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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would 100% be up for meeting up with someone essentially for a brew, abit of casual flirting and a natter but knowing it can't go any further unless Mr P gets involved (he works crazy long hours) during the day i'm just stuck indoors and after the last few years of covid shite i've turned into a hermit that is incredibly lonely (sad sack alert I know).

Does anyone else have these kind of pals? I would love nothing more than to gain some new friends that I could meet up with during the day knowing theres no pressure to take things further.

Granted fab isnt the best place to make new friends without the promise of sex

This thread is sponsored by wine and listening to music that makes me want to go out and dance until my feet get sore

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By *ountry gent 85Man
over a year ago

touring

I have been trying for ages everyone just thinks your only after a quick screw

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

You'd think fab isn't the place to find these friends, but actually my closest friends were found here.

If I were closer I'd happily meet up for just what you've described, and I know there are a lot of people (mostly on the forum) who feel the same, hopefully some will be closer.

Good luck in your search OP.

Posh

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Crikey- I normally end getting 'friendzoned' on here.

I wish I was closer OP.

That's fab life for ya.

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By *ommeLadyWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

I've made friends with a few ladies on here without it going further, I think if someone sounds fun then just be honest with them and explain what you're looking for and your situation and I think you should get some good feedback

Good luck with your search, hopefully you get some good responses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been trying for ages everyone just thinks your only after a quick screw"

It's pants isnt it, i'm all about the connection to be fair, I love chatting to new people especially fab people that you can have no holes barred chat with. All my mates are vanilla women that have super busy lives so I rarely get to see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh love, I don’t think Fab would be the right place for what you’re looking for. I mean, there are loads of lovely people on here. But you sound a little bit vulnerable at the moment, and I’d hate to think of you being taken advantage of. I’d try some different avenues for actual friendship x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be up for that…. I don’t drink tea very often but it gets d*unk more often than any alcohol does…. Men or women, but flirting is with guys only….

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By *ountry gent 85Man
over a year ago

touring

People in my region must just be miserable fuckers then

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Their are loads of people on here whom enjoy the social aspects more than just sexual to be in the same mind set.

Away from here my friends we bounce off each other their not on here but at times when we both want to just take things further we do then carry on as friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh love, I don’t think Fab would be the right place for what you’re looking for. I mean, there are loads of lovely people on here. But you sound a little bit vulnerable at the moment, and I’d hate to think of you being taken advantage of. I’d try some different avenues for actual friendship x"

But im a full on pervert that loves abit of flirting I just don't want to take my clothes off. All my mates were lads when I was younger but evetyone grew up and made families of their own (including me).

We don't have anyone that can babysit the kids so we can have a night off and Mr P works through the day so im just sat at home twiddling my thumbs whilst the kids are at school and it gets crazy lonely, it would be nice to have someone to chat to that lives this craxy lifestyle too.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd be happy for just this locally

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By *igerstyle2k2Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

That sounds great but everyone seems to be miles away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll give you a shout as & when I’m about MrsP, I’d be happy to have a brew and chat. Hopefully have a bit of a laugh for a couple of hours. Keep smiling xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve made a lot more friends than anything else on here, all found through the forum.

It can happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on fab for about 8 years and I've made some amazing friends. Some I've had sex with some I haven't. Many I still chat regularly to after all this time and have the occasionally coffee/drink.

There are genuinely lovely people on fab it's just finding them.

Max and I were just friends for over a year before anything else happened. We'd go for walks during COVID and chat most days.

OP not close enough for that coffee unfortunately but good luck xx Ginge

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have sexual friends and friendzone friends. No inbetweens

I've tried being friends with someone with both of us on a maybe and it ended badly. We both need stricter boundaries.

There are lots of people on here who are looking for non sexual companionship and I've made some friends and had some lovely evenings with them. But it only works with concrete boundaries for me.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I'm expecting/hoping to make more friends on here than anything else really. It's hard being poly and not being able to talk about it to my core friends group. We aren't ready to be outed. So meeting like minded people to talk and chat with was my main expectation.

Hope you find what you're after. I'm finding interaction on the forums a bit helpful while I look.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Socialising is my favourite part of fab! Hope you find coffee and cake pals OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is another thread atm by Kinkyminx which is aimed at getting forumites having real life chats - worth a look?

If there is a fab social near you, could you attend on your own just to meet some peeps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could easily meet up with people with the promise of no sex so long as its on a one to one basis. I don't have any hidden agendas and I'm generally a chatty person but I do get a bit anxious in a group. My only concern is the discretion of others as its an unknown!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People in my region must just be miserable fuckers then "

You must be down south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can make friends on here you need to clear about it and then there’s no confusion. Look at socials or even message people who you think you’d like to be friends with, you never know.

Good luck op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd happily meet people or a cuppa with no other agenda I love going into coffee shops so why not enjoy it with some good company.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Well Fab can be a place to meet these people. I’ve met lovely friends here. Drinks, days out, walking, meals and films. Lots of phone chats in between.

Fab is what you make it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would send very mixed messages to meet someone on this kind of basis

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’d suggest looking for some of the organised socials x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you a part time job ad a way of getting out and meeting people. Vacancies are at an all time high.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great thread

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