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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know I know, consent and everything is first and foremost but I kissed him into the bedroom and he said not right now, I have to hang the washing whilst he tidies.

Nothing needed but words of encouragement

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Cue a swath of White Knight.

Personally, some things are worth waiting for and you know you love it when he takes control

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Be a good lass and pop the kettle on before you head out to hang the drying!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I know I know, consent and everything is first and foremost but I kissed him into the bedroom and he said not right now, I have to hang the washing whilst he tidies.

Nothing needed but words of encouragement "

And you let him get away with it

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

You wait your turn missy.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You’re giving him too much sex - he’s picking and choosing now

K

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I know I know, consent and everything is first and foremost but I kissed him into the bedroom and he said not right now, I have to hang the washing whilst he tidies.

Nothing needed but words of encouragement "

Ffs. Tell him I'll tidy up while he sorts you out.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Only hang ur washing out .wen he says mines still wet ..u reply now u know how I feel lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm taking all your advice on board.

I'll chuck the kettle on whilst I hang the washing, he can finish the brews. But as soon as I've got his full attention I'll explain that was his one and only chance of walking away without giving me sex. Put my blindfold on, position myself and give him all the control. Just before he's about to finish I get up and say that's me done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to marriage my little fruit bush.

I had this t’other day, except we had to prepare tea / dinner* (*delete as per accepted regional variation) so we agreed to schedule it in for the next morning instead.

Was worth the wait though and I maintained my average of one knee-trembler a week so far in 2022!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm taking all your advice on board.

I'll chuck the kettle on whilst I hang the washing, he can finish the brews. But as soon as I've got his full attention I'll explain that was his one and only chance of walking away without giving me sex. Put my blindfold on, position myself and give him all the control. Just before he's about to finish I get up and say that's me done. "

Set a timer.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Get your toys out, make as much noise as possible.....dont let him join in

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Get your toys out, make as much noise as possible.....dont let him join in "

Or tie him down.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

A man will always do the job in his own time. There's no need to keep reminding him every six months.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Don't worry about it, there's plenty more cock on here if he won't put out

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Only hang ur washing out .wen he says mines still wet ..u reply now u know how I feel lol x "

That was funny

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Only hang ur washing out .wen he says mines still wet ..u reply now u know how I feel lol x

That was funny "

Nice 2 b appreciated x

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

He needs a spanking for being a bad boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the washing line for tying him to the bed. Works every time.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Get your toys out, make as much noise as possible.....dont let him join in "

Sure that sounds like a great idea but then she'll be on here in another ten minutes complaining that she's got cum in her hair

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's an offer of sex?

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Only hang ur washing out .wen he says mines still wet ..u reply now u know how I feel lol x "

Soooo funny but I hope your not talking from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he came already when you kissed him. He was embarrassed about it. See this is what happens when you are so hot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get your toys out, make as much noise as possible.....dont let him join in

Sure that sounds like a great idea but then she'll be on here in another ten minutes complaining that she's got cum in her hair

LvM"

I'll shave first

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Get your toys out, make as much noise as possible.....dont let him join in

Sure that sounds like a great idea but then she'll be on here in another ten minutes complaining that she's got cum in her hair

LvM

I'll shave first "

You missed the opportunity to grab a handful and squeeze into submission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, I think he sounds like a gem! Send him my way. Mind you, I’ll work him so hard he’ll be begging to get back to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh crikey, I mean work him hard around the house. Like, with housework and chores

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not getting into the whole men vs women debate but I’ve noticed Mrs NE takes being (for lack of a better word) rejected a lot more personal than I do. I just roll over and go to sleep. She thinks I’ve fell out of love with her or don’t find her attractive anymore.

It’s not that deep. Sometimes it’s just been a long day and I need to catch up on so don’t want to give her a half arsed quickie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh crikey, I mean work him hard around the house. Like, with housework and chores "

I know what you meant, don't worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not getting into the whole men vs women debate but I’ve noticed Mrs NE takes being (for lack of a better word) rejected a lot more personal than I do. I just roll over and go to sleep. She thinks I’ve fell out of love with her or don’t find her attractive anymore.

It’s not that deep. Sometimes it’s just been a long day and I need to catch up on so don’t want to give her a half arsed quickie."

Catch up on sleep**

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not getting into the whole men vs women debate but I’ve noticed Mrs NE takes being (for lack of a better word) rejected a lot more personal than I do. I just roll over and go to sleep. She thinks I’ve fell out of love with her or don’t find her attractive anymore.

It’s not that deep. Sometimes it’s just been a long day and I need to catch up on so don’t want to give her a half arsed quickie.

Catch up on sleep**"

Totally get this (thread was a joke BTW, I can hold on for a few hours.. Just )

Mr takes it more personally than me too. Sometimes I've been battling all day, mentally exhausted and I just want a cuddle and sleep.

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By *agicM53XMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Oh wow I mean....why not just, you know, respect his wishes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not getting into the whole men vs women debate but I’ve noticed Mrs NE takes being (for lack of a better word) rejected a lot more personal than I do. I just roll over and go to sleep. She thinks I’ve fell out of love with her or don’t find her attractive anymore.

It’s not that deep. Sometimes it’s just been a long day and I need to catch up on so don’t want to give her a half arsed quickie.

Catch up on sleep**

Totally get this (thread was a joke BTW, I can hold on for a few hours.. Just )

Mr takes it more personally than me too. Sometimes I've been battling all day, mentally exhausted and I just want a cuddle and sleep. "

If you’re anything like my wife I’m sure you’ll have a way to get what you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh wow I mean....why not just, you know, respect his wishes? "

Oh I did and then he tried it on whilst I was trying lingerie on.. Told him he'll have to just wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh wow I mean....why not just, you know, respect his wishes?

Oh I did and then he tried it on whilst I was trying lingerie on.. Told him he'll have to just wait "

That’s the kind of pettiness we can all get behind

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By *agicM53XMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Oh wow I mean....why not just, you know, respect his wishes?

Oh I did and then he tried it on whilst I was trying lingerie on.. Told him he'll have to just wait "

Oh stop

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Oh wow I mean....why not just, you know, respect his wishes?

Oh I did and then he tried it on whilst I was trying lingerie on.. Told him he'll have to just wait

Oh stop "

Married life Mek, you don't know what you're missing

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Only hang ur washing out .wen he says mines still wet ..u reply now u know how I feel lol x

Soooo funny but I hope your not talking from experience "

No I always do all the jobs 1st lol x

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By *agicM53XMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Oh wow I mean....why not just, you know, respect his wishes?

Oh I did and then he tried it on whilst I was trying lingerie on.. Told him he'll have to just wait

Oh stop

Married life Mek, you don't know what you're missing "

Thank God

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh wow I mean....why not just, you know, respect his wishes?

Oh I did and then he tried it on whilst I was trying lingerie on.. Told him he'll have to just wait

Oh stop

Married life Mek, you don't know what you're missing

Thank God "

It's the sighs when you see the other half has loaded the dishwasher wrong and you'll have to reshuffle them.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I know I know, consent and everything is first and foremost but I kissed him into the bedroom and he said not right now, I have to hang the washing whilst he tidies.

Nothing needed but words of encouragement "
has he got a temperature?

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