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"Put curvy because there isn't a fat option best be honest" Except you're not fat | |||
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"Put curvy because there isn't a fat option best be honest Except you're not fat" thanks but the camera lies | |||
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"When asked for body type when setting up your profile how do you decide which category you fit in? It seems some have strange self perceptions. " Just be as honest as you can I suppose. I had average and it was then suggested to me that I should change it. Most of us have decent enough eye sight to decide if someone's definition of their body type matches ours. I'd never be cruel enough to point out that it didn't match my definition. | |||
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"Im down as ample(size 14/16) I dont class myself as curvy. I have more than a just a lil tummy (Miss) " Now I would say you were curvy, and that's a compliment! Definitely in the right places. This shows our different perception of curvy. | |||
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"When asked for body type when setting up your profile how do you decide which category you fit in? It seems some have strange self perceptions. Just be as honest as you can I suppose. I had average and it was then suggested to me that I should change it. Most of us have decent enough eye sight to decide if someone's definition of their body type matches ours. I'd never be cruel enough to point out that it didn't match my definition." Guess I'm 1 of the cruel ones then, but most take when I say "not ample (that's definitely not an insult from me) enough" , I'm taking the p**s | |||
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"Im down as ample(size 14/16) I dont class myself as curvy. I have more than a just a lil tummy (Miss) Now I would say you were curvy, and that's a compliment! Definitely in the right places. This shows our different perception of curvy. " If i didnt have the wobbly tummy(4 c sections from all babies being over 9lb) i would put curvy. Lol. Thank you for the compliment though | |||
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"I'm waiting for the arse the size of a planet category " Just the arse? Lol | |||
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"I'm waiting for the arse the size of a planet category Just the arse? Lol" Yup | |||
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"I am fabulous and I know it, I am a proud big beautiful woman, my pics show this " And very good you look in them!!!!! | |||
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"I am fabulous and I know it, I am a proud big beautiful woman, my pics show this And very good you look in them!!!!! " Thank you kind sir | |||
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"When asked for body type when setting up your profile how do you decide which category you fit in? It seems some have strange self perceptions. " im still waiting for the dad bod option to be added | |||
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"I’m still waiting for them to add gladiator. " I'm still waiting for melted. | |||
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"What’s it matter how ya class yerself . Your opinion is whatever ya think " I love this .... soooooo funny | |||
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"What’s it matter how ya class yerself . Your opinion is whatever ya think I love this .... soooooo funny " your silhouette is funnier | |||
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"What’s it matter how ya class yerself . Your opinion is whatever ya think " You're filed under "pumpable" | |||
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"What’s it matter how ya class yerself . Your opinion is whatever ya think " True, but then I get seriously disappointed by guys claiming to be ample and they're not! | |||
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"What’s it matter how ya class yerself . Your opinion is whatever ya think You're filed under "pumpable" " haha am I ? Glad to get some admittance there lol | |||
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"What’s it matter how ya class yerself . Your opinion is whatever ya think I love this .... soooooo funny your silhouette is funnier " Ouch .... that hurts | |||
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"I just put average. Then if I do a pic and haven’t been to the gym for a while or have put on a few pounds, it still applies rather than if I put athletic or slim. It’s all subjective anyway and I don’t think many people even check, especially if you have a few different body pics on your profile from different angles. " There’s no way you’re average, I’d file you under perfect | |||
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"I need a curvy but not in a good way option " Yesss! | |||
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"Just went for what seemed was the largest one " Same here! I also made it clear in profile that I’m large. J x | |||
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"When asked for body type when setting up your profile how do you decide which category you fit in? It seems some have strange self perceptions. " I look for the category that would be most appropriate for a brick and put myself into that one ! | |||
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"I went for the nearest to 'fat', which is the most realistic statement" Us women get criticised for using 'curvy' when the viewer sometimes considers us more than curvy. But there is no fat option ? | |||
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"I went for the nearest to 'fat', which is the most realistic statement Us women get criticised for using 'curvy' when the viewer sometimes considers us more than curvy. But there is no fat option ?" ^^^ this is why I chose large instead of curvy because everyone’s perception of curvy is slightly different and I feel the need to double check people read that I’m large so there is no misunderstanding | |||
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"When asked for body type when setting up your profile how do you decide which category you fit in? It seems some have strange self perceptions. " Mostly, my body type is breathing..... I'd be worried if it wasn't | |||
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"Body shape and age are probably the two characteristics for which people are most dishonest on dating sites (mind you some people even lie about their height!) The problem is when you are honest and put "average" despite veing better built than someone who had put athletic. Personally, being sapiosexual, good convo trumps body shape but I dind dishonrsty a tyrn-off." | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh " I’m a size 16 and definitely don’t class myself as average. As for breast size. I’d love some bigger ones as mine certainly aren’t that size | |||
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"I put what I am, I’m average. I don’t have as defined curves anymore, as my waist is bigger, so my proportions aren’t right, so I don’t think of myself as curvy. To me anyone with a defined waist is curvy, whether a size 6 or a size 26, but it’s obviously subjective, and how you see yourself x Viv xx" I think you're far too harsh about your body. Unfairly harsh. | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh " Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x" So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. | |||
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"Think it's so subjective that it's kind of pointless. I would say though I changed mine from curvy to ample. a After the numerous threads suggesting larger women hide behind the curvy label or that we're somewhat delusional about our own choices. " Yep, they might have had an influence on me changing mine. My waist (with a tummy admittedly)' is definitely smaller than my boobs, I have a defined *does a hourglass shape with hands* waist and hips shape when I take a photo naked. But I read a lot of *curvy not fab curvy* kind of comments when on my period and thought fuck it. Ample it is. The people I meet like my shape and I've never had any negative messages about it. That's good enough for me, when I'm not a hormonal mess. | |||
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"Think it's so subjective that it's kind of pointless. I would say though I changed mine from curvy to ample. a After the numerous threads suggesting larger women hide behind the curvy label or that we're somewhat delusional about our own choices. Yep, they might have had an influence on me changing mine. My waist (with a tummy admittedly)' is definitely smaller than my boobs, I have a defined *does a hourglass shape with hands* waist and hips shape when I take a photo naked. But I read a lot of *curvy not fab curvy* kind of comments when on my period and thought fuck it. Ample it is. The people I meet like my shape and I've never had any negative messages about it. That's good enough for me, when I'm not a hormonal mess. " My waist is definitely smaller than my boobs and hips, though I have a belly too. But the countless threads curvy doesn't mean fat, swayed my opinion. Kind of doesn't bother me on my profile, just does when I see those kind of threads and I got the premenstrual bloat going on | |||
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"I had absolutely no idea what to put on mine. I don't think I'm athletic, I'm huffing and puffing walking up the stairs Average, curvy? I don't know " Appletree you are "Divine"! | |||
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"So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. " The ONS said the average man in England was 5ft 9in (175.3cm) tall and weighed 13.16 stone (83.6kg). The average woman in England weighed 11 stone (70.2kg) and was 5ft 3in tall (161.6cm). My wife's 5'3" and definitely considers herself short. She doesn't weigh anything close to 70kg though. I'm a couple of inches below the average male height but again I'd put myself firmly in the short category. | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. " Yeah true and I’m nearly 5ft 10. A person who is a size 16 at 4ft 10 is obviously going to be a totally different shape. I don’t think these stats mean much really. | |||
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"I had absolutely no idea what to put on mine. I don't think I'm athletic, I'm huffing and puffing walking up the stairs Average, curvy? I don't know Appletree you are "Divine"!" I'll request that is added | |||
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"I put what I am, I’m average. I don’t have as defined curves anymore, as my waist is bigger, so my proportions aren’t right, so I don’t think of myself as curvy. To me anyone with a defined waist is curvy, whether a size 6 or a size 26, but it’s obviously subjective, and how you see yourself x Viv xx I think you're far too harsh about your body. Unfairly harsh. " Thank you. I know it’s a confidence issue, but when you’re told your weight is an issue from a young age, and then as an adult have people calling you fat on public forums when you call yourself curvy, or in private messages when they’re hateful, you kind of accept it. Trying to get beyond that mindset, and luckily Inked is very supportive. The first person to ever tell me I was pretty but too big was a loved family member, at 16 years old. Hard mindset to move, but will get there xx | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. Yeah true and I’m nearly 5ft 10. A person who is a size 16 at 4ft 10 is obviously going to be a totally different shape. I don’t think these stats mean much really. " I think it's a load of bollocks and that's why I now put my photos of my body on a profile. So men can be clear what kind of shape I'm (not) in. | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. Yeah true and I’m nearly 5ft 10. A person who is a size 16 at 4ft 10 is obviously going to be a totally different shape. I don’t think these stats mean much really. I think it's a load of bollocks and that's why I now put my photos of my body on a profile. So men can be clear what kind of shape I'm (not) in. " Haha. I don’t really look at body types I look at the pics anyway x | |||
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"I put what I am, I’m average. I don’t have as defined curves anymore, as my waist is bigger, so my proportions aren’t right, so I don’t think of myself as curvy. To me anyone with a defined waist is curvy, whether a size 6 or a size 26, but it’s obviously subjective, and how you see yourself x Viv xx I think you're far too harsh about your body. Unfairly harsh. Thank you. I know it’s a confidence issue, but when you’re told your weight is an issue from a young age, and then as an adult have people calling you fat on public forums when you call yourself curvy, or in private messages when they’re hateful, you kind of accept it. Trying to get beyond that mindset, and luckily Inked is very supportive. The first person to ever tell me I was pretty but too big was a loved family member, at 16 years old. Hard mindset to move, but will get there xx" It is a difficult mindset to change, I agree. I am not into women but you have a fabulous body. I've started to see mine far more positively since I've been here and taking photos. I may be ample, but I like my body for the first time. It's a good feeling. I hope you get there. X | |||
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"I put what I am, I’m average. I don’t have as defined curves anymore, as my waist is bigger, so my proportions aren’t right, so I don’t think of myself as curvy. To me anyone with a defined waist is curvy, whether a size 6 or a size 26, but it’s obviously subjective, and how you see yourself x Viv xx I think you're far too harsh about your body. Unfairly harsh. Thank you. I know it’s a confidence issue, but when you’re told your weight is an issue from a young age, and then as an adult have people calling you fat on public forums when you call yourself curvy, or in private messages when they’re hateful, you kind of accept it. Trying to get beyond that mindset, and luckily Inked is very supportive. The first person to ever tell me I was pretty but too big was a loved family member, at 16 years old. Hard mindset to move, but will get there xx It is a difficult mindset to change, I agree. I am not into women but you have a fabulous body. I've started to see mine far more positively since I've been here and taking photos. I may be ample, but I like my body for the first time. It's a good feeling. I hope you get there. X" Thank you, and I’m glad you like your body, it’s a very empowering feeling. I hope to like mine again too. It’s crazy as I take pics, but then find myself apologising to people that if they meet us, I’m chubbier in person, I’m just good at breathing in and clever camera angles. Really I shouldn’t feel that way, and hope l fully I won’t soon xx | |||
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"I put what I am, I’m average. I don’t have as defined curves anymore, as my waist is bigger, so my proportions aren’t right, so I don’t think of myself as curvy. To me anyone with a defined waist is curvy, whether a size 6 or a size 26, but it’s obviously subjective, and how you see yourself x Viv xx I think you're far too harsh about your body. Unfairly harsh. Thank you. I know it’s a confidence issue, but when you’re told your weight is an issue from a young age, and then as an adult have people calling you fat on public forums when you call yourself curvy, or in private messages when they’re hateful, you kind of accept it. Trying to get beyond that mindset, and luckily Inked is very supportive. The first person to ever tell me I was pretty but too big was a loved family member, at 16 years old. Hard mindset to move, but will get there xx It is a difficult mindset to change, I agree. I am not into women but you have a fabulous body. I've started to see mine far more positively since I've been here and taking photos. I may be ample, but I like my body for the first time. It's a good feeling. I hope you get there. X Thank you, and I’m glad you like your body, it’s a very empowering feeling. I hope to like mine again too. It’s crazy as I take pics, but then find myself apologising to people that if they meet us, I’m chubbier in person, I’m just good at breathing in and clever camera angles. Really I shouldn’t feel that way, and hope l fully I won’t soon xx" Oh don’t ever apologise for your shape…but I understand it’s a battle you have on-going with yourself so I will say….YOU WILL GET THERE | |||
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"I put what I am, I’m average. I don’t have as defined curves anymore, as my waist is bigger, so my proportions aren’t right, so I don’t think of myself as curvy. To me anyone with a defined waist is curvy, whether a size 6 or a size 26, but it’s obviously subjective, and how you see yourself x Viv xx I think you're far too harsh about your body. Unfairly harsh. Thank you. I know it’s a confidence issue, but when you’re told your weight is an issue from a young age, and then as an adult have people calling you fat on public forums when you call yourself curvy, or in private messages when they’re hateful, you kind of accept it. Trying to get beyond that mindset, and luckily Inked is very supportive. The first person to ever tell me I was pretty but too big was a loved family member, at 16 years old. Hard mindset to move, but will get there xx It is a difficult mindset to change, I agree. I am not into women but you have a fabulous body. I've started to see mine far more positively since I've been here and taking photos. I may be ample, but I like my body for the first time. It's a good feeling. I hope you get there. X Thank you, and I’m glad you like your body, it’s a very empowering feeling. I hope to like mine again too. It’s crazy as I take pics, but then find myself apologising to people that if they meet us, I’m chubbier in person, I’m just good at breathing in and clever camera angles. Really I shouldn’t feel that way, and hope l fully I won’t soon xx Oh don’t ever apologise for your shape…but I understand it’s a battle you have on-going with yourself so I will say….YOU WILL GET THERE " Thank you xx | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. Yeah true and I’m nearly 5ft 10. A person who is a size 16 at 4ft 10 is obviously going to be a totally different shape. I don’t think these stats mean much really. " I should also add, the average height is 5'3".... and clearly you're way over that. So as a size 16 with almost the average size boobs, that makes you average but taller so I guess your body shape is smaller than average when you take into account that your shape and that of an average height woman. Jeez Nora. That means that according to the fab scale you must be athletic. Change it, quick! P | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. Yeah true and I’m nearly 5ft 10. A person who is a size 16 at 4ft 10 is obviously going to be a totally different shape. I don’t think these stats mean much really. I should also add, the average height is 5'3".... and clearly you're way over that. So as a size 16 with almost the average size boobs, that makes you average but taller so I guess your body shape is smaller than average when you take into account that your shape and that of an average height woman. Jeez Nora. That means that according to the fab scale you must be athletic. Change it, quick! P " Hahahahaha. Athletic. Just fell off the sofa reading that! . | |||
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"Always seen myself as average so it was an easy choice for me " You look in good shape for your age | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. Yeah true and I’m nearly 5ft 10. A person who is a size 16 at 4ft 10 is obviously going to be a totally different shape. I don’t think these stats mean much really. I should also add, the average height is 5'3".... and clearly you're way over that. So as a size 16 with almost the average size boobs, that makes you average but taller so I guess your body shape is smaller than average when you take into account that your shape and that of an average height woman. Jeez Nora. That means that according to the fab scale you must be athletic. Change it, quick! P Hahahahaha. Athletic. Just fell off the sofa reading that! . " You're welcome. The stats don't lie P | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. Yeah true and I’m nearly 5ft 10. A person who is a size 16 at 4ft 10 is obviously going to be a totally different shape. I don’t think these stats mean much really. I should also add, the average height is 5'3".... and clearly you're way over that. So as a size 16 with almost the average size boobs, that makes you average but taller so I guess your body shape is smaller than average when you take into account that your shape and that of an average height woman. Jeez Nora. That means that according to the fab scale you must be athletic. Change it, quick! P Hahahahaha. Athletic. Just fell off the sofa reading that! . You're welcome. The stats don't lie P " Well the Facebook thingy said I look 26 so these things never lie | |||
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"I look at some of the people who have chosen to label themselves as the same body type as I have chosen and it makes me feel like I should change mine up a couple of levels. It's a descriptor that is completely subjective and therefore completely pointless. And I haven't looked at men's stats, but apparently the average woman in the UK is a size 16 and has a 36DD bust. I found that rather interesting, as I would imagine many women of those sizes would probably not class themselves as average from what's been said. Posh Wow really?! I’m that size but an E not a DD and no way would I put average. Reading this I was actually thinking of changing from curvy to ample x So many stats out there that prove perceptions wrong. As far as I can remember the last time I looked the average height of a woman in the UK is 5'3" but anyone I know that height thinks of themselves as a shortarse. Yeah true and I’m nearly 5ft 10. A person who is a size 16 at 4ft 10 is obviously going to be a totally different shape. I don’t think these stats mean much really. I should also add, the average height is 5'3".... and clearly you're way over that. So as a size 16 with almost the average size boobs, that makes you average but taller so I guess your body shape is smaller than average when you take into account that your shape and that of an average height woman. Jeez Nora. That means that according to the fab scale you must be athletic. Change it, quick! P Hahahahaha. Athletic. Just fell off the sofa reading that! . You're welcome. The stats don't lie P Well the Facebook thingy said I look 26 so these things never lie " Exactly. 26 year old athletic you are! | |||
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"I put what I am, I’m average. I don’t have as defined curves anymore, as my waist is bigger, so my proportions aren’t right, so I don’t think of myself as curvy. To me anyone with a defined waist is curvy, whether a size 6 or a size 26, but it’s obviously subjective, and how you see yourself x Viv xx I think you're far too harsh about your body. Unfairly harsh. Thank you. I know it’s a confidence issue, but when you’re told your weight is an issue from a young age, and then as an adult have people calling you fat on public forums when you call yourself curvy, or in private messages when they’re hateful, you kind of accept it. Trying to get beyond that mindset, and luckily Inked is very supportive. The first person to ever tell me I was pretty but too big was a loved family member, at 16 years old. Hard mindset to move, but will get there xx It is a difficult mindset to change, I agree. I am not into women but you have a fabulous body. I've started to see mine far more positively since I've been here and taking photos. I may be ample, but I like my body for the first time. It's a good feeling. I hope you get there. X Thank you, and I’m glad you like your body, it’s a very empowering feeling. I hope to like mine again too. It’s crazy as I take pics, but then find myself apologising to people that if they meet us, I’m chubbier in person, I’m just good at breathing in and clever camera angles. Really I shouldn’t feel that way, and hope l fully I won’t soon xx" I hope you don't think you have to lose weight to like your body? No it's not good to be apologising to people - you're beautiful as you are x | |||
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"Always seen myself as average so it was an easy choice for me You look in good shape for your age" Thanks fella, I appreciate the compliment | |||
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"I clicked fabulous because there wasn’t a “oh darling I am an absolute unit, but warm n wet in the right places and certainly humourous handful” even though fabulous explains ever single one if on here I wish there was an “I’m me, take a look at my pictures if I cause a rumble below then message because I’m more than just a physical size” button " I think "oh darling I'm an absolute unit" should be a category | |||
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"I clicked fabulous because there wasn’t a “oh darling I am an absolute unit, but warm n wet in the right places and certainly humourous handful” even though fabulous explains ever single one if on here I wish there was an “I’m me, take a look at my pictures if I cause a rumble below then message because I’m more than just a physical size” button " Your comments always make me smile | |||
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"I clicked fabulous because there wasn’t a “oh darling I am an absolute unit, but warm n wet in the right places and certainly humourous handful” even though fabulous explains ever single one if on here I wish there was an “I’m me, take a look at my pictures if I cause a rumble below then message because I’m more than just a physical size” button " I love your attitude and energy. It’s brilliant. | |||
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"When asked for body type when setting up your profile how do you decide which category you fit in? It seems some have strange self perceptions. " Can’t believe there’s no “dad bod” or “potato shaped” option……. | |||
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"I clicked fabulous because there wasn’t a “oh darling I am an absolute unit, but warm n wet in the right places and certainly humourous handful” even though fabulous explains ever single one if on here I wish there was an “I’m me, take a look at my pictures if I cause a rumble below then message because I’m more than just a physical size” button Your comments always make me smile " Thank you beautiful lady x | |||
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"I clicked fabulous because there wasn’t a “oh darling I am an absolute unit, but warm n wet in the right places and certainly humourous handful” even though fabulous explains ever single one if on here I wish there was an “I’m me, take a look at my pictures if I cause a rumble below then message because I’m more than just a physical size” button I love your attitude and energy. It’s brilliant." Thank you beautiful lady x | |||
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"I clicked fabulous because there wasn’t a “oh darling I am an absolute unit, but warm n wet in the right places and certainly humourous handful” even though fabulous explains ever single one if on here I wish there was an “I’m me, take a look at my pictures if I cause a rumble below then message because I’m more than just a physical size” button I think "oh darling I'm an absolute unit" should be a category " I agree there but think they wrapped it up in fabulous lol | |||
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"Should 'body type' be removed from the account info 'must fill ins' then? It's so open to interpretation (and disinginuity) it just isn't very useful" Not really, it is people just whingeing about nothing. If the profile has a clear photo of a near as dammit full length shot. The body shape category chosen is irrelevant. You like what you see or you don't. The same people will argue what is classed as well endowed etc | |||
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"I was clearly having a good day when I filled it in as I have put 'athletic', but I would probably go for 'average' now, not least as lots of guys on here who class themselves as 'athletic' are in much better shape than I am!" I'd definitely agree your physique is athletic. Athletic to me doesn't mean cut or shredded with 4% body fat. For me the difference between a slim body and an athletic one is a body that is clearly shaped by exercise rather than simply not being overweight. I don't work out so don't have a particularly muscular upper body like you but I do run a lot and that is obvious on my legs. I don't believe it is possible to have an athletic physique without training regularly in an athletic discipline. Obviously this is only my opinion, there are people who I would say are slim and look as though they do nothing more athletic than put the bins out who feel they tick this box. Equally there are guys with fantastic musculature who in everyday life I would say had a body builder physique rather than an athletic one but given the lack of choices on this site agree that athletic is the best descriptor. Mr | |||
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"I was clearly having a good day when I filled it in as I have put 'athletic', but I would probably go for 'average' now, not least as lots of guys on here who class themselves as 'athletic' are in much better shape than I am! I'd definitely agree your physique is athletic. Athletic to me doesn't mean cut or shredded with 4% body fat. For me the difference between a slim body and an athletic one is a body that is clearly shaped by exercise rather than simply not being overweight. I don't work out so don't have a particularly muscular upper body like you but I do run a lot and that is obvious on my legs. I don't believe it is possible to have an athletic physique without training regularly in an athletic discipline. Obviously this is only my opinion, there are people who I would say are slim and look as though they do nothing more athletic than put the bins out who feel they tick this box. Equally there are guys with fantastic musculature who in everyday life I would say had a body builder physique rather than an athletic one but given the lack of choices on this site agree that athletic is the best descriptor. Mr" Thanks, mate - appreciate that! And if the forum will forgive the love-in, definitely the right descriptor for you too, imho! | |||
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