FabSwingers.com forum: what would you tell your pre Fab self?

By *alsaGuy77 OP Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Basically what have you learned about yourself, the swinging world, sex or whatever relating to being on here or swinging that you would impart to the person you were before you joined Fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to bother

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Having a roof isn't everything

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

London - till 25th

Just go with the flow, park most of your fears at the door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have more confidence in myself

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By *wales_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

That life is too short so go for it whilst you can fully enjoy it

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Go for it girl x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

You are about to find a few more kinks

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Lol don't rely on people to turn up don't be so nice to people who are rude and under no circumstances take one for the team

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"To have more confidence in myself "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont be such a slut

Whoops

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By *estSussexGuy76Man
over a year ago

copthorne

Be patient, respectful and be very open minded

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Stand up for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm sexy as hell ,and deserve great hot sex !!!!

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's ok to admit you like and want sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All is well

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Stop dicking about and get yourself into swinging now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more confident in yourself like you were years ago (had lots of sex and loved getting naked when time was right/safe)

I miss those days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 today but I've not been in forums much today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join sooner

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nothing about myself. Lots about others and soooo many new words, phrases and acronyms!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Trust no one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They is some nice people on here so just wait until someone talks to you. And be happy that I've made some friends its not all about fooking

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By *oonLightShadowWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Curiosity is good to have but dont believe aloft of whats said/posted online.. too many fake profiles etc to be bothered with.

Although one good thing for me was i met someone from fab and now dating.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

If you even gonna bother, just start going to clubs/socials

You’ll make better connections in 1 club night than 10,000 messages on here

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

What are you doing up? It’s way past your bedtime and you have got school in the morning !

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

This is going to make us closer.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Do a degree instead.

Oh, and ditch the ex sooner, so you can do the degree in peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To have more confidence in myself

This. "

It’s mad that I have confidence in the bedroom and show myself In not a lot on here but in every day life away from here I have hardly any confidence and never do full clothed body shots lol.

Think I’m just a little weird

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

No one wants to fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to be so body conscious, men don’t notice the things I’m hung up and self conscious about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared and say yes to all the hot guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To go with my gut instinct more and always be totally honest with myself and others about my feelings and emotions.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

That we should have done it sooner as life is far to short. Enjoy it whilst you are fit and able.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be wary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell myself another sooner about it and get out of the relationship I endured for too long. Very different and amazing relationship with cherry.

Mr.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be aware that some people are more ego than substance, and just because some people think they’re aesthetically pleasing doesn’t mean they’re better, or sexier than you!

You don’t owe anyone anything! You should never be made to feel grateful that someone deems you worthy of their attention, you’re here for you, and your pleasure xx

Oh, and you’ll always have amazing shoes! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't fall for the nice act, don't be afraid to say no and listen to your gut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be open minded right from day 1. Ask loads of questions and don't worry about trying things you were once concerned about

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Be more confident, relax and trust your body

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

I'd tell myself not to use fab because it's addictive haha

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Not to be so hung up on the bits of my body i dont like (most of it). There are plenty of guys out there who will love your curves, and wobbly bits! X

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Don’t look at the photos, don’t jump to assumptions about people until you’ve met them , they often look at act completely differently in real life

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Don’t look at the photos, don’t jump to assumptions about people until you’ve met them , they often look at act completely differently in real life "

As much as i respect that comment and rate it, for me initial attraction physically is the main thing at first.. this isn't really a dating site after all I wouldn't meet up for fun because of personality if I didn't find them attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most unlikely people will pleasantly surprise you.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

That everything’s going to turn out for the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much to say in public! Can't have my stalkers knowing everything, some mystery must remain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Treat it as a jokes. Unless you in one of the inner circles just enjoy the view.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"The most unlikely people will pleasantly surprise you."

This. And vice versa too

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"The most unlikely people will pleasantly surprise you.

This. And vice versa too

It’s always tough at the top hey

…… I’m just an old man with a small cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyholes a goal, pace yourself

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Get chatting more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't join fab just before the beginning of a pandemic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The most unlikely people will pleasantly surprise you.

This. And vice versa too

As a wise woman once said "Fuck 'em".

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"The most unlikely people will pleasantly surprise you.

This. And vice versa too

As a wise woman once said "Fuck 'em".

And she rid him like a cowgirl

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Take nothing anyone says or does personally. It’s their problem not yours.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Turns out the sexual adventures don't die after you have children!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my body hang ups are exactly that.

No one has run off after seeing me naked yet.

It's not made me feel any better but it has meant I no longer let it stop me from doing things.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"That my body hang ups are exactly that.

No one has run off after seeing me naked yet.

It's not made me feel any better but it has meant I no longer let it stop me from doing things. "

Was they tied down ? Haha I'm joking your hot why would anyone run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Don't do it

Who what ?

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By *leecouple101Couple
over a year ago

North East Lincolnshire

Get into the lifestyle sooner!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Don't fall in love with a Welsh woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't do it

Keep spreading the positivity

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Buy Lynx and have a sky remote to hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That in order to get what you really want, you may have to suck a cock or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun, enjoy the experience and above all don't take it personally when you don't get a reply

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Don't bother paying for a subscription; it won't help."

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

""Don't bother paying for a subscription; it won't help.""

Don't understand the point in people paying? Just to add and watch videos

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Don't get involved, once you start you will never be able to quit, it's an addiction that leaves you wanting more and more of the lifestyle. X

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Don't get involved, once you start you will never be able to quit, it's an addiction that leaves you wanting more and more of the lifestyle. X"

Completely agree!!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

""Don't bother paying for a subscription; it won't help."

Don't understand the point in people paying? Just to add and watch videos "

My thinking was that it would indicate that I'm serious about this, and not just a fantasist or timewaster. If it made any difference, I couldn't tell!

One thing I do miss about paid membership is not being able to leave notes on profiles. I like to have a record of *why* I've blocked someone. Hah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Don’t post that, you’ll get a ban”.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Marriage doesn't mean you have to have sex with only one person for the rest of your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are going to find it so liberating and you will meet your ideal man

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't waste the fiver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm not in the band Prefab Sprout....

Shit that was funny as f**k

I'm here all week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't do it

Keep spreading the positivity

Positivity is my middle name

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Things will look up..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Say yes more often. Wisely of course. But do things. Live a bit more. Go to that club night you were convinced you wouldn't get into but you will. Kiss a few more people just for the hell of it. Do more. Explore while you're still young and more footloose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't do it

Keep spreading the positivity

Positivity is my middle name

Mine too most of the time

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By *itty HoneytunnelWoman
over a year ago

Scotland

"Marriage doesn't mean you have to have sex with only one person for the rest of your life.

THIS!!!!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Wear sunscreen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start swinging at a younger age ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have more confidence, not everyone thinks you're a fat munter so enjoy the attention and totally own it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Sqy what you really want/need.

Be confident!

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

You're hotter than you think. Everyone could do with a bit of that mind you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't jump in feet first like you do with everything

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