FabSwingers.com forum: Have you ever paid for sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any women ever paid for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I charge by the lb - just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it come with satisfaction guaranteed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I accept Costa card stamps and M&S vouchers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t we all in some way?

Take for a meal…

Pay for the hotel room…

Bring a nice gift …

It’s not just about direct cash to the other party.

But anyway, yes, when I was single and lonely in a new town for work many years ago, I did. Tried to make sure they were independent and working through choice of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet anyway

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

Nope…. But been paid

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By *herry-blossomWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

It costs me a fortune to go on a meet or a date or a club. Hair, tan, nails, outfit, shoes, lingerie. I don't eat on the day so I am not bloated for my meet. Not sure how much you want me to pay but feel like I already put enough in tbh! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard enough to get them to pay for dinner never mind the sex

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, and wouldn’t either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I just ask very nicely if I could use the equipment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's hard enough to get them to pay for dinner never mind the sex"

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

Does every married man not pay for it... Every day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's hard enough to get them to pay for dinner never mind the sex

Sorry I couldn't resist that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr used to live in Germany, army base. Need I say more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mr used to live in Germany, army base. Need I say more

Oh, women. No monetary value but I think I need to start paying Mr for putting up with me for so long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was it worth it?

asking for a friend

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Don’t we all in some way?

Take for a meal…

Pay for the hotel room…

Bring a nice gift …

It’s not just about direct cash to the other party.

But anyway, yes, when I was single and lonely in a new town for work many years ago, I did. Tried to make sure they were independent and working through choice of course! "

Nah, I don't buy into that. Sometimes it's just people getting together and getting it on

Mrs TMN x

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I do mates rates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"was it worth it?

asking for a friend

Yes most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can offer a conker and half a 2nd hand chewing gum

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If I had the money and could choose exactly what I wanted, I definitely would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does every married man not pay for it... Every day...

Please tell me you’re joking.

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By *ysyphusMan
over a year ago

Starbase K-7

"Does every married man not pay for it... Every day...

Please tell me you’re joking."

Er... yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had the money and could choose exactly what I wanted, I definitely would.

It's probably not that expensive to hire a guy in comparison to hiring a woman.

Femlale escorts are usually £90 - £150 per hour. Gym fit and in early 20's will be at higher end.

A decent bloke who's physically fit, experienced and under 40 and very receptive to needs/requests would be about £40-£70 for the hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it come with satisfaction guaranteed?"

Yes, if you are not satisfied with your first experience, the rest are free!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never paid for it, never had to but I don't see anything wrong with it either way

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

No and never would.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

Have paid escort's often traveling in the UK. Get lonely and horny. But always a quickie which is usually 40.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"If I had the money and could choose exactly what I wanted, I definitely would.

It's probably not that expensive to hire a guy in comparison to hiring a woman.

Femlale escorts are usually £90 - £150 per hour. Gym fit and in early 20's will be at higher end.

A decent bloke who's physically fit, experienced and under 40 and very receptive to needs/requests would be about £40-£70 for the hour. "

I did actually take a look a while ago, on a site for adults that work, most were just normal blokes chancing it or were vastly over priced!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Please keep replies to the forum!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Don’t we all in some way?

Take for a meal…

Pay for the hotel room…

Bring a nice gift …

It’s not just about direct cash to the other party.

But anyway, yes, when I was single and lonely in a new town for work many years ago, I did. Tried to make sure they were independent and working through choice of course! "

So you treat women like prostitutes?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"If I had the money and could choose exactly what I wanted, I definitely would.

It's probably not that expensive to hire a guy in comparison to hiring a woman.

Femlale escorts are usually £90 - £150 per hour. Gym fit and in early 20's will be at higher end.

A decent bloke who's physically fit, experienced and under 40 and very receptive to needs/requests would be about £40-£70 for the hour.

I did actually take a look a while ago, on a site for adults that work, most were just normal blokes chancing it or were vastly over priced! "

I've looked on a few male sites and not been tempted.

I did wonder how choosy the better looking ones would be.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I charge by the lb - just saying.

I better start saving.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Men all pay in some form or another

Just because you didn’t exchange £££ doesn’t mean a transaction isn’t taking place

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Men all pay in some form or another

Just because you didn’t exchange £££ doesn’t mean a transaction isn’t taking place "

When I was married I paid all the bills, did that mean I was paying for sex with him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I haven't. What do they do when they don't fancy the lady and can't perform though?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"No I haven't. What do they do when they don't fancy the lady and can't perform though? "

Some ask for photos first. I'd tell them I was fat before we met too.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I had to offer tea & cake for sex (true fact).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone off hear

Tease

Tried to bribe me with

Jaffa cakes

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

No and I wouldn’t x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I might pay for a female prostitute for my first experience.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"No

Someone off hear

Tease

Tried to bribe me with

Jaffa cakes

Jaffa Cakes?

Block them, block them now & run

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By *otcplmidsCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

"Does every married man not pay for it... Every day...

That's a bit sexiest, nowadays women can be breadwinners!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Does every married man not pay for it... Every day...

That's a bit sexiest, nowadays women can be breadwinners!"

Maybe he meant with the misery he felt being married?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my younger years paid and been paid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a massage and she accidentally touched my man meat dose this contribute??

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple
over a year ago

unknown

No never lol R x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Someone off hear

Tease

Tried to bribe me with

Jaffa cakes

Jaffa Cakes?

Block them, block them now & run"

Never

Was nearly tempted

In car up the M6 lol

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I've paid for sex as a couple. Rather than try to find a woman for something specific we booked a lady to join us. I paid as a treat for my then partner.

Was great to be fair

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Friend paid with self-esteem. A form of cryptic currency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was twenty one special birthday went with friends to Amsterdam got quite tipsy then they thought as a wind up pay for a lady behind the glass she was a lovely lady we contrived a plan I walked outside she was behind me they all said we want proof she spat a white liquid on floor funny as feck they had to pay her it was guilders at the time they were all nearly in tears paying her she smiled at me kissed her on her forehead and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it's highly unlikely I would as I think it would be a soulless experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Just don’t want, need, agree with, or wish to fuel that industry rather than challenge it for the vast majority of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I'd rather use my own hand....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I can't afford to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I can't afford to

I do credit

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Does dropping a £20 note in my fwb car count as paying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder if any lady’s take credit cards lol swipe down

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm currently offering a BOGOF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men all pay in some form or another

Just because you didn’t exchange £££ doesn’t mean a transaction isn’t taking place "

How so?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Only with my dignity

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"No

And it's highly unlikely I would as I think it would be a soulless experience "

Apparently, all the money we spend on making ourselves look sexy, and travelling to see the man, means we're paying for it.

Who knew.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Only with my dignity "

I did offer you a refund.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a lazy argument to say everyone pays for sex in some way or other. You can specifically hand over money for sex to a professional and that’s way different to some of the suggestions on here.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I'm currently offering a BOGOF.

You bringing a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take all known currency and Jaffa cakes but not the lime ones

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called."

I dated one for a while and he earned thousands doing whole weekend calls.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm currently offering a BOGOF.

You bringing a friend?

Anything can ve arranged.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Considering there’s about 1 male escort to 50 females ones on AW.

I doubt there’s high demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called.

I dated one for a while and he earned thousands doing whole weekend calls.

Good to know. Happy that stigma around it is slowly going away even though we still have a long way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called.

I dated one for a while and he earned thousands doing whole weekend calls.

Good to know. Happy that stigma around it is slowly going away even though we still have a long way to go."

Used to make triple my weekly pay by spending weekends with usually older women whilst hubby was away working or they needed a companion for an event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it come with satisfaction guaranteed?"

Haha great question

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Would it come with satisfaction guaranteed?"

We'd just keep trying until you're completely satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called."

It's got me curious too. Can you get a male escort that knows his stuff about cars to accom a female when buying a car so the garage doesn't rip them off? (discrimination and all that!) how about a male escort that goes food shopping with you to lift all your bags?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Male Escort???

I'm more of a male Sierra.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had to offer tea & cake for sex (true fact)."

I said I'd bring the tea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called.

I dated one for a while and he earned thousands doing whole weekend calls.

Good to know. Happy that stigma around it is slowly going away even though we still have a long way to go.

Used to make triple my weekly pay by spending weekends with usually older women whilst hubby was away working or they needed a companion for an event."

Good for you. I guess the expectations are that you need to be physically in great shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it come with satisfaction guaranteed?"

Or your money back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called.

Unfortunately I don't see these as listed services on the website. Looks like an untapped market. You just gave me an idea for a startup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it come with satisfaction guaranteed?

We'd just keep trying until you're completely satisfied.

Or if dissatisfied money back guarantee !

Or buy one get one free !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called.

Actually is a service that does provide a rent a hubby

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Would it come with satisfaction guaranteed?

We'd just keep trying until you're completely satisfied.

Or if dissatisfied money back guarantee !

Or buy one get one free !

We'll have to get parliament to put a bill together.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would it come with satisfaction guaranteed?

We'd just keep trying until you're completely satisfied.

Or if dissatisfied money back guarantee !

Or buy one get one free !

We'll have to get parliament to put a bill together.

To busy having drinks n nibbles

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By *olly sub4olderCouple
over a year ago

chester

Me and my friend pay for a male stripper sometimes x

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By *ilad4kicksMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I brought a lad in Turkey a kebab once n he let me suck him off does that count

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called.

Actually is a service that does provide a rent a hubby"

My old work used to hire a maintenance guy who's business was called hire a hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does every married man not pay for it... Every day...

Please tell me you’re joking.

Er... yes.

You shit house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This thread got me curious about male escorts and I searched the internet. They do charge a lot of money. Wondering how often they get called.

How insulting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've paid for sex as a couple. Rather than try to find a woman for something specific we booked a lady to join us. I paid as a treat for my then partner.

Was great to be fair "

I did that with a partner once because it was always something that turned me on - - scenario of us both paying/me being treated to a threesome.

Always wondered and hoped she enjoyed it. Instead of just doing it for my sake.

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By *DGF20Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I did once in Amsterdam

Actually was great experience, she was Latin American, will never forget when she said Estás loco, you will destroy me

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Not yet, but never say never

X Storm X

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By *ookiemonster500Man
over a year ago

No where

Good old harreems (excuse the spelling)

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Each of us have hired sex workers before we met each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cook dinner for our FWB....

plus provide the beers. Some may say it's payment

But he is a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and never would!

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Once upon a time, but so long ago..can't remember if it was a book of green shield or co-op divi stamps I gave her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to give _eli a fiver for a taxi home once after she’d left her womangasm mess all over my beard.

She noshed the taxi driver off for the fare and spent my fiver on cheese.

Does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance..(Mrs PD) never have, never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a woman in the past and a man booked in a few weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't ever paid. I've a friend who is a sex worker and I see nothing wrong with paying for it. I do see something wrong with seeing sex as so transactional. If we spend money it's because we want the pleasure of someone's company, the excitement and enjoyment of being with someone we find attractive.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I had to give _eli a fiver for a taxi home once after she’d left her womangasm mess all over my beard.

She noshed the taxi driver off for the fare and spent my fiver on cheese.

Does that count?"

Definitely counts, thanks for lending me your beard and giving me cheese fare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any women ever paid for sex?"

No. But if funds where of absolutely no issue, I would.

It makes it very clear what the arrangement is and zero expectations of it leading any further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope…. But been paid

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my ex wife did when the kids were little it helped pay the bills

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If you’ve bought yourself a ‘nice new lingerie’ set with the intention of ‘turning your man on’ then you’ve paid for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’ve bought yourself a ‘nice new lingerie’ set with the intention of ‘turning your man on’ then you’ve paid for sex. "

A well made cuppa tea from yours truly turns my man on.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"If you’ve bought yourself a ‘nice new lingerie’ set with the intention of ‘turning your man on’ then you’ve paid for sex.

A well made cuppa tea from yours truly turns my man on. "

If you bought the teabags and milk then you’ve paid for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unwanted Amazon Gift Voucher's count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you’ve bought yourself a ‘nice new lingerie’ set with the intention of ‘turning your man on’ then you’ve paid for sex. "

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