FabSwingers.com forum: Do ppl really know what they want???

By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

What's up my lovely people i wanna know why people on here don't do as they say.

Plus also why ask for a face pic when you don't have one yourself whats up with that.

What are are your views people..

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Maybe they do have fave pics but are in private (not in friends only pics)

Just chat/meet who fits your criteria and good luck n have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my case, yes I know what I want.

How do you know the person asking for a face photo hasn't got one. Maybe they have it set to friends only or private. Have you asked?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Our profile is very clear what we want

Just a pity some can't be arsed to read it

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

i've had many females and couples on here do that rant about face pics and so as you ask for one in return you get nothing just don't get it..

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

ok well i must be looking in the place then cause i get females and couples that just don't know what they want.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"i've had many females and couples on here do that rant about face pics and so as you ask for one in return you get nothing just don't get it.."
I take absolutely no notice, and find people who do and will

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Our profile is very clear what we want

Just a pity some can't be arsed to read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up my lovely people i wanna know why people on here don't do as they say.

Plus also why ask for a face pic when you don't have one yourself whats up with that.

What are are your views people..

Its called independence choice, having the ability to make a decision and change it without someone else saying they can't.

You might find a lot of women avoid controlling men.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

ha ha you have a black cube for a face!!! wtf???????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up my lovely people i wanna know why people on here don't do as they say.

Plus also why ask for a face pic when you don't have one yourself whats up with that.

What are are your views people..

Its called independence choice, having the ability to make a decision and change it without someone else saying they can't.

You might find a lot of women avoid controlling men. "

Ha! He's hardly being controlling, give the guy a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up my lovely people i wanna know why people on here don't do as they say.

Plus also why ask for a face pic when you don't have one yourself whats up with that.

What are are your views people..

Its called independence choice, having the ability to make a decision and change it without someone else saying they can't.

You might find a lot of women avoid controlling men.

Ha! He's hardly being controlling, give the guy a break. "

Its nothing to do with breaks or the price of fish its an opinion and when a question is asked people have the right to reply. Now you may feel people don't have the right to have an opinion so I won't offer suggestions as to where you could deposit your skull.

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

yeah i thats just my normal face...lol

but i do a face pic on my profile dont get why when you ask for one you get nothing or get blocked... whats up with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I know exactly what I want, really, really want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've had many females and couples on here do that rant about face pics and so as you ask for one in return you get nothing just don't get it.."

I can see your point on this, but It may depend how people are asked for a face pic.

In my case I have a face pic in my private gallery which I am happy to send to anyone I am interested in meeting but if someone messages me out of the blue saying "Hi do you have a face pic?" they would be told sorry no. I have nothing to hide but prefer to err on the side of caution when it comes to sending my face pic to people I don't know...

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

"yeah i thats just my normal face...lol

but i do a face pic on my profile dont get why when you ask for one you get nothing or get blocked... whats up with that"

Do you ask for a face pic in return then? Or do you just expect one?

Not having a go, just curious as I get messages with face pics, but dont add mine til I have at least seen on cam or have built up a trust with someone.

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

"i've had many females and couples on here do that rant about face pics and so as you ask for one in return you get nothing just don't get it..

I can see your point on this, but It may depend how people are asked for a face pic.

i know what you mean but i would never just ask for a face pics for my first message.. But if we swap a few message then maybe i will ask but its nice to get one in return..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've had many females and couples on here do that rant about face pics and so as you ask for one in return you get nothing just don't get it..

I can see your point on this, but It may depend how people are asked for a face pic.

i know what you mean but i would never just ask for a face pics for my first message.. But if we swap a few message then maybe i will ask but its nice to get one in return.."

Lot's of guys send face pic's with their first message and expect to see a face pic attached in return if they receive a reply. I'm afraid it doesn't work that way with me I'm set in my ways and very cautious and I don't want to leave my comfort zone.

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

after we swap a few messages. but don't get when you get asked for and ask for one in return you get nothing.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"after we swap a few messages. but don't get when you get asked for and ask for one in return you get nothing."
If thats the case, end convo and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"after we swap a few messages. but don't get when you get asked for and ask for one in return you get nothing.If thats the case, end convo and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people may decide after seeing face pic, that you aren't there type, thus decide (rightly or wrongly) not to send one back. This doesn't necessarily mean they don't have one to send or they don't know what they are looking for.

If a guy messages me, sends a pic, but attraction isn't there, I don't send a face pic back, but do send message, thanks, but no thanks

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

"after we swap a few messages. but don't get when you get asked for and ask for one in return you get nothing.If thats the case, end convo and move on.

Don't get the change some times. I have come across a few that have just blocked me went i have sent a pic

makes me laugh and question if they really know what they want..

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

"Some people may decide after seeing face pic, that you aren't there type, thus decide (rightly or wrongly) not to send one back. This doesn't necessarily mean they don't have one to send or they don't know what they are looking for.

If a guy messages me, sends a pic, but attraction isn't there, I don't send a face pic back, but do send message, thanks, but no thanks"

but when you get no reply and get blocked with no reason why makes you wonder really..

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"after we swap a few messages. but don't get when you get asked for and ask for one in return you get nothing.If thats the case, end convo and move on.

Don't get the change some times. I have come across a few that have just blocked me went i have sent a pic

makes me laugh and question if they really know what they want.."
Maybe they didnt fancy you?

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

"after we swap a few messages. but don't get when you get asked for and ask for one in return you get nothing.If thats the case, end convo and move on.

Don't get the change some times. I have come across a few that have just blocked me went i have sent a pic

makes me laugh and question if they really know what they want..Maybe they didnt fancy you?"

don't mind that just say sorry no my type

and thats it.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"after we swap a few messages. but don't get when you get asked for and ask for one in return you get nothing.If thats the case, end convo and move on.

Don't get the change some times. I have come across a few that have just blocked me went i have sent a pic

makes me laugh and question if they really know what they want..Maybe they didnt fancy you?

don't mind that just say sorry no my type

and thats it."
Some people are uncomfortable doing that , but i understand your frustration

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

"after we swap a few messages. but don't get when you get asked for and ask for one in return you get nothing.If thats the case, end convo and move on.

Don't get the change some times. I have come across a few that have just blocked me went i have sent a pic

makes me laugh and question if they really know what they want..Maybe they didnt fancy you?

don't mind that just say sorry no my type

and thats it.Some people are uncomfortable doing that , but i understand your frustration "

its just nice to get some kind of reply..

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have no problem sending a face pic on request if I'm interested in meeting someone. But if I'm not then why send a pic?

I hate when I get excuses as to why they won't send one. Really? Do you think I will meet you if I don't know what you look like?

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Our profile is very clear what we want

Just a pity some can't be arsed to read it

exactly. then some read it and only listen to the bits they want and think they contact us anyway incase we lied in profile then wonder why they get either blunt or no response.

We even have males changing wants or preferences in their profile to fit what we want after first message saying no to them. ridiculous. so its not us that doesnt know what we want.. infact probably most men we had contact also know exactly what they want ... sex and they intend to get it whatever it takes even if its lieing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've had many females and couples on here do that rant about face pics and so as you ask for one in return you get nothing just don't get it.."

Simply because there is no point in sending back a face pic if they dont fancy you after seeing your pic maybe?

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

Maybe they do know what they want Op....it just isn't you they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's up my lovely people i wanna know why people on here don't do as they say.

Plus also why ask for a face pic when you don't have one yourself whats up with that.

What are are your views people..

Do you look at the mantlepiece when poking the fire then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess it's all down to personal choice at the end if the day.

Just find someone you click with and take it from there.

We all have different preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no face pic unless ur gettin one in return. make that clear before you send one

whether theres interest or not fair is fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our profile is very clear what we want

Just a pity some can't be arsed to read it

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By *ig_will_11 OP Man
over a year ago

town

"no face pic unless ur gettin one in return. make that clear before you send one

whether theres interest or not fair is fair

thats is what i mean you got it in one fair is fair why should send one and not get one back. spot on mate

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"What's up my lovely people i wanna know why people on here don't do as they say.

Plus also why ask for a face pic when you don't have one yourself whats up with that.

What are are your views people..

Do you look at the mantlepiece when poking the fire then

You're not poking a fire though are you? We are human beings with needs, wants and feelings. The attitude that you are simply 'poking' us is really not very nice.

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"no face pic unless ur gettin one in return. make that clear before you send one

whether theres interest or not fair is fair

thats is what i mean you got it in one fair is fair why should send one and not get one back. spot on mate

Because....if you send someone a face photo and they don't like the look of you....why would they send one back?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Because....if you send someone a face photo and they don't like the look of you....why would they send one back?"

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"no face pic unless ur gettin one in return. make that clear before you send one

whether theres interest or not fair is fair

thats is what i mean you got it in one fair is fair why should send one and not get one back. spot on mate

Because....if you send someone a face photo and they don't like the look of you....why would they send one back?"

just to say this is what you could have won?.......

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"no face pic unless ur gettin one in return. make that clear before you send one

whether theres interest or not fair is fair

thats is what i mean you got it in one fair is fair why should send one and not get one back. spot on mate

Because....if you send someone a face photo and they don't like the look of you....why would they send one back?

just to say this is what you could have won?.......

That is so cruel....but I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i've had many females and couples on here do that rant about face pics and so as you ask for one in return you get nothing just don't get it.."
too rite or jus ignor u, how is being a women different we men have feelings too

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

"i've had many females and couples on here do that rant about face pics and so as you ask for one in return you get nothing just don't get it.. too rite or jus ignor u, how is being a women different we men have feelings too "

I've seen the stickers on the back windows of cars....'A Man is not just for Christmas'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how is being a women different "

That would just take far too long to explain

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"how is being a women different

That would just take far too long to explain

In words of one syllable!!

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