you do at a meet has to be mutual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you are not a prude OP.

Whoever called you that is a dick!

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "
allowing pics to be taken and videos is a big matter of trust in the person taking them and what is going to happen to them a few very close up pics might be ok as long as you can vet them to say yes or no please delete,,, i bet you never want to meet the guy again tho so he has shot himself in the foot,,

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

You should never be intimated into doing something you're not 100% happy doing.

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Apart from meeting me.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No wouldnt say prude just choice ! I'm the opposite though I will only meet if pics/vids will b part of the meet x

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Fuck him off and dont meet him again. Boundries are there for a reason.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Yes I’m a prude - you can tell by the polo neck I always wear in my profile pics

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

[Removed by poster at 20/01/22 15:10:48]

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Yes I’m a prude - you can tell by the polo neck I always wear in my profile pics "

And cover your ankles woman. Disgraceful

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I haven’t met him. It was a question he asked and I said no so then I got the usual charming message when things don't go their way x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm no prude but the only pics would be of me, taken by Mr KC. They may include other people only if they consent. No-one else would be taking pics/videos of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No wouldnt say prude just choice ! I'm the opposite though I will only meet if pics/vids will b part of the meet x"

Me too

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I haven’t met him. It was a question he asked and I said no so then I got the usual charming message when things don't go their way x"

Men. Pffffft

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I haven’t met him. It was a question he asked and I said no so then I got the usual charming message when things don't go their way x

Men. Pffffft "

Not ALL men....just the twats x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I haven’t met him. It was a question he asked and I said no so then I got the usual charming message when things don't go their way x

Men. Pffffft

Not ALL men....just the twats x"

I'll get me coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not a prude.

That's just being careful depending on job/family/privacy. Plus personal preference.

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"I haven’t met him. It was a question he asked and I said no so then I got the usual charming message when things don't go their way x"
sounds as if you made the right choice and had a lucky escape

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

As part of a first time meet I’d never allow this, if it’s a repeat meet where I had a level of trust with the person then yes I would, and have done

Wouldn’t say it’s prudish not too it’s a personal choice and people should respect that x

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

I'd rather be described as a prude than have my pictures published on the internet without my consent.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'd rather be described as a prude than have my pictures published on the internet without my consent."

My thoughts exactly, that's why I would never allow it with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny that it's when you assert your boundaries that people resort to name-calling isn't it? I've told men I don't like them sending me cock pics and been called a prude.

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Funny that it's when you assert your boundaries that people resort to name-calling isn't it? I've told men I don't like them sending me cock pics and been called a prude. "

It's quite sad and pathetic really but I take things said on here with a pinch of salt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only agree to pics with someone i really trusted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

Do with your own phone... its fun to look back...

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By *nn_JamesCouple
over a year ago

the

Definitely not a prude.

Your doing exactly what your comfortable with

Those who name call are imo coercive, I'd be very wary of people like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny that it's when you assert your boundaries that people resort to name-calling isn't it? I've told men I don't like them sending me cock pics and been called a prude.

It's quite sad and pathetic really but I take things said on here with a pinch of salt "

I do now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't either.

That's a privacy issue not prudish. X

I'm no prude

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

Good for you...Neither do I or send any pics of that nature! Once online always on line You stand by your choices OP.

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By *lairekTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I used to dislike stocking tops showing below my skirt or dress.

I'd call that prudish.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I’ve never taken any photos of me or anyone else as part of a meet. That’s not what I’m there for. I’m not done trophy to show anyone and everyone.

The only person I’ve ever taken photos with is TG for this profile not as some sexual act

Stick to your guns OP

Beard

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

That makes me a prude too.

I don't trust many people to keep them private, or keep them safe from being found.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I'd rather be described as a prude than have my pictures published on the internet without my consent."

Or shared with their friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

Neither do I. It's not being a prude. It's being sensible. Those men only want them to pass those pics and vids around and show off to others. Same reason why I refuse to be tied up. Anything can happen.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Each to their own and totally up to the individual's, we are happy to take photos and have them taken of us, we have had plenty of meets where neither of us haven't taken any photos and have been just as enjoyable. X

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

Nope !

I wouldn’t either , if I wanted to be filmed or photographed frankly I’d do it professionally and get paid for it

I would question the motives , why is it needed at all apart possibly for hot wives/husband meets which wouldn’t apply to me.

personally I would rather concentrate on having fun rather than becoming a performer or film director

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Definitely not a prude.

Your doing exactly what your comfortable with

Those who name call are imo coercive, I'd be very wary of people like that."

Absolutely agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bit.

But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !

Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I am a bit.

But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !

Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school "

I suppose in a way I am as I won't/don't show any vagina pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a bit.

But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !

Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school

I suppose in a way I am as I won't/don't show any vagina pics "

Me neither

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I am a bit.

But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !

Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school

I suppose in a way I am as I won't/don't show any vagina pics

Me neither "

Me neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had photos and videos taken of me but on my phone. I quite like having them tbh but doing it that way means I have full control. And obvs I had to agree in advance and I've said no more often than I've said yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prude is just a term people use to try to berate you into allowing your boundaries to be trampled over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

You’re not a prude at all!!! This is a swinging site not a ‘make porn’ site!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I am a bit.

But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !

Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school

I suppose in a way I am as I won't/don't show any vagina pics

Me neither

Me neither. "

Fiber u sent me one of yr vag! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

What? Don't you even sell them a postcard as a souvenir?

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet....

What? Don't you even sell them a postcard as a souvenir? "

Now theres an idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

Who wants to waste time taking pictures and videos when the real thing is right on front of you.

You look unforgettable, who needs a photo to remember!!

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By *parkle1974 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet....

Who wants to waste time taking pictures and videos when the real thing is right on front of you.

You look unforgettable, who needs a photo to remember!!"

I dont get that either...I'm too busy enjoying other things instead of acting like a performing seal

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.


"Like me.....

Apparently I am because I refuse to allow any pictures or videos to be taken as part of a meet.... "

I'd say you were being safe.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yeah, I've never even been naked. I was born fully dressed.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

No, he's a dickhead.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I am a bit.

But I don’t blame you at all for saying no to that. Don’t let some dickhead call you that because, shock horror, you actually attempted to lay down some boundaries !

Those types haven’t evolved since calling us frigid at school "

Exactly this. Or "boring"

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By *ocopops1962Man
over a year ago

Glasgow / Lindon

Take memories only no photos - yes you are being sensible not prudish

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

We enjoy taking photos/videos of our meets when everyone is agreeable.

But I wouldn’t say someone was a prude if they declined, we just do our thing without taking photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't blame you for not allowing it. You never know where photos or videos could end up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t let someone take pics/vids of me unless I trusted them and then it would have to be on my device only so I had full control.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If you meet him make sure he's not wearing a bow-tie camera.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a prude and don’t mind if pics are taken on a meet so long as they are taken on my phone

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"If you meet him make sure he's not wearing a bow-tie camera. "

Toss me a cigarette...

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

My answer is the same as on the previous thread, I may be on a swinging site, but what I do in my own home with a consenting woman I'd between the two of us and not for public broadcast on a profile

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"If you meet him make sure he's not wearing a bow-tie camera.

Toss me a cigarette..."

Smooth talker.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"If you meet him make sure he's not wearing a bow-tie camera.

Toss me a cigarette...

Smooth talker. "

I thought you were making a Simon and Garfunkle reference

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"If you meet him make sure he's not wearing a bow-tie camera.

Toss me a cigarette...

Smooth talker.

I thought you were making a Simon and Garfunkle reference "

No. I was talking about a spy cam in a bow tie.

It's all groovy.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I wouldn't say prude, more like prudent especially if you are in a job where explicit photos could put you in a compromising position. Years ago I had one bitch, who I refused to bale out financially, send a photo into my company head office of me doing a stir fry wearing only a guys thong, and on the back was written, "This is what he is doing when he is supposed to be working" fortunately for me, my MD guessed it was a case of, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," And put it straight in the bin. Anyone in public service might not get off so easily, so stick by your principles.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I wouldn't say prude, more like prudent especially if you are in a job where explicit photos could put you in a compromising position. Years ago I had one bitch, who I refused to bale out financially, send a photo into my company head office of me doing a stir fry wearing only a guys thong, and on the back was written, "This is what he is doing when he is supposed to be working" fortunately for me, my MD guessed it was a case of, "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned," And put it straight in the bin. Anyone in public service might not get off so easily, so stick by your principles. "

Well unless it was time stamped and dated she didn’t have a leg to stand on. I suspect most men would cook a stir fry in their under crackers if they could.

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