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By *uicy mushroom OP   Man
over a year ago

elephant and Castle

Can you have a normal relationship after being on fab

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Yes I could, sex is just one part of a healthy relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course.

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Does being in a relationship and being on Fab make me abnormal?

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs


"Can you have a normal relationship after being on fab"

I have a normal relationship with fab..what does that even mean.. normal… I’m not normal

Mrs x

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Yes of course we always put it in the toy box until next time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

No because I enjoy group sex and this I could not enjoy with one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course.

Fab has not changed me as a person

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Guess it depends how you define a normal relationship.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Yes...I think so. Nothing to miss if you are in a healthy happy relationship.

I'd probably stay around anyway for the forum.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Will never have a conventional relationship again! But decided that long before fabs x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Will never have a conventional relationship again! But decided that long before fabs x"

After I posted...I thought that I could possibly see myself in a swinging relationship.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Not as society deems normal no. I tried a monogamous relationship once and it ended up hurting both of us, I am and always will be polyamourous

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Yes, with the right person.

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Can you have a normal relationship after being on fab

I have a normal relationship with fab..what does that even mean.. normal… I’m not normal

Mrs x"

There's just no hope for you

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Yes...I think so. Nothing to miss if you are in a healthy happy relationship.

I'd probably stay around anyway for the forum.

"

Aherm, you'd miss my smooches at the socials I hope

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't want to go back to my old way of life.

I don't do anything weird here but I learned a lot about myself in the early days on here.

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

How do you define normal? If you mean monogamous then no.

However we are in a ethically non-monogamous relationship now and I class that as normal. And if this ever ended then I would look for a similar relationship

MJ x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Yes...I think so. Nothing to miss if you are in a healthy happy relationship.

I'd probably stay around anyway for the forum.

Aherm, you'd miss my smooches at the socials I hope "

I'd always come back for a smooch from you

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Of course

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I have tried regular dating since fab and it’s difficult, people are very averse to sharing

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By *uby StarCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Yes...I think so. Nothing to miss if you are in a healthy happy relationship.

I'd probably stay around anyway for the forum.

Aherm, you'd miss my smooches at the socials I hope

I'd always come back for a smooch from you "

Yes!! I've pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will never have a conventional relationship again! But decided that long before fabs x

After I posted...I thought that I could possibly see myself in a swinging relationship."

and you will never be short of offers

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Can you have a normal relationship after being on fab"

We have a normal relationship now..

Fab is additional when we play, which hasn't been for a while..

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs


"Can you have a normal relationship after being on fab

I have a normal relationship with fab..what does that even mean.. normal… I’m not normal

Mrs x

There's just no hope for you "

Oh bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, with the right person. "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, with the right person.

Agreed! "

Agree

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

The jury's out on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a perfectly normal relationship , just invite ladies around to have sex with us both now and again

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By *rangesmartieWoman
over a year ago

Devon

Why is fab and relationships mutually exclusive?

If this is your kink, surely you would seek relationships with people of similar interests?

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

No way, but then I've realised I would never want to

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Of all the multitudinous things stopping me from having a vanilla relationship, my presence on Fab doesn't even make the list.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I could but I won’t be. Nothing to do with fab though. 30 years of that (happy ones) but I couldn’t have someone permanently involved in my life again. Even the thought gives me palpitations!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ov course, i dont have casual sex with multiple partners.. quality over quantity please, ive been on here as part of a couple over the years and had loads of fun together with the love of fab Voyeurs but primarily im a one on one guy i could function just well without fab and have done

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Of all the multitudinous things stopping me from having a vanilla relationship, my presence on Fab doesn't even make the list."

Yep this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, but my definition of normal may not be yours. I would have no problem being monogamous, but still think that allows for being adventurous/kinky in the context of 'normal'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course, but my definition of normal may not be yours. I would have no problem being monogamous, but still think that allows for being adventurous/kinky in the context of 'normal' "

^ this for me too.

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Yes. One day I will.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

No problem .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll never be monogamous again, ever! If it's not Fab it would be somewhere else xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the second question is would you tell your new partner about your swinging past?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you have a normal relationship after being on fab"

Yes. Fab is a bridge for me to conquer the gap in my life made by my own choice to stay single.

I was a victim of domestic violence, including sexual assult by that same ex partner. As you can imagine, I'm in no rush to settle down. I stayed clear of men for two years then came on here. I'm not ready for a close relationship. That being said, I don't believe all men are the same. I'm not scared of men in general. Most of you are pretty amazing people. I merely miss hugs and sex if I'm being honest. I don't miss being in a relationship. Currently, the idea makes me feel suffocated.

When I'm ready, for definite, I will look to settle down. I've been floating the idea of eventually finding a boyfriend who is open to sharing. Not play together. Meeting others alone. For him and for me. Upon reflection of my past healthy relationships, I realised how bored I felt but still at those times, adored my then boyfriend.

I wonder whether having a open relationship, is the way forward for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And the second question is would you tell your new partner about your swinging past? "

The past is the past. Which poses no relevance to the present or future. Whatever you did in the past is not your current or future partners business. People tend to judge on things that don't involve them. Don't give them the opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes of course we always put it in the toy box until next time x "

Was going to message you simply to say lovely pics but can't due to filters. Hence why I'm now littering your last viewed

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We could leave FAB tomorrow and have a relationship which leaves us fulfilled.

But I don’t think it could be defined as normal…it would be very kink led.

We’ve both found ourselves through FAB, we’ve both become much more open people and so we wouldn’t ever go back to our old lives.

We are enjoying the opportunities FAB provides and long may it continue

K

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"Of all the multitudinous things stopping me from having a vanilla relationship, my presence on Fab doesn't even make the list.

Yep this "

I think our lists might be slightly different...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need fab to continue my relationship so yes I guess so. Depends what you define as normal though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I guess if your both open minded then why not x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Yeah of course. I’m not sure why everyone gets hung up on it. I’ve had the best sex off Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so because I'm bound to cock up sooner or later!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah of course. I’m not sure why everyone gets hung up on it. I’ve had the best sex off Fab!"

Same here, ive found fab encounters very vanilla compared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger but I was non-monogamous and kinky before Fab. And I always will be.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Depends on the definition of normal..

We have a relationship that's normal to us, fab enlightens that as and when we play, albeit less these days

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